WAM stands for Wet And Messy. In the fetish category, WAM uses food, water, mud, and oil to create the sloppiest sex you’ve ever seen or experienced.
People who are into WAM sex are, in Freudian terms, “anal expulsive”. Usually, when someone is called “anal”, and when it’s not pertaining to putting it or getting in in the butty hole, they are talking about “anal retentive” people – those who are super clean, proper, and have a stick up their butt. But in reality and psychology, “anal” can refer to “anal retentive” (the norm), or “anal expulsive”. Anal expulsives are those who like being messy, disheveled, and generally loose. These are the folk who enjoy WAM the most and revel in the grossness or combining the food, water, mud and oil for an overall disgustingly crazy messy sexual experience.
The food used in WAM can be really anything, but the sloppier the better. Favorite foods include sloppy joe’s, spaghetti and meatballs, pudding (mainly chocolate or butterscotch), and gravy. These foods can be eaten during the sexual play, or just used as a means of body lubrication (think slippery bodies sliding on each other with tomato sauce between torsos).
The oil involved can be edible (olive, canola, vegetable, or lard-based oils), or mechanical oils. However, it is not wise to eat any mechanical oils, such as WD 40 or 30, or anything you put in your car engine. It can be toxic and fatal if swallowed. But if you are questioning this, please use a condom when engaging in WAM because, my friend, you should never ever procreate.
1. I didn’t realize that the doggy-bag from dinner was going to be used later for WAM sex.
2. I knew my internet date was into WAM so I brought a vile of vegetable oil to her apartment.
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