Voyeurism is the sexual act or interest in watching other people perform intimate activities, such as undressing, making out, masturbating, or having sex. If one is a voyeur, they are usually doing so in secrecy, often peering out from the bushes, or staring through an apartment window across the street with a set of binoculars.
Once in a while, however, if a voyeur really does his/her homework and seeks out a couple of exhibitionists online, everybody can have a good time without running the risk of getting arrested. Quite often, a married couple will send out a call for an interested voyeur, set up a date, time, and location for them to have sex, and wait for the voyeur to arrive. That way, the voyeur gets still gets the sexual thrill of watching a couple have sex from a safe distance, and the exhibitionist couple can act out their fantasy of having some pervert watching them bang. After all, it sure beats getting dragged out of the fountain in the mall by security guards in the middle of some ‘scuba anal.’ Better yet, it saves the voyeur from getting arrested in the bushes behind a college dorm room and spending 6 years trying to clock enough community service hours to get his name removed from the sexual offenders list.
Sexperts have two prominent theories as to how someone develops the voyeuristic fetish. One, they believe that is stems from excessive porn watching at a young age. After years and years and jacking off to online porn the young man or woman comes to equate sexual arousal with watching other people having sex. This is especially possible with categories such as Amateur, public sex, or hidden camera, readily available at the click of a mouse.
Another common theory for developing voyeurism is quite natural, and usually happens by an accident. One might accidentally walk in on a roommate having sex or masturbating, then return to their own room with an erection or a soaking wet vagina. Scared, confused, and extremely turned on, that individual might start masturbating, imagining the couple they just witnessed as they climax. From then on, the seed has been planted.
Or, more commonly, one might be staring out the window of their high rise apartment, and suddenly catch a glimpse of a naked couple in the throes of sexual intercourse. Before long, their hand starts to wander south, and they can’t take their eyes off the porn star neighbours. This is yet another way for voyeurism to start, and once someone has gotten a taste for it, it’s really hard to go back.
Of course, we at orgasm.com do not actually agree with the label of voyeurism, and all the social stigma that comes with it. Watching two people fucking isn’t wrong, or sexually perverse, it’s totally hot! We all agree that porn is hot, right? Well, putting a camera in front of your eyes doesn’t make it any more or less sexually stimulating.
1. I first got into voyeurism when I walked in on my sister giving her boyfriend a blowjob. After I grappled with my incestuous fantasies, I figured voyeurism was pretty harmless.
2. Did you see that couple fucking in the washroom? Man, if I wasn’t into voyeurism before, I definitely am now.
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