A vaginal orgasm is just what it sounds – a female orgasm achieved by vaginal intercourse. But let’s not cling to the limited definition of vaginal intercourse (PIV: Penis-in-Vagina) that so many people think of. Let’s call it penetrative vaginal sex. Intercourse seems to imply that there’s a penis involved, and there certainly doesn’t have to be when it comes to vaginal orgasms.
There’s some controversy when it comes to female orgasms. There’s been agreement that women have sexual experiences that cannot be pinned down by science necessarily. We have some women who can come through penetration alone, though most women need some kind of clitoral stimulation. Some women ejaculate and gush when they come. Many are accessing their g-spot and many believe the g-spot is a myth and no one has been able to scientifically prove or disprove either theory.
Whether or not everyone can come vaginally, an orgasm is an orgasm. Some are awesome, some are alright, some are hardly there but you’ll take them anyway. Any orgasm is a good one, really. And whether you need a dick or a vibe or a fist or a zucchini in your vag, it doesn’t really matter. The important thing is to find out what works for you and start doing it. Too many women don’t play with themselves enough and don’t spend enough time getting to know their bodies and what gives them pleasure. You can’t depend on dick (or twat or fingers or…) alone. If you haven’t had an orgasm, it’s time. All those people who say they don’t find masturbation that interesting just haven’t figured out how to rub one out yet. I’m assuming that anyone who’s made it this far to read this definition probably has some idea of what turns them on, but if you’re new to all this, get your fingers on your clit and a vibe in your pussy pronto. Once you start coming, you’ll be able to help teach your partner how to get you off. Life will be a lot more fulfilling, believe you me.
1. Shelly just wanted a vaginal orgasm. Even though her boyfriend made her come with his tongue all the time, she wanted that internal shudder and quake she’d heard her girlfriends talking about. She wondered if they were lying about their g-spot orgasms. She wondered why intercourse felt so pointless at times.
2. Roberta thought vibrators were icky until her girlfriend pulled one out of her purse while they kissed in her parent’s van. Lie down and spread your legs. Her girlfriend said, and Roberta obeyed, shocked that she would let this woman penetrate her with an object. And yet, when the vibrator slid deep into Roberta’s pussy, her eyes bulged as the pleasure in her pussy flooded through her body. She rocked her hips up and down and blasted her come until it trickled down her thighs. Again. She moaned. You’d liked that vaginal orgasm, didn’t you? Her girlfriend smirked. I knew I’d tap into your slutty side.
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