Urolangnia is a fetish for urination, either urinating on others or being urinated upon. It’s water sports. Piss play. Pee glee. That delightful warm golden shower. Delicious yellow awesomeness. Assuming you’re into it.
This fetish is something that a fair number of people enjoy. This may include urinating on or being urinated on by your sex partner, drinking your partner’s urine or you drinking theirs or perhaps playing games with urine. You may wish to urinate in bed while your partner watches, or perhaps this becomes part of a BDSM game where your partner has you tied up and keeps you tied up while the urge to urinate increases. This could involve engaged humiliation where one partner is infantilized and under the direct order and control of the other person. Really, there’s no limit to what you can do together. There’s bathtub pee play, where you can take a scalding hot bath together and turn the water a nice lemony yellow. You can pee in the shower, on yourself or on each other.
There can also be an exhibitionism component to piss play. This may involve one person being instructed by their sex partner (or partners) to wet themselves in public, in a way where strangers can smell or see the urine. Also, there is a really wicked appropriately-named British expression called ‘Pussing’. According to Wikipedia, Pussing is where the male partner in a consenting couple watches his female partner urinate in a semi-public place, like a toilet cubicle at a pub, hotel, restaurant or movie theatre. The act of sneaking the male partner into the washroom undetected is almost as eroticized as the actual act of urination. (Totally check out Wikipeida’s ‘Notable Urophiliacs’…).
People have this tendency to judge others who are into pee play. In reality, it’s a pretty tame fetish. Pee isn’t bad for you. In fact, some people use urine to help their lawns grow. And don’t underestimate the usefulness that is peeing on someone’s leg after they’ve been stung by a jelly fish. A jelly fish stung me once and, even though we were on a public beach, I suggested to my lover that he whip out his dick and piss on my leg. Anything to take away the burning pain. As it turned out, he wasn’t particularly willing. Some people have weird hang-ups, especially when it comes to peeing in public. Lame. The hang-ups, I mean.
1. Havelock Ellis was a British sexologist who couldn’t get it up until the age of sixty where he realized that he could get erect when he imagined a woman peeing. He therefore began engaging in Urolangnia and convinced his wife (a prim and proper lady) to pee into his mouth. She did so and her urine mixed with her tears. She later became a nun.
2. Annie Sprinkle, awesome well-known porn actress who became a sex educator and advocator apparently loves the water sports. Her last name was chosen due to her love of pee and pee play.
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