Tongue-fucking refers to cunnilingus, or giving a woman oral sex. The tongue-fucking part of the deal is when you stick your tongue right into a woman’s vagina and move it in and out. Usually the focus of oral sex is on the clitoris, but it’s good to mix it up a bit.
Tongue-fucking a woman is definitely hard work but it has some serious benefits. First of all, she will love you forever. If you’re good with your tongue and really know how to work her clit, she will do anything for you. The most important thing is to vary your strategy and technique without being so all over the place that she can’t get the focus to achieve orgasm. Most women need fairly regular and consistent clit stimulation to reach orgasm, so if you’re giving her a few licks and then moving your face all around her pussy, she’s more likely to just get irritated, and then downright pissed.
A few hints:
1. The figure eight motion. This works wonders when working the clit, especially at the beginning, when you’re just getting her relaxed and in the mood. You can go fairly slow at this point and pay close attention to her breathing and the noises she makes (if she’s too self-conscious to make noises, tell her she has to or you won’t know what the hell you’re doing or how you’re going to get her off). There are other signs to pay attention to as she gets closer, like what she does with her hands (is she pulling your hair or squeezing the sides of your face, is she gripping the bed frame or pulling at the sheets? These are all very good signs that you’re on the right track), and her thighs (is she squeezing the fuck out of your head with her thighs? Also a good sign), and if she’s twisting and wiggling around and can’t seem to keep still, bucking and thrusting her hips, definitely a good sign.
2. When she tells you ‘don’t stop’, DON’T STOP, even for a split second. That could be the difference between a huge orgasm and a small roll over the hill.
3. Learn to make your tongue stiff as a board and press as hard as you can against her clit. Most women need a lot of stimulation.
4. Slip a finger inside her. Every once and a while, give the lips of her vulva a kiss or a lick.
5. Whatever you do, don’t go down on her for five minutes and then look up at her with lobster eyes that basically say ‘am I done yet?’. Oral sex is for the masters, so if you pride yourself on having any sexual skill at all, you’ll be willing and happy to stay down there all night if you have to. In fact, your dick (or strap-on) will get hard while you’re doing it.
1. I’m gonna tongue-fuck you so hard you’re gonna cum out of your eyeballs.
2. Man, I love a good tongue-fuck.
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