Having sex with someone new to get over someone old. A way to cut any last emotional ties to a person you used to have sex with. A non-religious, therapeutic exercise. This is a common practice among most of us. We all need to fuck to get over people. First of all, you’re never going to be able to think about someone else (or anything else, really) until you get the last image of your ex’s boobs out of your head. If you’re constantly thinking about her boobs, you’ll never be able to get over her. If you are too freaked out to have sex with someone new, you can easily go to a strip club and look at as many tits as possible. If that doesn’t do the trick (some people need the brain and heart attached to the boobs – go figure), then pick an old friend, someone you love and care for but whom you have no risk of actually falling in love with. Get together with her, enjoy her boobs, eat her pussy, get drunk if you have to, and just make it happen. Yes, it’s going to be hard, but it’s an important part of moving forward.
It’s relatively easy for chicks to do this. Women can easily attract a one-night-stand when they need one, even if they’re on the less attractive side. They can go to pretty much any bar (though country bars seem to be the best bet) and go home with a dude. Guys tend to be more into non-committal casual sexual encounters so if you’re a lady looking for just that, you’ve got tons of options. For dudes it’s a little more challenging. Unless you’re a gay dude, than it’s much more complicated trying to find something that ISN’T casual.
When you fuck someone new to get over someone old you kind of have to grit your teeth and just get through it. The sex will likely be bad or at least not great because you won’t be fully there. Even if you’re horny there’s probably a part of you that will be mildly traumatized from the encounter. You just have to keep in mind that you’re doing this for the greater good. Try to pick someone that you’re at least attracted to because that will make the whole thing easier to deal with. You might want to get a little loaded first or maybe a bit high. Try to find someone who’s not going to be a total dick or cunt. Find someone who is interested in your pleasure but will also go at your pace and is willing to read your cues. Try to have fun with it. Sex shouldn’t be too serious. And remember, you’re doing this to exorcise your ex. Let it happen. Let go.
1. My boyfriend just dumped me. I need to have a sexercism before my twat dries up and fills with cobwebs.
2. My husband and I met because I needed someone to fuck when I was heartbroken off my last relationship. He was a total sexercism that turned into a relationship.
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