Restraint is a term for the bondage used in sexual activity. It is a big part of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, S&M) play, especially if you’re into having a Dominatrix come over to your house three times a week to show you what happens when her slave is a bad, bad boy.
I’ve heard.
My favorite kind of restraint is kinbaku, which is the beautiful Japanese art of rope bondage. Those crazy Japanese think of everything! First soiled Asian schoolgirl panty vending machines, and now this! God bless you, sexually depraved Asians! Keep it up!
Kinbaku involves taking the bottom in a sexual dynamic and tying them up with very intricate and interesting knots and rope-work. Some of the more awesome entanglements can be easily switched from one uncomfortable position to another by simply sliding a knot. Some really hot kinbaku art is out there. Check it out.
For those of you out there who are interested in some beginner bondage, I suggest going out and getting yourself some sex cuffs from an adult toy store. You may think using regular handcuffs is what you want, but it’s not. They can get rough and hurt a person’s wrists after time. Sex cuffs are specifically designed to have soft interiors, so the wrists are comfortable while being restrained.
I remember the first time I tried some BDSM restraint with a lady friend of mine. She had done a lot of it before, as a sub to her last boyfriend. She told me that she used to sleep in the bathtub with her hands and feet bound until he told her it was ok to join him in bed. The power turned him on, and the feeling of being taken care of and controlled turned her on.
So, she wanted to try some with me when we started dating. I went out and got some sex cuffs and a remote control vibrator. It was summer, so we went into the back yard of our apartment building, and I handcuffed her to a deckchair we had back there. She was in her bikini top, and a sarong over her midsection. I put a radio on beside her. She had already inserted the vibrator before we went outside. For people walking by, you wouldn’t notice that she was cuffed to the chair – it just looked like she was tanning.
So, I’d watch from our apartment, and turn up the vibrator as people were walking by her on the way to their cars, or back into the building. The radio masked the sound of the vibrator going crazy in her pussy. She acted naturally, and said hi to the people, who responded in kind, and didn’t think she was doing anything except sunbathing.
But I knew she was getting the full juice of the vibrator. After an hour, I went out and brought her back in. She said she had at least seven orgasms and wanted to do it at the beach. A great summer!
1. Lisa loves restraint when Gary fucks her asshole.
2. Paul’s knot work makes his restraint ropes look great.
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