Queening is the strange act of sitting on one side of a person’s face as a form of bondage. This is a very common sexual technique for anyone who is frequently into S&M or any form of bondage. There are a couple of reasons why this term became a popular activity for the sexuall aggressive or fetish-inclined individuals. First of all, as everyone knows, Queen Victoria was a notorious participant in bondage and S&M sex. Although she rarely had anything filmed, a few short clips do exist out there if you search hard enough online.
Apparently, one of the Queen’s favourite practices was to squash her servant’s faces with her vagina as they were chained up in her suite. Apparently, she was first inspired to try the technique when one of her royal guards apprehended a potential terrorist outside her palace, handcuffing him behind his back and driving his knee into the side of the perpetrators face while he waited for back up. As the story goes, the Queen became quite aroused by watching the man’s face become flush, with his eyes bulging out of his head as he groaned and begged for the guard to remove his knee. Naturally, the Queen thought the same technique could be applied with her vagina.
The term Queening does, however, mean different things in different countries. The above definition applies to Great Britain, most of Europe, and Canada; essentially anywhere with a history involving a Monarchy of some sort. In America, however, where any form of loyalty to England and the Throne is considered blasphemous, Queening has a different meaning.
In New York City, if a man is ‘queening,’ it means he is overtly trying to let everyone in the entire room know that he is gay. In other words, he is an over emphatic flamer who is desperately trying to get laid by making a call out in the crowd, similar to a pheasant making a mating call, to see if anyone bites. In the gay community, it is scorned upon and seen as somewhat pathetic and desperate. Of course, many straight men who secretly like a bit of cock on the side, will scour the room for the next hour or two, wait until almost everyone has gone home, and then make his move on the Queener.
In Asia, Queening has a completely different meaning, which refers to the natural removal of anal beads from an anus after a long period of insertion. Similar to when a baby’s head begins to show (referred to as “crowning”), queening is when an Asian person inserts anal beads with their partner and instead of pulling them out safely, they wait long periods of time until the anal beads simply push themselves out, often by the pull of gravity, farts, or bowel movements.
1. After a good whipping and a few cigarette butt outs in the cheeks, there’s nothing Karl likes more than some Queening. That’s actually how he broke his jaw last spring break.
2. If you’re into Queening, make sure you have a safe word, or just don’t fuck a girl with too much junk in the trunk.
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