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Porn or ‘pornography’ is the explicit portrayal of sexual subject matter for the specific purpose of sexual arousal and erotic satisfaction. But oh, it is just so much more than that. Porn is out there for the singles and those in relationships to help nurture their fantasies, explore their kinks, spice up a dull or plateaued sex life, provide some sexy imagery and audio, and allow people to have a more interesting and exciting fantasy life.
Many might argue that porn is destructive to society, that it encourages sexual deviants, that it cultures harmful sexual practices, but the actual data shows that societies where porn is more widely accepted have less sex crimes and less sexual abuse of children, mainly because people can explore their fantasy worlds without having to act on fantasies that could be destructive in certain circumstances. Of course, child porn (which is actually the sexual exploitation of children) is horribly destructive and abusive and wrong because children are not consenting adults, but sex between consenting adults is okay, so long is there really is consent there.
A lot of people watch porn. Pretty much all dudes and quite a few women do as well. The Internet has obviously made a huge difference in terms of how easy it is to access porn. I chatted with a friend of mine the other day that was desperately trying to erase the history on her computer before she let her parents check their email. I have another friend who has his porn stash in an old wooden box beside the TV in the living room. It looks harmless enough, but when the family comes for visits and his mother asks what’s in the wooden chest, he has to pretend it’s confidential paperwork. Life, when mixed with porn, is an awkward but necessary beast. The best thing to do is just think of it as another form of masturbation. Nobody needs to know how often you do it or how wacky your thoughts are, but we can just assume that we all engage in some form of it, and we don’t need to ask any further questions.
1. I started watching porn when I was fifteen. I grew up thinking that all dudes had super giant thick cocks and my girlfriends were unlikely to be satisfied by my small-to-average dick. Luckily I ended up with a partner who quickly rejected that idea, pointing out that these dudes in porn were hired, in part, because of their giant dicks and the other half of it was a performance thing, and that of course they were only representative of a small percentage of guys, but because of watching porn most dudes feel like their dicks are too small. To combat this issue, we started making our own amateur porn.
2. I love watching porn with my boyfriend. Sometimes he likes to do me from behind on the couch while we have a porno on the big screen TV. He likes that I mimic the sound of those horny porn stars. He also likes that I take a face full of his cum whenever he wants.
3. “Everybody got it wrong. I said I was into porn again, not born again.” — Billy Idol
4. “You cannot blame porn… When I was young, I used to masturbate to Gilligan’s Island.”— Ron Jeremy.
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