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To ‘play’ is to engage in sexual activity. Sounds simple, right? It totally is.
The term ‘play’ makes it sound like two kids wrestling in the dirt, climbing trees and building top secret tree houses, digging worms and putting them in glass jars and pulling the wings off of butterflies. Well, maybe not the last one. It brings up images of when you used to ‘play doctor’ with the neighborhood boys down the street. You all met in the garage and each of you had a turn with the stethoscope and the coat. Each of you had to get examined and each of you left feeling a little more grown up than you should have, a little violated, and a little bit proud of the new territory you had discovered.
You don’t have to play with another person. Engaging in sexual activity can involve just you. It’s been a tough day at the office, you’re going to take a shower after work and play with yourself a bit. Or why wait until after work, when you have a little boy’s room just down the hall? Or your office for that matter. After all, all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.
Play is a way of having fun with sex. You might say to your partner ‘let’s play’, instead of ‘let’s fuck’, meaning, let’s explore each other and not focus on penetration. There are lots of sex games you can play that involve trust and role-playing and interactive theatre. You can use puppets. You can bring Ernie and Bert into your play and have them finally get it on. Or you have designated ‘play time’, where the first ten minutes of each hour you get naked and rub each other’s genitals together. Remember that scene in Borat where the two dudes wrestle naked? That was sex play. I watched that scene with friend, her girlfriend, her sister and brother-in-law and her friggin parents who are from a cattle farm in small town Saskatchewan. I don’t even know how that happened. One minute we had finished moving them into their new house and everyone was eating pizza and chatting, the next minute Borat was playing on the 42 inch TV screen. Or should I say, the next minute two giant hairy men were naked and on top of each other, grinding their genitals into each other under the guise of ‘wrestling’. Oh, and my friend left the room pretty much the second her brother-in-law suggested that Borat was a great movie watching experience for all. Lesson learned: don’t ever help friends move.
1. Stacey had never played with herself before. What did that even mean, really? Playing your cooch like a musical instrument?
2. I’m gonna play you like a double bass. Mark crooned. Sasha had her back to him and he gently ran his fingers along her waist and down to her hips. She rolled her eyes. In what universe did he think this was dirty talk? Jesus Christ.
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