Leptosadism is a mild form of sadism. The prefix “lepto” usually means “thin, fine, or slender” when you’re talking about shit like dinosaurs, but when you’re speaking about sadism, it means mild. So, while a sadist would get off on caning your ass until it glows cherry red and starts to break the skin, a leptosadist would be happy enough just smacking your ass with his hand until you could see a red handprint that stays for a few seconds before fading.
I think of myself as a leptosadist, all things considered. I really enjoy spanking a woman’s sweet, round ass. Hard. I like to twist and pinch their nipples. I like to employ some hair pulling during passionate doggy style pounding. Sometimes I smack a tit when some hottie is riding me cowgirl style. Some moderated face slapping and choking is always fun when I’m making a woman orgasm. But I’ve never been into full-on sadism.
Oh wait – I forgot about biting. I love giving women fuck love bites. Never breaking the skin, mind you, but still giving it some pressure. Biting the neck and shoulder is fun when I’m fucking a woman in missionary position. Biting the ass is always so hot. While giving a woman cunnilingus, I enjoy biting and giving a hickey to her thighs. The nipples are also a nice place for the occasional nibble. As always, I keep the lines of communication open with any woman I’m with, so she can let me know if the pain I’m giving her is turning her on, or distracting her.
It always turns them on.
On the flip side of the coin, I guess I’d also have to consider myself a leptomasochist. I like a little bit of moderate pain myself. One of my favorites is when I’m pumping away inside a woman in missionary position and I feel myself building to my orgasm. I tell the woman that I’m going to cum, and then she reaches around and digs all her nails into my ass cheeks, pulling me into her deeper. The pain in my butt cheeks drives me into a frenzy, and I always end up having a much bigger orgasm than without the pain.
I also like some light face slapping done to me while a hot bitch is riding me in cowgirl position. Nothing that’s going to scar my beauty, but just a little bit of pain to keep me engaged in the moment with the lady. Good times.
If you’re going to try any leptosadism, make sure to establish a safe word and keep the lines of communication open with your lover. Find a balance between what they like and what you like. Experiment but stay safe! Remember – we all only have two nipples! If you accidentally destroy one, it won’t grow back!
1. Joy loved it when her husband expressed his leptosadism with abandon. She always came.
2. There are some hot leptosadism moments in the James Spader movie “Secretary”.
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