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First base means kissing. And, although it seems like an early and insignificant part of the sexual process, it can often be one of the best parts. After all, until first base, you’re just standing there with your bat in your hands waiting to get up to the plate.
But when someone gives you that first kiss, boy, then you know it’s on.
I love that first kiss. It says so much. You immediately go from a couple of people, to a couple of people sucking each other’s face. It’s intimate and it gets your spit swappin’. Any fluid exchanges are a step in the right direction.
For many women, kissing is one of the most important skills a man can possess. So guys, here are some tips. First, start slow and build. Don’t go down her throat with your tongue right off the bat. In fact, let her dictate the tongue work. Mirror what she does with her tongue, if you can. Second, keep your spit under control. We’ve all been a little tipsy while making out, and forgotten about our spit control. It’s not nice. It’s sloppy and gross. Swallow it and get your shit together. Last, and most importantly, is passion. Hold her like you mean it. Give your kisses some energy. She’ll feel it.
Oh, and don’t keep your eyes open to see what she’s doing. It’s always a little creepy to open your eyes while you’re making out with someone to realize they’ve been staring at you for who knows how long.
Now, if you’re like me, your boner is going to show up after kissing for a while. Good. If you’re standing while kissing, press your boner against her. She’ll feel it and know that you like her. A lot. Don’t mention it. Just let it throb against her thigh while you tenderly chew on her lips. Hopefully, she will be getting moist downstairs herself. To see how hot you’ve gotten her with your smooching, when you pull away from kissing, see how flushed her cheeks are. “If her cheeks are red, her panties are wet”, as Henry Kissinger used to Tweet.
Now that you’ve started kissing her mouth, it’s time to explore. Since we’re still talking about first base, you can’t really go below the collar bone. But that’s fine. Start kissing up and down her neck. Don’t give her a hickey, but spend some time sucking. She’ll love it. A woman’s neck is a huge erogenous zone. Same with the earlobes, but to a lesser extent.
And switch up your passion with some tenderness. Don’t go full speed make-out the whole time. Change it up with some soft, tender smooches to give you both a chance to catch your breath. Then, build it back up again.
Oh, and brush your teeth or chew some mints or gum beforehand. Nobody likes kissing a mouth full of stank.
1. I got to first base with your mom last night! Man, can she french!
2. Jason loves first base. But he’s best at third base.
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