Embrace the suck is to embrace one’s role as the giver of blow jobs. Blow jobs are an incredibly important part of any man’s life (and even some dykes who are packing) and it’s crucial for their partners and lovers to take the role of ‘sucker’ seriously. Here’s the thing; you can’t just give decent blow jobs at the start of the relationship just to get the guy interested and then once things get serious start doing half-assed jobs or no jobs at all. It’s just not going to fly. It’s unfair and selfish and unloving. You can’t just put your mouth on a dick and slump your shoulders over, roll your eyes, and be all lazy. You can’t start crying while you’re sucking cock (unless, of course, that’s what you’re both into). You can’t just give that cock a couple of licks and then mount it like a bull. You’ve got to spend some serious time down there and you’ve got to love it. If you don’t love it now, you’ve got to learn to love it.
Here are a few steps to embracing the suck:
a. DON’T have an orgasm before you give a blow job, unless you’re multi-orgasmic and will be totally good to go again immediately. If, after you’ve come, you’re a bit like a dude and you just want to roll over and fall asleep, wait until after you’ve blown the guy for awhile before you let yourself come. The only way you’re going to be able to blow a dude when you’re totally NOT horny anymore is by faking it, but most people (despite what they may think about themselves) are really not that great at faking it. So don’t come yet. Allow the blow job to become the thing that GETS you in the mood. Mount his leg and start humping it, rubbing your clit against it until your pussy gets nice and juicy. If you’re a dude, stroke yourself while you’re giving your boyfriend head. There are plenty of ways that you can enjoy blowing the guy you’re with, but once you’ve come, it’s all over.
b. Think of it as a challenge. You’ve got this hard dick in front of you and it’s just begging for a nice soft mouth with firm lips and a thick tongue. It’s dying for a deep throat, for the moaning and gagging that comes from having a thick cock shoved inside your mouth. Practice giving amazing blow jobs. Read and research. Educate yourself. If you’ve gotten bored, change your technique. And remember, you don’t have to prepare yourself for thirty minutes of only blow job. You can suck his dick like crazy for awhile and then straddle him and fuck his brains out. Then go back to sucking the pussy juice off his dick. Everybody’s happy.
c. Remember, this is your chance to be labeled an awesome and amazing lover. You want that kind of reputation. You don’t want to be the prude who hates giving blow jobs. You want to love the cock. So love it. Embrace it.
1. She gave me a blow job last night and man was she ever embracing the suck.
2. I wish my girlfriend would embrace the suck more.
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