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The Domme is the dominant person in an S&M relationship, usually a woman. It is different than a dominatrix, who is a professional. The Domme is just your everyday, average woman who likes to take the power in a Dom/Sub dynamic. Don’t get me wrong, if your lady is really good at being your Domme, encourage her to get some clients and become a professional dominatrix. Dem bitches make good money, yo.
The Domme is a lot of fun for everyday fellas, or lesbians to be in a sexual relationship with. They usually have some skills in various BDSM techniques. My favorites are orgasm denial, spanking, foot worship, hot wax play, whipping, and golden showers. There is nothing like sitting in the tub and feeling your woman’s hot piss spraying all over you. Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it, guys!
Dominance and submission is a lot of fun, for those of you who haven’t tried much of it before. For all you guys out there who are the boss at work, try switching it up and giving the power to the woman. It is a lot of fun to look at sex from the submissive side of things. Makes you feel like you’re being taken care of, while she’s pegging you with a strap-on. Makes you feel safe.
Safety is an important element if you’re going to try any new sexual activity, especially those involving BDSM. Read a lot. Talk before you try anything new. Establish a safe word. And for god’s sake, don’t start off with the biggest dildo. Work your way up to it!
Speaking of sex toys and BDSM gear, get ready to spend some money. Nothing is cheap these days, and if you want a fully-stocked torture chest, you’re going to have to lay out some big cash for quality. And you want quality. The last thing you want when she’s tightening your nipple clamps is for it to break, and you lose a nip. Happened to a buddy of mine. Now we call him Stubby. He doesn’t appreciate it, but we’re immature.
Now get out there and have some fun!
1. Gertrude was more than happy to do some BDSM play with her new boyfriend. He asked her if she would be the Domme, and she said sure. She had a bunch of sex cuffs and strap-on gear from her last lesbian relationship, so they used that to get started. There was something about farting into a man’s face and having him thank her for it that really turned Gertrude on.
2. Rick was mortified when he accidentally walked in on his parents having sex, and seeing his dad getting pegged by his mom. She explained that she was a Domme mom, and that what they were doing was a gesture of love for each other. Plus, she told him, he was conceived while his dad was handcuffed and blindfolded with a vibrator up his ass. Rick understood.
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