A ball gag is a sex toy used to keep someone gagged. It’s used in bondage and BDSM role-play. The person wearing the gag is regarded as the submissive partner while the one not wearing it is considered to be the dominant partner.
It basically looks like a restraint for the mouth. It’s made of leather and has a ball attached that is forced into the recipient’s mouth. Some use a ball gag in their sex play for humiliation purposes; others just use it to demonstrate control and dominance.
We have an interesting obsession with balls in our society. We like round things. We like boobs and the balls on tongue rings. We like testicles and clitorises and anuses (holes that are round). We like the heads of penises and nice round ass cheeks. We like things we can grab and squeeze with our hands or shove into our mouths or shove our penis or strap-on into.
The heart is roundish, and sometimes it is grabbed and squeezed or shoved back into our mouths or fucked.
There are many different gags available to those who are interested. There’s the bit gag, which is in the style of a bit used in a bridle for a horse. A great deal of its sexual appeal derives itself from human and horseplay. There’s the butterfly gag which is wing shaped. (Sidebar: why are we all so obsessed with butterflies? There’s the era of the tramp stamp, tattoos of butterflies on lower backs. I once went to a wedding where the bride was obsessed with butterflies and she insisted on bringing a crate of butterflies to the ceremony so that they could be released right after the ceremony. What she didn’t realize was the fact that most of those butterflies would be half dead from the heat of the August summer day. The best man opened the crate and half the butterflies stumbled out like they were drunk and all tipsy on their way onto the grass and the rest of them just batted their wings a couple of times and then they were just these drooping sad little things. Stupid bride.). Another gage is called the cleave gage. Instead of something being tied over the persons’ mouth, the scarf or cloth is pulled between his or her teeth. The only thing with this type of gag is that no matter how tightly it’s tied, it can almost always be spit out by the person, so it’s not nearly as effective.
So basically there are lots of options if you want to gag up the person you’re with. Life is short. Get on it.
1. I’d ball gag your ass if I didn’t think you’d like it so much.
2. Ball gagging is just about the only thing left we haven’t tried yet. Of course, there’s always upside down anal. And the bat cave with cranberry sauce and icing sugar. And, when we get tired of that, we could try ‘making love’.
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