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An anal plug is a sex toy for insertion and stretching of the anus. If you read my instructions on having a decent anal fuck, you’ll know how important it is to lube up, play with, and stretch out the anus. Anal play is super awesome and a totally important part of sex in general, but you can’t just treat the asshole like it’s a vagina or a mouth. It certainly can stretch, but it needs to go at its own pace, and it certainly hasn’t eaten burgers the size of your head or spit out babies with heads the size of cantaloupe, so you need to go easy on it, be gentle, don’t rush it.
An anal plug is a great way to bring anal play into your relationship, especially if one or both of you are a bit nervous and/or apprehensive. The plug is just a little toy that you can lube up and push inside the anus and its job is just to hang out there, in your ass, while you’re getting your clit licked or your twat fucked or while you’re jerking off your cock.
The most important thing to remember with anal play is to take it slow. It’s not a race or a competition. And take baby steps. Don’t worry about dick in ass for a while. Start with tongue in ass. Add a few fingers and see how that feels. Then try a butt or anal plug. Then, perhaps a smallish dildo.
The asshole is the entryway to some of the hottest sex you’re likely to have, if you play your cards right. It’s sensitive in a completely different way. If you’re a dude, you can get your partner to stimulate your prostate (or you can stimulate it yourself) and if you’re a lady…well, the feelings that come with anal stimulation are intense and can help bring you to orgasm.
1. I got my first anal plug when I was twenty-six. I really wanted my girlfriend to peg me, but when I talked to her about it she told me that was gay and if I wanted someone to do that for me I should go and ask my best friend. So I did. He was totally into it but he told me I had to get my ass comfortable with anal play first, so he instructed me to go out and buy a butt plug. I tried it out immediately that afternoon. I hardly got any sleep that night and my dick just about fell off from all the Pamela Henderson I was doing with that plug up my ass. I invited my best friend over that weekend. Turns out he loves pounding ass and he says it’s not gay so long as we don’t kiss. Except that after wards, when he thought I was asleep (or passed out from all the Budweiser we drank), he kisses my neck. Does that count? Are we gay? I don’t know.
2. Butt plugs are the shit.
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