There are some things that seem so right in porn, that really don’t work in real life. If you’re a guy that’s grown up with free porn all of your life, before having sex, doing the deed in real life can be a rude awakening, for both you and your fuck buddy.
The smack on the tits that seemed to get that porn star so hot, will usually get you a slap in the face in real life.
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We are all interested, sometimes fear, what we don’t understand. That interest can lead to great cultures coming together, the mixing of ideas; fear will lead to war, prejudice and stereotypes. But during both the attempt to understand or in the trying to quell fear groups often jump to quick conclusions about one another, too quickly sometimes to dispel half-truths that are too steadfastly created.
From our politics to our porn stereotypes can form and long-lasting assumptions can be made.
Asian adults can be as much misled by what they perceive the west is about, as can white guys simply assuming every Asian girl will be a quiet lotus blossom-like slave to her man. As we come to regard people in life we will create them in our art and from paintings to literature to the dirty movies we make the stereotypes the creator carries fall into his or her creation.
But do Asian adults have as many stereotypes of Caucasian guys and girls as Caucasian guys and girls have of them? Is a Japanese guy watching American- produced porn hoping to get his fill of blonde-haired porn actresses with big tits because that is what he expects, what his stereotypes have led him to believe just have to be present in American porn? Or are Americans the only one’s living with these stereotypes firmly planted in their brains and because Americans-and white heterosexual American men-make a good percentage of the porn does it reflect their sensibilities more often than not?
Whatever the real answer-if it could even really ever be determined-no matter what ethnic group you are associated with you will probably always hold at least a passing interest in people that you do not come into contact with often. Asian adults living far away from the western hemisphere will most likely hold some interest in the west, how much of same determined by individual taste, as much as whether you are a Caucasian guy with a penchant for Bukkake porn or simply a passing interest in the Ti-Chi.
Water, warmth, slippery soap, and naked bodies. Free porn? No! It’s shower sex. Aside from perhaps a condom, what else could you possibly need to have a good time? Taking a shower together is a simple thing, but it is one of those activities that a long-term couple may get so busy as to forget about over time. It is worth revisiting.
In the morning, taking a shower together can be a really nice way to welcome the day. Waking up gently with the warm water running over your body is a good and healthful morning ritual. Consider allowing time for each partner to have a moment when its just one body, one shower stream. After the wake up moments, greeting each other more properly is in order. Hold each other gently, only for a moment, then move on to actual bathing. Take whatever you use to scrub, and take turns rubbing down each others bodies. Enjoy stroking each others back, arms, legs, tits, pussy or cock. Again, you may give a moment of alone time so that each partner can take care of parts that it isnt easy for someone else to do. Its hard to wash someone else’s face for them, for example. In the morning, other than perhaps a very quick hand job, there is often not time for prolonged lovemaking in the shower. Its off to work with you!
An evening or weekend shower can be quite a different scene. After the initial getting used to the time is over, begin the caressing. This time, she can fondle him until he is hard, then drop to her knees and give him a hot blow job. To a lot of couples, there is nothing more wonderful than the feeling of giving and receiving oral while warm water embraces their glistening bodies. A hand-held shower massage can also be totally hot. If he would like, he could watch her hold the water jets up to her pussy until she comes with great intensity. They could also play with the water jets around his cock and balls to see where it feels best for him. Together, a man and a woman can develop a fun collection of shower games, preferences, and erotic memories.
Cleanliness if certainly next to God-li-ness.
Some women enjoy the portrayals of women in porn, but many others do not. Especially for women who have sex with women in real life, sometimes the porno version of sex can seem pretty artificial.
Forget about the barely-there plot concepts for most porn video no one really needs too much of a story anyway. For many women (and feminist-conscious men, for that matter), the interactions just dont ring true. Women seem rather artificial and tailored to porn images of what a sexy woman should be, silicone tits and all. Some women who endeavor to make lesbian and bisexual porn of their own have found a niche that is sexy and shows some essential truths about women and their erotic lives.
First of all, women of varying shapes and sizes may be portrayed. Abandoning the bleach blonde bimbo image or the overly skinny with big boobs look, Women-for-Women who make their own porn might like a woman with a little more booty. They may enjoy seeing women of different, non-stereotyped cultural backgrounds getting into it. Exceptionally important is the portrayal of different genders. The gender normative look and behavior for women is far from all thats really out there. In W4W porn, you could find a femme topping a soft butch, two BBW with short hair getting it on, a butch-femme coupling, an all-female orgy, or even a femme-on-femme scene, but one where the women look and act like real people.
Women who should video do it for a reason to add voices and erotic images to the canon that better reflects them. They presumably want to produce erotica that turns them on. In that quest, showing scenes that are genuinely hot is an important part of the enterprises. The level of arousal in the women is usually palpable. Sounds of sex, the way bodies react to touch, the portrayal of cunnilingus all look and feel like those women want to be with each other, producing happy, powerful orgasms together. There is pussy licking and sex toys, used in a way that as the vibrator enters the well-lubed pussy, it is obvious that is feels good. Sounds of approval are resonant and abundant. Women who do women know how to show it to the rest of us.
The older we get the more we notice
even if we dont want to. Certainly our sexual vocabulary increases in what we want, how we want it, and what we know we must do to get it. We begin to notice the nuance of a touch, the sensuality of someones smile and how the way someone acts to and with us is the very best foreplay. We need the look and feel of body parts just as much as ever, but beyond the hubris of youth, a certain bloom is off the rose, not that we dont still like looking at the rose, but the pedals and stem attract us just as much.
This is why the disembodied cock isnt as attractive as it might have once been.
Gay men and straight girls might be fascinated by the male member, but as they grow older, it depends more who the dick is attached to then it does the dick itself to inform the attractiveness of that dick. Used to be, one could marvel over a thick bulge and never raise ones eyes to the face of the man who sported that heavy crotch; as one grows older, the crotch-no matter how attractive-does not exist independent from the man. Something shifts in our psyches as we feel a little seasoning and body parts, no matter how thick or long, are simply just body parts.
In most cases, no matter their age, straight women never objectify male parts as much as straight men objectify a womans tits, ass everything, part and parcel from the woman they are attracted to. Gay men to, because they have the same parts as their lover, do not have as much a fascination for objectification. Its not to say any of us, whatever sex or sexual orientation, dont enjoy looking at or touching the bounce, firmness, thickness, roundness or length of a specific naughty pink part from time to time, its just that as time wears on we are less apt to find only the part itself attractive separate from the person whose part it is, doubly so if one is a hetero or a gay man who didnt really objectify all that much to begin with.
Though certainly championed in advertising and in porn, regardless of size, the cock itself means very little to anyone truly unless attached to a man whom one wants to know.
After barely stepping into a new year, we already find ourselves in February. Yes, time flies and we must now deal with the much-dreaded Valetine’s Day. However, let’s take a moment to look back into the previous month and dwell upon some pointless sex related content that January oh-so-kindly provided us with. From of-the-moment porn flicks to DIY dildos, Orgasm has got you covered.
1. Trucker Pornos – It’s pretty safe to say that the porn industry is quickly running out of ideas. And what better way to make that loud and clear than by releasing a film titled ‘Flying Pink Pig’? Inspired by a Meals-On-Wheels truck, the film will feature heavy-hitters like Sunny Lane and Erica McClean. Watch this space for an in-depth review.
2. Made To Pleasures – A company titled Made To Pleasures is now providing its customers with the chance of building their own dildo. Choose from length, girth, ribbed or non-ribbed. The possibilities are endless.
3. Agent Provocateur Lingerie – Leave it up to Agent Provocateur to design lingerie that will leave any man drooling on first sight. In their latest efforts,Provocateur has developed a bra and panties that are attached to each other via a midriff band. Not only does the bra feature nipple covers, but the belly band adds a certain je ne sais quoi that I can’t stop looking at.
4. Axe Portugal Rules – Axe, better-known as THE mens deodorant brand (with Old Spice quickly catching up) is offering a nifty little feature on its Portuguese website. Featuring dozens of up-close and personal shots of a semi-naked model, you can browse through her curves in a way that will make you feel as if you were really there. About as close to free porn as you’ll get without having to resort to the real deal.
5. The 3DD Breast Book – For those who can’t seem to get enough of tits in all shapes and sizes, 3DD is for you. By brilliantly combining breasts with 3D technology, you can now spend hours of your day looking at hundreds of different boobs with your nerdy 3D glasses on. A sure-fire way of impressing the ladies.
These days almost everyone is putting up a shingle to provide some sort of sex service. Rub and tugs are popping up in every staid suburban town, and girls and guys solicit on Internet boards and free porn is pervasive. Ex nurses provide a little enema play and any girl who has taken a year of acting classes and sports relatively firm tits is offering domination.
The local police know this of course and are exploiting ever more frequent opportunities to bust the clients who come to pay for these services to cum.
Though working girls are certainly in danger of being busted on a regular basis, clients to need to be ever more mindful of whom they are seeing. The very best way to be assured one isn’t walking into a sting operation is to simply see girls and guys on reputation alone. If a friend recommends someone, and they got away safe-and they fucked or were sucked-it’s pretty reasonable to assume they did not see a cop! The police might lie, fudge their identities, maybe even wear some revealing clothing but they cannot engage in sexual activity.
Second, one can go on one’s innate sense of the date. If you have been a client of escorts long enough your gut reactions will reveal volumes to potential police activity in and around the in-call you have come to or the outcall you have invited to your home…though cops hardly, if ever, indulge in outcall hooker stings.
Lastly, watch what’s said and how it is said. Cops lie; it’s part of the job. That old urban myth that if you ask someone if they are a cop and they must tell you is a misnomer, but be mindful of the words money and sex uttered in the same sentence, or your escort trying to get you to say these two words together. All one has to do is show intent to buy sex and one has committed a crime under most laws. You will find with a policeman or woman posing as a sex worker the slow semantics of the transaction will be very pointed and deliberate indeed.
It is a little more dangerous trying to procure sex for money these days. As the escort attempts ever-clever guises and clandestine ways to advertise, the police keep right on his or her tail trying to stop the business by arresting both the customer and the provider.
Many women have a waterproof reminder hanging in their showers to remind them to check their breast tissue monthly for changes. The conventional wisdom is that a woman should, after her period has ended, hold one arm up in the air and with the other hand feel the opposite breast thoroughly. The process, of course, is repeated on the other side (if you’re thinking of free porn right now, you’re not alone). After doing this exercise consistently, a woman will get used to the feeling of her own breast tissue. In that way, if any change or a lump appears, she will know very quickly.
Opening up and allowing another to massage the sensitive breasts can be a step of deep trust. Breast massage, done correctly, feels good and can really be healthy as well. As far as the healthy part, the breasts are often compressed in bras that constrict the normal motion and volume of the breast. A tight lacy or underwire bra can cause discomfort as well.
The feeling of setting the breasts free and allowing them to be natural, swinging tits is one that many women look forward to at the end of the day.
Once unclothed, she should lie down on a flat surface. A massage table is ideal. The person doing the massaging will want to warm up his or her hands, perhaps by taking some erotic massage oil and rubbing it in the palm of the hands briskly. The breast massage can begin at any point around the circle of the breast, with a light pressing motion spiraling into the nipple. Do not press with any force directly on the nipple, as that is uncomfortable to many women. The fingers can also make circular motions. Squeeze the breast in an up and down motion and side to side. Ultimately, each breast should be fully massaged and manipulated in every which way in order to assist healing after all the usual constriction, or in the case of the braless, the weight of almighty gravity.
This is not a formal medical description of breast massage, so if you have any questions or discover any breast anomaly, speak to your health professional immediately. FYI: Extra oil makes for sexy, shiny breasts, and once the massage is well underway, wandering hands can make for very happy endings.
It’s a simple equation that if a human being begins to loose weight, in a healthy manner, they will loose fat. And breast tissue is fat. A woman begins to loose weight; she will loose some size in her boobs. If she is dieting and exercising correctly, she will see better proportion and good health. If she decides too loose too much weight, does not exercise, she will see sagging and stretch marks.
This is the bane of the modern Hollywood actress.
Somewhere along the line the paradigm shifted from the voluptuous hourglass figure of a woman with wide hips and ample tits to skinny girls starving themselves to a danger point. Somewhere along the line dangerously skinny women were considered beautiful by Hollywood standards and actresses followed suit to the model of what they thought they must look like. Ignoring the fact that they were-are-putting their health in danger, these ladies continue to lose too much weight, lose their natural form, put themselves in jeopardy and counter the ravages of the new look-even if they were unaware they are doing so-through augmentation surgery, Botox shots, nips and tucks.
Buying ever-larger breast implants a woman can theoretically loose as much weight as she wants and still keep her bust line. In effect a cart-after-the-horse approach, a woman loses weight and her boob flesh fat but then hires a doctor to replace just specifics of what she lost! Not just porn performers and strippers but now the modern day actress, and the countless women influenced by her, has a cut stomach, no hips-certainly no round ass and two ice cream scoops for tits and a drawn face.
The modern day beauty is a self-made modern-day Frankenstein of unnaturally large boobs, hairless cunts, permanent make-up and even bleached assholes.
Human beings are the only animals who can alter their environment to suit their needs. In doing so many would argue we have done more harm then good to that environment. Now we have become the only animal that can alter our appearance to our specifications with a hubris that defies logic and one’s own health. Our own bodies will tell us when we have gone too far in our passions, when we eat too much we will gain weight, starve ourselves we take on the pallor and stick-and-bones appearance of the emaciated. But these days women or every social stratum can ignore the evidence of their eyes, buy body parts and pieces, or at least fantasize about doing so, to ignore the obvious risks they are taking to their health.
Ain’t it the truth; we all want to be the best lover we can be. The one who stands out from the crowd. The one who keeps her coming back for more. The one who gets her to cum again and again.
We’ve all seen these kind of studs in free porn, but let’s be real, that shit isn’t how it goes down in real life. So, if you want to come as close as possible to what these guys can do, then you need to follow the five most sinful sex tricks.
1. If you know that your partner is a bit of an exhibitionist, stand her in front of a full length mirror. Then stand behind her and begin to seduce her. Kiss her all over from you neck to her tits and then eventually remove all of her clothing. Bring her to orgasm with your hands and all the while she’ll get to watch as your pleasure her and you will also get to see exactly what she looks like when turned on.
2. For all you guys who didn’t know, there is a patch of sensitive skin at the inner end of the vagina called the anterior fornix aka A-spot. When you rub this part of her is produces the most lube for the vagina. It can be found just above the cervix. Find this spot by putting one lubed finger into her as far as it will go. Keep yourself relaxed and run gently. Use your finger to explore the from wall and when you hit the spot she’ll get wet.
3. We all have our drawers of sex toys, but I want you to create a “naughty box” in your bedroom. You and your partner should write down some out of the ordinary sexual requests.
4. If you only have a large vibrator and you want to stimulate her clit, then you want to get something hard, long and narrow. and hold it loosely in your hand with the tip against the part you want to stimulate.
5. Guys, listen up! The clitoris is larger than you probably think. It’s essentially a set of nerve endings but only the tip is visible. The rest is hidden beneath the surface. To stimulate, you should use the V technique. Use your index and middle fingers to from a V and then slide them on either side of the clitoris. Your fingers should be pointed downward and you can use your other hand to stimulate the “outer” clit or use this technique during intercourse.
If you try all of this sinful sex tips then you’re sure to get your girl back in the sack because she will be so satisfied she wont be able to stay away!