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Myths

Friday, July 22nd, 2011

People have been told that being married is better for you and being single is bad. This comes from a study done in 1858 that track the mortality rates of married, widowed and celibate people. The findings showed that the married people lived longer healthier lives. But recent studies being done at Ohio State University’s College of Medicine have included those in committed relationships and gay relationships to the mix. What These researchers are studying is the effects of psychological stress like marital discord, and the affect on the immune system. Marital stress can be a source of chronic stress. Three studies showed that women in unhappy relationships or still emotionally hung up on the past had weaker immune systems. Happier women single or married had much stronger immune systems. Newlyweds exhibiting the hostile behavior had the largest declines in the immune system.

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Lastly men in women in their 50s and 60s who found themselves single again had a noticeable decline in physical health that they never fully recovered from. So being this belief has been proven to be a myth. Happy and financially secure is the key to longevity. So for many people happiness is shown in sexual ways. For many of those people both single and attached it not only means sex but it also means surfing the internet for Free porn. Free porn is thought to be evil. Many believe it is the root of failed marriages and abuse towards women. A scientist at the University of Hawaii performed studies to see just how bad the effects of pornography were on society at large study is entirely data-driven. He found that porn is not the cause of those evils those that have had a strict, repressive religious upbringing. Are more likely to be abusers and sex offenders. In fact he found no data that suggested a correlation between an increase in the availability of porn and an increase in sex crimes.

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He also found that, research suggests that women use pornography in far higher numbers than some might assume. This is substantiated by a study from Christian Internet monitoring group, that reported that 34 percent of female readers of Today’s Christian Women’s online newsletter admitted to intentionally accessing Internet pornography

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Helping Her Come

Tuesday, July 19th, 2011

We all want to have satisfying sex, and though sometimes the urge is to simply get done and get our rocks off, especially for those of us who are men, this kind of rush to the finish causes problems. It can leave our women unsatisfied and when they are unsatisfied they are unlikely to want to come back to us after a while, leaving us instead for someone more considerate they met through adult personals or a best friend who just wants to see them have an orgasm. Even more than that, when both people are concerned about each other’s sexual pleasure it actually results in both lovers feeling more fulfilled, happy and satisfied without the guilt of utter selfishness.

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Many women are not able to have an orgasm through sexual penetration alone, contrary to what one may see on free porn videos. Even for the rare percentage of women who can come this way it is easier for them to have orgasms with direct clitoral stimulation. One can provide this on one’s own with a finger in the right position, or ask her to touch herself during fucking. It can be especially hot to watch her hand working between her legs while she’s giving one a blow job!

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Some women have never had an orgasm at all and if they do not know what they are going for it may be difficult to help them come in partnered fucking situations that one finds in adult dating. One of the best ways to help in this case is to encourage her to masturbate and touch herself in private, learning her own body better so she can better share it during intimacy. There are a number of books and videos available which are designed to help pre-orgasmic women learn to have satisfying climaxes alone and with a partner. A considerate lover might even purchase such a book as a gift.

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Confectionery

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

When we are greeted with all of the various websites that pop up when we search for Free sex videos or free porn on the Internet, we may tend to feel like a little kid in an old time confectionery shop looking at all the inviting sweets just laid out before us behind the glass counter and not knowing which one we want to sample first.

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Remember when we were little children and our parents would take us into the candy store and let us pick out whatever we wanted to? We were overwhelmed looking at all the rows and rows of sweet treats just set out before us for our perusal and we felt like we wanted it all, and we could not possibly figure out how to decide which candies looked the most appetizing and appealing to us when they all looked amazing, delicious and seemed to be calling out our little names.

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When we have some much sought after and valuable free time and decide to spend a little bit of time on the Internet checking out the sex sites, we feel once again like that little kid in the confectionery store that could not figure out how to choose between the fruit slices and the chocolate covered cherries. The amount and array of websites that will pop up from just the entry of the simplest few words into a search engine can be just crazy. Any search will produce literally hundreds and hundreds of results, and each one of those websites will lead us to hundreds and hundreds more, and so on, and so on.

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So just like when we were kids, it may be best to just close our eyes, take a deep breath, and then just point at something, as it would be pretty hard to be disappointed with what we may end up with on the sweet treat of the modern Internet.

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You’d Be Surprised

Friday, July 15th, 2011

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Almost everyone publicly denies and decries that they would ever check out any porn sites. However, what people express as an opinion in broad daylight, and what they do at night in the privacy of their own homes, can be two vastly different things. Maybe people whom you would never imagine doing it, are busily checking out the Free porn videos while we run around busily trying to convince everyone of just how very upstanding we are.

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These days while we may still seem prudish on occasion on the surface, many of us feel free to enjoy some adult websites or Internet porn options when we are alone and out of the harsh view of society. If you pay any attention at all to your nightly news, you would think that no one ever has sex, no one ever thinks about sex, and we are all just lily white, celibate ethereal individuals floating around on little puffy clouds thinking only of lambs, snowflakes and cotton candy. Not so much, Really, not so much. Contrary to what the uptight media would have you believe, most of us have healthy, normal and functioning sex drives, thank you very much for asking.

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So the next time you visit a library, make sure you take a good look at that cute librarian with the little bun in her hair and the grey business suit. You may be able to imagine that suit coming flying off, her hair coming down and all sorts of delicious and illicit non-literary delights to follow. One of the most exciting things about life can be the fact that just about nothing is as it seems, and while this can be frustrating in some areas of our existence, when it comes to sex, it keeps it all just revved up enough to make it exciting for us, when we are not too busy pretending to be morally beyond reproach.

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Reason

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

Total censorship of tits, pussy and dicks of a thing is never the answer for anything because the more you deny someone of something the more they will cling to it. This doesn’t solve anything and any sort of prohibition to some degree with tend to make matters worse in a society. That is why the best way to go about things is a sort of closeting action. Keep things to a sort of thresh hold level and while it isn’t commonly available it isn’t exactly saturating society either.

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There should be a reasonable amount of Porn available without going overboard. If you go to the other extreme of saturating your society with it you are giving access to it that some people will take that might not otherwise have taken. You are essentially aggravating an issue and feeding a sex drive at large that might otherwise have been reasonable and manageable. It’s a matter of what people are putting into their minds and in front of their eyes. The more they are saturated with an image the more they are going to think and act on it. If it’s out of sight then it’s typically out of mind for the most part.

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The problem is that there is a dedicated effort to flood the internet and every other venue with any sort of morally corrupting influence that can be found. They are making it simply acceptable where before it was not. The evidence for this can be seen by the way adult movies and the related material is dealt with in the mainstream. It used to be under a very hush hush sort of curtain whereas now it is not even given a second thought. This is clearly having an affect on how people think and what they find acceptable and good. It’s a reversal of and inversion of values. Anything that was once good is now seen as contemptible while things that were once under censure now see the light of day as perfectly okay.

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Porn Up’s Skills

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

When you use Porn to practice your skills at sex you can become very impressive. Consider that you could learn how to hold back before you have an orgasm and if you continue practicing this you could make a great and powerful impression on someone you do end up scoring with. They will be impressed that you have such control over yourself and this can only help you prosper in the long run. If you give someone a great and satisfying experience they are more than likely going to tell a friend about it. That friend will want to meet you and already you will have put the the seed of scoring in their minds.

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They may decide to give you a try themselves and your sex life will never have been better. This all stems from the fact that you took your performance seriously and did everything you could to make it the very best that it could be. You learned that you could use porn as a tool to help you with this. You are able to sense that orgasm coming and you are able to stem the tide of it just a little more each time and then you can finally control yourself to such a degree that you give a very powerful orgasm every time.

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Then when you do actually get with someone they will be taken to a new place of pleasure they had never experienced before. This all comes from you giving it the best you had and making a better example of a lover with yourself. You are able to do things that you and they only dreamed of before. Give yourself every advantage that you can and don’t take no for an answer. Don’t settle and don’t go halfway. Make the decision to go all the way and become the best that you can be. This will empower you and through that you will empower others around you to be the best they can be.

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A Ride Down the Highway

Thursday, July 7th, 2011

Just as you might hop into your car on a beautiful Sunday morning and go out for a ride to see where you might end up and what you might discover, hopping onto the Internet for a little bit of Porn exploration is just as easy as a breeze, and you won’t have to spring for any expensive gas or pay any pesky toll collectors along the way.

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Whenever a beautiful spring day dawns on the weekend, many of us get the urge to have a road trip and do a little exploration. Many of us polish up our trusty cars and take them out for a spin on the highway with no particular destination in mind. We go where the open road and our expansive whims take us and we spend the day having an adventure with no limits, no schedule and certainly no predetermined outcome. We often come across many little special places that we never would have known about or planned to visit had we been sticking to a previously planned out itinerary.

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Hopping on the world wide web to search for sex sites can be a very similar and exciting whirlwind of an experience. We can fire up our computers and hop onto the vast and wide open highway of the world wide web and just follow the road to wherever our desires happen to lead us. There is literally something for everyone on the web and we may end up somewhere that we never even knew we wanted to visit until we got there. Whether we are searching for kink, for fetish, or just for sex in general, we will easily find what we seek along our drive on the Internet and we need never worry that we may run out of gas and have to stop.

Time to fire up the engine and hit the road to enjoy the scenery for a bit.

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Fuck Like a Porn Star

Thursday, July 7th, 2011

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There’s no denying that many aspects of porn are fantasy. They represent an idealized form of sexual interaction that normal human beings are not likely to achieve, what one author once referred to as the perfect zipless fuck. There is little like this in reality outside of our masturbatory fantasies, which is perhaps why we like to see them represented in adult video which we so often which during self pleasuring. Likewise much of the adult movie star is equally artificial, from the plastic surgery they may undergo in order to get that figure or the way preparations they make from filming which may involve everything from enemas and douching to the use of injectable sex enhancing drugs.

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And yet that does not mean there is nothing which we can learn from porn stars. Sexual professionals may do things artificially for the camera, but what they do, they do with enthusiasm and verve. Many of us would like to become better lovers and therefore we can learn from this enthusiasm and take it into our own bedrooms. Watching sex videos can give us tips on all kinds of things. Porn starlets are experts at talking dirty, using loud and explicit language to keep us aroused and get us even more excited on the climb to orgasm. Talk freely about what you like in bed, tell your lover how much you enjoy it and what hot thrill you are getting.

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Like wise an actress in an x-rated film is not ashamed of her body, nor are the guys. They are freely naked, showing off whatever body shapes they have. They do not act ashamed of what they are doing either, nor do they seem to have visible hang ups about any of the sexual actions they take part in. We can all learn from this by embracing our desires, whether vanilla, fetish, or BDSM, and without shame.

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Getting Our Sexy Back

Monday, July 4th, 2011

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Sometimes people get really busy in their everyday lives. Between work and family, it can seem pretty difficult to find any time at all to focus on ourselves. If a couple has children, it gets even more difficult with school, homework, sports, scouts and a ton of other extra-curricular activities that take up most evenings and weekends. It’s no wonder that people have trouble finding the time to relax or distress. It’s even less surprising that couples may have trouble finding time to have sex. Even just finding the time and energy to simply feel sexy is probably a bit of a challenge most days.

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The problem is, feeling sexy, attractive and desirable is one of those things ‘use it or lose it’ type of things. If people don’t make the time to feel good about themselves and feel sexy, they’re not going to feel that way. The good news is that it is something that we can get back anytime we want to put the effort in to get it back. One big step to feeling sexy again is to start acting sexy. Women need to let their inner sex kitten out for a romp. They should pull out their prettiest panties and bra and their sexiest dress. Try wearing stockings and a garter belt instead of pantyhose or bare legs; whichever makes them feel the sexiest. If they add a pair of fuck me shoes and take time doing their face and hair, they’ll feel like a million dollars, and that’s a step in the right direction. Guys need to call upon their inner stud and start feeling like the million dollar man again. For guys, it’s not always about the clothes, but working out and getting strong and toned again if they’re out of shape can make a huge difference in how they feel about themselves. Feeling strong and muscular can really make a guy feel sexy again, especially if women are checking them out. The other big thing that a couple should do to start feeling sexy is start having sex. Make the time, find the time, and start having sex regularly again. Having sex is always the best for people to make themselves and each other feel desirable and sexy again.

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Old People Have Sex Too

Tuesday, June 28th, 2011

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People go through a lot of changes as they get older, and a lot of people don’t deal well with aging. It isn’t easy for a lot of people to feel like their youth and vitality are slipping away from them. It’s hard to admit that our sex drive is changing, that our stamina isn’t the same and that our bodies are losing their youthful energy. Women usually hate seeing their breasts beginning to sag, and most men hate it when their balls start to swing a little lower with each passing year. Nearly everyone hates it when they suddenly notice that they have old man or old woman ass. It’s really easy to feel like our bodies are betraying us.

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One thing that a lot of people find really disturbing is when their pubic hair starts to turn gray. A lot of people don’t even realize that it’s possible until they’ve already noticed that it’s happening to them. Guys typically have more body hair and many don’t remove it, so they watch the gray hairs infiltrate their chest and facial hair in addition to their head and their genital area. Quite a few men have an easier time dealing with their head hair turning gray than they o when their body hair turns gray. On top of gray hairs, we all have to deal with wrinkles and skin that starts to sag and lose its youthful glow and plumpness. A lot of people would do nearly anything to keep their skin radiant, soft and younger.

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They will do even more to keep from getting wrinkles, because that’s a development that most people really don’t handle very well. Nobody wants to feel or look old. With advances in skin care and plastic surgery, people can keep themselves looking younger much longer these days, and that’s usually a very welcome thing for most people. In addition, pharmaceutical drugs, medical procedures and healthy living can help people have a really active sex life far past what previous generations expected or even hoped for. Having great sex actually helps us feel younger, so having more sex will make most people feel even better. People shouldn’t ever have to give up sex just because they’re getting older. Sometimes sex gets even better as we age.

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