Posts Tagged ‘Sex’

Strobe Light

Wednesday, March 16th, 2011

Maybe it comes from the disco era Studio 54 cache. It was a time and place of glamour, dancing, coke, booze, and lots and lots of sex. People talked about sex happening in many clubs in New York City and major cities around the world, and there were classic (and sometimes classy) places dedicated to exactly that, like Plato’s Retreat. Maybe it was the gay boys, dancing with abandon, shirtless, bronzed and beautiful for all the world to see, countered with the steamy tight places where rock bands worked their sweat, muscle and brawn into every searing note they played.
Whatever began way back in the day, mixing sex and a club, the idea of couples getting it on in a dance or rock club has never left our culture.

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The first answer may be the most in keeping with the alternative culture of club life: Because people are not supposed to. The rebellious nature of rockers and the party crowd makes fucking in public something that seems exciting and, in a word, badass. In a way, it could still be a way of fulfilling some 1950’s-style conservatives’’ worst fears —that rock and pop music leads to raunchy dancing, which leads to sex… and maybe right there on the dance floor for all to see!

Rock and pop music is so much about passion. In the sound and lyrics, one can get caught up in the beat, the pumping bass, sometimes crying guitars and a singer’s wail. Returned or unrequited, crimes of passion, and sometimes passionate political stances; all matters of deep commitment, passion true and real, exist in the sound and words the music expresses.
Your basic exhibitionism could be an obvious draw to a public display of affection in a club. Lucky enough for every 2329524213_ed2daf7c0fexhibitionist, there is usually a voyeur not too far away to match up with the action. In certain clubs, a horny couple might even get cheered on by an enthusiastic clientele.

Dirty dancing and club sex is hot for its reminders of the golden era of disco, the feeling of passion, defiant or appreciated exhibitionism, and general rebellion. The pretty lights and throbbing rhythms could really just be the icing on the proverbial cake of the sex that drips for the walls of a club.

Wait To Bring Up Sex

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

tumblr_lgpdn93M6L1qzqbf4Most single people who have profiles on dating websites are looking for sex, at least eventually. It would be unusual to find someone that truly isn’t hoping to get into a relationship that eventually leads to sex.

The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.

Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, don’t ask her about sex or what she’s into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.

Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.

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It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.

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Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes it’s possible to tell by reading the person’s profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it won’t matter. Another option is to wait – discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever she’s ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.

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Sinking The Ship

Friday, March 4th, 2011

tumblr_lbssovRx681qz6f9yo1_500A leopard cannot change it spots – …neither can young adult males decrease their testosterone flow. Whether gay, bi or straight, guys are all over the net not only downloading porn but looking for someone to hook-up with. Whether joining on-line dating sites, social networking hubs or simply trolling the groups section of Myspace guys are just as horny as ever, but now have the net to temper their pursuits in what seems a socially acceptable and respectable approach.

The net is as much a portal for sex these days as it is for anything else… in fact the Internet is the perfect place to exercise our dirtier interests.  One undeniable fact is true, adults want to be fucking, rubbing and sucking as much as they can or are comfortable with a partner they find to fuck, rub and suck with.

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Male humans, especially young guys, are ruled by their nescient libido more then they are often their good commons sense and finding another avenue in which to pursue conquests, namely, on-line, they have made the net their personal procurement playground.

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How men go about attempting to find a date, than seduce that date doesn’t matter. Terms used for sex, on the net or off, change with ridiculous regularity, but it comes down to the same specifics of seduction it always has: men using their wit and wiles to secure a date. Whether they are emailing, posting a profile picture, chatting in a local chatroom or even joining a fetish site, these ways of strutting on-line are no different then being available every Tuesday night for a bookstore run with a buddy or scoping out the local supermarket for the weeknight that attracts the most single shoppers.

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It might seem that the game of sex, flirting, seduction, even hooking-up and the tales told afterward are more private, or at least more likely to be anonymous these days, but methodology is the only thing that may have changed. Euphemisms morph generation to generation but the game is still played and the game is sex for the red-blooded male. Shy or a playboy, teen or middle age, single and even married, men are still out there on the prowl and are using the Internet in ways that even the most adept hacker would be proud of.

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Better Positions

Monday, February 28th, 2011

One easy way for people to spice up their sex life is to try some new positions that they’ve never tried or haven’t done in a very long time. Different sexual positions offer different sensations and stimulation, and sometimes that’s especially true for women. For example, when a woman is on top she can control the speed and depth of penetration, and she can make sure she gets constant clit stimulation which will help most women achieve orgasm.

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For men, sometimes it’s the depth that gives them the most added stimulation, so positions that will enable deeper penetration will be very pleasing. When in the missionary position, if the man raises the woman’s legs up towards her chest, it opens up and elongates her vaginal cavity, allowing the man the access to achieve much deeper penetration than standard missionary position where the woman has her feet on the bed and her legs spread. A minor adjustment like that one can transform a good position into a great position. Rear entry positions are also good for deeper penetration, especially if the lady is lying face down with her backside raised. Lying over a stack of pillows is great for this position. If the lady puts her arms back, the gentleman can spread her legs wide apart with his knees and hold onto her arms or wrists as he thrusts and he’ll get wonderfully deep penetration.

Side-by-side positions can be a lot of fun because they leave both people’s hands free, allowing them both to stimulate other parts of each other’s bodies. Certain positions will leave the lady’s hands free, allowing her to play with the man’s balls or insert a finger into his ass. A man with free hands can provide extra clit stimulation.

If you’re stuck for positions, an easy way to get ideas is from booting up some sweet ass porn.  Incorporate what you see into your routine.  But don’t try anything too outrageous off the bat – work up to the pile driver.

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Anal Issues

Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011

analAnal play and anal sex can be very hot and sexy, and is in the realm of real lovers these days, not just porn stars. However, women sometimes find it difficult to relax and enjoy it because they’re concerned about any mess that could result. Feeling uptight and stressed when participating in any kind of anal play can make the experience difficult and uncomfortable for both parties.

A lot of women don’t seem to be able to understand that people who are interested in anal play are fully aware of the fact that it is an activity fraught with the potential for a mess, and they are prepared to proceed in spite of that. It is a biological function experienced by all humans and not something to be ashamed of. While many people will advocate repeated enemas in order to assure cleanliness and a pristine environment, that actually may not be the healthiest choice. Enemas can often dry out the anal area, and having anal sex a short period of time later could result in minor tearing or discomfort due to dryness. Repeated enemas could throw a person’s electrolytes off balance, and that can be very detrimental to a person’s health. Unless one’s partner is aware of how many enemas were done and how recently, they may not be able to provide necessary information in case of an emergency. It would be best to discuss this with a doctor or gynecologist, and find out how to safely use enemas or anal douches as a way to prepare the area without any health implications. Doctors have heard it all and they’re there to help, so people should not be embarrassed to discuss these things with them.

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The easiest way to handle the situation is to eat a very healthy diet and get plenty of fiber. This will make most people pretty regular and, quite often, predictable which will make scheduling a sexual encounter involving anal play quite a bit easier. If a lady is concerned about any potential messy situations, she can put a large towel on the bed or leave a towel folded on the dresser to provide a place to put used sex toys. The last and most important thing is that people should talk to their partner. It may seem like an embarrassing conversation, but if a person is comfortable allowing someone else to insert things into their ass they should be comfortable enough with that person to talk to them.

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Is Online Porn The Same As Real Porn?

Sunday, February 20th, 2011

What we look for in our fantasies is not what we necessarily want in our real life. Sure porn girls and guys look great, a bleached asshole is certainly something most people donít see every day and a hard dick standing straight up for hours on end is most hetero girls dream, but in the end we have to deal with the fact that we do not live porn star lives nor would we really want all that sex, in all those ways, most of the time.

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Porn is great though because it provides us with this fantasy as an outlet, but then we take one step back from porn movies and DVDís to the porn shown on- line and over the net, and while not even different in content-in fact in many cases itís the very same movie-watching porn on our PC and downloading, usually for free is certainly different than watching a tried and true porno film one pops into the DVD player.

The access to porn on the net, the actual ability to scroll through all those selections, just like one would on an online dating site, for a nominal fee even, makes the porn different then buying or having to rent a DVD somewhere and popping it into a home player. Sure the concept is the same, one is watching a highly styilzsed visual representation of a sex act to arouse one to either a masturbatory state or to arouse ones partner enough so the couple might engage in some foreplay and maybe even some further fucking.

But the ability to download exactly what we want when we want, even snippets per say, and in most cases for free makes watching porn on line as wholly different from how watching porn on our DVDís and home theater systems was different from seeing a dirty movie in a theater with sticky floors and an audience of the rain coat crowd!

From stag films to movie theaters to video tapes to DVDs and now the digital download revolutions porn has and will survive but with every new technology in how to watch the dirty images the industry quakes with the realization that people can and do get their dirty stuff easier and cheaper and sometimes for free as the years progress.

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Why Bad Girls Are Not As Good As They Sound

Thursday, February 17th, 2011

As young boys, most of us were conditioned to believe that in order to get the girl, we must act like hero’s and prove ourselves to be “real men”. Much like in those fairy tales about dragon slayers, we spend much of our lives doing everything in our power to become alpha males with hefty bank accounts and dashing good looks.

In this day and age however, women have become well-aware of our constant fight for power and know that deep down, we’d much rather be sitting at home in our boxers watching free porn. In retaliation, the opposite sex is now testing us all by becoming full-fledged man eaters. Below, I’ll cover some of the most popular species of ‘bad girls’. Perhaps by making yourself aware of this dangerous clan, you’ll be able to have a better grasp of your manhood and not be overshadowed by the gentler sex (who is far from ‘gentle’ these days).

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She’s A Gold-Digger – A gold-diggers main objective is to land a man who can serve as a provider. In her deluded mind, all she wants is to find a man who can provide her with everything her parents never did. They’ll want expensive cars, mansions and designer goods. Failure to provide her with any of these things will ensure she makes your life a living hell. Regardless of her past as a porn star, gold-diggers want a life of luxury and “class”.

The Drug Addict – Often on a perma ego trip from taking every substance she can get her hands on, a drug-addict will be on the constant lookout for a partner who has enough money (and poor judgment) to serve as a provider. To get it, they’ll put out, suggest a threesome and sell themselves in the only way they know how.

The Sex Withholder – What better way to have her cake and eat it too than by withholding one of the only expectations held by her partner – sex. The sex withholder most probably had her femininity hurt at some point in her life and now strives to prove herself by being in control of the deed.

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The Best Men’s Underwear

Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

Feb 15 orgasm.com1When it comes to any purchasing decisions made by men, it comes down to an analysis of 4 factors:

1. Will this help me get laid?
2. Comfort
3. Style
4. Cost

This is particularly true when it comes to picking out underwear. It is the only piece of underwear exclusively intended to be seen by a chick who is hopefully reaching for your cock. At that point, of course you want to validate your desirability and good taste, but good underwear also have to be functional. Trust me, those guys in free porn have it easy. They could be wearing rags and the girls will still fuck the shit out of them. But you’re going to have to work a little harder. Ultimately, comfort is key. No man wants to be constantly thinking throughout the day about how his balls feel uncomfortable. SO, for both comfort and sex appeal, the boxer brief was created and here is a look at the best boxer briefs for men:

Uniqlo regular rise boxer brief: This pair has zero external branding, an excellent fit, jade a multitude of nominal but stylish designs and patterns, most importantly it wears well, and is inexpensive. However, there is no online ordering and the only retail store is located in Soho, NYC.

Calvin Klein classic boxer brief with button fly: Calvin Klein is the gold standard for men’s underwear. The fabric is exceptionally comfortable and they look just right. They give off sex appeal and have a phenomenal fit.

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Top Man Trunks: Top Man is the male version of the British retiling sensation Top Shop. The boxer briefs can be hit or miss, but there are enough choices and some definite winners.

J.Crew boxer brief: The fabric is most comfortable and the logo is neither shameful or as weak looking as Ralph Lauren. Black is definitely the way to go.

Armani Exchange square cut brief: Unless you’re a ripped, gay and/or a guido, a good rule of thumb. However, their boxer brief is much silkier than any others on this list, which can often be a nice change of pace.

American Eagle: This is an instance of a pretty boxer brief, especially for the price, however, it is ruined by the logo. While the words “American Eagle” could not be printed any larger on the waistband, this will work for guys in college and high school, but that’s it!

Sex Tips For Bored Couples

Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

Good news to all of you married souls out there! Unlike the popular belief that the majority of eloped couples lead close to inexistent sex lives, science has once again stepped up to the plate and revealed that short of having to resort to free porn every night, married men have more sex than their single counterparts. And before you ask – yes, with their wives. Mistresses are so last year.

In thinking about married people having sex and daily orgasms, I decided to break down a few tips and tricks on how to handle the art of in & out when children and old age are concerned. After all, your college dorm days are far from over my friends.

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Communicate Effectively – If you and your partner find yourself with a dwindling sex life, consider your current communication methods. One of the best ways to keep your sex life – well, alive – is to be verbal about your preference in the sack. If you liked to be touched in a certain spot or try a new position, then by all means, let your significant-other know. Only then will you be able to be in the same page.

Give To Receive – One of the biggest complaints amongst married couples is the lack of appreciation between husband and wife (or husband & husband, wife & wife…whatever floats your boat). If you think that your love life is no longer what it used to be, consider showing your partner some appreciation, even if only for their seemingly small, everyday tasks. You’ll be surprised to see how easy it will be to get some cunnilingus or daily blow jobs after a few tokens of appreciation.

Try Someplace New – A big part of what makes porn so exciting is the fact that it can happen anywhere, at anytime. Just ask the pizza delivery man. If you’re looking to add some of that spontaneity to your own love life, try following suit and opting for less-than-traditional boning spots. The shower and dining room table are great options. Just be 100% positive that your kids are not around – or won’t show up mid-act and be scared for life.

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Shaving The Beaver

Monday, February 14th, 2011

Shaving your girlfriend’s pubes can be an experience more gratifying than stumbling across a quality free porn site. However, going about this ancient skill requires confidence and a certain know-how that not every man is blessed with. Failure to perform this correctly could result in something I like to call (UPC) – that’s short for unfounded pussy complex. Doing it correctly on the other hand, will ensure that your ladie’s vag is trimmed to your exact specifications and that sex will be that much hotter. Read on for a breakdown :

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Required Prep-Work - First things first, do not just jump into it and casually ask if you can shave her beaver. That is relationship suicide. She will either think you’re a total pervert with some weird pube fetish or she’ll take it an insult that her vag is too bushy. Start by complimenting it with words like: sexy, pretty and delicious. Calling it a “pretty fish taco” won’t do. You can then proceed to give her enough oral sex to prove just how into her you really are.

Suggest By Example – One of the best ways to get your girl comfortable with the idea of a bare beaver is by displaying your neatly trimmed package in all its glory. After all, you can’t expect her to fall into you shenanigans if you can’t even handle your own bush. Once that’s taken care of, bring up your newly trimmed nut-scruff and try to get her opinion on it. Ask her if it made sex feel any better and if you should stick to that “hairstyle” from now on. This talk will eventually lead her into asking you about her own bush, in which case you finally suggest playing barber.

Time To Party – Now that you’ve gotten her ready to slip into the shower or bathtub, it’s time to make your move. Make sure to keep a razor around so you don’t have to casually leave to go grab one (new blade, preferably). That would just look sad. Now, have her sit with her ass between your thighs and proceed to apply plenty of shaving cream. As for direction, always go for grain down. You don’t want to end up cutting her lady bits.

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