A man will always rationalize his reasons for wanting some strange. The male biological imperative to shoot sperm into as many unfertilized eggs one can supersedes good common sense, rends families in two, stifles a romance. With facilities now available in this current dating digital age men can find sex partners infinitum, and will have to make-up excuses for doing so as they continue to cheat on their significant others or endeavor to remain free.
The reasons are bountiful but they all center round the cheating guy simply not being able to keep his cock in his pants. For a man to be monogamous he must fight his very nature and when he loses that fight he will do the only thing available to him post the extra-curricular screwing; he will find a reason other than his pumping libido to blame for his infidelity.
But whether he blames God, country, to help save his marriage or his sanity the one irrefutable fact is man will forever look for reasons and believe them when he latches on to a good one.
The reality is, that in a marriage two people are responsibility for the intimacy, the monogamy and if and when either fail, fray or decline. A man can no more look at his biological need as an excuse then he can ignore where his partner is in the entire proceedings. Both people are responsible for making or making a commitment. Both people contribute to the romance and either ever forward trying to keep alive or stagnate and kill it. When a man, or women for that matter, cheats they do so in reaction to their mate or not in reaction to them. Passivity is just as bad sometimes as nagging and mocking. Certainly one person goes out and beds another partner, steps out on their mate, makes the beast with two backs with someone not their lover, but both partners in a love affair are duplicitous, responsible to what they bring to the marriage and what they take out. We can’t push someone from our bed into another’s unless they are willing to go, but we can create a home atmosphere that makes it easier to leave, biological imperative or not. A man might find his excuse but sometimes they are born from circumstance ore then rationalizations.
The moments after sex can be a really great time to set yoruself up for an even better time later. If couples take the time to really get close and talk to one another about their sexual fantasies , before, during, but mostly after, sex and pay attention, they might just have the best sexual opportunity they have ever had. Why wait and let the moment go to waste when lovers can put in the effort now for a greater time later?
