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What’s Fare At The Faire

Friday, May 13th, 2011

Any large group of adults gathering to play or party in a certain theme for a weekend invites as much over indulgence in the theme for the two days as it does the possibility for sex. This might be true at kink conventions for sure, where the reason for the gathering is sex and all its permutations but at Sci-fi gatherings or other social outings where adults are dressed, acting or speaking with stilted specific speech or mannerisms the role-play can, and usually does, take on a certain sexual overtone.

A Renaissance Faire is one such animal!

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The medieval theme welcomes busty lasses and young virile guys, both audience and workers and hastily built tent villages built in the mud and summer sun of some infrequently used field. Very much like a circus come to town, a Ren faire usually stays for a time so social gatherings between the works and locals are frequent and usually bawdy.

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At night when the make-shift shops are closed, the workers party, and with no place to go and lots of room, the debauchery can reach epic proportions. Already wearing sexy outfits; corsets and tight bodices, the men sporting codpieces and tight leather jerkins, the mood is naughty to begin with and as drink is passed-and there is always plenty of drink to be passed-all manner of sexy trouble is soon brewing between whomever wishes to be brewed. Playing in the guise of minstrels, wizards and drinking wenches all guilt can be assuaged and any manner of coupling can happen for a night or the season.

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There are usually no sexual restrictions in this group. It is a more hedonistic approach to life when you live in a tent for a summer and take your pleasures and bath when you can. Sexual preferences can usually be dashed, at least for a few months, and gay men and women become straight, or bi and heterosexual sex is pretty much a thing of the past for most, both the faire workers or those from town lucky enough to be invited into the inner social circle. These days the net makes socializing better, as one faire can hook-up with another close by for a massive gathering of tribes or invites can go out to Facebook friends who want to stop up for a weekend of sex and fun.

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In Praise Of Masturbation

Wednesday, May 11th, 2011

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Even though this is a world now of smart phones, computers, and the internet far too many men and women still have the erroneous thoughts and beliefs that masturbation is somehow either wrong or not as ‘good’ as sex. But nothing could be farther from the truth: time and time again scientists, doctors, and sex researchers have proven that nothing, at all, negative can come from masturbation. It will not ruin anyone for intercourse, it will not make anyone gay, it is not wrong in any way shape or form.
The church might condemn it, but they do so only knowing it feels so good!

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While people can believe what they want, by stigmatizing people who masturbate or by telling young adults and kids that it is wrong all that is happening if keeping them from having a happy and healthy sex life when they are older or, even, by telling adults that it is wrong as well. Medically there is absolutely nothing negative that can happen from a man or a woman masturbating. None at all. In fact, scientists and doctors have found that people who say that they do not masturbate or who put themselves or others down for masturbating often suffer both emotional as well as even physical effects because of it. The emotional problems are obvious as these people feel bad about something they simply cannot control and so deny themselves pleasure because of some misinformed opinion but there are also physical effects as well as it has been proven that men, for instance, who do not masturbate regularly sometimes develop prostate problems and can even have problems such as premature ejaculation simply because they are not used to any kind of erotic stimulus. Many men, in fact, who do suffer from premature ejaculation are told to practice masturbating to learn how their body responds to sexual and erotic stimulation.

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So if you masturbate and feel bad about it try to remember that masturbation is a simple and safe and best of all healthy form of sexuality and that there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking ourselves in hand, solo or with a lover watching. Releasing sexual animus, not to mention fluid makes the body work better and makes for a more peaceful mind.

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Bondage, sex and erotic love

Friday, May 6th, 2011

Bondage, to put it simply, is the sex and erotic play and pleasure that can come from someone either being restrained or by restraining someone else. But while bondage is a simple concept there are a lot of things that everyone needs to know in order to do it safely and without putting either person at risk. Anytime we restrict or tie down someone or ask to be ourselves, we better be damn sure we are playing with someone we trust!

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One of the most important things to remember about bondage is that it is something that should not be done without some research, classes, reading or hands-on instruction. While there are way of doing bondage that are simple all it takes to seriously hurt someone is for a rope to be tied too tight or have a mouth or nose blocked. Because of this you should never have anything covering the mouth or nose the person being restrained, part of this is to allow the person being restrained to breathe without hindrance but also because it will allow the person being restrained to be able to communicate at all times, which is extremely important. While some people do role playing while they are in bondage for beginner kink lovers it is better not to do such and instead keep communication simple and direct so the person being restrained can simply say if something is too tight or if they are hurting or simply uncomfortable.

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Bondage, too, while it can be done with simple things really does require the use of specially designed equipment as homemade or crude or too-simple equipment can lead to injuries and accidents. Cheap handcuffs, for example, should never be used as they can seriously harm wrists and ankles. Scarves also should never be used as they can knot up and cut off circulation and then be hard to get off. Rope is okay but never tied too tightly. The bottom line, however, is always play safe and cautiously and never take unnecessary risks especially around something that is supposed to be sexy and playful and fun. So if you want to play with bondage read a few books and take a lot of classes and play safe so you can play for a long, long time.

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The Art of Seduction

Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

There are very few things that are certain in life. Death, taxes and free porn are among the few things. People will die, people will be taxed and many people will try to get their hands on as much pornography as they can, even better if it’s free. In the relationship aspect, it’s even better if it helps her achieve orgasm. Fantasy is the key here.

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The reasons vary but ultimately man has an obsession with nudity, sex and acts that combine the two. The internet makes it easier to view pornography for free especially when sites like you porn exist and generate a lot of traffic.

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With high visibility and great search engine optimization, sites like this have the ability to be found very quickly by any user looking for cheap or free content. Sustained by affiliate programs, these sites capitalize on the sheer number of hits a day in hopes that many users will eventually convert, or buy a membership on the affiliate, thus generating revenue for the host site.

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So while people are making a living off free porn, there are a lot of young men and women who still seek guidance but are afraid to ask their friends for fear of embarrassment. So free sex guides.

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The art of free porn also helps fantasies. Women by nature are more than just visual creatures. They seek an overall aural and visual experience in the bedroom that starts with plenty of foreplay Start off with some basic videos viewable at one of the larger tube sites and then move your way into the heavier stuff involving more than one willing participant and both parties are in for a good time.

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It’s Free

Wednesday, April 27th, 2011

There are very few things that are certain in life. Death, taxes and free porn are among the few things. People will die, people will be taxed and many people will try to get their hands on as much pornography as they can, even better if it’s free.

The reasons vary but ultimately man has an obsession with nudity, sex and acts that combine the two. The internet makes it easier to view pornography for free especially when sites like You porn exist and generate a lot of traffic. With high visibility and great search engine optimization, sites like this have the ability to be found very quickly by any user looking for cheap or free content. Sustained by affiliate programs, these sites capitalize on the sheer number of hits a day in hopes that many users will eventually convert, or buy a membership on the affiliate, thus generating revenue for the host site.

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The drive for many people to seek pornography in the first place has a lot to do with society’s taboos and what we’re told we can and cannot see or experience. There is a lot of moral debate about the existence of porn and whether man should lay eyes on the myriad of content available. Everything from generic sex acts to intense fetish porn can be had online. The possibilities from what translates to print expand the market but at a cost, though it may be small.

Guys like seeing tons of free pussy and the free sites as well as the sponsored sites, and pay sites understand this. The fantasy of the average Joe getting in bed with a woman who is not only his ideal fantasy, but ready and willing to strip for him is also a driving force behind the human obsession of pornography. It’s not just limited to men, either. Women enjoy their fair share of gay porn, claiming it as a research need since men do not openly talk about sex with women.

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Roommates

Sunday, April 24th, 2011

Over the long haul any relationship is bound to see some rocky times. Maintaining a love affair, not to mention a sex life is hard for even the horniest of us, not to mention men and women who have seen their partner naked hundreds of times! It is simply impossible to assume we will keep the same level of romance and attentiveness to sex that we had when we first began dating.

For some couples they find intimacies far afield then just the physical. The mature couple builds on the life they have, maybe the family they have nurtured, certainly more than just the physical. Some couples build their sex life from this, others have to introduce porn into their bedroom, while others allow a little swinging from time to time; any long term commitment requires compromise.

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And some couples choose to live like roommates, with the occasion foray into one another’s bedroom when the urge just gets too much. Just because conventional wisdom dictates that partners involved in a love affair must indeed be making love to keep the love affair healthy, doesn’t truly mean all people have to act in lock-step to this edict.

Once we acquiesce to what we will have in our lives with another person-and what we won’t-then we can begin to try and live with the concessions. We might marry someone with no inclining or interest in kink so we will either have to live without, surf on-line fetish sites or find a partner to play with outside of a marriage. Over time our sexual preferences can just as much stay cemented as they can change, our partner will have to contend with this as well if they want to stay with us. Men and women both see their desire for fucking change over the years and simply one partner might stay more libidinous then the other who grows less so.

If a couple can come to a compromise with their sex life, maybe allow some outside dalliances, or agree to a once a month romp in bed, there might be nothing wrong in two people otherwise living like roommates.
Good or bad sex, having it or not-or wanting to have it-is certainly not a good enough reason to call a love affair quits or break-up a family.

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Water & Sex

Saturday, April 16th, 2011

For many a couple the eroticism of water; having sex in it, playing with it, even the buoyancy of how it carries and lifts our bodies, is very intense. The very specific physical nature of floating in water while fucking, naked bodies sliding this way and that in the shower or under a pool, even the coolness or heat felt as certain liquids are tickled across certain body part, truly makes water one of the most sexual of all elements. The cliché couple rolling across a sun-kissed beach while waves splash them, or two people frolicking in a pool matches well to the sloshing sounds of water breaking over its container or the orgasmic crash of waves smashing against a rocky shoal. We are one with water as much from our being as to our sexuality.

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From the steamy surrounds of hot tub sex to masturbating with a shower head, to the deep fetishes of water sports of piss and scat, to the sensation arousal of lighting a bare buttock with a spray of cool water before spanking it, or a woman going down on her man with ice-cubes In her mouth, all the forms of water at all its various temperatures is arousing to lovers, from gay to bi to straight couples. A quick perusal of on-line sites will reveal just as many fetishes and sexual escapades with water as without.

Better in then out though, water presents a host of problems as a lubricant and should not be introduced into the vagina or anus. A woman’s natural wetness is as much washed away by water as a man will find jerking-off in the shower nearly impossible-certainly more abrasive then arousing-if he uses the needle spray as a lubricant. Though we are made up of 70% water and can be mightily aroused by it, sticking to silicone lubes or any other variation of other safe liquids beats water-based lubes every time.

The actual act of making-love in or around water-considering we are clutched close so not much water can come between us-possibly cooling or heating breasts, buttocks or testicles with a nice fast splash or finding romance with the rolling of the sea beyond are all ways water fuels the sexiness in our sex lives.

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Not Alone In Your Kink

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

Once one comes to the conclusion that their pubescent sexual lift-off might lead their rocket on a slightly skewed trajectory, either because of one’s sexual preference or because of some rather naughty fantasies, one pretty much feels alone on their flight. To have a penchant for spanking before even trying it with a lover, or an idea one might like to cross-dress every so often, these needs can stain one a pariah unless one suddenly sees a whole bunch of other people with the same interests.
We’ll all pretty much feel we are the only person with a particular fetish until we are proved otherwise.

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Everyday common variety sex is not a subject friends are so comfortable talking about with one another, add a little spice into the soup, a little perversion here and there or some modicum of kink and we’ll turn-off a lot more people-even close friends and maybe even dates-then we’re ever going to hope to turn-on. Our friends and family simply do not want to be led onto the highways and byways of what’s on our minds, especially if it’s a bit kinky.

But secrets can only stay hidden for so long. Sooner or later as we come to grow in confidence with a lover or spend enough time stewing in our own stew, our desires will will-out. One can try twisting one’s self in knots avoiding homosexuality, or try and not grow aroused by leather or the snap-crackle of a whip, but after a time all men-and women-have to face who they are and what they need to make them complete.

One can find all manner of downloadable porn, about a kink but once we meet people-on-line or off-that might share our fetish, the relief we enjoy is almost as palatable as the arousal we feel. When we can find or even join a community where we can connect with the link-minded, where we can find understanding, where we might even be able to indulge a desire or two then we find a home. We can indulge ourselves completely, protected and safe, and begin to see that what we might need might not be so very abhorrent at all and maybe just this side of normal if there is so many people doing it.

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The Exhibitionist’s Dilemma

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

An exhibitionist has the desire to show off sexually in front of others. A male exhibitionist may get off on whipping out his cock for an unsuspecting person to see, and a female exhibitionist may enjoy going out wearing no underwear so when she spreads her legs, she shows her snatch. Some exhibitionists just want to get their jollies in front of other consenting adults, and that satisfies their show-off needs. For others, the turn-on is in surprising or even shocking someone unsuspecting. In this case, he or she would do well to spend a little time figuring out what level of risk is acceptable in order to pursue this unusual hobby.

One semi-safe way to be an exhibitionist is to take part in sexual acts within one’s own home. The other piece of this mode is common to some other methods as well; acting unsuspecting. This way, the official storyline is that the exhibitionist isn’t aware that anyone could see in. A couple having sex on their couch while the drapes just happen to be open toward the street is a good example of this mode. Someone may walk by and happen to see them, which would be extra exciting. Still, they haven’t targeted anyone in particular to be their viewers. There is some risk of a complaint, but it is probably relatively low.

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The next step would be to take it outside. Again, the exhibitionist could pretend that no one is meant to see. Sitting in a beach chair in one’s semi-secluded backyard and deciding to masturbate, perhaps in semi-darkness, would be a higher level of risk. Still, the sexy adventurer would be on his or her own property, just squeezing one out in ‘private. The excitement might be heightened, but so is the risk of a neighbor’s complaint.

Taking it clearly into the public arena is what some exhibitionists crave. A guy who jacks his dick on a train is there to let someone see what he’s got. The great likelihood is that someone will get a view. This behavior is illegal. Some people would decide that the risk of legal action is not worth it. For others, doing it and getting away with it could be the thrill of a lifetime.

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Shaving Private Ryan

Monday, April 11th, 2011

Oftentimes, certain areas of the body are neglected when it comes to extraneous hair. Shaving a man’s cock or a woman’s pussy is a quick and easy way to add sex appeal.

It requires a delicate hand in both cases, a need to know more about skin care, and adds one more notch on the proverbial bedpost of porn hotness.

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For men, it also gives the illusion of larger cock size. Ridding the body of all that hair may seem like something fit for swimmers and non-heterosexual men, but numerous women complain about pulling pubic hair from their teeth. A lot of men feel the same way. But with men, the illusion is about having a larger cock, and the feel of lips against smooth, freshly shaved skin might just encourage her to deepthroat your manhood.

A smooth pussy encourages a man to explore more with his lips and tongue while fingers feel up the slick, sweet skin around her lips.

To properly remove pubic hair, a good shaving cream with moisturizer is recommended. Lather it on, let it sit for a few minutes, then begin trimming off hair with sharp scissors until you’ve cut as much off as possible. At this point, some folks add more shaving cream and break out an electric razor, but sensitive skin being that it is, this may not be something everyone will want to do.

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In either case, it’s time to break out a sharp, fresh razor. Disposable razors are a no-no. Spend some money on a quality razor and keep fresh blades around. One wants clean, sure blades when one is trimming one’’s most private of areas clean.
For men, an erection makes it easier to keep things out of harm’s way. When the male scrotum draws up, the skin will be easier to shave. Run the blade once over properly moistened skin and rinse it off. No more than one pass per section, as this decreases the chances of irritation via razor burn. Women start with the lower lips than shave the sides. Lastly they can shave the top of the mound.

It takes some time to get used to the new feeling, but satin or lace against bare pussy skin, or guys who go commando feel sexier.

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