The reality of an older man truly bedding a young girl without either breaking his hip or growing so bored with the girl’s actions doesn’t intrude on the porn fantasy. What works in our heads and even on film so seldom does in reality, as we have all seen time and again as we try to marry a fantasy in the clear light of day. A man shouldn’t be damned his need for this little playacting, especially when he knows clear well the women acting so young are not and when he really wouldn’t want a 16 year old in his bed for real!

The daddy fantasy, the school principal punishing the errant student, the coach being seduced by his star player, these and more cliché’s fuel porn as they do fantasy. They are healthy manifestations of the taboo, of enjoying the bloom of youth, of ruminating about that which none of us would really care to have and only want in the realm of heightened porn recreations. As most sane adult men are well aware it’s ever more enjoyable, the connections are deeper and the sex will always be bound to be better if one is intimate with a partner closer to one’s own age.

But porn lifts us, captures us; sometimes even seduces us beyond a healthy range of wanting to have it in our life. It is no wonder our most unusual kinks and maybe slightly perverse, slightly illegal fantasies-if acted upon-should reside in our dirtiest dreams. As long as we know why we want what we want and understand it is all fantasy, then the wanting is perfectly fine.

The problem with any playacting is that it can traipse the bounds of good taste or even simply exhaust the players. Living in the heightened sense of sexual lust kinksters do when playing, sometimes one can work themselves into quite the lather with what they are doing but spin themselves down a rabbit hole of possibilities that restricts more than widens one’s world view. The longer one adopts a character, dresses a part and acts that part, the less possibility for variety there is and the quicker the entire scene can get stale.

Plus, after a while, a grown woman acting like a little girl is simply embarrassing for all involved.

The very thing that fuels a dom over his sub acting like a little girl, and in fact arouses the woman most times to, is that all parties realize that this is a grown woman reduced to or willingly entering the scene acting much younger than her years. This is what role-play is based on after all, us acting different then how we usually act. The differences are certainly arousing watching people morph into a part so completely that they lose themselves, but without realizing who we usually are, without a clear knowledge that everyone in the room realizes is is all playacting, role-play will not work.

After a time we all want the grown woman to stand-up and let her real presence be known. The role-play of the bad little school girl is fine for a finite amount of time, but adult women cooing, flashing their panties and acting naughty to get attention outside of kink play run the risk of being an embarrassment to themselves.
It’s a fine line to skirt when one wears a short school skirt.