Posts Tagged ‘Porn’

Rock Star Fantasies

Wednesday, March 30th, 2011

Some people use the word “starfucker” as if that would be a bad thing. You may or may not have had the opportunity to fuck your favorite rock star, but it isn’t surprising that for a great number of serious fans, entertaining fantasies of their favorite singers can enhance sexual experiences with partners. Women are by far the most intense when it comes to being star struck for a singer, but guys are not without their crushes on the rich and famous, too.

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Desires might run the gamut from wanting to be close to a sensitive artist with immense talent, or to just be a slut and blow a whole grunge rock band backstage. It could be something in between or all of the above. These kinds of porn fantasies lend themselves to good role-playing games. If the partner of a star-struck person is a good sport, many fun games can come about through this avenue. If you’’ve ever wanted to know what it would be like to be a good ol’’ bluesman seducing your beautiful woman, putting on some deep Delta sounds and fucking real slow might be in order! Your lover might get so caught up in the fantasy that your stiff cock will benefit from all of that pent-up energy she’’s been storing up for the sweet and sexy punk musician she has always thought about. If a gang bang is more yours or her scene, you could even invite some friends in, don some tough-boy British accents and you all can have an orgy with The Rolling Stones.

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Glam rockers are also very alluring, as are flannel-shirted grunge types, introspective and cross-gender gay rockers; they are all just as good to fantasize over as any prototypical Elvis or Fabian. The main thing for the fantasizing couple is to let the scene overtake you, use the music of the stars you are emulating and let yourselves go with the wildness of the era.
Couples need to let their imaginations run wild every now and again. Nearly everyone fantasizes, masturbates and can marry the two over a image, song or idea. Leave time for hot talk and space for your fanboy or girl to express what would make the setting perfect to experience lovemaking while the music of choice is on. Kick back and let go.

Infidelity

Tuesday, March 29th, 2011

People in general, but especially husbands, have trouble believing that a woman would cheat on a good man, a loving husband. Truth is, unless men in their affairs are only going after single women or gay men,  they have to be cheating with someone. New studies claim that there is a widespread problem of female infidelity.

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The reasons women give for fucking around include having feelings that something is missing in their lives. They might have all the things that they wanted, including a stud muffin as a husband, but they feel they should be happier. This feeling that they should be happier usually leads to a loss of interest in sex. They go out of their way to avoid going to bed at the same time as their husbands. Fucking their husbands becomes a job that they don’’t like.

Now, any man looking to get his cock into the cunt of an unhappily married woman will find the timing right, because at the
same time the woman is feeling violated by her husband’’s sexual advances,  she is also reawakening her sexual desires for fresh meat. She longs to be seen as sexy and wants to feel that passion she had early on for her husband.

People that have affairs will feel sexier, happier, but for many women these feelings may cause guilt, pain, remorse and a need to justify their actions . Many women are taught to believe that good women do not stray. Only  porn “whores” sleep around. So they may justify their actions by thinking that they have found their soul mate in the person they are cheating with.

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After an affair women may be more verbal about what they want in and out of the bedroom. Sometimes the affair makes the marital bed better, but in most cases it has the woman looking for someone new to start over with.

Men who are cheated on and the women that cheat are usually left with emotional scars. There are many reasons for infidelity, such as boredom, the rush of a new partner, the desire for more sex, to fill an emotional void, or sexual addiction.

More Pleasure For All

Monday, March 28th, 2011

In Western culture, many are raised to believe that pleasure is bad, especially sexual pleasure. The belief is that good feelings and sexual exploration are sinful. In the modern world, this belief has started to change with the rise of sex positive culture, but perhaps a few words on why sex and pleasure are beneficial will help.

It’s obvious that sex is a natural part of the human experience, and everyone comes with a different set of fetishes and desires. If we don’t seek out a healthy sex life, it can be as damaging as trying to go without any of our other most basic needs, leading to depression or at least unhappiness. Who knows how many hide their fantasies –for BDSM, threesomes, sex toys, or anything vanilla or twisted – when they could easily find the object of their desires if they just tried, perhaps on an online dating site.

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The healthy reality is that sex has countless benefits. It releases endorphins, which give pleasure, cause feelings of euphoria, and even relieve pain. The effect of arousal on the mucous membranes of the body can relieve congestion. Many have heard the old phrase “I have a headache;” in actuality the effect of orgasms can relieve headaches. Some studies have even shown that recreational spanking can aid people with chronic pain conditions like arthritis.

Unlike many animals on earth, we use sex and sexual pleasure for procreation as well as social networking. Today’s hookups may be tomorrow’s business contact (or long term partner!). Who knows – stranger things have happened? Sex can bring friends closer together, and create new bonds in your social circle. Instead of worrying about whether you should sleep with sorts of exciting new possibilities for pleasure.

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While most hookups remain just hookups, other things can happen. A threesome can turn into a true triad, or a permanent master/slave relationship, arising from casual playtimes.

So what are you waiting for? Get out there and find someone to spank, kiss, or play out your porn fantasies with! Because dreams do come true.

Finding Our Fetish

Monday, March 28th, 2011

You don’t even have to know exactly what kink your might be interested in to find it , …or, at least, to find fellow kinky people to play with. It used to be that  it was much harder for a woman to find kinky partners; you used to have to walk in to some out of the way big city sex shop, or park out back of those suburban spots always fully lit and right on the edge of a major highway. Inside, if you could ever even hope to catch the eye of patrons who were very much like you, scared of being seen, keeping their heads buried in video tape titles or scanning magazines, maybe you’’d meet someone with your same interest. It was a one-in-a-million chance to find someone who’’d strike up a conversation, let alone someone you might be attracted to. If one was lucky, the most you might hope for was some new exciting masturbatory material, or maybe a few hastily bought fetish papers chuck-full of personal ads that were really only ever pro doms advertising.

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Occasionally one might hear of a club or some party and be happily dragged along in a group, but even then you’’d either find a space too dark and intimidating too feel comfortable standing in, let alone bending over a pommel horse for a good ass-warming.


These days, the net has opened up a wide world of possibilities for the fetish-minded guy or gal. Kinks galore meet us as we click, scan and surf across the web. Even straight Internet dating sites occasionally allow for certain boxes to be filled-out on their on-line profiles that will indicate to those naughty people in the know an alternate sexuality.  There are also social networking sites for kink amassing a cross-section of men and women, bi ,straight, gay and anything in between. There are parties announced regularly on email blast lists and the network of fetish spreads ever wider as more and more people become linked through playing live, emailing, or chatting.

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Kink, like porn, can now be found almost anywhere.

Stocking Fetish

Friday, March 25th, 2011

A secret sexual ache for a thong, a corset, panties and all manner of whatever can show off and cover a woman’’s legs leads many fetishists to develop a stocking fetish.

Nothing says classy like a pair of thigh high stockings on a pair of legs that seem to go on forever. Paired with a thong and matching corset and a woman is sure to feel sexy and give off an amazing amount of sex appeal.

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Stockings come in all different types and flavors. They vary in color, coverage and design. Before the 1590s, stockings were made of woven cloth. The first knitting machines were for making stockings and the stockings themselves were made of cotton, linen wool or silk. In the 1920s, legs covered by stockings were revealed as the dress hemlines rose. These stockings were sheer, first made of silk or rayon (called artificial silk), and after 1940, with nylon. The first pantyhose made an appearance in the 1940s and 1950s, when film and theater productions had stockings sewn to the briefs of actresses and dancers.

Today stockings are commonly made using knitted wool, silk, cotton or nylon. The introduction of pantyhose in 1959 provided a convenient alternative to stockings, and the use of stockings declined dramatically. In 1970, U.S. sales of pantyhose exceeded stockings for the first time, and have remained this way ever since.

But among fetishists, stockings remain popular. The sheer look with leather and lace give an aesthetic many find desirable. This is why there is still so much stocking porn.

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Stockings are held up in one of three ways. With garter belts worn underneath panties (for easier removal of panties), or with stay-up technology, where  silicone bands around the tops are slip resistant. Lastly, plain garters such as the ones seen typically at weddings are used to hold up a woman’s hose. The drawbacks are evident but worth it for many. The first obvious drawback is the need to continue readjusting the belt.

Depending on the tone of a woman’s skin, she may choose to wear fishnet hose, the wider fencenet style or all opaque to give the illusion of mystery. Many prefer thigh highs to full blown pantyhose, though pantyhose offer a better solution during winter weather.

Care of stockings varies as well but most quality pairs are best hand washed in warm water and hang flat to let dry.

Exploring Kinky Threesomes

Thursday, March 24th, 2011

Exploring kinky sex usually starts at home. Sharing a fantasy or trying role play or doing something they saw in a porn with a lover can begin a new level of sexual adventure. Common practices may include light bondage or spanking. Many couples experiment with many types of BDSM scenes, ideas, props and clothes, and it adds excitement to lovemaking.

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Loving couples practice many types of kinky sex together. While exploring new fantasies and desires, many lovers will keep their kinky desires in the bedroom. Sometimes the fantasies may expand. Light role play, the acting out of sexual fantasies, might include the use of props. The privacy of fantasies and the intimate nature of kinky sextumblr_l92g66RlmP1qzkcgao1_500may be enough for lovers. A boyfriend might visit a sex shop for a dildo or a sex toy for nipple play, and bring them home as a special surprise. A girlfriend might buy a new piece of silky lingerie to entice her lover or excite herself. More elaborate costumes, such as a French maid outfits or a pair of leather boots might add spice in the bedroom.
Over time, the couple may express an interest in adding a third person. Fantasizing about a threesome is considered kinky, whether or not bondage or spanking is part of the fantasy. A common threesome fantasy is two women and one man. The man can either be dominant or submissive. If a dominant man, ordering the two women to pleasure each other as a private sex show is fantastic. Especially if, after the women perform for him, they will then take turns sucking him off. If the man is submissive, the two women may tie him to the bed, and take turns sitting on his face or fucking. Being forced to please two women, licking pussy while kneeling and crawling back and forth between two dominant women is another way for a threesome to happen.
A threesome with two men and one woman is a very common fantasy. Cocksucking while having a man fuck her cunt, to feel filled from both ends is exciting. The woman can be dominant or submissive. As a slavegirl she might be tied down and blindfolded, her legs spread. The kinky fantasy of being forced to sexually please multiple men is exciting for many a submissive woman.

Asking for What You Want

Wednesday, March 23rd, 2011

Do you have a special desire that you are afraid to talk about? Do you think that what you would like in your relationship or in the bedroom is just too unconventional for your lover? Are you held back by a general shyness when it comes to emotions and sex? You are not alone. Many people experience these kinds of anxieties. Between taking the time to work on skills to allow you to be more expressive and meeting like-minded people who are a match for what you want out of life, the resources are out there to help you give and receive all you want out of love and life.
If you do believe that your sexual or relationship desires are non-mainstream, it may be a productive idea to seek others who are like-minded as you begin to seek serious partnership. Being with someone who holds similar ideals and who has compatible interests and kinks will prove many times more fruitful.  If you are polyamorous and like to make love outside on a secluded beach, does it make sense to try to forge a relationship with someone who is monogamous and expects to only do it behind closed doors? Those are just basic relationship factors that should be in sync. If you have more exotic tastes like costume play or diapers that even mainstream porn doesn’t always show us, there are groups for you to discover online and elsewhere to help you meet your special someone.

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Do you have a friend you can trust? If so, you may want to consider a role-playing game. It sounds corny at first, but try it. Say you want to tell your boyfriend or girlfriend that you want to try anal sex but you feel nervous. Go over it a few times with the friend you’ve already been confiding in about it. Say it a few different ways. The friend will be able to help you find the way that you think you’’ll be able to express it.
Ultimately, the goal is this: Trust your lover. Being in a relationship means existing together in a consciousness of love and trust. The ideal is to honor each other and all of your wants and needs. If it’s love, you will weather exploration and newness together.

Female Fetish

Wednesday, March 23rd, 2011

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Women, not just men, can have fetishes to. Some are medical-related fetishes, some are centered around clothes-though female fetishists don’t exactly mirror their male counterparts in getting wet for men in construction boots; while a guy might like to jerk-off to women in porn-ish high heels, some women simply grow aroused over objects that were linked to their budding sexuality. Even before she was fully aware of her libido, a woman might have tripped across some sort of sensual awareness linked to an object or activity, something not sexual at all, and, as is the case for all fetishes, one was created subconsciously. From that day onward, the women experienced sexual excitement over that object, stimulated in ways her waking mind was not even aware of. But the link colored her sexuality all the same.
Unlike male fetishists, women can easily take to complete dressing-up as a manifestation of their fetish. Both straight and gay ladies have been known to dress butch, as much as femmes enjoy the trappings of both modes of dress, to the point where it becomes their fetish, paralleling male transvestite’s fetishism for dressing in women’s clothing. Binding oneself in a corset and even inflicting self-cutting is seen as another form of female fetishism, with the latter being a most extreme case.

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And when a fetish does get extreme, or a woman cannot function without it, then therapy might be needed. An indulgent lover is one thing, amassing a big shoe collection another, but once a fetish becomes impossible for a woman to handle, then it might be time to put all the dressing-up and leather stroking into some sort of workable perspective.

Moving in Together

Monday, March 21st, 2011

So the work has been done: – online dating websites were joined and a million e-mails were sent.  Now, hundreds of false starts and bad dates later, two people have finally clicked and found each other and have forged a very successful romantic relationship. The next obvious step is moving in together, and both are ready to take the plunge.

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Moving in together can sometimes be a challenge for heterosexual couples because men and women really are from different planets. There are a lot of things that men and women don’t see eye –to-eye on, and often it’’s difficult to explain things to each other because the opposite gender always seems to not really get the explanation. For instance, men don’t really understand the whole concept of decorative towels that cannot be used. Towels are towels and they’re meant to dry off after washing. It seems silly to hang up towels that cannot be used, especially when they’’re hung on the most convenient rack in the entire bathroom. To men, this makes no sense. On the other hand, women do not usually understand exactly how a collection of baseball caps or Budweiser decorative beer steins could constitute appropriate decoration for the living room. To women, these are casual items and not the appropriate knick-knacks and decorative items for a living room. The family room or bar area, maybe, but the living room tends to be kind of sacred to most women. She might have said they were cute when she visited your place, guys, but either she didn’t mean it or the thinly veiled sarcasm was not noticed due to your extreme desire to make porn with her. Bottom line is, she’s not going to want them in the new, shared living room.

It’’s really not worth it to fight over silly things like this. Find a happy compromise and don’t ruin the excitement of moving in together and starting a new chapter in this relationship. Focus on having romance and awesome sex and building a life together. Make love, not war! There will be plenty of other growing pains as two people begin to blend their lives, and some much more important than silly decorating disputes. The important thing to do is to remember that falling in love brought things to this point, and it should be a happy time to be celebrated.

Life Changing Technology

Monday, March 21st, 2011

The internet and all of our modern technology have really changed people’s lives significantly. The internet provides an incredible resource for people to find information on nearly any topic they could possible imagine, and technology provides it to us quickly, wirelessly and while we are on the go. Ten years ago many people could not have imagined using their telephone to access limitless amounts of information while in their car or walking through a park.

Some of the most significant changes that the internet has made in our lives is how we meet people and date, and how we get our porn. Internet dating has become commonplace at this point, so has free porn. Online datinghot-nude-modelswebsites offer opportunities to meet people we would never come in contact with in real life. People have romantic relationships with other people who are in other states, across the country and sometimes even the other side of the world. The internet has allowed people to get to know each other and form strong bonds of friendship and even love without having ever met in person. The technology available allows us to communicate instantly and at an incredibly low cost with instant messaging and Skype, and most cell phone packages offer free long distance within one’’s home country.

Another huge difference the internet has made is the availability of sexual information and pornography. If there is a kink or fetish a person is curious about, it’s safe and easy to look it up on the computer. People can even find photos and videos for any kink that their interested in so they can actually see whatever it is without having to sneak off to some dark, secret sex club to see whatever it is that they’re interested in. Before the internet, that was often the only viable option for finding out more about kinky sex, and quite often the place didn’t seem safe or clean. Women who were kinky had few options for safe venues in which they could explore their sexuality and curiosity. With the secret clubs of the past, people were often put off a bit by the neighborhoods these places were in, and a lot of people didn’t feel safe. For newcomers, it must have been a particularly nerve-wracking experience to go to some of these places, especially as a single.