Conventional thought would have us believe that all women need extended foreplay — at least 30 minutes’ worth — to get anywhere near an orgasm, which may be one reason why quickies aren’t embraced more. The thinking goes that women, on average, take a lot longer to get in the mood and a lot longer to reach orgasm than men.

This isn’t actually true. Just ask any woman who masturbates on a regular basis and she’ll probably tell you that she can climax in a few minutes on her own.

Studies have now proven that during masturbation, men take an average of two to three minutes to reach orgasm, and women are right behind them at just under four minutes. That means a quickie isn’t such a bad thing after all.

Now that we know that your woman’s orgasm isn’t going to be compromised by a fast fuck, now you just have to figure out how to do it right. First is the location.

Sometimes things end up happening on the job. If you’re a chef and you’ve got a horny blond waitress on your hands, your options can be slightly limited.

Always go for a place with ample surface space. Closets aren’t good because there’s too many opportunities for hitting your funny bone.

Sex in the car is another great location, see for yourself and watch a chick get banged on a bus in this Orgasm.com video. As long as you’re parked in a dark area, like a bowling alley parking lot or a farm use driveway on a rarely used road, you shouldn’t have any disturbances.

Just remember to keep a hand towel or tissues in the car for easy clean up.

Now, for initiating your quickie sex: First, get your girl. Then pick your location. For simplicity’s sake, we’ll go with outdoor sex.

Then put her at ease with a good make out session. This is the kind of situation where pushing her up against a wall gently will turn her on.

If she is a more sensitive type, then just kiss her passionately for a few minutes and tell her how sexy she is. Make sure that any dirty talk you give her is flattering to her.

After she’s begun to respond to you, start going under her clothing. Pull up her shirt, push down her jeans or up her skirt, get her sexy parts exposed!

It’s time to pull out your cock and ask her to kiss you “down there”. Do not just push her head toward your crotch, that will dry up her pussy and piss her off.

Instead, ask sweetly if she’ll rap her sexy mouth around your lonely dick. Asking is good and making it seem like she’s doing you a favor is always a great way to have her feel comfortable.

Let her warm you up a bit, then lick your fingers and rub her pussy, getting her nice and wet. Whisper that you don’t have much time, but that you want her SO BAD. Next pull one oher legs up and start fucking her.

Get her in different positions. If you’re outside, have her standing, leaning up against something, pick her up and pound her like she’s a wash cloth and you want to get your cock sparkling clean!

Obviously some quickies are better than others. They are a great way to relieve tension before a dinner party, after a drunken night of partying or even on a coffee break at work. As long as you’re willing to do the work, quickie sex will work out for both your and your fuck buddy.

Good luck with all your sexual adventures and remember to come to orgasm.com for all of your free porn and sex advice needs.

]]> 0 http://www.orgasm.com/free-porn-blog/2011/05/10/group-sex-beltane/ http://www.orgasm.com/free-porn-blog/2011/05/10/group-sex-beltane/#comments Tue, 10 May 2011 14:31:16 +0000 James McClure http://www.orgasm.com/free-porn-blog/?p=3921 Beltane, which happened on May 1st, is a major fertility festival that celebrates the greening of the land, the coming of summer weather, and the metaphysical union of the Goddess and the God. It is a holiday that is both deeply spiritually resonant and wonderfully festive. In sacred circle, people often wear flowers and crowns of green branches and leaves to celebrate the potentiality of all that grows. It is a time to continue to nurture the growth of creative projects. If a couple is seeking to get pregnant, Beltane is traditionally a very good time to start trying.

The imagery of the abundant earth and of fertility in all its senses leads handily to the tradition of couples going off and making love in the fields. Outdoor sex was said to help the growth of the crops. Who’s to say that a little extra positive energy swirling out there isn’t a good thing? Energetically speaking, sex outdoors in nature combined with intentions set can indeed help build momentum toward the conception or growth of an endeavor for the season.

Two people running off to fuck in the meadow or sneaking off from the balefire to do it are common Beltane images. Group sex can also be a part of the picture. Pagan traditions vary, and very traditional groups that focus on male-female relationships and pairings may not take part. However, people celebrate sexuality in various ways, and on a whole, Pagans are among religious groups who are most welcoming to differences. As long as the energies remain spiritually connected, many Pagans would feel perfectly fine about people celebrating Beltane in whatever way feels organic and best.

Beltane rituals tend to consider the union of the masculine and feminine energies, or more broadly, the bringing together of those seeming opposites; such as earth and sky or immanent and transcendent; to make a complete whole. If a group were to get together for Beltane, each person may want to consider which energy, such as receptive v. active, they will most likely channel. So as the traditional symbolic blade is to the chalice, the ready cocks, hands, or dildos will be to the receptive pussies or other orifices in the group. Beltane sex is as earthy as it is holy.

What is it about outdoor sex? There is something natural and primal which is naturally attractive to everyone involved. It is the way our ancestors probably fucked of course, but more than that we love the idea of being just like animals in heat, having rough, unrestrained passion without 4 walls around us. Of course, outdoor sex is especially appealing to the voyeurs or the exhibitionist who hopes to catch a glimpse of others making the beast with two backs or perhaps be seen themselves giving oral sex — performing fellatio outside while a crowd watches as their head bobs on their lover’s hard cock in that abandoned phone booth is the kind of fantasy that would fill one’s inbox on almost any adult dating website.

Before having sex outside one should make some plans and take some precautions. This kind of behavior might be illegal where you live so we encourage one to research this first before one takes any steps that might put one at risk; although the risk of getting caught is indeed some of the thrill. One of the simplest and safest forms of outdoor sex is sex inside tents. One can pitch one’s tent (so to speak!) at a campground, or a camping festival or other public outdoor tent gathering. Think about it — a tent provides a little illusion of privacy while also revealing every sound from moans to rustling sheets to wet sounds of cock in cunt, or fingers in a slick lubed asshole, or wet slurping mouths performing cunnilingus. Much is also visible to those who would watch, especially if the tent is backlit by a camping lantern creating sexy shapes on the walls for all to see and enjoy. Sex in tents can actually be more feasible than other scenarios, with less bugs and sun exposure than sex on the beach or in the open air.