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Beltane, which happened on May 1st, is a major fertility festival that celebrates the greening of the land, the coming of summer weather, and the metaphysical union of the Goddess and the God. It is a holiday that is both deeply spiritually resonant and wonderfully festive. In sacred circle, people often wear flowers and crowns of green branches and leaves to celebrate the potentiality of all that grows. It is a time to continue to nurture the growth of creative projects. If a couple is seeking to get pregnant, Beltane is traditionally a very good time to start trying.
The imagery of the abundant earth and of fertility in all its senses leads handily to the tradition of couples going off and making love in the fields. Outdoor sex was said to help the growth of the crops. Who’s to say that a little extra positive energy swirling out there isn’t a good thing? Energetically speaking, sex outdoors in nature combined with intentions set can indeed help build momentum toward the conception or growth of an endeavor for the season.
Two people running off to fuck in the meadow or sneaking off from the balefire to do it are common Beltane images. Group sex can also be a part of the picture. Pagan traditions vary, and very traditional groups that focus on male-female relationships and pairings may not take part. However, people celebrate sexuality in various ways, and on a whole, Pagans are among religious groups who are most welcoming to differences. As long as the energies remain spiritually connected, many Pagans would feel perfectly fine about people celebrating Beltane in whatever way feels organic and best.
Beltane rituals tend to consider the union of the masculine and feminine energies, or more broadly, the bringing together of those seeming opposites; such as earth and sky or immanent and transcendent; to make a complete whole. If a group were to get together for Beltane, each person may want to consider which energy, such as receptive v. active, they will most likely channel. So as the traditional symbolic blade is to the chalice, the ready cocks, hands, or dildos will be to the receptive pussies or other orifices in the group. Beltane sex is as earthy as it is holy.
Sex outside, in the open air, under a big sky, is a potent turn on for many people. Outdoor sex even features in a lot of pornography, where the hot model or fucking couple are taken to a park, a beautiful forest or flower-filled field or just a pretty pool side patio for the act of coitus and fucking and foreplay or just showing off those sexy curves and tight muscular asses.
What is it about outdoor sex? There is something natural and primal which is naturally attractive to everyone involved. It is the way our ancestors probably fucked of course, but more than that we love the idea of being just like animals in heat, having rough, unrestrained passion without 4 walls around us. Of course, outdoor sex is especially appealing to the voyeurs or the exhibitionist who hopes to catch a glimpse of others making the beast with two backs or perhaps be seen themselves giving oral sex — performing fellatio outside while a crowd watches as their head bobs on their lover’s hard cock in that abandoned phone booth is the kind of fantasy that would fill one’s inbox on almost any adult dating website.
Before having sex outside one should make some plans and take some precautions. This kind of behavior might be illegal where you live so we encourage one to research this first before one takes any steps that might put one at risk; although the risk of getting caught is indeed some of the thrill. One of the simplest and safest forms of outdoor sex is sex inside tents. One can pitch one’s tent (so to speak!) at a campground, or a camping festival or other public outdoor tent gathering. Think about it — a tent provides a little illusion of privacy while also revealing every sound from moans to rustling sheets to wet sounds of cock in cunt, or fingers in a slick lubed asshole, or wet slurping mouths performing cunnilingus. Much is also visible to those who would watch, especially if the tent is backlit by a camping lantern creating sexy shapes on the walls for all to see and enjoy. Sex in tents can actually be more feasible than other scenarios, with less bugs and sun exposure than sex on the beach or in the open air.
