Any outdoor space that will host sex party action should be carefully secured as not to upset any neighbors. Permanent or temporary fencing is an option, as is allowing what foliage there is to grow up and become a natural barrier. Oftentimes as much natural coverage as can be achieved is desirable since part of the appeal is to be out in nature. That said, there should also be some light canopies or something similar to provide protection from the sun or any precipitation.

Though it is possible to have a great outdoor orgy with nothing but some blankets, the sunshine, and a nice backyard, a pool and a hot tub is a serious bonus. Just as people who seek out hotel rooms with Jacuzzis, just as many sexual adventurers would want to do it in and around water in a group setting. There is something amazing about finding a woman with a great set of tits or a guy with a good, stiff dick in the pool, kissing and fondling, then heading out to a mattress or blanket to fuck hardcore to hearts’ content. Some may even get into it so much that a strong-fisted hand job leaves a little DNA behind in the hot tub. If there are no house rules against it, it’s fair game.

Fucking in a group can be a truly amazing experience outside. The breeze is caressing wet bodies as they tumble. Fingers find their pleasure spots and tongues lick new and old lovers to orgasm. It is as if the whole glorious scene is blessed by mother nature, just as all creatures do it freely outdoors for other creatures to see. We humans have the benefit of condoms, personal lubrication, and sex toys. Other than those wonderful sex aids, it is an outdoor party hearkening to basic nature. People desire each other to give and receive pleasure. Why not go natural?

We all walk around with our personal little miracle of joy. Orgasms are good for your heart, they are the natural enemies of depression and fill you with contentment instantly. It is a joy that can even be shared between friends. Best of all the coming, heart rate amping-up, shaking and sweating have no ill side effects at all. There has been allotting of pressure in the past to prove that there is. Happy to say it is all bunk. As late the nineteen fifties where we were being fed the foolishness that if a man spent too much quality alone time his life was getting shorter by years each time he indulged. And women were told that petting the precious pearl of pleasure at all would make them hysterical and eventually lead to madness. The last medically preformed removal in the United Stated was performed on a woman in the late 1940’s. In the not so distant past people where told pleasuring themselves could lead to physical and emotional ruin by doctors not just family members or church leaders.

Well the good news is that it is just not true. The facts show just the opposite in fact so feel free. Reduce stress; get a little cardio, and just plain feel good. Try making a date with yourself some time. Slip into a hot bath full of silky bubbles or stretched out in bed with your favorite sex video. If you are with your lover and just to whipped to have sex you can always offer to hold them and say sweet, hot things to them while they pleasure themselves. Here is a hint, pay close attention to how they touch themselves. You will learn allot I promise. Listen to your body give it what it asks for. If you care enough for yourself to cut back on red meat and go for more walks take the time in the evening to give yourself pleasure just the way you like it. You will cut back on the sleeping pills and wake up with a smile.

It’s obvious that sex is a natural part of the human experience, and everyone comes with a different set of fetishes and desires. If we don’t seek out a healthy sex life, it can be as damaging as trying to go without any of our other most basic needs, leading to depression or at least unhappiness. Who knows how many hide their fantasies –for BDSM, threesomes, sex toys, or anything vanilla or twisted – when they could easily find the object of their desires if they just tried, perhaps on an online dating site.

The healthy reality is that sex has countless benefits. It releases endorphins, which give pleasure, cause feelings of euphoria, and even relieve pain. The effect of arousal on the mucous membranes of the body can relieve congestion. Many have heard the old phrase “I have a headache;” in actuality the effect of orgasms can relieve headaches. Some studies have even shown that recreational spanking can aid people with chronic pain conditions like arthritis.

Unlike many animals on earth, we use sex and sexual pleasure for procreation as well as social networking. Today’s hookups may be tomorrow’s business contact (or long term partner!). Who knows – stranger things have happened? Sex can bring friends closer together, and create new bonds in your social circle. Instead of worrying about whether you should sleep with sorts of exciting new possibilities for pleasure.

While most hookups remain just hookups, other things can happen. A threesome can turn into a true triad, or a permanent master/slave relationship, arising from casual playtimes.

So what are you waiting for? Get out there and find someone to spank, kiss, or play out your porn fantasies with! Because dreams do come true.

There is certainly a different intent and therefore a different approach to the basics of punishment for a lesson and punishment as foreplay. Any well-seasoned kinky couple or player  or BDSM porn watcher knows how to elongate a potential scene, how the set-up the room, spell out the transgression, make sure all of the specific accoutrements of what is about to happen are detailed. Whereas for an erotic scene, specifics maybe be a bit more hazy.
In a setting of pure punishment, there should be no deviation from the rules. In an erotic setting, the very fact that the domme does deviate is what adds sexual excitement. In a punishment setting, a full answer to one’’s bad behavior must be delivered, in the case of the erotic time, a couple might not even get to the actual punishment.

Both scenes require attention to detail, but one requires a specific cause and effect, a reciting of what is going to happen and then execution of the plan from what has been promised, but in an erotic setting there is more wiggle room. In a punishment setting, wiggle room and dom deviating from his or her course or plan reveals a weak dom.
Lastly, and most importantly, orgasms are not allowed in the punishment setting and if a sub happens to cum during their punishment scene they need to be chastised or punished more for it. In an erotic scene, orgasms can be denied, edge play can be brought in to the play and be used as a punishment as much as anything else, but in the end ,orgasm for both parties is what is usually sought.

Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant one’s fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.

There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas.  You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.

In thinking about married people having sex and daily orgasms, I decided to break down a few tips and tricks on how to handle the art of in & out when children and old age are concerned. After all, your college dorm days are far from over my friends.

Communicate Effectively – If you and your partner find yourself with a dwindling sex life, consider your current communication methods. One of the best ways to keep your sex life – well, alive – is to be verbal about your preference in the sack. If you liked to be touched in a certain spot or try a new position, then by all means, let your significant-other know. Only then will you be able to be in the same page.

Give To Receive – One of the biggest complaints amongst married couples is the lack of appreciation between husband and wife (or husband & husband, wife & wife…whatever floats your boat). If you think that your love life is no longer what it used to be, consider showing your partner some appreciation, even if only for their seemingly small, everyday tasks. You’ll be surprised to see how easy it will be to get some cunnilingus or daily blow jobs after a few tokens of appreciation.

Try Someplace New – A big part of what makes porn so exciting is the fact that it can happen anywhere, at anytime. Just ask the pizza delivery man. If you’re looking to add some of that spontaneity to your own love life, try following suit and opting for less-than-traditional boning spots. The shower and dining room table are great options. Just be 100% positive that your kids are not around – or won’t show up mid-act and be scared for life.

I’m sure that most of you are thinking the same thing. If you’ve never tried it and have only had the pleasure of watching it on free porn, then I suggest that you hop on this band wagon, because it is an experience you never forget, even though you wont be able to see anything.

However, what if you were having a one night stand and you suggested that your partner blind fold you. Most people would find this a little awkward because during your one and only time together you would think that you would want to be coherent and have all your senses working.

Well, what if you had no choice? What if every time you had sex and climaxed your sense of sight was automatically shut down and you were blinded? For one man, this is just the case.

In one of the most peculiar medical incidents ever reported in the history of man, a man loses his sight every time he orgasms during sex.

Even weirder, no other strenuous activity or exercise brought about the blindness -apparently only sex. And you thought blind dates were awkward!

A report that was recently released from the Department of Ophthalmology at Glostrup Hospital revealed that the cause of the condition is from vasoconstriction.

That’s when the muscle walls contract around a blood vessel and restricts the blood flow. It’s the same condition that causes erectile dysfunction. The guy is being treated with drugs that will widen his blood vessels.

So, next time you want to be blindfolded during sex, take into consideration this guy and pay some form of respect to him because he has no choice but to be blinded during sex. Sure, it sounds like fun, but I’m sure it would get old very quick.

1. Focus On The Energy – Aim towards creating a ‘love corner’ in every major room in your house. In order to create an intimate environment, avoid placing any computers, exersize equipment or books in that spot. Those tend to encourage solitary actions and won’t get you in the mood for play. Instead, place two matching objects in full display (candles or matching art pieces), which will indicate that your designated corner is a place for love.

2. Work With Your Partner - When setting up your love nest, be sure to make it a reflection of not only you, but your partner as well. Focusing too much on your likes while ignoring your significant-other’s point of view won’t make them any more inclined to getting down and dirty. And remember, a clean and tidy environment is always more welcome that a messy room. The later is nothing short of a turn off.

3. Use Sex As Your Inspiration – When decorating for love-making purposes, it’s crucial to have sex on the mind. Think sexy, lusting thoughts and consider chaise lounge chairs, luscious fabrics (silk, cashmere etc.) and of course, leather. A nice, modern shag rug is also a great option for those who are bored of the bedroom.

4. Lighting Is Everything – One of the best ways to set the mood is through appropriate lighting. Place emphasis on inviting spots such as a couch or lounge chair and be sure to keep it dim. Bright lights don’t necessarily scream “do me now”. Instead, focus on candles, lamps and wall lighting. Orgasms will be sure to follow.

“Hmmm,” the tall older woman hummed while flipping the pages slowly. When she was finished she closed the folder, removed her reading glasses, leaned back in her chair and asked: “Why do you want to work for Mr. Valentine, Miss Turner?”

Gwen had experienced enough job interviews to know she couldn’t bullshit April Alden. Every woman in LA wanted to work for Hal Valentine and quite a few did. Gwen knew the money was good and she had heard the stories…both of which she wanted to experience first hand.

“For the money ma’am,” she replied. “Mostly.”

“A reasonable answer,” replied Miss Alden, “and by the way you smile when you say ‘mostly’ I assume you know about the ‘duties’, Mr. Valentine expects his girls to perform?”

“Well, yes ma’am, I’ve heard.”

“Let’s give you a try then,” Miss Alden said standing. Gwen followed the woman into the spacious house.

“This is as far as clothes are allowed,” the tall lady said. “When you’re naked and ready, go join the others out back.”

Five minutes later Gwen walked out to a low big pool, a sparkling blue and vanilla colored back patio, and seven women-all bustier, lankier and more beautiful then the next-strewn about on low cloth lounge chairs, naked as she was. She took one of the empty chairs at the eastern edge of the group, the girls smiled and said hello, then she turned to see Hal Valentine himself hopping out of the water.

The handsome man was naked to, his thick cock twitching with each glance across his bevy and within a few minutes he was fully aroused. He stood up and paced in front of the women; Gwen had heard the term “alpha male” but never until this very minute did she understand its significance. Standing in front of her was one of the richest men in the world and she felt her pussy lips pulsating with the complete knowledge that she’d just about do anything the man asked. She reached down and began to tickle a finger through her hairy pussy, trying desperately to gain Hal’s attention, almost not aware she was doing so. When she glanced over at the other girls, she was surprised to find that each and everyone of them was finger fucking herself in the hope of impressing the boss.

With a motion of his hand, Hal indicated for a buxom blonde girl to get to her feet. Though she should have been, Gwen really wasn’t surprised when the pretty blonde walked from Hal, got on her knees on Gwen’s lounge chair then slid over Gwen’s belly up to her own sweaty big boobs. As with all of the girls here, the blonde was as hairy as Gwen and the two girls tried to maneuver their muffs so that their clits made quick contact. Moaning into position as Hal and the other girls watched, Gwen made sure she was right on target with her clit to the other girl’s, as the two women spread and ‘met’ violently. Hal looked down and began to jerk off over a real busty brunette who had dipped back her head and opened her mouth to take his hot come when he rained it down over her. Gwen and the blonde stiffened their sweet little pussies flooding and crying out in shared shattering orgasms.

Later that evening, while resting in her room, Gwen heard a knock on the door. When she opened it, April was standing there with a bouquet of flowers.

“From the boss, he was very impressed,” the woman said and

Gwen took the flowers.

“Please thank Mr. Valentine and tell him; I want the job,” she said smiling.

1. Trojan – Perhaps best known for their “Magnum” size, Trojan is now offering other varieties that are sure to keep things interesting in the bedroom. Their new Fire and Ice condoms come with a lubricant that actually adjusts to a variety of different body temperatures. Since the lubricant is located on both sides of the condom, the “tingling sensation” can be felt by both partners. Talk about a win-win situation.

2. Durex – One of Durex’s selling features are it’s deliciously flavored lubricants. So if blow job’s are your thing, the cherry and tropical flavors will be sure to delight your senses. Durex’s Sensi-thin condoms are another great option. Boasting the title of the “thinest condoms on the market”, these rubbers are still just as sturdy as their counterparts. Their Pleasuremax condoms are also great for women, due to their strategically placed ribs and ‘pleasure dots’ – which enhances the pleasure of both partners.

3. Life Styles – Lifestyle condoms have taken the cake in the sensitivity department. Their Skyn rubbers are made of polyisoprene (as opposed to latex) – which better contours the penis and features a similar coloring to the real thing. Though this is not exactly condom-related, the company also markets a so called ‘vibrating ring’, which wraps around the base of the penis ensuring heightened orgasms for the ladies.