Posts Tagged ‘orgasm’
Wednesday, March 30th, 2011
Beyond the obvious physical sensation of feeling another person touch our skin, investing time, energy and maybe even some band-aids into a real-life kink scene, the question of, is real life play better then on-line, isn’t so easily answered.
First, there are the disadvantages to weigh. The minute we let another person into our sexual world, even briefly and even with specific rules and regulations, we welcome the thin veneer lifted from our fantasy and the possibility of how we think we want things to go and how they actually do proceed while another person acts through our kink with us. Sometimes the unknown works in our favor, another person’s style can add unimagined richness to a scene –
just their speech and temper can invest a meeting with nuances we have heretofore never imagined. But there are also the needs of our partner to consider and since so much of a fetish is in one’s head, so much of a what a kinky person has envisioned has been in the pristine environs of one’s imagined world, where everything happens like clockwork. Seldom do we really think about another person’s need when we are playing on line, but the second we let a play partner in, no matter how attractive they are or how adept they boast, the simple act of seeing their hopes, dreams, habits and quirks alive before us can become problematic.
Then there is the worry, as every dating couple finds, of one person coming to want the other more. The advantages of a real life play partner are many as well. Finally, one can engage kinks that need another person, not just masturbating to some fetish object or porn stash we keep hidden. For certain types of play another person is wholly necessary and better executed with a real life human being – it’s rather hard to spank oneself effectively! Hearing someone else’s reaction in real time, seeing someone’s body undulate or shifting ours to reasoned tickles, touches, swats or suggestion, coaxing an orgasm or feeling one forced from us, all because another person is standing in the room with us is quite a heady thing to people who might only ever play on-line.
What one needs to determine is if the possible good will out weigh the possible bad – if the off-putting speech, smells and wants won’t completely put off the activities both people want to engage in, and if at the end of the day will both partners enjoy their scene better in person then on-line.
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Thursday, March 24th, 2011
The moments after sex can be a really great time to set yoruself up for an even better time later. If couples take the time to really get close and talk to one another about their sexual fantasies , before, during, but mostly after, sex and pay attention, they might just have the best sexual opportunity they have ever had. Why wait and let the moment go to waste when lovers can put in the effort now for a greater time later?
Couples can really get into a great discussion about what one liked and didn’t like so much about the encounter, go back over points, even share a giggle or two over missed opportunities and foreplay that fell short. When partners talk about how a cock was sucked or how a pussy was licked, they might discover what they can do better the next time. Considering everything a learning experience and a chance to improve your game only makes you better at the game. Not only will the couple be investing in a good opportunity for sex, they will also send a clear message to one another that they truly care about their intimacy and the sex life they are building.
If two people truly listen, allow a give and take, and establish great communication, nothing can go wrong. Any doubts or even slight problems are easily overcome as any recriminations, suspicions and assumptions are discussed in the full light of confession. The lovers will definitely put themselves ahead of the game and assure an even better orgasm the next time they make love. It is a perfect time to really get those good questions out there that might not have been asked or touched upon before.
We all want to please a partner and be pleased back; in the end, we’d all like even better sex than we are already having, even if the sex we are already having is wonderful. There are always more things to know about a lover, more avenues to explore, even kinks to talk over and try. What better time to even consider your next time in bed then when your are still in bed? The warmth of a good orgasm, the calm that descends on both parties, and the openness we feel sharing our sexuality with another human being, can only lead to an honest exploration of the future.
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Thursday, March 17th, 2011
Sex on the run can have a lot of entertainment value, and can bring people closer by virtue of experiencing something fun and possibly extra naughty and risky together. Sometimes just the opposite experience is in order, however. Protracted, slow-moving lovemaking that takes all day can be a beautiful thing.
It is hard for some to imagine sex without a goal in mind. According to the way many or even most Westerners have learned to have sex, the idea is to get to orgasm as fast as possible. For others, it is to cum as much as possible, or even to conceive a child. Those interested in Tantric sex aim to unite the Divine Masculine with the Divine Feminine to deepen spiritual consciousness and connection. It is a different experience entirely to approach the sexual experience without expectation.
To experience sex in this way, try it on an evening where your schedule is entirely clear. If there is to be no agenda for the sex, there also shouldn’t be an impending deadline or activity needed in another arena of life. Try drawing a hot bath and relaxing. This could be done with your lover or each separately, meeting each other after both have relaxed well and released all outside worries. Once together, choose a fragrant oil and massage each other deeply. Pay close attention to all parts of the body: feet, hands, shoulders, back, belly, and the rest. Too often, erotic touch focuses only on the tits, ass, and genitals. Touch those places as you may, but in conjunction with the rest of the body.
Then, simply allow the massage to merge into more. A gentle touch on the lower back becomes an embrace around the belly, becomes hands moving slowly down to the penis. As he becomes fully erect and she gets more excited, allow kisses to progress to kissing and sucking on those special places. More massage will be sexier, as slow-burning love intensifies. When it is time for entry, both will know and the orgasm that follows is sure to be amazing.
Fucking in any position is fine, but the first sex position should allow for full eye contact. Look into each other’s eyes, come together only when that energy arises all on its own after long, slow motions.
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Monday, March 7th, 2011
What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be even more than they anticipated.
Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when youre horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.
Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.
Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.
Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.
In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.
This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.
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Monday, February 28th, 2011
For some straight men, there is a big stigma against having their ass played with in any way. Fingering, and certainly no sex toys are allowed in there! Too bad for them that they are missing out on a wonderful life pleasure. There is hope, however, for the hopelessly straight man who is at least willing to try to allow his girlfriend to explore beyond the penis. And if he thinks it is too weird, just boot up some porn that will show him how awesome it can be!
One of the best ways for a woman to first approach stimulating a guy’s asshole is to begin while there is other intense pleasure happening for him. She might take his succulent cock head into her mouth. While she is sucking him, she might take the personal lubricant from the nightstand and begin to rub some gently around the outside of his anus. Make sure he is still distracted by the free porn at this point.
She can keep sucking, and while he is in the throes of pleasure, insert one finger slowly. No need to pound hard or do too much at all. He might be taken aback at first, but he is also likely to flow with how good that finger feels inside him while he is getting a blow job. Once he gets acclimated, she can move her finger gently to discover the best subtle motions that will stimulate his prostate (P-spot).
If he has never had an anal experience, he might thank her later.
A not-too- big vibrator might be another way to begin for the more adventurous man. Quite a number of guys are curious about what it must feel like to get fucked with a vibrator because they see porno clips of women loving it, or their girlfriends hitting their orgasm with the sensation. Stroking his cock and balls while introducing the lubed-up vibrator to his ass would be a good way to go. It is generally fun to insert it while it is off then turn on the vibrations and watch him jump with startled ecstasy.
Butt plugs and anal beads: These might be best for once he is familiar with the backdoor route. Often, inserting the number of anal beads you like inside you by yourself is a good thing to do, followed by sexual activity with the partner. Once a guy discovers these pleasures, he may fuck himself silly with a butt plug while his cock is inside his favorite pussy.
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Monday, February 28th, 2011
One easy way for people to spice up their sex life is to try some new positions that they’ve never tried or haven’t done in a very long time. Different sexual positions offer different sensations and stimulation, and sometimes that’s especially true for women. For example, when a woman is on top she can control the speed and depth of penetration, and she can make sure she gets constant clit stimulation which will help most women achieve orgasm.
For men, sometimes it’s the depth that gives them the most added stimulation, so positions that will enable deeper penetration will be very pleasing. When in the missionary position, if the man raises the woman’s legs up towards her chest, it opens up and elongates her vaginal cavity, allowing the man the access to achieve much deeper penetration than standard missionary position where the woman has her feet on the bed and her legs spread. A minor adjustment like that one can transform a good position into a great position. Rear entry positions are also good for deeper penetration, especially if the lady is lying face down with her backside raised. Lying over a stack of pillows is great for this position. If the lady puts her arms back, the gentleman can spread her legs wide apart with his knees and hold onto her arms or wrists as he thrusts and he’ll get wonderfully deep penetration.
Side-by-side positions can be a lot of fun because they leave both people’s hands free, allowing them both to stimulate other parts of each other’s bodies. Certain positions will leave the lady’s hands free, allowing her to play with the man’s balls or insert a finger into his ass. A man with free hands can provide extra clit stimulation.
If you’re stuck for positions, an easy way to get ideas is from booting up some sweet ass porn. Incorporate what you see into your routine. But don’t try anything too outrageous off the bat – work up to the pile driver.
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Wednesday, February 23rd, 2011
One of the more taboo aspects of sexual intercourse involves the art of analingus, commonly seen in free porn. It’s become less taboo over the years as the sexual revolution from the 60′s moves well into the new millennium. Hetero men even do not fear as splay as they once did.
The anal cavity is a myriad of thousands of nerve endings all primed for pleasure from some sort of stimulus. The tongue is one of the most sensual organs human beings have. In a study done by UCSF’s HIV InSITE, more and more Americans are experimenting with anal sex. Out of 3,432 adults, at least 10% have tried anal sex once in the previous year. Of the 3,400 graduate students at the University of Maryland, 25% reported having practiced heterosexual anal intercourse. So ass play is a widely popular activity.
Analingus is often a precursor to the fun of anal sex. To start with, make sure the ass is clean. A high quality enema found at most sex toy shops. Used properly, an enema in combination with a shower will provide the area with enough cleanliness to avoid unpleasantness, including smells.
Once both partners are satisfied that cleanliness isn’t an issue, analingus begins like any other anal related activity. Gentle massaging of the ass cheeks, pressing lightly around the anal ring will help loosen up the interested party. Licking, sucking on flesh will produce stimulating sensations and enhance arousal. When it’s time, using your tongue will involve more than just a press of the mouth against a nice fresh asshole. Your hands may be required in some positions to help keep the ass cheeks spread apart. Nobody will be able to caress a man’s prostate with their tongue as the organ is located farther in the canal than the tongue is long, but an added finger will help a woman give her man an explosive orgasm that will make him beg.
Once the tongue is inserted, you can swirl it around the inside of the anus, touching all of those sensitive nerve endings or thrust it like a penis. The rapid penetration simulating anal sex causes noticeable heated excitement in both genders.
Many gay men and straight or bisexual women know the pleasures of ass eating well.
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Wednesday, February 9th, 2011
The subject of sex toys is no news to the folks at Orgasm. Having seen just about everything the market has to offer, coming across a product that makes us get up off our seats is reason for celebration. Most recently, a friend forwarded me a YouTube video marketing one of the most revolutionary male-oriented sex toys I have ever seen, the Tenga Egg. Ten minutes later and I had half a dozen of those bad boys on their way.
Following in the footsteps of products like the popular Fleshlight, the Tenga Egg is essentially a masturbatory aid that mimics a real-life pussy like nothing else. Encased in a plastic egg, the product itself consists of an ‘Onacup’ which is the name for a Japanese brand of artificial vaginas invented by the legendary Mr. Matsmoto in 2006. Since its release, it’s become so popular that it sold over two million units worldwide. Now that’s a whole lot of masturbating.
Understanding the product to the full of its abilities requires watching the video but in a nutshell, it basically consists of a jelly-like egg with a hole on one end. By adding some lube to its interior and ‘rim’, you can then proceed to stick your dick in there and go to town with your favorite free porn site, or without, whatever strikes your fancy.
Tenga eggs come in a variety of different ‘terrains’. What that means is that depending on your preference of bumps and grooves, you’ll be sure to always find something you like, or keep yourself entertained by trying them all.
For those who still need some convincing, read on for a couple of Tenga Egg facts that might help you place an order (or not):
- After personally testing out all of the different egg varieties, I can safely say that they are all different and provided me with different sensations. It’s like fucking a different woman everyday minus all the emotional baggage.
- The included lube is probably the best I’ve ever used. Highly recommended.
- It actually feels like you’re having sex or getting a blow-job. It definitely puts the fleshlight to shame.
- Being disposable, that means clean-up is as simple as tossing it in a bin; however, given that a ‘Tenga Egg Variety Pack’ (6 units) costs a whopping a $34.99, it will be the most expensive stick beating you’ve ever had.
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Tuesday, February 8th, 2011
With the astounding popularity behind Viagra, it is no surprise that the drug industry would soon look for ways to provide women with the same type of ‘benefits’. And it is exactly that quest that motivated film maker Liz Canner to come up with Orgasm, Inc. The much buzzed about documentary that touches upon the pharmaceutical rat race to receive FDA approval on the so-called “pink Viagra”. It seems as though women will finally get the chance to deal with female sexual dysfunction (FSD), something that is seldomly brought to light but very much real.
However, too many people are still uncertain as to what that entails. After all, male sexual dysfunction is very easily targeted, while FDS can be a lot harder to pinpoint. For example, identifying sex related problems such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation is quite common – all it takes is some objective observation. On the other hand, identifying sexual dysfunction in women is entirely different. Let’s just say that not having a dick makes things that much harder.
When trying to diagnose a man with sexual dysfunction, there is one simple question to be asked. If he is capable of reaching an orgasm, he is most likely healthy. If he can’t, he is probably dealing with some sort of sexual dysfunction. It’s pretty much black and white. Given the known rate that about 75% of women are not capable of climaxing through intercourse alone, diagnosing any sort of FSD becomes that much harder. A report from the Journal of Urology gave away a few common signs of FSD that will be sure to help those who are still uncertain. Some of them include: no interest in sex, phobic avoidance of anything sexual (including things like free porn), lack of libido, extreme difficulty in reaching an orgasm and/or any sort of genital pain.
If you ask me, the majority of these “symptoms” could be easily solved through proper communication, a change of partner, some lube and a sex toy or two. As the documentary shows, the main drive behind pharmaceutical companies who are trying to push this “pink Viagra” to go onto the market are mainly interested in money. Now if only more people were smarter to realize that.
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Monday, February 7th, 2011
While the subject of choice for much of the free porn we’re into still revolves around cheerleaders, many still falsely believe that in real life, they are nothing but prude spoilt brats. Turns out the porn industry didn’t get it all wrong. From orgies to pom pom orgasm scenes, many of our favorite adult films are nothing but recreations of real life events. Below, we’ll highlight some of the most shocking sex scandals involving the quintessential American sex symbol – cheerleaders. You can thank me later.
1. The Arizona State Cheerleader That Decided To Go Nude – Arizona State University girls already have a bit of a – ahem – “reputation” of doing porn, posing naked and getting into other shenanigans such as drugs, alcohol binges and general slutty behavior. With that said, it was no surprise to discover that a Mormon Courtney Wilson decided to give up on her scholarship and move to California in order to persue a career as a porn star. After proudly showcasing her cheerleading outfit in one of her films, ASU administration was absolutely mortified. We were proud.
2. Orange Coast Orgy - After attending one of those cheesy cheerleading competitions somewhere in the United States (a la Bring It On), the Orange Coast College girls decided to go a little crazy and brought some lucky guy back to their hotel for a night of drinking, drugs, half naked pictures and an orgy or two. After the pictures went viral, the schools reputation went down the drain, bringing the girls along for the ride.
3. Bothell High School Cheerleaders Get Naked – In yet another bad case of “sexting”, a couple of Bothell High School cheerleaders decided to get a little crazy and took a couple of naked pictures of themselves in a bubbly bathtub. After sending it to their boyfriends, the pictures quickly spread out to the rest of the school and the girls were suspended. Maybe next time they’ll think twice before being that stupid. Though we’re certainly not complaining.
Tags: Free Porn, orgasm, Orgy, porn star
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