Posts Tagged ‘orgasm’

Why Women Orgasm

Friday, September 23rd, 2011

So, the recent article from Popsci enttiled “What Is the Point of the Female Orgasm?”  is trying to suggest that there may be no rhyme or reason to the female orgasm.  They give an overly lengthy debate on whether a woman cumming is the by product of a male orgasm or if it functions as a adaptive evolutionary one.

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This new study is trying to convince the world of the first argument – that there is no evolutionary evidence to explain a female orgasm.  To them I say, suck a cock.  As a women I cannot believe that we only orgasm because a man does.  Women are just as much of a sexual being as a man, if not more so by our ability to give life.

What about the scientific evidence to that shows how the cervix sucks up the sperm when a woman is cumming, therefore, increasing her fertility chances.  This is the basis for Karma Sutra in India.  They want to make sex as pleasurable for the woman as it is for the man to ensure orgasm and increase fertility.

Also, at least in my reasoning, the more chance for orgasm, the more reason to even have sex.  I know that the more I cum, the more I want to have sex.  This is the same theory for a man.  Why else would a guy want to fuck?  Our bodies give us the physical payoff to ensure that we continue having sex and there continues the whole goddamn human race.

Why do you think ladies choose not to continually fuck somebody who’s bad in bed?  They want a partner that will satisfy them, which will in turn spread his seed over the guy who sucks in the sack.  It’s all about survival of the fittest and the female orgasm gets to be the judge and jury.

originalIt seems to me this is a debate full of why why why.  When really we should be focusing on how how how.  Why do they care why we orgasm?  They should be focusing on how to make us orgasm because I know a lot of guys that could use a brush up lesson or two.

Sexy Texting

Monday, August 15th, 2011

The media is full of stories decrying the new habit of teenagers to send dirty phone text messages to each other, often referred to as sexting. But this behavior is not just for the altogether too young. Gay men who are of age can also use their phones to snare the hearts and other body parts of the ones they lust after too. It may seem like a crazy way to communciate, and and in truth one should avoid using it for anything serious. Never break up with a person by text message or try to discuss important relationship topics over SMS, as the medium is just too primitive to allow for a fair conversation.

But when it comes to men seeing action? Bring it on! Of course you’ll have to start with a phone number, something we will mostly have to leave up to you. One can try meeting a guy in a bar or even better, use a personals site catering to gays. Once you have the number and have figured out that their phone does accept text messages its time to let the flirting start.

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Start with an opener which guarantees a subsequent interaction. Just saying hello or what’s up? are not the real ways to connect with anyone. That’s why we suggest that instead one should try something witty or interesting. Ask a question or relate a thought about them or suggest something fun you could be doing together. While it’s fun to make them think of the hot orgasm you could give them, it’s important not to be crude or inelegant. Use proper grammar and avoid annoying abbreviations for the most part, as this will make one seem more intelligent than most.

Let things escalate naturally. One should not go straight to sending cock pictures, although sometimes this will be appropriate later on. And then when possible seal the deal –ask him to come over!

Helping Her Come

Tuesday, July 19th, 2011

We all want to have satisfying sex, and though sometimes the urge is to simply get done and get our rocks off, especially for those of us who are men, this kind of rush to the finish causes problems. It can leave our women unsatisfied and when they are unsatisfied they are unlikely to want to come back to us after a while, leaving us instead for someone more considerate they met through adult personals or a best friend who just wants to see them have an orgasm. Even more than that, when both people are concerned about each other’s sexual pleasure it actually results in both lovers feeling more fulfilled, happy and satisfied without the guilt of utter selfishness.

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Many women are not able to have an orgasm through sexual penetration alone, contrary to what one may see on free porn videos. Even for the rare percentage of women who can come this way it is easier for them to have orgasms with direct clitoral stimulation. One can provide this on one’s own with a finger in the right position, or ask her to touch herself during fucking. It can be especially hot to watch her hand working between her legs while she’s giving one a blow job!

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Some women have never had an orgasm at all and if they do not know what they are going for it may be difficult to help them come in partnered fucking situations that one finds in adult dating. One of the best ways to help in this case is to encourage her to masturbate and touch herself in private, learning her own body better so she can better share it during intimacy. There are a number of books and videos available which are designed to help pre-orgasmic women learn to have satisfying climaxes alone and with a partner. A considerate lover might even purchase such a book as a gift.

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Porn Up’s Skills

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

When you use Porn to practice your skills at sex you can become very impressive. Consider that you could learn how to hold back before you have an orgasm and if you continue practicing this you could make a great and powerful impression on someone you do end up scoring with. They will be impressed that you have such control over yourself and this can only help you prosper in the long run. If you give someone a great and satisfying experience they are more than likely going to tell a friend about it. That friend will want to meet you and already you will have put the the seed of scoring in their minds.

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They may decide to give you a try themselves and your sex life will never have been better. This all stems from the fact that you took your performance seriously and did everything you could to make it the very best that it could be. You learned that you could use porn as a tool to help you with this. You are able to sense that orgasm coming and you are able to stem the tide of it just a little more each time and then you can finally control yourself to such a degree that you give a very powerful orgasm every time.

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Then when you do actually get with someone they will be taken to a new place of pleasure they had never experienced before. This all comes from you giving it the best you had and making a better example of a lover with yourself. You are able to do things that you and they only dreamed of before. Give yourself every advantage that you can and don’t take no for an answer. Don’t settle and don’t go halfway. Make the decision to go all the way and become the best that you can be. This will empower you and through that you will empower others around you to be the best they can be.

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Have More Sex

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

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A lot of people don’t realize that having sex has a lot of health benefits, and the vast majority of people don’t realize that fucking and having an orgasm can boost people’s immune system quite a bit and make them much more healthy and resistant to illnesses that are going around like the common cold and flu. Studies have shown that just having sex once or twice a week will increase the body’s production of a lot of healthy antibodies and hormones that boost people moods, immune systems and well-being.

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Frequent sex has a lot of health benefits, including burning calories which helps to lose weight or maintain a healthy body weight. In addition to that, it is an aerobic exercise, which is good for the cardiovascular system. It’s also a great stress reliever, and it boosts self-esteem. Unfortunately for the ladies who may use this excuse, sex can actually help get rid of headaches. It helps reduce pain, and the release of endorphins can help temporarily relieve cold and allergy symptoms like stuffy noses. Certain hormones that are released during orgasm actually help people to sleep better and reduce insomnia.

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The same hormone that makes people fall asleep after sex is also the hormone that makes people feel attached to others and more intimate and trusting, and it’s often referred to as the ‘Love Hormone’. Those increased feelings of intimacy are very beneficial for happiness and feeling centered. A lot of people probably think that the feelings of intimacy come solely from touching another person, because what’s more intimate than touching someones boobs or genitals? What can be more intimate than a long, deep kiss? Well, science has proven that even though touching does produce emotional feelings of intimacy, there is actually a hormone that is released in our bodies during orgasm which causes those feelings as well. Feeling intimately connected to another human being is very beneficial to a person’s mental health and well-being, because most humans want to feel connected to others, to feel as if they belong and are a part of some sort of community. Feelings of intimacy with another provide all those things. Because of this, a healthy sex life can also help to alleviate feelings of depression and sadness.

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Last Resort

Tuesday, May 31st, 2011

Many religion think of masturbation as safe sex although they do not normally condone it. In fact many even outwardly state that it is not natural or acceptable for a young person to practice. This tilted view on what is natural is very unnatural. Babies who know nothing of sex and society and rules or what is proper or not know that playing with their private parts is pleasurable. They may not experience an Orgasm but they know it feels nice. Sexual pleasure between consenting adults or through self pleasuring should be a man recognized God given right. With the rise of pre-martial sex, and teen pregnancies everyone is looking to place blame and instill fear.

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But fear rarely deters an action. It just makes it harder to accomplish and adds an element of excitement. Recently Abstinence clubs for teens have begun to spring up. These clubs are suppose to preach the goodness of waiting. They do not talk about what the obligations are for those entering into a sexual relationship. They don’t give options of birth control or masturbation techniques. They feel that birth control Is not something that will stop the rise of unwed mothers on the society welfare lines and that learning about masturbation should be left to watching internet porn. The topic if talked about it all should be regulated to gym locker rooms and hopefully it might be something parents may discuss with tier children. But there are no classes for parents outlining how to have the talk. In fact few adults actually had the talk from their own parents so the belief that they have anything to share or can pass on is not there.

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Truly if the government, parents and religious institutions want to stem the tide they need to agree what the objective is and how to get kids to listen. Any parent will tell you threatening a child with punishment of things that might happen is not effective. It quickly goes in one ear and out the other.

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New Fantasies, kinks and Your Orgasm

Saturday, May 28th, 2011

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If you are in a relationship and you really want to try spicing up your sex there are many ways you can do it. You have some avenues you can explore if you have established good communication skills with your partner. The first thing you want to do is talk to them about their fantasies and the things that really bring them to an Orgasm and then tell them yours.

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If you are honest and open about this stuff then you can begin to make progress. It is all about balancing the fantasy with reality and coming as close to combing them both as you can. You might try role playing for instance and pretending that you are picking each other up for Free sex as if you didn’t know each other. This could be fun and might even open up a new way to enjoy what you have had in the past. You might decide to try acting out the first time you met. This could really be a way to have a blast. You could decide you’ll start your relationship all over again and forget about all the bad stuff that has happened. It is all up to you and your partner how you play things out.

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You each bear personal responsibility in equal measure to the happiness and health of the relationship and when you put your heads together you can really come up with some creative ways to share the burdens you face. Then you can change things around and find that living a brand new life with each other is absolutely possible if you decide it will be. It will naturally take some effort like anything else worth pursuing does but you will get there and even have fun doing it. Don’t settle for less than the best sex you can have and don’t sell yourselves short. Get out there and start living today. You’ll definitely be glad that you did.

The Good Male O

Wednesday, May 25th, 2011

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Bringing a man to full orgasm is often talked about as if it was a simple as pull-tab-to-open.

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Very untrue men have areas that are often so sensitive that they are not pleasurable to the touch. While many more can only reach praxis through intense stimulation even in some cases squeezing and pulling. Guys I know that you want to be sweet and not offend your bedmate. There are ways beyond telling your lover that they are missing the mark, to help your lover get you there with out self-injuring. Keep playfulness in the proceedings. Try to keep the admonishment tone out of your voice. Very soon you will have the feeling of connected touch that you desire. Most caring men just decide to soon that there date or partner just is not good at some thing or other. They never say a thing and go with the flow. What an odd logic we strive to find out what our sexual partners really want while at the same time never really telling them what works for us. Sharing is caring, we are told that from grade school on.

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Giving your sex partner a road map to your pleasure in a clear and playful manner that lacks any tone of criticism can only give them a feeling of success. A fringe benefit is, your partner will start to talk to you in the same manner about what works for them. This gives a man better more fulfilling sex weather or not their sex partner of choice is for the evening or a lifetime.

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Weight

Tuesday, May 24th, 2011

Most women fret over their weight. Fashion magazine make us wish that we were model thin. Most women don’t remember that 20 years ago in a effort to combat the dieting craze the fashion industry made changes to dress sizes assize 2 was now labeled a 0. And a size 12 was now a 10. Everything shifted in order to make women feel better about themselves.

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But it didn’t help very many women for too long. Women still yo-yo dieted and worried about their weight and their dress size. And fast food, sedentary lifestyles made many women heavier than before. A condition usually associated with very wealthy lazy individuals was now epidemic. Women associate how they look with sex appeal. A poor self image base do being overweight or obese for a woman equates to no sex appeal. This imagine makes it hard for a woman to have an Orgasm. This is true even if she is masturbating. But if she is in bed with a man it is so difficult to find that level of feel good that these women become their own self fulfilling prophecy of used. Men and fashion are not to blame here.

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Women have bought into the two media driven ideals convenience of processed fast foods and having to be super women and do more, better than any generation before them. But they haven’t done more or better. They work more but they are still paid less. They have less conveniences than middle class women had before them. Their children see less of them. They may have birth control but they have less time to distress and enjoy sex, They are on a path of heart attacks and stress related cancers. Learning to say NO is a big part of bringing on change. Saying no to processed fast foods and indulging in the sexy appeal of preparing meals. Saying no to late nights of extra work and multi-tasking and saying no to just sitting in one place until their backs hurt and their asses spread wide over the chair.

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The Stash Changes Your Game

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

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When your single and alone often times keeping yourself a stash of Free porn can be a life saver and game changer. It can really help you keep yourself on the level and avoid being desperate. When you get desperate it can contribute to your making bad decisions that will negatively affect your life and your reputation. When you are desperate for sex and intimacy you will often find that your standards begin lowering and this can become very problematic as it goes on.

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You are likely to start looking at potential partners you would never have given the time of day to before. They will be people that won’t typically meet your standards and people you wouldn’t want to associate with. When you start getting desperate those standards start going out the window and this has to be avoided. The consequences of this can be very far reaching if you aren’t careful. Stay on top of this problem and avoid it with an Orgasm now and then from masturbating to porn.

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This will help give you at least a minimum fix of release. It will help you stay away from desperation until you can meet someone that meets your standards. Then you can continue on. The good thing about having a stash of porn to dip into when you need it is that it can last you a very long time as long as you continually cycle it from time to time. You want to keep things fresh and new so that it doesn’t get old having to try and jerk off to the same old scenes and actresses time and again. You can avoid this by keeping a steady inflow of regular new material. Find a reputable source you can trust and get a membership or whatever you need to download and keep a fresh stock. That way things stay new and interesting and arousing. You can keep doing this for an immeasurable amount of time until you find someone that can become your partner.

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