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The Power is in Your Hands

Saturday, May 14th, 2011

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There was a time when incredible numbers of women didn’t even know how to make themselves come. Today, lots of women buy sex toys and masturbate in any way they’d like when they are alone, but the minute they get in bed with someone else, it is as if they are at that partner’s mercy. Men and women alike should learn to be more vocal about their orgasm during partner sex.

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Some myth busting is always in good order when talking about masturbation and communication during sex. Some people seem to feel that telling a lover what makes them feel good in bed is like saying that they don’t know what they’re doing. In truth, most lovers want to know, and some are even especially turned on to hear their partner tell them. You can try it in a matter-of-fact way, or by talking dirty, which could be where extra excitement lies. However you try it, the communication and honesty that it takes to talk about what hurts or makes you uncomfortable, what gets you almost there, and what sends you cascading over the edge into pure pleasure can help make good relationships better and great relationships awesome.

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There also ought to be no shame in showing a partner exactly how you like it. It could be done in a way that explicitly asks them to touch you in a certain way, or it could be by the act of masturbation during the sexual encounter of its own accord. Again, grasping and stroking your cock or diddling your clit in the middle of having sex with another person is no insult to their prowess. It is simply acknowledging that stimulation in that certain spot would be perfect at that moment. A lover can learn from what you do. He or she could take over the action, or be fabulously excited watching their hot sex partner jack off to wild oblivion.

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At the end of the day, what you want to have are satisfied bodies and a healthy relationship based on trust and positive intention. Holding back and not cumming because you are trying to be polite does not move toward those goals. Partners should take the power into their own hands for extra joy.

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In Praise Of Masturbation

Wednesday, May 11th, 2011

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Even though this is a world now of smart phones, computers, and the internet far too many men and women still have the erroneous thoughts and beliefs that masturbation is somehow either wrong or not as ‘good’ as sex. But nothing could be farther from the truth: time and time again scientists, doctors, and sex researchers have proven that nothing, at all, negative can come from masturbation. It will not ruin anyone for intercourse, it will not make anyone gay, it is not wrong in any way shape or form.
The church might condemn it, but they do so only knowing it feels so good!

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While people can believe what they want, by stigmatizing people who masturbate or by telling young adults and kids that it is wrong all that is happening if keeping them from having a happy and healthy sex life when they are older or, even, by telling adults that it is wrong as well. Medically there is absolutely nothing negative that can happen from a man or a woman masturbating. None at all. In fact, scientists and doctors have found that people who say that they do not masturbate or who put themselves or others down for masturbating often suffer both emotional as well as even physical effects because of it. The emotional problems are obvious as these people feel bad about something they simply cannot control and so deny themselves pleasure because of some misinformed opinion but there are also physical effects as well as it has been proven that men, for instance, who do not masturbate regularly sometimes develop prostate problems and can even have problems such as premature ejaculation simply because they are not used to any kind of erotic stimulus. Many men, in fact, who do suffer from premature ejaculation are told to practice masturbating to learn how their body responds to sexual and erotic stimulation.

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So if you masturbate and feel bad about it try to remember that masturbation is a simple and safe and best of all healthy form of sexuality and that there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking ourselves in hand, solo or with a lover watching. Releasing sexual animus, not to mention fluid makes the body work better and makes for a more peaceful mind.

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Masturbation Serenity

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_lf7ng676n21qzck00o1_500What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be —even more than they anticipated.

Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when you’re horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.

Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.

Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.

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Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.

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In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.

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This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.

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The Top Reasons To Masturbate

Wednesday, November 24th, 2010

Woody Allen famously said, “Don’t knock masturbation; It’s sex with someone I love.” Whether it be all by your lonesome or incorporated into sex with a partner, do like Woody and love yourself! There is no greater pleasure than that.

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Do it when you’re about to fall asleep. I started choking the chicken at bed time at the young age of 14 because that’s the only time I could get some privacy. Somewhere along the way bed time became linked hand in hand with sexy time and now it’s hard for me to have a good nights rest without it! Which could be a good thing or a bad thing, I’m still trying to figure that out.

Do it when you wake up. Nothing says “Good morning world!” quite like a solo quickie first thing in the morning. It’s a proven fact that is yields the same endorphins as a morning jog would without the whole getting out of bed thing. The trick here is, however, to get out of bed as soon as your done or else you will easily fall back asleep.

There is no safer sex in the entire universe than having a night with just you and your hand. Good bye pregnancy! See ya STDS!

There are often times when intense horniness and extreme laziness strike at the exact same moment. When that situation arises it’s best to wrap some limbs around a partner and slowly diddle yourself to a dreamland, however, a lot of people are not comfortable with letting someone watch you do it. Many feel vulnerable and exposed and refrain from doing it, when it can actually be very hot and sweet.

Masturbation is a great way to bridge the gap between two lovers who are trying their shot at a long distance relationship. Whether it be phone sex or Skype sex, it can actually bring some passion into the relationship despite being 3,000 miles apart.

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It is totally impossible to get bored hanging out alone when you have the ability to beat the meat, clutch the camel, flog the log, or whatever you want to call it while watching some free porn on your laptop.

Are you a procrastinator? Then you should try your shot at procrasturbation. It’s a combination of procrastination and masturbation and it will only help in getting your history paper in on time.

Whether it be Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday or Sunday; they’re all great days to get a little masturbation time in.

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Wind Blowing The Sail On Your Mast: Putting The Fun Back Into Masturbation

Sunday, November 14th, 2010

Masturbation is the most common sexual activity in the world – even men with girlfriends and wives often masturbate more often than they have straight up sex. Despite this fact, masturbation is rarely discussed, and has become a neglected part of a healthy sex life. Knowing how to take care of yourself is crucial, so we’ve come up with some solutions to make your masturbatory routine a more varied and tactile experience.

#1 The Fleshlight: While the fleshlight is the most costly suggestion on our list, it’s also the most rewarding. Shaped like a flashlight, the fleshlight is made of plastic that feels nearly like human skin. No word of a lie, sticking your cock in the vaginal opening for a quick fuck is magic. If you have the resources, we recommend the fleshlight for a reality based experience.

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#2 Apple Pie: American Pie popularized the hot apple pie technique years ago, however it’s now seen as a masturbation cliche. There’s no reason for this, as pie a perfectly viable way to get your rocks off (did I mention it was warm too?). Just remember to pull out before you bust a nut though, you wouldn’t want to add any special sauce to Sunday night’s desert.

#3 The Mattress Technique: This is the real reason box-springs were invented: just slip your cock between your mattress and box-spring and start fucking – and you’ll see what we mean. Pure bliss!

#4 A Bag of Vaseline: If you’re not a fan of the mattress technique above, it’s probably because you don’t like your masturbation quite as rough as we do. For those who aren’t satisfied with a rough ride, we recommend the good ol’ baggy of vaseline. It’s smooth, silky and sensual without too much mess (as long as you pick an appropriate bag).

#5 The Old Standard: With all of our tried and true methods, don’t forget that sometimes it’s great to masturbate with a clenched fist. It’s God’s way – so pump your penis hard with this old school technique on Sundays! Over and out.

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Anti-Masturbation Contraptions Of The Past

Wednesday, October 13th, 2010

Masturbation hasn’t always been so popular or easily accepted as it is today(provided it remains confined between closed doors). Products that claimed to prevent you from “self abuse” were all the range in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. Here, we take a look at some of the most outrageous – and painful – anti-masturbation contraptions in history.

1. The Jugum Penis – Once upon a time, nocturnal “emissions” were considered to cause a disease called “spermatorrhoea”. While nowadays we understand that this so-called “disease” was really just another word for ‘wet dreams’, men living in the Victorian era were provided with The Jugum Penis, an apparent cure for “spermatorrhoea”. Made out of a metal ring, the device – which resembles a small bear trap – was placed around the base of the penis and held in place by a clip. If a man was to get an erection, the contraption would then snap shut, likely causing a great deal of pain for the “patient”.

2. The Mechanical Sheath – In a nutshell, this device was essentially a chastity belt for men. Positioned over the penis, it was literally impossible to remove without pain or “possible mutilation”. The only way out of this trap, was through a tiny and unique key. Losing it, meant giving up on your sex life altogether.

3. Graham Cracker – Despite still serving as a popular pie crust, Graham Crackers – developed by Sylvester Graham in 1837 – was originally meant to ward off masturbation. Apparently, eating the extremely bland cracker would drastically decrease your lust , thus lowering your “vital fluids”. Now you’ll think twice before eating a s’more.

4. The Bowen Device – Here’s an alternative to shaving you’ll be glad not to have experienced. Despite looking rather tame, The Bowen Device works by clinging to pubic hair. Once the user gets an erection, hairs get ripped out in the process. Razors have never sounded so good.

5. Electric Anti-Masturbation Machine – Unlike what you may think, this contraption wouldn’t necessarily electrocute penises after an erection. Built in France in 1915, it would instead set off an alarm whenever a man had a boner. While I don’t necessarily understand who would volunteer to walk around with a boner announcer, the humiliation aspect alone is sure to have steered them off of masturbating.

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Top 5 Tips for Releasing the Death Grip

Friday, October 1st, 2010

Firm grip masturbation can often lead to a lack of enjoyment with sex and blow jobs. Many men have misguidedly grown accustomed to a firm grip when jerking off, leaving a high bar for any partner to reach with her mouth, hand and pussy. You may feel like you just don’t enjoy oral sex or hand jobs; after all, no one’s ever done it as well as you. If you are willing to put effort into easing up on the squeeze, this should be manageable for you. If you’ve got a willing partner you can communicate well with, you’re laughing.

What may be required going forward is to take a hands-free approach until you are able to resolve this. You need to work on retraining this poor, battered cock of yours. Here are a few tips:

1) No more hard firm grip, go cold turkey. This is going to take some discipline, but with help from your partner it should be manageable.

2) Use a gentle grip for the same amount of time it would normally take to come, and even if you don’t come, stop.

3) If you have a partner, show and tell her what you like. You can ask her to use more pressure as you wean yourself off of your grip and onto hers. Use this sparingly if you can, as you still want to be able to take care of yourself without resorting to old bad habits.

4) Use clear direction and regular progress reports. This allows you to make sure you keep her in the loop, as well as learning verbalize what you want.

5) Don’t feel badly. Understand this is reciprocal as well. Most women need direct clitoral stimulation and only 25% of us can climax with vaginal intercourse alone. Take your time and be patient.

Think of how good you feel when you get someone else off, and how much better she will feel when she, too, has that power; especially where so many women before her have failed. Then you’ll be busting a nut like a porn star!

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Porn & Politics

Thursday, September 30th, 2010

The media would like us to believe that the better portion of Americans are hitting the streets to cause a ruckus in the name of politics. In fact, voter turnout in America is at an all time low, and many are having trouble choosing which candidate should lead the free world.

Perhaps it is comforting to know that men are a little more prone to get political if they know that means a possible “win” for their own member. Two psychologists have recently claimed to have found a pattern between the American states which backed a winning candidate and the number of search requests for porn on the internet in that state.

In 2004, upon George Bush’s alleged “win”, rates of internet porn usage in the states that backed him surged. In comparison, states that supported John Kerry saw decreases. Remarkably, the same results were found in the 2008 election that featured Barack Obama and John McCain, as well as in the 2006 congressional election.

The study was conducted by Patrick Markey and his wife (who remains anonymous) – both psychologists interested in political phenomena. In an online interview Markley was quoted as saying, “If we saw this just for one election, you might chalk it up to chance, but we saw a pattern with it happening three times. It’s also cool that we saw these results with both Republicans and Democrats — that these were general results not just driven by one political party.”

The results may be indicative of more than just one political party being sexually active then another. Men aren’t usually prone to sudden masturbation sessions upon a successful victory are they?

Apparently, the husband and wife super team stumbled on their findings after working on studies involving testosterone levels. Related studies have shown extreme levels in testosterone, high or low, result in differences in sexual behavior.

American states which voted strongly for McCain in the 2008 elections had significantly lower levels of free porn consumption. Obama voters fared a lot better when he successfully won the election, causing a massive spike in online porn usage among the strongest states.

“We don’t know for sure if testosterone is the reason why we are seeing these changes in porn-seeking behavior, but it seems like the best explanation at the moment,” said Markey.
The only thing left to wonder is which party watched teen cheerleader sluts, or anal avengers.

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What to Do When Your Sex Drive Gets Rear-Ended

Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

A long-standing issue many couples have is how to respond when their partner has a significantly higher or lower sex drive to theirs.

The key in any situation like this is flexibility. This might perhaps include the kind you get from regular yoga practice, but I’m referring more to the theoretical kind. There will be one person who wants more needs to tone it down a bit, and another who wants less that needs to pump it up a bit.

A good place to start is by identifying what qualifies as sexual activity. If you’re the one with a higher sex drive (and if you’re not, just reverse what I’m saying, and ask yourself what you’re doing reading a porn blog), and your partner is doing her level best at ramping it up on the full blown fucking, you should be able to happily accept a hand job or blow job when she’s not in the mood for sex. You have to be happy to keep your attitude positive about her concessions, and she will need to have a good attitude about it in turn.

You shouldn’t be made to feel like you’re tormenting her because you have “needs.” If you can get by with five minutes of her just standing there while you beat off into her lap in the morning; it stands to reason that she should be happy to do that for you. If she’s okay with letting you get his rocks off and you are okay with her not being bothered (albeit with a smile on her face, rather than a grimace) but not being as crazy hot for you as you’d normally prefer, you might find the compromise you’re looking for.

Alternatively, if what you require every time you get freaky is a 3 hour sex marathon and you get whiny or pouty if that doesn’t happen, you need to be slapped. Go find some free porn online while you’re hanging out in the dog house, where you deserve to be sitting for being such a pussy.

There is nothing that you can do that will turn someone who wants sex three times a day into someone who wants it once a week. There is nothing in the worth that will turn someone who wants it once a week into someone who wants it three times a day. Except old age. At some point you’re probably going to meet up with each other if you live long enough.

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Hottest Porn Stars According to RealTouch!

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

Hot on the heels of this mind-blowing story, and I mean that…I’m totally not over it, comes a quick addendum that involves the very same company responsible for the RealTouch.

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