Posts Tagged ‘Free Porn’

How to Hide a Kink

Tuesday, March 29th, 2011

There are just too many ways to get found out these days. The closer we get to a friend, the more we even try to hide from a family member, all those secrets we don’’t tell a sex partner, it’’s still too easy for our deepest, darkest secrets to be known.

Even people with so much to lose, but who have great money in which to insulate themselves, can leave a text message on their phone or an open email. Double-checking, protocols in place, separate accounts, the anonymous nature of the net – still, there is something we might forget to hide.

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For men and women courting a fetish they keep secret, the way is precarious at best. Not only are they engaging, or want to engage in something slightly unusual to the common person, but they are opening themselves up to scrutiny, derision and judgment from lovers if and when they reveal their ache for a spanking, or the desire to pee on a lover. This is why so many people simply hide their fetish.

But the manner in which one hides their kink can vary. For many, they simply only ever play on-line, engaging their desires over chat emails, watching free porn, or camming with like-minded kinksters. The Internet allows great freedom with its built-in anonymity.

For others who need to feel the sting of the lash across their flanks for real, or have an all consuming need to cross-dress in a room full of their peers, they search out the closed ranks of private play parties or well known safe play spaces. To keep one’’s fetish close to one’’s leather vest and not have to worry about the embarrassment of a kink being detected by some unsuspecting lover or family member, one must either stay within the confines of on-line social sites specific to a specific sexual desire or make sure the group one runs with have as much to lose by detection as they do.

Life Changing Technology

Monday, March 21st, 2011

The internet and all of our modern technology have really changed people’s lives significantly. The internet provides an incredible resource for people to find information on nearly any topic they could possible imagine, and technology provides it to us quickly, wirelessly and while we are on the go. Ten years ago many people could not have imagined using their telephone to access limitless amounts of information while in their car or walking through a park.

Some of the most significant changes that the internet has made in our lives is how we meet people and date, and how we get our porn. Internet dating has become commonplace at this point, so has free porn. Online datinghot-nude-modelswebsites offer opportunities to meet people we would never come in contact with in real life. People have romantic relationships with other people who are in other states, across the country and sometimes even the other side of the world. The internet has allowed people to get to know each other and form strong bonds of friendship and even love without having ever met in person. The technology available allows us to communicate instantly and at an incredibly low cost with instant messaging and Skype, and most cell phone packages offer free long distance within one’’s home country.

Another huge difference the internet has made is the availability of sexual information and pornography. If there is a kink or fetish a person is curious about, it’s safe and easy to look it up on the computer. People can even find photos and videos for any kink that their interested in so they can actually see whatever it is without having to sneak off to some dark, secret sex club to see whatever it is that they’re interested in. Before the internet, that was often the only viable option for finding out more about kinky sex, and quite often the place didn’t seem safe or clean. Women who were kinky had few options for safe venues in which they could explore their sexuality and curiosity. With the secret clubs of the past, people were often put off a bit by the neighborhoods these places were in, and a lot of people didn’t feel safe. For newcomers, it must have been a particularly nerve-wracking experience to go to some of these places, especially as a single.

Shower Time

Monday, March 14th, 2011

Water, warmth, slippery soap, and naked bodies. Free porn? No! It’s shower sex. Aside from perhaps a condom, what else could you possibly need to have a good time? Taking a shower together is a simple thing, but it is one of those activities that a long-term couple may get so busy as to forget about over time. It is worth revisiting.

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In the morning, taking a shower together can be a really nice way to welcome the day. Waking up gently with the warm water running over your body is a good and healthful morning ritual. Consider allowing time for each partner to have a moment when it’s just one body, one shower stream. After the wake up moments, greeting each other more properly is in order. Hold each other gently, only for a moment, then move on to actual bathing. Take whatever you use to scrub, and take turns rubbing down each others’ bodies. Enjoy stroking each others’ back, arms, legs, tits, pussy or cock. Again, you may give a moment of alone time so that each partner can take care of parts that it isn’t easy for someone else to do. It’s hard to wash someone else’’s face for them, for example. In the morning, other than perhaps a very quick hand job, there is often not time for prolonged lovemaking in the shower. It’s off to work with you!

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An evening or weekend shower can be quite a different scene. After the initial getting used to the time is over, begin the caressing. This time, she can fondle him until he’ is hard, then drop to her knees and give him a hot blow job. To a lot of couples, there is nothing more wonderful than the feeling of giving and receiving oral while warm water embraces their glistening bodies. A hand-held shower massage can also be totally hot. If he would like, he could watch her hold the water jets up to her pussy until she comes with great intensity. They could also play with the water jets around his cock and balls to see where it feels best for him. Together, a man and a woman can develop a fun collection of shower games, preferences, and erotic memories.

Cleanliness if certainly next to God-li-ness.

Learn Something New

Friday, March 11th, 2011

Kinky people love to learn new things, from free porn or real life, and they also usually love to show off their own skills and share ideas. It’s not unusual to find a few Doms collaborating in a dungeon to make a scene even morerough-lesbian-bondageinteresting. Watching scenes is a great way to learn some new things or get suggestions on how to improve one’’s technique or skill set. If a person sees someone doing something interesting in the dungeon, it’s totally okay to talk to that person and ask them for some tips. Don’’t interrupt a scene when people are playing, but once the scene and the aftercare is completed, go talk to the person. A good rule of thumb is when the people in the scene start mingling again, it’s safe to talk to them. Starting off with a compliment will nearly always get a favorable response, as long as it’s not an obvious ass-kissing kind of compliment. Sincerity goes a long way though, and a sincere compliment and honest desire to learn will usually be met with a willingness to share. Kinky people do love showing off their skills and most don’’t mind teaching a little bit when the opportunity arises.

Another great way to learn some new things is to go to a fetish convention for a weekend. There are always a lot of classes, demonstrations and presentations on a wide variety of topics. Usually, there are classes for many different experience levels to provide something for everyone. There are usually a pretty wide number of topics to choose from as well. Most weekends have classes in things like rope bondage, flogging, caning, tit torture, CBT, fisting, and violet wand play. Some will also have classes in relationship development, how to live in a D/s relationship 24/7, self-help classes, and even some options that lean a little more toward the metaphysical, such as sex magick, tantra, meditation and orgasmic breathing. There are usually so many interesting classes available that most people find that they can’’t possibly get to every class that they would have liked to. Taking classes at the fetish conventions is a lot of fun and then one can go right into the dungeon to keep practicing, and there are usually people around in the dungeon that would be happy to offer their own knowledge.

Sexual Fantasies Made Real

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

tumblr_leld1vHQ5e1qdgd5bo1_500There are some who do not realize that some fantasies are meant to be just that, fantasies. Not everything you see while watching free porn is something you are meant to do yourself.

Some of these sexual fantasies are not supposed to be fulfilled and when you figure that out you will live a much happier life.

For instance it may be one of your premier fantasies to fuck the bosses wife or daughter, but upon reflection one can clearly see where this might not be the best course of action even should said wife or daughter want it.

One has to think things through and figure that although the wife or daughter might want it, it is a situation that easily turn ugly and disastrous to say the least, very quickly.

What if the woman suddenly decides that you can do things for them, what if something goes bad and they become an enemy rather than a friend. These are all very realistic possibilities and you could coerced, or exploited, blackmailed or worse. These are all just as possible as your actually getting that piece of ass from them. There is no piece of ass regardless of how good it might be that is worth all the trouble and disaster that could ensue from such an encounter. There are many reasons why such a thing would be a bad idea. So when you simply realize and accept the truth of a thing you will be much better off.

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Besides, that leaves room for a great deal of other fantasies you can make happen. A threesome with the right partner is always a possibility as is perhaps making your own porn movie with your partner. There are a lot of things you can do to really spice things up without crossing a line you may well regret. Not all our thoughts will lead to good kink magic, or any magic at all! It is simply a good sound plan to always evaluate and consider things well before you dive in and try to make them happen.

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If you play smart, you will have a much greater reward than if you simply did things with little consideration beyond getting your rocks off and giving in to greed. Greed will be your undoing every single time.

The Disembodied Pussy

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

tumblr_lghjt4u9UX1qbzd9eo1_500Men only ever become pussy whipped because they want to.

Straight boys are fascinated in a woman’s vagina almost to the exclusion of all else-expect friction-and this chalice of womanhood has been celebrated in art, music, free porn, and literature as much as the phallus that fits inside it. Other female body parts may fascinate the straight guy, even gat man have been known to take notice of a firm high shelf of breasts or a nice swaying buttocks, still it is the vagina that ultimately has the most pull.

But over the time of a straight man’’s life the cunt, vaja-jay, hairpie-whatever it is to be called-becomes less of a fascination, less something women can hold out from their partners or wield with impunity.

Because over time, men realize there is a woman attached to that pussy.

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It takes a man a while but he does come around. First he has to get his mind off fucking. He has to realize that the fact that his dick is hard is truly only fascinating to him! Hopefully from this ephifany he learns to care about and subsequently please his bed partner, whomever he or she happens to be. Lastly, the man might grow to the point where he stops objectifying, or at least tempers his need to objectify, body parts to the exclusion of the person who sports a pair of breasts or a cute ass. And then, the very thing women wish men would do more often-notice them as a whole-renders a woman less powerful.

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If a man begins to notice the whole woman, not just her ass, tits and that deep well of her mystery her vagina, then the woman no longer has the mystery of her parts to hold over her man. Men who wish to be controlled by the cunt can still be, but that is a self-imposed slavery to a body part most adult men will not coddle. Seasoned guys will no longer worship a woman’s parts simply because they have grown to the point where they recognize a woman is a sum of her parts. Sure, guys are still set-up to see first and fit the piece into the whole later, but the pieces become less important as men grow older.

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Or if not, they stay ready and waiting to be pussy whipped …just like they want to be.

Wait To Bring Up Sex

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

tumblr_lgpdn93M6L1qzqbf4Most single people who have profiles on dating websites are looking for sex, at least eventually. It would be unusual to find someone that truly isn’t hoping to get into a relationship that eventually leads to sex.

The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.

Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, don’t ask her about sex or what she’s into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.

Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.

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It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.

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Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes it’s possible to tell by reading the person’s profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it won’t matter. Another option is to wait – discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever she’s ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.

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The New Horizons

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_ler0yiCZ731qd7x8zo1_500Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.

Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant one’s fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.

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There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas.  You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.

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Masturbation Serenity

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_lf7ng676n21qzck00o1_500What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be —even more than they anticipated.

Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when you’re horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.

Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.

Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.

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Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.

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In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.

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This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.

Take It In The Rear

Monday, February 28th, 2011

For some straight men, there is a big stigma against having their ass played with in any way. Fingering, and certainly no sex toys are allowed in there! Too bad for them that they are missing out on a wonderful life pleasure. There is hope, however, for the hopelessly straight man who is at least willing to try to allow his girlfriend to explore beyond the penis.  And if he thinks it is too weird, just boot up some porn that will show him how awesome it can be!

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One of the best ways for a woman to first approach stimulating a guy’s asshole is to begin while there is other intense pleasure happening for him. She might take his succulent cock head into her mouth. While she is sucking him, she might take the personal lubricant from the nightstand and begin to rub some gently around the outside of his anus. Make sure he is still distracted by the free porn at this point.

She can keep sucking, and while he is in the throes of pleasure, insert one finger slowly. No need to pound hard or do too much at all. He might be taken aback at first, but he is also likely to flow with how good that finger feels inside him while he is getting a blow job. Once he gets acclimated, she can move her finger gently to discover the best subtle motions that will stimulate his prostate (P-spot).

If he has never had an anal experience, he might thank her later.
A not-too- big vibrator might be another way to begin for the more adventurous man. Quite a number of guys are curious about what it must feel like to get fucked with a vibrator because they see porno clips of women loving it, or their girlfriends hitting their orgasm with the sensation. Stroking his cock and balls while introducing the lubed-up vibrator to his ass would be a good way to go. It is generally fun to insert it while it is off then turn on the vibrations and watch him jump with startled ecstasy.

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Butt plugs and anal beads: These might be best for once he is familiar with the backdoor route. Often, inserting the number of anal beads you like inside you by yourself is a good thing to do, followed by sexual activity with the partner. Once a guy discovers these pleasures, he may fuck himself silly with a butt plug while his cock is inside his favorite pussy.