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Recently around the water cooler someone asked how many different ways girls can fuck each other. That’s a great question! Want to know the answer? read on.
Many people have heard of fisting, also known sometimes as handballing, where the entire hand of one lover is inserted into the orifice of another. Vaginal fisting is of course where the entire hand is inserted into the cunt or pussy or vagina, while there is also anal fisting which involves inserting the whole hand — or even much of the arm — up the asshole.
Fisting can seem to one like a much more extreme sexual practice than it truly is in reality. For one thing, the practice is associated largely with sexual extremism or at least with lesbians and with gay men for vaginal and anal practices respectively. One may also imagine that fisting causes terrible damage, causing huge loose gaping vaginas or assholes that can never tighten again or be enjoyed by others as they were before. Of course, one would have to wonder then why these practices are so common if so.
First off, fisting can be very safe. Tightness returns naturally to these orifices which are used to being stretched for various reasons. In any gender, it is a great idea to practice kegel exercises in order to strengthen the pelvic floor muscle that is responsible for tightening.
The next thing to know is that fisting is a sport that involves a lot of patience and a lot of lube. Getting a good personal or sexual lubricant for the job is crucial — a nice thick one which lasts a long time will help a lot.
Next up, one should consider gloves for use in fisting. Latex gloves or non latex gloves for those with allergies, are a great choice. They add smoothness to the entire experience and retain lubricant much better — this has the double benefit of making it easier to fist someone but it also adds to clean-up, preventing santorum and other residue and it can also add to the pleasure of the recipient who may very much enjoy the slick texture. Skin has a tendency to pull in unpleasant ways sometimes.
The most important thing in fisting is to go very slow. Gently begin by fingering the pussy or asshole and then gradually, slowly, adding more fingers. Always be sure to reapply lubricant frequently, even with vaginal fisting one needs to be aware that one’s fingers will be blocking the flow of normal vaginal lubrication!
A lot of women hear about fisting and are appalled at the thought. They automatically assume that its going to hurt, is the practice of porn stars, or that they’ll simply get too stretched out. The truth is, the vagina is designed to stretch to accommodate a wide variety of sizes from penises to babies and to return to its original size and shape rather quickly. Doing Kegel exercises regularly will keep the vaginal muscles strong and able to do their job of expanding and contracting without the womans vagina getting unnecessarily loose. Kegels also helps women to retain bladder control as they age, so there a lot of benefits to doing Kegels.
When trying to fist someone, plenty of lubrication and a lot of patience is the key to success. Most people have probably seen that when theyre fingering a woman, they can usually get four fingers in pretty easily. The most difficult part of fisting is to get past the widest part of the hand where the second knuckles are located. Remember though, it doesnt have to happen all at once. Take it slowly, and plan to go a little further during the next session.
First, take plenty of time to get the lady warmed up. Her pussy will open naturally as she gets more aroused, so take whatever time is needed. Use lubricants liberally to avoid irritating her most sensitive spots. Rub her clit, get her aroused, and slowly start to finger her as shes ready. Start with one finger, and slowly increase until there are four fingers inside her. Start off with the four fingers in a cone shape, and slowly spread the fingers so that the hand is palm up and all four fingers are side-by-side. Bringing her to orgasm will help because her pussy will naturally open even wider after an orgasm, and her natural juices will be flowing even more, ensuring that shes continuously getting more lubricated. Once the hand is past the second set of knuckles, its often possible to get the rest of the hand in and make a fist. Turn the hand to the side, tucking the thumb in under the other fingers when making a closed fist. Pay a lot of attention to the lady to make sure that things arent going too fast or too hard.
