Ever since Captain Kirk banged a green bitch, fanboys everywhere have been obsessing over alien sex. Yes, it’s a real thing. There are websites devoted to it. Not my kind of fetish, but hey, whatever floats your boat. Or should I say USS Enterprise?
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Alien Sex – Yes It’s A Thing
Sunday, April 8th, 2012
Porn Star of the Week: Hannah West
Monday, March 26th, 2012Auburn, Alabama, home to Auburn University and Chewacla State Park. But most importantly, it is the birthplace of Orgasm.com’s porn star of the week. After the jump learn about naughty Tigers fan, Hannah West.
Collar Etiquette and Meaning
Wednesday, August 31st, 2011Collars: They have begun to appear more and more in porn and on even mainstream television shows at least one actress is known to wear a collar as a sign of her real life D and S relationship with her Master. They show up in our lives more and more, especially for those of us who are part of or interested in the fetish sex scene. What do they mean, how can we use them, and what is the etiquette for being around another person wearing a collar?
When collars are seen in most sex videos we can assume they are probably being used for the duration of the movie and nothing more. They are a way to restrain a submissive or keep her in place, and they are also a simple symbol of the role that one of the porn stars is playing. By contrast, in the real world these accessories can take on a far more significant meaning, sometimes representing as much as a wedding ring does to more vanilla couples.
For some people a permanent collar, often called a slave collar, is given as a sign of a highly significant Dominant and submissive style relationship. The slave who wears this collar has entered into a significant amount of training with the Master of their choice, and it shows their devotion to each other on a very high level. Collars worn like this should not be touched by outsiders without permission. Even if one is fucking the wearer of such a collar it is best to avoid touching it whenever possible unless one is explicitly allowed to do so.
Collars of course can also be worn as a fashion accessory or a play thing. For some people attending a sex party together it might be a sign of a temporary relationship between the two, or just that one of them is looking to submit to someone there.
Pleasurable Pain
Monday, August 29th, 2011
Pain is a part of everyone’s lives, from the agony of an injury to the every day aches and pains we all feel as our lives grow longer and we grow older and less well put together. It may seem strange that anyone would seek out more pain than they already have to deal with, and yet there are very many out there, not just the extreme masochists of a freak show, but regular people who enjoy a little bit of consensual pain play in the bedroom. Ever loved being bitten on the neck? Or had a lover dig fingernails into one’s flesh during passionate intimacy and found it incredibly erotic? If so, then the right kinds of pain should be in one’s sexual repertoire in order to live a fully realized and free sex life.
Today more and more of the free porn videos on the Internet include some kind of fetish play, and very often this includes some kind of sadism or masochism. Whether it is a man spanking a girl during doggy style fucking or a girl pulling the man’s hair to drag him into her pussy, there is some element of power exchange and painful roughness. Why is this kind of thing enjoyable to anyone? Why do so many porn stars have big smiles in the after sex interviews which are so common in fetish porn?
In our brains when we are injured, our brain and nervous system release chemicals called endorphins which are like natural forms of the drug opium, creating pleasurable sensations along with a relief from the pain. Similar endorphins are also released during normal sexual interactions, so it should come as no surprise that sometimes the wires get crossed and what is painful can suddenly become pleasurable. Much of sex already crosses that barrier — taken out of contexts, some passionate noises can also sound like agony and vice versa.
Dirty Cartoons
Thursday, August 25th, 2011
Asian porn has become pretty legendary among porn enthusiasts. Long before any other porn market was open to many of the niche markets of various fetish and kinky interests, Asian porn was exploring every possible sexual interest known to mankind. The Asian porn market has long been known to be the innovators when it comes to sex and pornography. It’s funny though, for all the kink and fetish and unusual sexual interests that the Asian porn industry is willing to delve into, quite a bit of Asian porn has people’s genitals blurred out. There are laws in Japan that forbid showing genitals and pubic hair, so that area is blurred even when there is no penetration. It may seem odd to some people that there is such willingness to explore so many unusual sexual adventures yet the country has obscenity laws that require that film makers not show the genitals of the cast.
Other popular forms of Asian pornography are hentai and adult video games. Hentai is a Japanese slang term for sexually explicit comics and animation, such as anime and manga. Hentai is extremely popular all around the world. The censorship laws in Japan discourage visible genitalia even in hentai. In spite of the fact that the characters are cartoons, the genitals and pubic hair is blurred even in the cartoons, animation and video games. In the US, the characters are required to appear to be obviously over 18, but the genitalia can be visible. In Japan, the characters can take on an obviously child-like quality, but the genitals must be blurred. That is just one example of the difference in censorship laws from country to country.
One clear benefit of Asian porn and hentai is that it tends to target a lot of different demographics, including material targeted specifically toward women. In the US, porn is predominantly targeted toward men, although the market for porn geared toward the female buyer is growing steadily.
Doing the Voodoo That We Always Do
Thursday, August 11th, 2011It is said that we set our sexual interests very early in our lives, sometimes well before we are even aware of our sexual feelings. Fetishes are typically birthed somewhere in childhood and of course our sexual preferences are burned into our DNA. The same can be said about or choices for porn. We might be introduced to an adult video quite early in our teen years, something we certainly did not go out and buy for ourselves, so the choice of material will not always be individualistic. But what we see those first few times viewing dirty movies will influence all our future viewing, good or bad, and make us seek out or avoid certain things.
We might get a hint of some double penetration and yearn to see more, or it might repel us on first viewing and we avoid it. might be our thing from the second we see it on screen, a specific Lesbian sexfetish that we might never want to try might though turn us on greatly when we see it enacted in an adult video. All manner of actions, lofty and silly patter, body types and costumes might as much turn us on as cool our libido when we first see them in a dirty movie and affect how we view them all as we march into the future downloading our porn.
Of course or tastes can change as we grow older and things we found so fascinating and arousing as a teenager might simply grow staid and routine the more we see it played out on adult video or experience for real. As quite often happens with the visual representation of sex, when we finally can experience some of what we are seeing for real, the mystery is muted a bit or we simply enjoy the reality of all this salacious stuff more than a movie of it we find we don’t need the movie all that much.
A Ride Down the Highway
Thursday, July 7th, 2011Just as you might hop into your car on a beautiful Sunday morning and go out for a ride to see where you might end up and what you might discover, hopping onto the Internet for a little bit of Porn exploration is just as easy as a breeze, and you won’t have to spring for any expensive gas or pay any pesky toll collectors along the way.
Whenever a beautiful spring day dawns on the weekend, many of us get the urge to have a road trip and do a little exploration. Many of us polish up our trusty cars and take them out for a spin on the highway with no particular destination in mind. We go where the open road and our expansive whims take us and we spend the day having an adventure with no limits, no schedule and certainly no predetermined outcome. We often come across many little special places that we never would have known about or planned to visit had we been sticking to a previously planned out itinerary.
Hopping on the world wide web to search for sex sites can be a very similar and exciting whirlwind of an experience. We can fire up our computers and hop onto the vast and wide open highway of the world wide web and just follow the road to wherever our desires happen to lead us. There is literally something for everyone on the web and we may end up somewhere that we never even knew we wanted to visit until we got there. Whether we are searching for kink, for fetish, or just for sex in general, we will easily find what we seek along our drive on the Internet and we need never worry that we may run out of gas and have to stop.
Time to fire up the engine and hit the road to enjoy the scenery for a bit.
The Finite Allure of Role-Play
Friday, June 24th, 2011Most of the time sexy, sometimes endearing, always interesting, role-play is the stuff of many a long-term couple’s sex play as well as a new date’s way to seduction. We are all actors inside, the entire world is indeed a stage, and we do adopt roles even when we aren’t aware of it. Doing so specifically to turn-on a partner or to turn-on ourselves, many men and women adopt personas, dress-up and literally attempt to become other people to facilitate a bigger, better and sometimes kinkier sex life.
It’s sometimes a very tenuous difference between how we act in real life and how we playact, but the difference is important to recognize. The problem with any playing as an adult is that it can hurtle good taste, common sense and propriety. As we do not want to adopt our weekend-warrior touch-football mentality into our 9-5 corporate existence, we don’t want to grovel like the little doggie we pretend we are for our master or mistress on a Saturday night; there literally is a time and place for everything. Heightened senses of sexual need does not the best judgment make, so erring on the side of a specific time and place for our role-playing as well as the time and place it ends, is prudent to keeping the role-play fresh and exciting and our dignity intact.
Simply put, the longer we stay in character, dress in the specific clothes, speak in the patter and do all that the role-play allows and demands the more time is on our back, the less possibility for variety there is and the deeper the risk we run of one partner slipping out of the play or the need for it before the other. The very aspect of what fuels the fun or reacting to our lover in this way is that we know this is play, maybe answering a fetish, routing round a kink we do not indulge normally.
A vacation is only a vacation because we come back from the beach and get on with the drudgery of our real life after a prescribed amount of time. Our brains do not work well pretending all the time, we grow stale, bored and will light out for ever more diversions if we are not brought back to the mundane realities of our lives and face the real people we are in a relationship with after a time.
Acceptance Of Kink
Monday, May 9th, 2011
There are a few fetishes that make people feel a little bit squeamish because they’re a little edgy or seem kind of gross to some people. Kinky people usually try very hard to respected each other and not judge someone’s else’s kink, but sometimes when something seems really disturbing it can be a little bit difficult to be open-minded. One thing to remember is that there are people that would find our kink disturbing, even if it seems like a rather mild kink to us. There is always someone more vanilla or more mainstream who may judge us because what we like may seem extreme to them. When we remember that, it can sometimes make it easier for us to treat other people with respect and be less judgmental toward other people, especially when we stop and remember how it makes us feel when it happens to us.
The good thing is that mainstream vanilla people seem to be getting more accepting of kink, fetish and alternative lifestyles. It’s becoming more visible, and not always in a bad way. There are still crime shows where someone gets killed and further investigation ends up showing that it was either a murder in a dungeon or an accident in a dungeon and the show goes on to examine the slimy underbelly of society that is BDSM clubs, or at least that’s how the vanilla writers like to portray the kink community. There are other outlets though, like music videos by various artists that clearly show BDSM as attractive and sexy. Mainstream vanilla people may not be getting more accepting of BDSM, but they are at least probably getting a little bit desensitized to it. That’s not an entirely bad thing. If they see something kinky and don’t bat an eyelash over it, they will probably leave kinky people alone a little bit more and accept kink as some normal part of life for some people and not a bad or dangerous thing.
While most kinky people really don’t want any vanilla people nosing about in their business, most would also agree that it wouldn’t hurt for the BDSM crowd to be more accepted and less judged by people who live a more mainstream lifestyle. That what most people in the world want; to be accepted for who they are and not judged.
Technology Has Changed The Whole World
Saturday, April 23rd, 2011It’s hard now to imagine or remember what life was like before we had the internet and had so much information at our fingertips all the time. Some of us can remember what life was like before, but we’ve grown so accustomed to the convenience and ease of doing everything on our computers that it seems like the time before the computer was an extremely long time ago, when really it was less than 20 years. It’s amazing how many things have changed now though, and how difficult it would be to live without the internet and all of our technology now that we’re used to it. Twenty years ago when the very rich and important few had a ‘mobile phone’, it was a huge clunky thing that required a case the size of a briefcase. Nobody then could imagine that twenty years later, we’d have iPhones that would house everything in our entire lives, from our calendar to our contacts to all of our music. We can even date now on our smart phones, as most of the larger dating websites have phone applications. It might actually be possible at this point to fall in love using nothing more than our smart phone, because we can do everything from getting on the dating site to making a reservation for a first date to texting and talking on the phone. One device does it all. There probably weren’t too many people who saw this coming. One o the biggest changes that the internet has made in people’s lives is the easy accessibility of sexual information.
In the past, people would have to brave potentially dangerous situations in order to learn more or explore the own sexuality. BDSM and fetish was a whole underground world that was frightening and sometimes dangerous because nefarious people knew they could take advantage of desperate people who were looking for ways to explore their fantasies. These days people can find out anything they want right from the safety of their own home. They can interact with people before venturing out to a dungeon or party, so they feel a little more secure. We have a world where information is vast and easy to access for everyone, and that is a great thing for everyone in the world.