Could she be in-orgasmic? Or is it possible she’s having orgasms without your knowing it?

If a guy says he doesn’t masturbate, you can check his palms to see Robin Williams’ chest chair growing from them. On the other hand, many women don’t masturbate, and often if they do they start much later in life.

It’s also a well-documented point that women don’t reach their sexual peak until they reach their mid-thirties. She may have a hard time getting aroused by herself. Some women will play around and it’ll feel really good to a certain point, then it won’t feel very good, so she’ll stop. There’s no big crescendo, so she is not perceiving that she’s having an orgasm, if in fact she is.

If she gets horny, gets wet, has a vibrator, enjoys masturbating even if she’s not having orgasms, she might want to have her testosterone levels checked. The so-called male hormone is responsible for great deal of female sexual response cycle. A lot of women who are not horny at all or not orgasmic may have really low levels of testosterone.

A lot of women don’t really get there until they hit their sexual peak.She’ll need to learn how to breathe and engage her diaphragm. If she holds her breath, she can actually short circuit all the responses going up and down from head to pussy.

Most importantly, try and help her relax, as getting upset makes the struggle even more challenging. If she feels like an orgasm is something she owes you, rather than something she experiences or possesses, it will compound the problem. If she didn’t start masturbating until she was 20 and now she’s 25, she may just be a late bloomer. And if not, maybe it’s time to get her to watch some free porn.