Watersports is not sex in the shower or the pool, but the erotic and xxx activity of adding urine to one’s sex play. Why would someone want to do this? Well first it should be noted that urine is largely sterile as it leaves the body, though it does pick up some germs from the skin of genitals as it passes out of the body. Especially if the person doing the peeing is very well hydrated, the liquid will be almost entirely clear and very little odor compared to how it might otherwise be.

This is clearly not an activity for everyone but for the very liberated and adventurous match pair in an adult dating relationship. It is certainly not something to do without prior communication and negotiation. Do not ever surprise someone by peeing on them. If they are squeamish or worried about the mess one can propose doing this in a shower while running water is also present or right after wards to make clean up quick. On the other hand some people will be enthusiastic about this taboo act, and be all about peeing on each other or being peed on. Try to avoid splashing the eyes when possible, as most people may not enjoy this. It is also a good idea to negotiate first before trying to make anyone drink it.

Many people find it a very submissive and sexy act to be peed on. They feel it is like an animal marking its territory or property and will love the sensation of being claimed. Others will eroticize the taboo breaking nature of it. Weirdly, many humans get off on doing the things we are supposedly not supposed to do.

It is important to note that while there may be over lap, female ejaculation is not water sports as the fluids produced are distinct. However many people who enjoy being squirted one also enjoy being peed on and vice versa.

Many people today are interested in sharing spanking as a kind of fun erotic play on its own or as a spicy addition to sex with their lovers. The ass has many nerves and is very sensitive to touch or to slapping with bare hands or deliciously painful paddles. In addition to the pleasure pain connection found in other parts of the body, which can release powerful endorphins in the brain, the proximity to the genitals of both men and women is not to be ignored. When someone is spanked, blood naturally flows to the point of impact, but blood flowing to the area is also a major factor in sexual arousal, leading to a woman’s flush and lubrication and a man’s throbbing erections. It is natural perhaps that the nerves cross over when we play.

Of course many people have experimented with adding spanking to their more fun and free sex encounters, but many people enjoy it as a foreplay to the main fucking as well. For many people, over the knee spankings, also known as OTK spanking, are an extremely popular position because of the vulnerability they lend people like in this video where a 19 year old gets spanked with a spatula and wooden spoon. They are also enjoyable for the spanker, because their consensual victim is laid across their lap, squirming and moving in a most pleasurable way with each impact.

Many spankees will enjoy positions for spanking similar to doggy style sex, on all fours on the bed or with head down and their ass up in the air while one works their posterior over with hands or toys. Another position is simply to bend the one getting spanked over the edge of a bed or mattress. Other people greatly enjoy doing this anywhere one is, for example bending the sub over the couch, making them lean over with their arms on a chair, or even over the hood of a car for adding an exciting public element to the game.

There is a special eroticism in making a sex video with one’s lover. We can see ourselves in a special way, fucking and enjoying pleasure and this can be a turn on like no other. In addition, we love the idea that we might share these films with others and get an erotic thrill knowing that others are getting off to our home made porn films. And yet there are some mistakes which lovers make and which are easily avoided for better x-rated thrills.

When making porn together, it’s important to remove any distractions which might keep other people from enjoying what you do. Don’t film in a room with a huge pile of dirty laundry or where a dog keeps moving into the frame. This isn’t bestiality, after all! Clean up and make things look as attractive as possible. If one wants something really exotic and fresh, try filming in a hotel room or in another location one has permission to use. Pay attention to the sound track as well — some amateur films are ruined by having commercials or a television playing the news in the background. Try putting on some sexy music instead, but also make sure it does not drown out the sounds of love making. Most people viewing adult videos enjoy the sound track of human sounds of passion, and are disappointed when a video hides these instead under loud music. Some people are embarrassed perhaps by the noises they make, but if one is willing to display one’s body let one’s aural side show too.

Make sure the lighting is good, as some films can be ruined by lighting which is too dim. It is probably a good idea to get some test shots first, filming a few seconds of film with the camera set up just as one plans to do and then check to make sure it looks good!

What’s the poor porn star to do now?

It seems the guy and girl in porn-and basically the girls are most sought after as most porn is viewed by hetero guys-are going to, if they haven’t already, have to take their show-on-the-road. Not fucking in public but having to dance now at clubs for an exclusive amount of time and money, having to amp-up their live autograph signing experiences, having to sell pictures and exclusive content on their websites, in a last vestige, beat-um or join-um kind of approach.

The future of the modern-day porn star is certainly changing as technology grabs hold and continues to exert its heavy-handed grip.

What happens also with all this technology is that we might have less need for a glut of material, we might have less a want for a cornucopia of stars and might simply take to our new gadgets that can pretty much simulate feelings of tactile stimulation, plug-in and on a site and create our own snippets of visual aid from what is available. As audiences everywhere can pretty much alter the landscape of whatever diversion they are into, why not get into a clean virtual reality space and populate it with the amalgamation of avatars and digital human representations of our own makings, making porn and porn stars obsolete in the world of our fevered more specific imaginations.

It might indeed by a case of the inmates having keys to a crazy kingdom that was just itching to be overthrown, the castle rent asunder and the king and the queen relegated to baring themselves in a village near you some time very soon.

Even the nipples of female children are considered so provocative that is banned in some places for those under the age of three to go topless by the pool. At the same time, hard fought legal battles have allowed some women to go topless in public places in major cities like New York CIty and Austin, Texas as well as throughout the nation of Canada. Few take up this possibility because it can still be so provocative. The sight of a bare breast is sometimes considered scandalous even in the context of nursing. Nursing mothers have sometimes been banned or escorted out of malls or other places, despite the natural purpose of these bounteous orbs being fulfilled.

Male nipples are often overlooked sources of pleasure for the men who wear them. Many women have been startled by the surprising amount of pleasure their men express, and the men sometimes surprised too, after that time she happens to tweak one during sex. This is a great way to build a man up toward climax and can be added to fucking or oral pleasures or other kinds of sexual acts. Many men may even enjoy getting their nipples pierced or the use of clothes pins as nipple clamps in bed.

The Kama Sutra is the ancient guide to sexual behaviors and sex positions which many people have studied over the centuries since it was first created in ancient India. What most people know are that it depicts many different contorted positions in which a person can have sexual intercourse. But it also has guides to all kinds of sexual behavior and one feature of it is that it features quite a lot of material on the subject of erotic biting. Evidently the ancient Indians knew what a thrill it could be, even to the point of including it in their porn!

One can experiment with biting in many ways and many places. One should generally start gently but one may find that their lover is encouraging them to bite even harder and give them more sensation. Biting can be added to kissing and a make out session, moving from the lips to nuzzle and nibble at the neck and shoulders — though be careful of hickies as we said above. Many women enjoy being bitten on the back of the neck or where the neck and shoulders meet, either as a stimulation on its own or an addition to sex.

It can be hard to be bold and extra verbal in the bedroom. We are taught to be shy or even ashamed of sexual matters so it can be hard to let loose even when we are with a trusted and intimate partner. Now if anyone has watched a porno before, they will know that sometimes the dialogue is extremely cheesy. We’re not suggesting that you necessarily role play out the infamous pizza guy comes over and gets seduced scenario, although that might add some humorous thrills to your games. Nor are we advising faking an orgasm — leave those kinds of theatrics to the professionals and enjoy genuine pleasure with one’s lovers.

But what one can learn from porn is that the best way to dirty talk is to just let it flow. Don’t be afraid of sounding silly or weird. In the heat of the moment, one is likely to sound desperately sexy to one’s fuck friend regardless of how it might seem later or when imagining it before. We can practice ahead of time, too, enjoying an erotic monologue while masturbating or even just fantasizing. Sex videos that others have made may also be a source of good sexy things to say to one’s love.

The same is true about simply taking the time to see the sensual and pleasurable aspects in all kinds of things. Food, for instance, can be very sensual and erotic but not immediately so: a good meal with a lover can be just as stimulating and erotically charged as it can be with clothes off. This is also a great way to become simply more sensual and appreciative of the world around you. Food is good but there are also smells and other things that, too, can be sensual and almost erotic: incense and perfumes, certain types of clothing or cloth, or fine art can also change the way you look at the world and maybe open new doors of sensuality. How we talk to one another, react to our pleasures and take pleasure in how one another reacts is sexy to.

The bottom line is that by seeing the world only as sexy when we’re naked and having intercourse limits your world down to a very narrow focus. By spending some pleasurable time exploring the rest of the erotic and pleasurable in our life, by recognizing the sexual in so much more than just the body parts of your lover, you can really expand what sex is and can be. Erotic visual images are more than just gonzo porn and tickling and teasing goes beyond foreplay. Intimacy is not just fucking for romantic couples.

Sex might be everywhere but it’s not always sexual. On-line or off, we can immerse ourselves in the desires we have and those we can cultivate.

Part of the way this can happen is through what are called safe-words: a code that the submissive can say that will be a signal to the dominant that they want the play to change. The words, ideally, should be ones that won’t be used commonly to avoid confusion and it’s best to have a specific few words at the ready to indicate levels ;darker colors for instance to indicate the play is growing ever more intense or painful This is also why communication must be there are all times, so that the submissive can talk to the dominant and vice versa. The dominant, too, must be able to say at any time that they are uncomfortable or do not want to proceed.

So, while power exchange can be an effective erotic component of kink play, it’s best to always learn as much about it before you try it out with anyone else so you can play safely for a very long time. There are so many levels to what we might seek sexually that it is best we keep open to all possibilities.

For a lot of men and women who role play open huge doors of erotic possibility: chances for couples to put on simple or even eventually complicated scenes that can also lead to play such as dominance and submission: where one partner will be a slave or servant to the other ; though that is a whole new world of exploration that has its own rules and difficulties as well as new possible benefits.

Role-play doesn’t necessarily lead one to kink nor kink needs role-play it is just that possibilities exist for all the great things we might get into

Role playing also has plenty of opportunities for expanded play by doing things like buying whole outfits and costumes so the people who are pretending to be other people for sexual play can have not just a new personality but also a whole new wardrobe that can help with the play in all kinds of new and fun ways. Some couples also go as far as to take their new personalities out for a date or even on vacation: pretending to be other people in hotels, restaurants and so forth.

So think about role playing if you are interested in expanding your sexual horizons in new and possibly stimulating ways.