Watersports is not sex in the shower or the pool, but the erotic and xxx activity of adding urine to one’s sex play. Why would someone want to do this? Well first it should be noted that urine is largely sterile as it leaves the body, though it does pick up some germs from the skin of genitals as it passes out of the body. Especially if the person doing the peeing is very well hydrated, the liquid will be almost entirely clear and very little odor compared to how it might otherwise be.
Many people today are interested in sharing spanking as a kind of fun erotic play on its own or as a spicy addition to sex with their lovers. The ass has many nerves and is very sensitive to touch or to slapping with bare hands or deliciously painful paddles. In addition to the pleasure pain connection found in other parts of the body, which can release powerful endorphins in the brain, the proximity to the genitals of both men and women is not to be ignored. When someone is spanked, blood naturally flows to the point of impact, but blood flowing to the area is also a major factor in sexual arousal, leading to a woman’s flush and lubrication and a man’s throbbing erections. It is natural perhaps that the nerves cross over when we play.
Of course many people have experimented with adding spanking to their more fun and free sex encounters, but many people enjoy it as a foreplay to the main fucking as well. For many people, over the knee spankings, also known as OTK spanking, are an extremely popular position because of the vulnerability they lend people like in this video where a 19 year old gets spanked with a spatula and wooden spoon. They are also enjoyable for the spanker, because their consensual victim is laid across their lap, squirming and moving in a most pleasurable way with each impact.
Many spankees will enjoy positions for spanking similar to doggy style sex, on all fours on the bed or with head down and their ass up in the air while one works their posterior over with hands or toys. Another position is simply to bend the one getting spanked over the edge of a bed or mattress. Other people greatly enjoy doing this anywhere one is, for example bending the sub over the couch, making them lean over with their arms on a chair, or even over the hood of a car for adding an exciting public element to the game.
There is a special eroticism in making a sex video with one’s lover. We can see ourselves in a special way, fucking and enjoying pleasure and this can be a turn on like no other. In addition, we love the idea that we might share these films with others and get an erotic thrill knowing that others are getting off to our home made porn films. And yet there are some mistakes which lovers make and which are easily avoided for better x-rated thrills.
When making porn together, it’s important to remove any distractions which might keep other people from enjoying what you do. Don’t film in a room with a huge pile of dirty laundry or where a dog keeps moving into the frame. This isn’t bestiality, after all! Clean up and make things look as attractive as possible. If one wants something really exotic and fresh, try filming in a hotel room or in another location one has permission to use. Pay attention to the sound track as well — some amateur films are ruined by having commercials or a television playing the news in the background. Try putting on some sexy music instead, but also make sure it does not drown out the sounds of love making. Most people viewing adult videos enjoy the sound track of human sounds of passion, and are disappointed when a video hides these instead under loud music. Some people are embarrassed perhaps by the noises they make, but if one is willing to display one’s body let one’s aural side show too.
Make sure the lighting is good, as some films can be ruined by lighting which is too dim. It is probably a good idea to get some test shots first, filming a few seconds of film with the camera set up just as one plans to do and then check to make sure it looks good!
The erotic media was so very quick to take advantage of new technology, basically the web and the proliferation of content on line. But all of a sudden porn companies, not to mention porn stars, found their wares being gotten for free! The very medium that seemed such a boom to advertise new porn movies and stars suddenly was cutting into the porn studio’s bottom lines; people could download pirated copies of movies and nobody was getting paid any longer
What’s the poor porn star to do now?
It seems the guy and girl in porn-and basically the girls are most sought after as most porn is viewed by hetero guys-are going to, if they haven’t already, have to take their show-on-the-road. Not fucking in public but having to dance now at clubs for an exclusive amount of time and money, having to amp-up their live autograph signing experiences, having to sell pictures and exclusive content on their websites, in a last vestige, beat-um or join-um kind of approach.
The future of the modern-day porn star is certainly changing as technology grabs hold and continues to exert its heavy-handed grip.
What happens also with all this technology is that we might have less need for a glut of material, we might have less a want for a cornucopia of stars and might simply take to our new gadgets that can pretty much simulate feelings of tactile stimulation, plug-in and on a site and create our own snippets of visual aid from what is available. As audiences everywhere can pretty much alter the landscape of whatever diversion they are into, why not get into a clean virtual reality space and populate it with the amalgamation of avatars and digital human representations of our own makings, making porn and porn stars obsolete in the world of our fevered more specific imaginations.
It might indeed by a case of the inmates having keys to a crazy kingdom that was just itching to be overthrown, the castle rent asunder and the king and the queen relegated to baring themselves in a village near you some time very soon.
It is sometimes hard to imagine a body part that is both simultaneously more over looked and yet more obsessed about than the human nipple. On the one hand, an infamous wardrobe malfunction where a female rock star’s covered nipple was temporarily shown on national television created such a furor that one would have thought they were beaming explicit porn films into our nation’s kindegartens. People on the Internet obsess over adult videos where similar incidents reveal an instant of visibility of a celebrity’s breast. And yet on the other hand, the male nipple, which can be extremely sensitive and erotic, is utterly ignored by most and considered a normal display.
Even the nipples of female children are considered so provocative that is banned in some places for those under the age of three to go topless by the pool. At the same time, hard fought legal battles have allowed some women to go topless in public places in major cities like New York CIty and Austin, Texas as well as throughout the nation of Canada. Few take up this possibility because it can still be so provocative. The sight of a bare breast is sometimes considered scandalous even in the context of nursing. Nursing mothers have sometimes been banned or escorted out of malls or other places, despite the natural purpose of these bounteous orbs being fulfilled.
Male nipples are often overlooked sources of pleasure for the men who wear them. Many women have been startled by the surprising amount of pleasure their men express, and the men sometimes surprised too, after that time she happens to tweak one during sex. This is a great way to build a man up toward climax and can be added to fucking or oral pleasures or other kinds of sexual acts. Many men may even enjoy getting their nipples pierced or the use of clothes pins as nipple clamps in bed.
There’s an old cliched statement: Don’t be shy, I don’t bite. But for some of us who are interested in an especially uninhibited and free sex life we may want our interactions to have a little more sting and in which case, biting can often be a fun addition to our bedroom interactions. Obviously everyone will feel different about any sexual activity, and this can be good or bad for a specific person. Some people will have concerns about bite marks which can show at work, but even with such people there is a lot of body area to cover, unless of course they are models or a porn star in which case one may have to be a little bit more careful — unless one is an actor too and helping them create sex videos with some hot biting fetish action!
The Kama Sutra is the ancient guide to sexual behaviors and sex positions which many people have studied over the centuries since it was first created in ancient India. What most people know are that it depicts many different contorted positions in which a person can have sexual intercourse. But it also has guides to all kinds of sexual behavior and one feature of it is that it features quite a lot of material on the subject of erotic biting. Evidently the ancient Indians knew what a thrill it could be, even to the point of including it in their porn!
One can experiment with biting in many ways and many places. One should generally start gently but one may find that their lover is encouraging them to bite even harder and give them more sensation. Biting can be added to kissing and a make out session, moving from the lips to nuzzle and nibble at the neck and shoulders — though be careful of hickies as we said above. Many women enjoy being bitten on the back of the neck or where the neck and shoulders meet, either as a stimulation on its own or an addition to sex.
Our lovers would love it if we were a little more free and raunchy in bed. Everyone loves some dirty talk, when their fuck buddy takes the time to not just do things but tell them how good it feels or to share some filthy thoughts as they get it on. But how do we learn to share in this erotic verbal delight? One thing we can do is learn from some of the experts on verbal sexy banter, one class of which and probably among the most practiced users of filthy words are porn stars for whom it is a part of their everyday job to talk dirty to the people they are being paid to fuck or vice versa.
It can be hard to be bold and extra verbal in the bedroom. We are taught to be shy or even ashamed of sexual matters so it can be hard to let loose even when we are with a trusted and intimate partner. Now if anyone has watched a porno before, they will know that sometimes the dialogue is extremely cheesy. We’re not suggesting that you necessarily role play out the infamous pizza guy comes over and gets seduced scenario, although that might add some humorous thrills to your games. Nor are we advising faking an orgasm — leave those kinds of theatrics to the professionals and enjoy genuine pleasure with one’s lovers.
But what one can learn from porn is that the best way to dirty talk is to just let it flow. Don’t be afraid of sounding silly or weird. In the heat of the moment, one is likely to sound desperately sexy to one’s fuck friend regardless of how it might seem later or when imagining it before. We can practice ahead of time, too, enjoying an erotic monologue while masturbating or even just fantasizing. Sex videos that others have made may also be a source of good sexy things to say to one’s love.
Part of the reason to change your perspective about what sex is and can be is because it can really open up your world, for men as well as women. A good way of looking at how sex can be unique and different is to look at where sex is suggested but not shown. Many people have a favorite book, movie, or TV show that they feel is very erotic or sexually charged but is not explicit: the favorite is sexy but there is nothing immediately seen; the sex is only in the tension between the characters or the situation. This is true in the real world as it is in movies and books and TV shows.
The same is true about simply taking the time to see the sensual and pleasurable aspects in all kinds of things. Food, for instance, can be very sensual and erotic but not immediately so: a good meal with a lover can be just as stimulating and erotically charged as it can be with clothes off. This is also a great way to become simply more sensual and appreciative of the world around you. Food is good but there are also smells and other things that, too, can be sensual and almost erotic: incense and perfumes, certain types of clothing or cloth, or fine art can also change the way you look at the world and maybe open new doors of sensuality. How we talk to one another, react to our pleasures and take pleasure in how one another reacts is sexy to.
The bottom line is that by seeing the world only as sexy when we’re naked and having intercourse limits your world down to a very narrow focus. By spending some pleasurable time exploring the rest of the erotic and pleasurable in our life, by recognizing the sexual in so much more than just the body parts of your lover, you can really expand what sex is and can be. Erotic visual images are more than just gonzo porn and tickling and teasing goes beyond foreplay. Intimacy is not just fucking for romantic couples.
Sex might be everywhere but it’s not always sexual. On-line or off, we can immerse ourselves in the desires we have and those we can cultivate.
The nature of sexual power exchange is the idea that a person, within the context of erotic play, gives up control to another person; but in reality it is a bit more complicated than that and, as with a lot of sexual and erotic interests and play, it is very important to read as much as possible, take classes, and talk to people before trying it out. One reason why this is important is that the reality of power exchange play is that the person that many people assume is in control is not really: the bottom, submissive, or slave is the one who is actually in control as they always, for matter of safely, be able to change or alter the play at any time. The master or dominant is the one who has to be responsible and must always be willing to change the scene to protect and keep safe the person they are playing with. The dominant or master may have the attitude or such of being in control but if the other person involved ever wants the play or scene to change they that dominant or master must immediately respond to their needs.
Part of the way this can happen is through what are called safe-words: a code that the submissive can say that will be a signal to the dominant that they want the play to change. The words, ideally, should be ones that won’t be used commonly to avoid confusion and it’s best to have a specific few words at the ready to indicate levels ;darker colors for instance to indicate the play is growing ever more intense or painful This is also why communication must be there are all times, so that the submissive can talk to the dominant and vice versa. The dominant, too, must be able to say at any time that they are uncomfortable or do not want to proceed.
So, while power exchange can be an effective erotic component of kink play, it’s best to always learn as much about it before you try it out with anyone else so you can play safely for a very long time. There are so many levels to what we might seek sexually that it is best we keep open to all possibilities.
Even though there’s various techniques for men and women to expand their sexual horizons, from experimenting with new types of erotic stimulation or playing with new and unique sex toys, one of the simplest and most powerful technique is called role playing. Role play, basically, is where a person, or a couple, put on a new personality to become a whole new and totally different kind of sexual person. It’s basically like the game kids play: let’s pretend. But instead of cowboys and Indians or cops and crooks these games can be a lot more adult and explicit. One mistake that people make, though, is to make the games too complicated. Instead of thinking elaborate or dark with role play a better idea is to keep the games and the roles being used as simple and almost funny as possible. Instead of something like serial killer and cop, which can bring up a lot of dangerous possibilities, it is much better to do something like housewife and pool boy, businessman and call girl, student and teacher, or similar.
For a lot of men and women who role play open huge doors of erotic possibility: chances for couples to put on simple or even eventually complicated scenes that can also lead to play such as dominance and submission: where one partner will be a slave or servant to the other ; though that is a whole new world of exploration that has its own rules and difficulties as well as new possible benefits.
Role-play doesn’t necessarily lead one to kink nor kink needs role-play it is just that possibilities exist for all the great things we might get into
Role playing also has plenty of opportunities for expanded play by doing things like buying whole outfits and costumes so the people who are pretending to be other people for sexual play can have not just a new personality but also a whole new wardrobe that can help with the play in all kinds of new and fun ways. Some couples also go as far as to take their new personalities out for a date or even on vacation: pretending to be other people in hotels, restaurants and so forth.
So think about role playing if you are interested in expanding your sexual horizons in new and possibly stimulating ways.