Face-sitting and smothering are two similar fetishes that are seen as a bit edgy because of the dangers involved. Face-sitting isn’t actually dangerous if done properly, because face sitting doesn’t actually cut of the partner’s air supply, but smothering actually does involve cutting of the air supply for short periods of time (hence the name smothering). In both cases, it involves a person who is usually dominant lowering their genital area onto a submissive person’s face for forced oral to genital or oral to anal contact, but smothering involves placing more weight on the person’s face quite literally covering the other person’s face with their body.
Smothering, quite obviously, can be a little bit dangerous and should be practiced by people with some experience or else they should be mentored or supervised by someone who has experience in order to keep the submissive safe.
Most of the time this fetish is practiced with a female top or dominant and a male bottom or submissive. Men who love to be on the receiving end of this fetish find it to be very erotic. The people that love it truly love eating pussy. They enjoy the female juices and want them on their skin and in their mouth. They love having their head surrounded by flesh and they tend to really enjoy the natural body scent of another person’s body. They enjoy the slightly sweaty scent and they love the natural moisture of that area of the body that tends to get sweaty and will get develop more moisture as she becomes more and more aroused.
Sometimes the submissive is put into some sort of bondage to hold them still during face-sitting, but it’s not a necessity. It just adds to the scene and the submissiveness of the scenario to feel forced by using restraints and making the situation unavoidable with the feeling of it being slightly against the submissive’s will. It’s a mind game that many submissives enjoy in a scene. Some people enjoy the use of a piece of BDSM furniture called a smotherbox. The smotherbox fits over the submissive’s head almost like stocks. It’s fits over the neck and restrains the person’s head so that they cannot move their head. There is a hole on the top of the box for the dominant party to position themselves for receiving oral pleasure.