This combination of celebrity, and power, combined with a natural extroversion make it an easy thing to do. Then the idea that they can easily make six figures a year doing it seals the deal. Any potential resistance they might have had left is totally and completely gone. The lure of easy money is far too much for most to take and especially under the trying times of a tough economy. Some of these couples are even giving more professional producers a run for their money in terms of viewership. It’s a wonder they aren’t actually picked up by some adult production company. Ironically enough, they don’t have to because they would actually stand to lose money doing it that way. This way, the homegrown and homespun fucking and sucking all by themselves does it all.

They are in a class all their own and don’t have the competition of really anyone. For the consumer, the idea of watching a private amateur couple go to work has more appeal than watching picture perfect professionals do the same thing. It’s because it’s real, and those people doing it, are actually enjoying it, unlike some barbie doll wondering what she wants from subway and just waiting for some hunk to stop banging her so she can eat.

The human male seems wired to enjoy thrusting. Our cocks get hard and we just want to slip somewhere slick and wet and thrust and grind until we have an Orgasm. Sadly, these are often not the best ways to give similar climaxes to women. Penetrative sex also poses a much higher risk of sexually transmitted disease transmission, as well as of course the risk of pregnancy in some cases.

A couple who have just met on a Free sex dating site may not be ready to jump right into fucking. But mutual masturbation can be a wonderful pursuit. This can be done remotely as phone sex or even the modern delight, web cam sex, but it can also be pleasurably done in person. Two can masturbate together at the same time, legs intertwined and enjoying the muscle spasms that each person is experiencing as pleasure increases on the way to cumming. You can also take turns, enjoying the pleasures of manual touch, each touching the other’s genitals or stroking and teasing other parts of one’s lovers body while he or she wanks and fucks themselves.

People who practice kinky sex or BDSM have a lot of experience in doing activities which are erotic but do not essentially involve penetration. Of course, spanking can be an extremely arousing experience for many people, but does not involve any exchange of sexual fluids unless it is done during doggy style sex!

So try and branch out a little bit. Don’t let sex turn boring or stale. Do one’s best to enjoy other kinds of fucking other than just fucking!

The boner-shrinker moments can be reasoned through even if not predicted or prevented. We know full well why certain things arouse us while others repel. When both feelings can come from the same person, a date we are seducing or even a long-term lover we thought, up to that moment, we knew everything about, it is startling to say the least but no less powerful. Just because we spend a good amount of time with someone and put a lot of attention into building an intimacy doesn’t mean they can’t literally be the buzz-kill in our life.

Some actions, speech or attitudes that turn us off are fleeting; they only surface when our partner is challenged or not feeling their best or simply feels passionate about something. Those passing seconds might chill us to the bone, see us retreat up off a pussy, pop a cock from our mouth or roll over in frustration, but we can weather the storm of those rough seas and get back to loving our partner once again by simply swallowing what they said, ignoring-as best we could-some silly momentary action on their part. It’s the prolonged true differences, the real meat and potatoes of what people are made of, the contrary natures we all have that surface time and again that cause us to flee or rethink or love-affairs. A stop in the action over some quick hurtle can be hopped, skipped and jumped if it doesn’t speak to the very nature of who a person is.

For the most part we are prepared to be confronted by the things we like and do not like about someone we are in a romance with. For those times we hope the caring we have built and the love we feel we see us through a few boner-shrinking seconds and get us back on the straight and narrow with our partner.

In the U.K. recently horny birdwatchers were caught by park rangers using secluded bird watching huts for their late night love-making. The hunt and chase of the supposed civilized fix hunt brings men’s cocks round to erection as they ride their horses, and many a woman is both repelled by animal blood on her man’s hunting jacket as grows aroused when she prepares the meat of animal he has killed.

Ironically almost all bird species are monogamous, in fact many animals exhibit mating behavior that would do well on a dating site but we, as the most intelligent animal-arguably-retain the right to root and scurry in our basest basements for debasement of our lovers.

We might not be following our feathered friends or scurry brothers, we might indeed by leading the charge in our animalist sense when it comes to sex.

Then there are the aberrations to heterosexual sex we indulge in that seem to be seen in other mammal’s behaviors to; black swans have been known for some homosexual pairings and almost all species have been seen masturbating. We do though seem to have kinks and fetishes pretty much sown up as far as truly non vanilla sexual practices are concerned!

The truth is that no animal is above the other in how refined their sexual practices might be. When it comes to these incredibly complicated yet base urges we all pretty much are taken over by a blood fever, want to get off, with our without a partner.

It a thing lives it pretty much poops and eats and if that thing wants to continue to propagate its own species it pretty much, for the most part, most procreate with another of its species to do so. The urge to spawn, to rub up against, to feel pleasure is as strong for the salmon as it is for a homosexual teenager looking for his first blowjob.

If one does not wish to get one’s worm bitten one should not dangle it off a hook in a school of hungry fish.

The same is true for going on-line trolling for dates. If one joins a dating site, puts up a profile pic or even turns their status on their Facebook wall to single then one must expect some interest. Hetero women are prey to most a hetero guy, even lesbians and as such they must know the rules of the game: that if they put it-and it can be a million and one things from a smile to a bulging cleavage- out there, like ol’ Kevin Costner building his dreamt-of field in Iowa, men will come and cum hard if they can!

Sure, men could learn to temper their cocks a bit. They could begin to realize that there is a flesh-and blood human being underneath the short skirt and make-up but truly men are not smart enough to take those leaps of consideration when they suddenly have an erection. As much as men need to learn that women are living breathing creatures with minds and emotions as well as pussies they can plunder, women have to learn that men are often only bodies controlled by the emotions of their cocks. Once again, one must know well into what waters one dives.

Of course to a greater or lesser degree, each man will be turned-on to different things. What to one guy sees as a short skirt another man will not think short enough and not even turn his head. Guys with fetishes will spin their wheels on the most mundane flips of material or the most innocuous explore of a body part-like an upturned ankle-no woman could ever defend herself from their interests.

By and large women are put upon way too much because of their sexuality, but they should realize even the potential of affect they are having and be responsible in shark infected waters when baiting their hook.

Known as the thrill-seeking gene, DRD4 is responsible for addictions; influencing an individual’s brain chemistry and behavior to such a degree the thrills one might seek could put them in financial peril as well as destroy home lives. Where before an individual who engaged in the very worst actions for him or herself, or the victims left in their wake had no clue to bad behavior, now there seems to be a reason why half of the population act as badly as they do!

It seems the desire to cheat on one’s partner or gamble originates in the brain’s pleasure and reward center. A rush of dopamine motivates the more vulnerable men and women who have the particular DNA variant and the cause-and-effect consequences carry higher a significance for these individuals. Fucking random partners or betting one’s paycheck on a roll of dice thrills these people in ways others will not enjoy.

Singling out bad behavior, as a flaw in one’s genetic make-up will no doubt curry favor with reprobates while the idea fall under criticism from church-groups. Being able to blame aberrant, even sometimes destructive actions on simple DNA coding, in affect disavowing all responsibility for simple directives one cannot no more stop or change, will seem to some as a way to excuse bad behavior. Still others, those with the obvious DNA variant, might indulge their actions even more, consciously or subconsciously, seeing as they know there is no clear way they can stop themselves from acting the cad.

Will it be more the cart leading the horse here? Will a cure be developed, even sought? Or for some will knowing the root of all their philandering be enough to keep their cocks as well as their wallets in their pants?

And are there simply those men and women who do not have this DNA difference, who still act wanton and self-indulgent simply because they like risks and are generally horny?