Posts Tagged ‘cock’

Some Manscaping Could Mean More Blowjobs

Monday, June 27th, 2011

Guys should take a little time to do a bit of manscaping and trim their pubic hair a little bit to impress the ladies. Women have been expected to keep their pussies shaved or trimmed for years now, and they’re enjoying the trend that’s getting popular with men shaving or trimming as well. Some straight guys seem to be resisting the idea of doing some weed-whacking because they feel it makes them a little too metrosexual (which makes some men uncomfortable, even though it doesn’t really mean anything but neat and tidy) or even worse maybe a little bit gay, but the truth is it’s clean and smooth and a lot of women really love it. It doesn’t make a guy anything. It makes him a guy who really enjoys it when women want to be near his cock, and a lot of women are more into being close to a guy’s cock when he’s got a nice, neat area for them to enjoy. It could mean a lot more blowjobs because women hate getting hairs caught in their throat just as much as men hate it. A woman going to subconsciously think that it’s more clean and sanitary, which is going to inspire them to spend a lot more time in the area.

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Since it is getting much more popular, women are starting to get used to it. Imagine how surprised a guy would be if a woman stripped and had a really full bush. Women are starting to feel the same way. Doing a bit of manscaping makes a guy’s hard cock look really great, and sometimes it makes a guy look even larger and longer because the area look so sleek and neat.

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If a guy is thinking about doing this for the first time, there are some tools that are better than others. Scissors can be used, but it’s not recommended. Electric trimmers are perfect for uniformly trimmed hair. For total removal, a new razor and plenty of shaving cream will do the trick. Soak in the tub or shower for a while to soften the hair before getting started, and trimming with an electric razor first might make the job a little easier. Hair removal creams are not a good idea because they can be pretty harsh and burn sensitive skin

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We Are Porn

Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

It has come to the attention of every man and woman that we are porn. We live lives of heightened realism where sex is all we think about, We indulge our whims every second of the day. We are connected to the life-giving technological teat, sucking dry all we can off our PDA’s and phones, tweeting until our thumbs become sore, aching to tell as much as listen, masturbating in mind and body the entire day through. We have our assholes opened, our mouths ready and our genitals constantly dripping for the next thing to divert us, to keep us from having whole conversations, from engaging a real person in real time.

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Like porn all we want is the faster bigger sloppy cumshot to appear across our screens of life, to wipe it away and have at it again.
We were given the wet pussy of opportunity and we jumped in face first. We gamed and were given access to others who did the same, we chatted and found that we could type just as fast with one hand, we set-up a cam and watched others do the same, knowing that sooner or later clothes would come off. We started-out interested we became titillated, we began the seduction we ended with the fucking and now all we want to do is fuck harder and harder. We drain our imaginations daily, fill up and come back for more. And like the very best adult performers, we actually believe there is someone out there who wants us, who is jerking or jilling off to our big tits, who salivates over our thick cock.

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The wonderful thing is that at this point we could not even show-up to the set and we’d still get paid. We don’t really have to make a movie anymore. We could sit back on our laurels and rep and let the accolades wash over us. We have certainly seen and done enough that we should be satiated, experienced, jaded even but there is always another movie to be made, at least in our head, so we head for the bright lights of Facebook walls and tweets, where everyone is a star at least once a day and we strip and dance and self fellaciate or tickle deep and we are porn all over again to live another day.

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Dominant versus Alpha

Saturday, June 11th, 2011

One of the biggest discussions among those who read sexy novels is the difference between alpha males and Dominant men. For those who do not read kinky romance novels, the difference is often misunderstood and confused. Some women see the overbearing dominant male as sexists, crude and downright useless.

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Others crave his powerful sexual appeal. It’s raw, it’s exciting and it’s arousing when the man comes in swinging his cock as though it were the biggest dick his mate or partner has ever seen. The thrill can be exhilarating for a woman who loves the ultra-dominant act. But for many women, that action stops at the bedroom and in the real world she is his equal.

Both men have to take charge of situations. Both men feel the need to control and the underlying reasons behind this need for control is generally the same. A belief that his way can guide his heroine into safety feeds his need to be a leader.

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Often times both men will be in powerful positions either as corporate CEOs or highly trained military experts, these men are used to getting their way. The alpha male will continue that power trip at home while the Dominant male will use it as a role in the bedroom for sexual arousal that has been negotiated upon beforehand.

In the real life bedroom similarities exist too. Whether he’s using ropes and handcuffs, spankings and scarves, or just good old fashion strength to make his point, he’s still on top. His goal is pretty much the same, drag something from the woman that she wants to give but doesn’t know how. She’s generally afraid to ask and that fear is often masked as stubbornness or anger. Sometimes it’s blatant fear. In erotic romance novels, sex is used as a weapon to uncover the key issue and develop the plot as well as draw out the conflict.

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His ability to see past her defenses as an alpha male or Dominant is what spurs him on to guiding her. It’s not until he’s learned to grow through the plot that he realizes he’s guiding her as she’s guiding him, but that’s another article. In the end, the two types of men are really one and the same. Labels are just for publisher and reader convenience as they help readers define the characters for the appropriate markets.

Not Like Sex Ed Class

Saturday, June 4th, 2011

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The classes that would be the most helpful to people were never available in the past, but these days it seems like more and more there are classes available that teach people how to be better lovers. In most larger metropolitan areas at least, people can find blow job classes for women that teach them how to provide their man with the most pleasure possible while also teaching them how to really appreciate and adore their man’s cock. There are usually classes for men about cunnilingus and how to bring their lady to mind-blowing orgasms with oral and manual stimulation. For both genders there are various classes that help them to improve their skills, safe sex and how to provide the most pleasure to a partner during sex. Sometimes there are even classes that teach about kinky activities including BDSM and fetish activities and relationships. There are sometimes weekend getaways for couples that focus on improving sexuality and pleasure, tantric sex and creating deeper intimacy. It seems that people will spend an awful lot of money on things that will increase their pleasure and improve their sex life. Who can blame them?

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A great benefit of classes and weekends like these is that they often help people to develop a better body image and increase their confidence as lovers, which is great for people’s self esteem. Building confidence, whether sexual or just personal confidence, will help people feel more confident and secure in other aspects of their lives, which is never a bad thing. Most people will start doing better at work or begin to have happier home lives when they feel more confident and secure. It’s been scientifically proven that when people improve their sex life, they also improve their health, their mood and their mental health, because sex helps to elevate people’s moods and reduce symptoms of depression. Most people probably realize that there are a lot of health benefits to having a healthy sex life, like healthier immune systems, better circulation, better bladder control, less depression, more mental clarity, better sleep and a more positive and upbeat attitude. Those benefits will definitely become apparent in other aspects of our lives, and as our confidence grows we’ll see our self esteem improve and we’ll become healthier emotionally as well.

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Degrade and Humiliate

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

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Some male submissives really receiving degradation and humiliation play from their dominant partners. Degradation and humiliation is a subject that can be a little bit controversial in BDSM circles. Done carelessly, it can cause quite a bit of emotional distress to the receiver. The dominant partner, who is responsible for the physical and emotional well-being of his or her submissive partner, should use caution and common sense wit this type of play. They should also take the time to get to know their partner for a variety of reasons.

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One of the most important reasons that it’s important for the partners to be familiar is the effectiveness of the play. If the submissive partner enjoys some degradation and humiliation, it’s important to know what type is effective with that person. Everyone is different, and to create an effective scene it is important to know what makes the submissive tick. Degradation doesn’t work if it doesn’t make the submissive feel degraded in any way. One must know what specific things will work with the submissive without making them feel overly emotional and get them to the point that they are no longer enjoying the scene. Making fun of a man’s cock may be perfect for one submissive but might really distress another. A man who loves wearing women’s panties may not feel any degradation or humiliation no matter what the Dominant says to them, while other men who are embarrassed to admit that they enjoy may really get off on being forced to wear them and made fun of for having them on. Degradation and humiliation is not a one size fits all fetish. It must be tailored to the specific submissive, and extensive negotiation should precede this type of play in order to assess just what the submissive can handle.

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In addition, care must be taken to build the submissive back up at the end of this type of scene. Compliments on their behavior or on how well they handled everything that happened during the scene will help bolster them back up and reassure the submissive that they are cared for by their Dominant. Extra aftercare may be needed after particularly intense scenes. Done with care, degradation and humiliation can be really hot, but the Dominant should be really aware of the submissive’s state of mind throughout the scene.

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A Taste For Southern Climes

Friday, May 6th, 2011

Cunnilingus is the art of giving oral sex to a woman, fellatio is when a man’s partner puts his cock in their mouth, sucks, licks and generally attends to him with lips, tongue and teeth. For first timers, oral sex can be the most taboo kind of sex to engage in, as it has connotations to intimacies as well as lust that no other acts truly carry. For still other people the true expression of their love is how close they can get to their lover and oral sex gets them very close indeed.

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For the most part there are indeed smells and tastes associated with going down on our lovers. Depending on a man or woman’s diet, their specific body chemistry, even if they are carrying some sort of yeast-like infection they might not be aware of, the climate of a woman’s vagina or the area around a man’s cock could exude a cornucopia of scents. True also, when either a man or woman grows aroused or ejaculates there could be certain specific tastes associated with the fluids they produce. For the most part though, if we are attracted to a certain sex we are also aroused by the scent and taste of the musk their genitals produce, so allowing for some sort of untoward and unusual pungency due to medicines or food they ingest, for the most part what we encounter down there will pretty much arouse us when we’re down there.

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Oral sex is usually quite pleasurable for both a man and woman to receive simply because, in most cases, we cannot place our mouth anywhere near our own genitals, especially women. We all pretty much masturbate with our hands, and our lover’s fingers tickling, teasing and touching us for the most part is arousing, but feeling their mouth on us is extremely exciting. The wetness of someone’s mouth covering our cock or pussy, the flicking strength of the of the tongue, the puckering of lips, all the actions the mouth and even teeth can facilitate does make oral attention quite unique.

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Then to there is the question of intimacy of oral sex, what indeed makes it both so intense and at the same time so off-putting to couples. Once someone literally has their face in our crotch, in affect seeing us from the most vulnerable angle, many men and women do not like being examined this way. Many a partner will keep their lover from going down on them, while others, fully ensconced in their lover and ready for any and all romantic experiences, welcome oral sex, giving or receiving.

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Positions

Thursday, April 28th, 2011

Often times a person can be watching a movie with a great sex scene. It looks hot. It makes you curious and in the course of things you many begin to wonder about how you would put into practice. There are quite a few sexual positions in porn movies that only a gymnast could do. others look appealing but it is a clear case of theory versus practice until once you actually try it for yourself. Unfortunately the porn actors are professionals. They make sex positions look easy; hey doesn’t everyone enjoy un-lubricated anal sex? Keep in mind that, a good portion of sex positions in porn videos are chosen because they give the camera man a great shot of a cock entering some hole, mouth, ass or pussy.

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The actors may not be enjoying the sex at all and because they are paid to make it look hot they will just have to make the noises that are associated with hot orgasms. Some of the basics are the best for getting off quickly and hard, that is why positions like doggy style have lasted. It also happens to be one of the top most popular and favorite positions by women. This is largely because of the penetration factor and pleasure that they receive from their partners cock hitting the G-spot inside and having the man’s balls hit their clit from the outside. Every person is very different in their tastes and desires so you will have to experiment with your partner to determine which is your and their favorite. If you both have differing kinds then you should try bouncing back and forth to vary things. The best thing to do is get your partner away from their favorite position and then get them to craving it, and finally spring it on them suddenly. There is also the pleasure in taking their favorite position and varying it slightly with just a little twist. This could even give them a brand new favorite. It is also very important to let them know what yours are and to not be afraid to express yourself. You might discover that they have something very similar if not the same thing after all.

For God Or Cunt-try

Sunday, April 10th, 2011

A man will always rationalize his reasons for wanting some strange. The male biological imperative to shoot sperm into as many unfertilized eggs one can supersedes good common sense, rends families in two, stifles a romance. With facilities now available in this current dating digital age men can find sex partners infinitum, and will have to make-up excuses for doing so as they continue to cheat on their significant others or endeavor to remain free.

The reasons are bountiful but they all center round the cheating guy simply not being able to keep his cock in his pants. For a man to be monogamous he must fight his very nature and when he loses that fight he will do the only thing available to him post the extra-curricular screwing; he will find a reason other than his pumping libido to blame for his infidelity.
But whether he blames God, country, to help save his marriage or his sanity the one irrefutable fact is man will forever look for reasons and believe them when he latches on to a good one.

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The reality is, that in a marriage two people are responsibility for the intimacy, the monogamy and if and when either fail, fray or decline. A man can no more look at his biological need as an excuse then he can ignore where his partner is in the entire proceedings. Both people are responsible for making or making a commitment. Both people contribute to the romance and either ever forward trying to keep alive or stagnate and kill it. When a man, or women for that matter, cheats they do so in reaction to their mate or not in reaction to them. Passivity is just as bad sometimes as nagging and mocking. Certainly one person goes out and beds another partner, steps out on their mate, makes the beast with two backs with someone not their lover, but both partners in a love affair are duplicitous, responsible to what they bring to the marriage and what they take out. We can’t push someone from our bed into another’s unless they are willing to go, but we can create a home atmosphere that makes it easier to leave, biological imperative or not. A man might find his excuse but sometimes they are born from circumstance ore then rationalizations.

Anal Massage Intimacy

Saturday, April 9th, 2011

The prostate gland, or P-spot as it is sometimes called, can be found in a way similar to how the G-spot is found on a woman. A simple method is to have the man lie on his back and a finger inserted into the rectum can probe and tap, especially on the upper wall, until the find a spot that is intensely pleasurable. Everyone is built a little differently, so the moment of impact will be different depending on the guy.

It can take a lot of trust to comfortably explore the P-spot or anal play in general, and doing so provides the opportunity for deepened intimacy among the partners. Often people are squeamish about anal play because feces is generally something to be avoided. Also, there are legitimate safety concerns about what kind of things can be inserted into the anus. Learning to feel comfortable about the body in general begins to lessen cleanliness concerns. Learning and keeping to good safety protocol can take care of all the worries. For the record, a latex-gloved finger insertion is a safer sex practice and can give wonderful pleasure to both parties.

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A first-time . Sometimes for a man, receiving penetration can be a bit of a psychological trip. A straight man having a woman penetrate him may harbor fears that anal play could turn him gay. A man who has sex with men or who has long been interested may still have a heavy experience being in a traditionally submissive role. With intimate communication and patience, those worries can even be turned into an extra hot and exciting part of the journey.
A full-fledged anal massage can still begin with a gloved hand inserting one finger. A simple in and out motion can expand into a circular motion. The massager should watch for body signs indicating the intensity of the pressure on the P-spot and when more or less is needed. The man can remain on his back, or may assume other positions depending on what feels better overall. Oh his hands and knees can provide great access to the butt, and can feel incredibly good. He may be brought to orgasm with the assistance of cock stimulation, if desired.

Horny But Not Slutty

Monday, April 4th, 2011

As much as we try and pose that the double standard doesn’t exist, we certainly know it does. Yes it is unfortunate and yes in this day and age one would think men and women could at least be equal in their sexual desires or see an acceptance by the world at large that they share a need to execute their lusts. But a sexually voracious women or woman who is simply horny is seen, most times, as a slut. She is set-up to scorn her lovers as much as cuckold. She is the seductress who has felled whole empires, the classic femme fetale, the uber-bitch and the black widow.

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All because a lady likes a little nookie from time to time and is not afraid to seek it out!

This is because, in this male dominated world, sexually adept, sexually interested, and sexual assure women are a threat. A man frets over the size of his cock as much as he might the depth of his knowledge of how to use it. A woman who wants sex, likes it, seeks it out is a woman who is putting a certain demand in a man to perform; or so many hetero guys fear. A put-up-or-shut-up challenge to most men who define their masculinity in direct relation to how much they can bring a woman off, their size and their skills, a horny woman is seen as an adversary, an opponent to male sexual prowess, when really most hetero ladies are not cougars out on the prowl looking to take men down as much as maybe have some fun!

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The definitions of all these slang terms are nebulous at best. We see that the people in our society who use the pejorative labels-horny, slut, bitch, good girl, even that most onerous of descriptions, cunt-are mostly men! Who determines to what degree a girl can act flirty and still be considered a lady and to what degree when she acts naughty she is a slut; men again. At the very best we might have certain mores of society that have determined lady-like behavior for decades and a woman may or may not abide by those rules, at the very worst we have restrictions on women the minute they act-out or assume and assertive role in our male dominated societies.
And God forbid the lady in question has a healthy sexual appetite!