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How Do Women Flirt With Other Women?

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011

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If a lesbian finds a woman attractive at a coffee shop or a bar, and thinks there is flirting happening, only to learn that the woman is straight, what’s going on? If a woman who is interested in experimenting with other women lives in a smaller community, how does she find women who might be interested in dating her?

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Thankfully, most women are not upset if another woman flirts with them. After all, women are used to be approached by men all the time, and are more comfortable with social contact. Most women are not threatened by lesbians, and, in fact, can be flattered by the approach. Female homophobia is pretty much uncommon, to the point that straight women are approached by gay and bisexual women all the time.

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For a woman who is beginning to experiment with other women, flirting is a great way to start. Most women are comfortable with flirting from women as well as men. Women are often more subtle about their sexual interests, so flirting is an important first step to catch the attention of another bisexual woman or a lesbian who is looking.

Of course, there are far fewer lesbians than there are heterosexual women. That can make it challenging for a lesbian to find a potential date in smaller towns and communities that don’t have gay bars. It can feel frustrating, both for the woman interested in expanding her sexual horizons, and for a lesbian living in that community.

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A gay lady might get frustrated by she will do well to remember that straight guys often have the same difficulties. Many men ask several women out before one says yes. The level of confidence is key, an assumption of potential success that eventually someone will say yes will keep one in the game. It is a good lesson for lesbians looking for a date: if there a sense of confidence, that there is someone out there, that confidence will carry over in the way she presents herself.

Lucky for all of us, whatever our sexual proclivities, kinks and fetishes, even religious affiliations, what we are looking for we can find in the on-line dating world. Sites made just for gay men, lesbian ladies, or single people looking for spanking are all over the net so the flirting can happen in the safe confines on-line as much as the wacky unpredictable real world.

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Shaving The Beaver

Monday, February 14th, 2011

Shaving your girlfriend’s pubes can be an experience more gratifying than stumbling across a quality free porn site. However, going about this ancient skill requires confidence and a certain know-how that not every man is blessed with. Failure to perform this correctly could result in something I like to call (UPC) – that’s short for unfounded pussy complex. Doing it correctly on the other hand, will ensure that your ladie’s vag is trimmed to your exact specifications and that sex will be that much hotter. Read on for a breakdown :

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Required Prep-Work - First things first, do not just jump into it and casually ask if you can shave her beaver. That is relationship suicide. She will either think you’re a total pervert with some weird pube fetish or she’ll take it an insult that her vag is too bushy. Start by complimenting it with words like: sexy, pretty and delicious. Calling it a “pretty fish taco” won’t do. You can then proceed to give her enough oral sex to prove just how into her you really are.

Suggest By Example – One of the best ways to get your girl comfortable with the idea of a bare beaver is by displaying your neatly trimmed package in all its glory. After all, you can’t expect her to fall into you shenanigans if you can’t even handle your own bush. Once that’s taken care of, bring up your newly trimmed nut-scruff and try to get her opinion on it. Ask her if it made sex feel any better and if you should stick to that “hairstyle” from now on. This talk will eventually lead her into asking you about her own bush, in which case you finally suggest playing barber.

Time To Party – Now that you’ve gotten her ready to slip into the shower or bathtub, it’s time to make your move. Make sure to keep a razor around so you don’t have to casually leave to go grab one (new blade, preferably). That would just look sad. Now, have her sit with her ass between your thighs and proceed to apply plenty of shaving cream. As for direction, always go for grain down. You don’t want to end up cutting her lady bits.

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Small Vibes, –Great Pleasure

Tuesday, December 21st, 2010

102635They say great things come in small packages. Vibrators are no exception. Women’ crave all kinds of satisfaction (free porn included), and with a little exploration, a woman can find the right vibes to trip her trigger.

One of the more clever things to emerge in the sex toy industry is the practice of making vibrators that look like something else entirely. It doesn’t have to look like a big, vibrating wand or a big black cock. Some are made to look like hairbrushes or other common household items. A vibrator that looks and feels like a lipstick could be the perfect little travel toy. It’s pointed “lipstick” end can produce surprisingly strong vibrations. Angled the right way with consistent pressure, a stealthy woman can count on hot orgasmic waves, maybe even while taking a short break from her busy day at work.

Egg-shaped vibes are relatively small and also good for clit stimulation. With somewhat of a broader surface area, they can roll over the clit and give some very intense stimulation. If it is the type with a strong and reliable cord, it can be inserted into the vagina for internal vibrations as well. This type of model comes in an array of shapes besides the egg. The vibrating shape and its cord terminate with a handy speed control unit that a woman can experiment with or give over to her partner for some surprising sensations.

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Another development that is especially nice is the rise of vibrating toys in regular old drug stores. Sold as massagers, these fun things can look like small hand-held wands with round bulbs, giant jacks that look similar to non-vibrating professional massage tools, or a convenient array of other shapes. It is true that you could work on any of your tired muscles with these devices, but it seems that the advertising is done with a nudge and a wink. The companies are probably pretty sure which “muscle” might be getting the most intense workout.

If a woman prefers the feeling of insertion, there are still more vibes to be found. Penis-shaped vibrators don’t have to be huge. In fact, one can find them as small as that vibrating lipstick, and can move up in length and girth as desired.

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Small Penis Syndrome

Thursday, October 7th, 2010

Even as babies there is so much controversy surrounding our manhood. From the minute we are born, our parents have to make a critical decision whether or not to snip off the extra skin on our dicks, or to just leave it on, au natural.

Making a decision like this seems hardly imperative at the time, but in reality, causing so much controversy surrounding a baby’s penis only adds fuel to the fire regarding a man’s penis insecurities in our teenage and young adult years.

So, now we have chicks everywhere worrying about our penis size, and for those of us who aren’t as well endowed as others, it can be pretty nerve wrecking the first time a new girl sees the little guy.

But, just because you have a small penis, doesn’t mean that you will be bad in bed, and we have to make sure that this is common knowledge for women everywhere! Just like the saying goes, it’s not the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean!

Here is some advice for all you out there with smaller peckers that will prove to women that penis size doesn’t matter.

Sex isn’t just about penetration and you need to fully recognize the benefits of foreplay. Foreplay can include anything your women enjoys. From kissing and caressing, to rubbing her clit, or oral sex. You point is to try and get her on the brink of orgasm even before the penetration starts.

When it comes to the main course, position is key.

Doggie style, when performed at the correct angle, can make even the smallest penis feel pretty big. Lean forward when you’re pounding her from behind. Keeping as much physical contact will keep things intimate, enabling her to reach her sexual peak as quickly as possible. She’ll practically think you’re a porn star.

Another great position is The Snake. Have your woman lying flat on her belly with her legs closed. Have her arch her ass upwards and then straddle her hips and place your dick just behind her ass. Gently spread her thighs, just enough to slip your way in.

During the Rabbit Ears position, lay her down on her back, spread her thighs and draw her legs up until her knees are close to her ears. Put a pillow under her ass and when you begin to penetrate, it feels as though you’re filling her pussy completely.

Next time a girl sees your dick and says it’s small, you will have nothing to worry about because now you will know the tricks to get her to come even better than those guys with horse dicks out there.

Bad in Bed: Damage Control

Tuesday, September 28th, 2010

So you’ve met someone you’re into and you can’t wait to fuck the living daylights out of them. That is – until you get into their pants and they start doing some kind of silly buggers game that does not do anything for you. What gives?

There’s no nice way to tell someone they’re bad at kissing or suck at blow jobs, but the most effective approach is to make it about you. Start by telling them they are a wonderful kisser, blower, fucker, fister, or whatever is most applicable to your situation.

The most important thing to remember is to make” I” statements. This will allow you to help your partner get involved with raising up his or her skill level without saying that’s what you’re doing. Tell them you want to teach them how to blow or fuck or kiss you the way you want to be blown, fucked or kissed. Just tell them; give them the option of doing it right.

We all generally have fragile egos. Sometimes, though, we believe that they’re even more fragile than they really are. In all likeliness, your partner wants to make whatever it is they are doing work for you, and doesn’t think they’re the reincarnation of the world’s greatest porn star. Most people have learned ways that work for them and if your partner is tuned and you use the right kind of language about your own experience, they should be able to recognize that what you’re doing is best for both of them.

Talk in specifics and walk them through what you want. Break it down and show them step by step what works. Once they understand that they can pick it up more naturally and move from there. Whatever chemistry got you to where you are should work in tandem with these tips you provide. There was something that drew you together, and if you can get your physical needs to line up with them, you should be bouncing off the walls, or pussies and cocks, in no time.

Vagazzling Comes to Porn!

Friday, April 2nd, 2010

This was only a matter of time.

The fine art of Vagazzling. We can all remember hearing about  Jennifer Love Hewitt letting the speckled goose out of her shorts, and ever since then the world has taken notice. Including, our very own porn world.

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Sex Toys for Boys

Tuesday, March 9th, 2010

Everybody knows that girls have all the good sex / masturbation toys. It’s just a fact. They have shit that’s either compact enough to use while in the middle of a meeting or big enough to think that it’s a Rube Goldberg contraption. And really, it’s not about who’s being unfair to who or wanting to spark a revolutionary competition, we’re just wired differently, men and women. It just so happens that girls tend to be able to utilize robotics a bit more conveniently than boys. Well, gentlemen, welcome to 2010.

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