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Secrets

Monday, August 22nd, 2011

Most of us take a lot of time and make a great effort every day to come off as responsible, reliable, efficient and upstanding. And for the most part we really are all of these things. But let’s face it, no one is one hundred percent perfect one hundred percent of the time, and as much as we would like the world to think that we are as pure as the driven snow, we all sometimes need to relax a little bit and indulge some of our secret fantasies and desires as far as the Sex videos on the Internet are concerned.

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It is not easy to fulfill all of the expectations that we all come up against every single day. Our families have expectations of us a son, a daughter, an aunt, an uncle, a niece or a nephew. They expect us to show up, to participate, and to be present and do the right thing at all times. Our employers expect us to show up, to work hard, to think of new ideas, to advance ourselves and the position of our companies, and to be dedicated. Society expects us to behave properly, not break any laws, to be polite and to be a valued member of our communities and contribute to the greater good of humanity. Whew, this is a lot, yes?

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And let’s not forget all of the other things that we expect from ourselves, sometimes comprising the longest and most extensive list of all. So would it really be so terrible for us to chill out for a while on the world wide web and explore some of the fabulous adult entertainment options that exist out there? Of course not. Everyone needs to indulge themselves every once in a while, and the Internet is nothing if not discreet and private.

So yes, you can and should keep your secrets secret. But you should enjoy them too.

Sex Video Mistakes

Thursday, August 18th, 2011

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There is a special eroticism in making a sex video with one’s lover. We can see ourselves in a special way, fucking and enjoying pleasure and this can be a turn on like no other. In addition, we love the idea that we might share these films with others and get an erotic thrill knowing that others are getting off to our home made porn films. And yet there are some mistakes which lovers make and which are easily avoided for better x-rated thrills.

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When making porn together, it’s important to remove any distractions which might keep other people from enjoying what you do. Don’t film in a room with a huge pile of dirty laundry or where a dog keeps moving into the frame. This isn’t bestiality, after all! Clean up and make things look as attractive as possible. If one wants something really exotic and fresh, try filming in a hotel room or in another location one has permission to use. Pay attention to the sound track as well — some amateur films are ruined by having commercials or a television playing the news in the background. Try putting on some sexy music instead, but also make sure it does not drown out the sounds of love making. Most people viewing adult videos enjoy the sound track of human sounds of passion, and are disappointed when a video hides these instead under loud music. Some people are embarrassed perhaps by the noises they make, but if one is willing to display one’s body let one’s aural side show too.

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Make sure the lighting is good, as some films can be ruined by lighting which is too dim. It is probably a good idea to get some test shots first, filming a few seconds of film with the camera set up just as one plans to do and then check to make sure it looks good!

The New Porn Renaissance

Monday, August 15th, 2011

In the 1970s one was able to enjoy a special kind of porn. For the first time ever, porn films reached a kind of acceptance so that it was acceptable for couples to attend and watch adult videos together. Some of the films of these times had big budgets, complicated plots, and ornate sets and costumes. There is even an infamous soft core porn film that is a remake of Alice in Wonderland done as a musical with fucking and blow jobs. Needless to say this golden age of adult film did not last forever and soon one had all kinds of mechanical sex films with the rise of the video and the videocassette playback machine. These films are designed for playback where a person can quickly fast forward, or choose a particular scene on a DVD and get directly to the fucking they want. There is very little or no plot what so ever in modern x-rated film.

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The rise of sex video on the Internet coincided with the modern era of broad bandwidth in the United States of America. Now that computer technology along with the fat pipes provided by cable modems allow people to watch streaming or even live video with ease from the comfort of their homes, a renaissance in free porn has occurred. No matted what ones tastes or fetishes for fucking, whether one is into vanilla sex in amateur video or hardcore fucking and BDSM porn there is something out there for everyone.

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Never before have so many options been available. One can even watch live events on many websites or get solo sessions with web cam porn stars who are happy to act out whatever fetish one desires and will give real orgasms on command for the sex hungry horny viewer. Never before have the options been so varied for the masturbater or the couple who shares porn together in their bedrooms.

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Those Pictures

Thursday, August 4th, 2011

Rep Anthony Weiner twitter account sent a student a lewd photo of the New York Democrat. Rep Weiner’s aids are saying his twitter account was hacked but many, including the Seattle college student think that Weiner meant to sent it to Porn star Ginger Lee. This makes sense since earlier this year the Stripper twitted that she want to fuck Weiner. Politicians are people too and when a woman that is used to having sex with a lot of men for entertainment says they want to have sex with them it only figures that one of two things will happen, they will get a hard cock and over inflated ego or they will be horrified by the comments. Either way acting or reacting to the comment is purely egotistical.

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If they were movie actors John Q Public would know it was a publicity stunt to get back into the public eye but a politician… this is not the way they want or need to be in the public eye. Attacking the porn star only makes a politician look like a fool and sending naked photos makes him look like an egoistical teenager. Neither are the type of person the voters would like to vote back into office. What a politician should do is take the high road and ignore it or laugh it off. So what if a porn star wants to go to bed with him. It may not even be true but some sort of publicity stunt on the porn stars behalf to get them noticed. After all with women vying to be part of the worlds biggest gangbang tweeting some innocent I would do that politician might make it seem like the girl has a brain and follows politics. It might set her apart in a good way. After all being a smart cookie like Jenna Jameson is much more preferred then being the next girl to do an anal scene or threesome.

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Married

Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011

Taking the big leap looking for all that free sex on the net, hoping to meet someone with like-minded sensibilities, it’s best to exercise a little bit of caution. There are many single people like you on line looking for a good hook up, but there are just as many married guys and girls cheating on their spouses like this unfaithful fuck box on Orgasm.com. The Internet provides too easy and convenient access for those people who are married and looking to step-out and in your search for free sex you might just find these men and women, and not know it until it is too late.

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There are no real clear signs of the married among us. Anyone cheating has already taken off the ring and other then a specific tan line on their ring finger, what else can you really look for? If the sneaky cheater has taken to the net for free sex then we have to assume they have covered their tracks pretty well, are hiding their identity and unless you come right out and ask and they are honest to tell you, there is no real way you’ll ever know they are married.

Mainly what you can do is keep track of when you meet your chat buddy online. First determine-if they reveal it-where they are located then keep track of when they are online in relation to what time it is where they are. Does your online paramour eschew night or weekend chatting? Have you two gotten so close, to the point that you are talking about meeting off line for some free sex, but you have yet to exchange phone numbers?

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In the end it will be your own sneaking suspicions that tip you off mostly. Especially being single you already know how other single people act, you will be able to sniff out unusual behavior to what you yourself get into and in the end you will realize the sad but perfect truth that, even though there is a lot of free sex on the net not everybody should be availing themselves of it.

Porn Up’s Skills

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

When you use Porn to practice your skills at sex you can become very impressive. Consider that you could learn how to hold back before you have an orgasm and if you continue practicing this you could make a great and powerful impression on someone you do end up scoring with. They will be impressed that you have such control over yourself and this can only help you prosper in the long run. If you give someone a great and satisfying experience they are more than likely going to tell a friend about it. That friend will want to meet you and already you will have put the the seed of scoring in their minds.

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They may decide to give you a try themselves and your sex life will never have been better. This all stems from the fact that you took your performance seriously and did everything you could to make it the very best that it could be. You learned that you could use porn as a tool to help you with this. You are able to sense that orgasm coming and you are able to stem the tide of it just a little more each time and then you can finally control yourself to such a degree that you give a very powerful orgasm every time.

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Then when you do actually get with someone they will be taken to a new place of pleasure they had never experienced before. This all comes from you giving it the best you had and making a better example of a lover with yourself. You are able to do things that you and they only dreamed of before. Give yourself every advantage that you can and don’t take no for an answer. Don’t settle and don’t go halfway. Make the decision to go all the way and become the best that you can be. This will empower you and through that you will empower others around you to be the best they can be.

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Mars and Venus For Everybody

Friday, July 8th, 2011

Sure it’s a well known fact that gender brain waves and thought patterns differ: that men will simply not notice what surrounds a problem as much as try to find the most straight away solution, to be functional, quick and true; that women need to meander round their point, make their man see their point, then belabor their point even if it was a solution she came up with days before. The question has been in that classic now cliché Mars and Venus approach, what if gay people get together, does gender assume these classic planetoid suppositions or is it something more?

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For the most part gay couples don’t get off an easier. The grand differences still exist between lesbians or homosexual men, they are just not informed by biology; it seems to be more a mindset then if one owns a cock or pussy. Mars and Venus dont just simply orbit the straight end of the street.

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In most relationships, gay, straight, poly, bi, there is usually a partner that takes on the typical male role in things-i.e. the decision maker, the aggressor in bed and house finances, the last say when rearing the children-and someone who takes on the feminine-the housekeeper, the nurturer, the one who understands and tries to keep peaceful the mood of the household. We see the cliché but true roles of lipstick lesbian living with their dyke counterparts, bears courting twinks or gay queens living with a boy toy or a rough neck. Into this complex mix of types, that Mars/Venus petard spins and we find homosexual couples enjoying the very same often confusing, sometime arresting romantic differences straight couples encounter.

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Gay couples might think that they can skirt the pitfalls of hetero relationships by not being allowed same sex marriage or not caring for civil unions, but what none of us can avoid is how our minds work and as long as there is the two different mindsets in a relationship, regardless of sex, then the division will always exist between one person thinking masculine and the other thinking feminine. There will always be the round about as opposed to the straight ahead, the multi layered v.s. the shallow, the fast solution against the more drawn-out one. Nobody gets away unscathed the minute they delve into a love affair.

Getting Our Sexy Back

Monday, July 4th, 2011

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Sometimes people get really busy in their everyday lives. Between work and family, it can seem pretty difficult to find any time at all to focus on ourselves. If a couple has children, it gets even more difficult with school, homework, sports, scouts and a ton of other extra-curricular activities that take up most evenings and weekends. It’s no wonder that people have trouble finding the time to relax or distress. It’s even less surprising that couples may have trouble finding time to have sex. Even just finding the time and energy to simply feel sexy is probably a bit of a challenge most days.

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The problem is, feeling sexy, attractive and desirable is one of those things ‘use it or lose it’ type of things. If people don’t make the time to feel good about themselves and feel sexy, they’re not going to feel that way. The good news is that it is something that we can get back anytime we want to put the effort in to get it back. One big step to feeling sexy again is to start acting sexy. Women need to let their inner sex kitten out for a romp. They should pull out their prettiest panties and bra and their sexiest dress. Try wearing stockings and a garter belt instead of pantyhose or bare legs; whichever makes them feel the sexiest. If they add a pair of fuck me shoes and take time doing their face and hair, they’ll feel like a million dollars, and that’s a step in the right direction. Guys need to call upon their inner stud and start feeling like the million dollar man again. For guys, it’s not always about the clothes, but working out and getting strong and toned again if they’re out of shape can make a huge difference in how they feel about themselves. Feeling strong and muscular can really make a guy feel sexy again, especially if women are checking them out. The other big thing that a couple should do to start feeling sexy is start having sex. Make the time, find the time, and start having sex regularly again. Having sex is always the best for people to make themselves and each other feel desirable and sexy again.

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Power Exchange

Friday, June 17th, 2011

The nature of sexual power exchange is the idea that a person, within the context of erotic play, gives up control to another person; but in reality it is a bit more complicated than that and, as with a lot of sexual and erotic interests and play, it is very important to read as much as possible, take classes, and talk to people before trying it out. One reason why this is important is that the reality of power exchange play is that the person that many people assume is in control is not really: the bottom, submissive, or slave is the one who is actually in control as they always, for matter of safely, be able to change or alter the play at any time. The master or dominant is the one who has to be responsible and must always be willing to change the scene to protect and keep safe the person they are playing with. The dominant or master may have the attitude or such of being in control but if the other person involved ever wants the play or scene to change they that dominant or master must immediately respond to their needs.

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Part of the way this can happen is through what are called safe-words: a code that the submissive can say that will be a signal to the dominant that they want the play to change. The words, ideally, should be ones that won’t be used commonly to avoid confusion and it’s best to have a specific few words at the ready to indicate levels ;darker colors for instance to indicate the play is growing ever more intense or painful This is also why communication must be there are all times, so that the submissive can talk to the dominant and vice versa. The dominant, too, must be able to say at any time that they are uncomfortable or do not want to proceed.

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So, while power exchange can be an effective erotic component of kink play, it’s best to always learn as much about it before you try it out with anyone else so you can play safely for a very long time. There are so many levels to what we might seek sexually that it is best we keep open to all possibilities.

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Legalizing Prostitution Would Help Sex Workers

Friday, June 17th, 2011

Although it is legal in some states and in many other countries around the world, prostitution is illegal in the majority of the united states. There are people who believe that making prostitution illegal reduces the occurrences or controls it in some way, but nothing could be further from the truth. The only thing it does successfully is keep the female participants abused and in danger. They usually feel they can’t report any abuse since what they’re doing is illegal, so they often just take whatever they get pimps and customers and even other prostitutes. Legalizing prostitution provides a way to regulate what goes on inside and also will help to keep everyone physically healthier  the clients and the prostitutes. On an emotional level, working in a legal brothel may give a woman a little more control over her own finances, especially if prostitution is legalized and the brothels have to pay the girls according to local labor laws. This would eliminate the problem of girls ending up with pimps and getting beat up and abused. It would also give the prostitutes a way to protect themselves legally against disreputable and dangerous clients.

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In places where prostitution is legal, there are usually medical requirements and required standards for testing for sexually transmitted diseases on a regular basis. Any sex worker that comes up positive for a disease or an infection is required to get the proper treatment and cleared by a doctor before returning to work. This would greatly reduce the risk of spreading sexually transmitted diseases to customers and beyond as the customers go out into their real world and have sex with others. Having these procedures in place make both the prostitute and the customer feel much safer like this cab driver who gets a prostitute in this video on Orgasm.com.

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Having brothels for the sex workers to work in would also increase the safety and well-being of the workers. Streetwalking, cheap motels and getting into cars with strangers are all very dangerous no matter what a person’s gender or orientation. Prostitutes are in constant danger because of their work conditions, and brothels would alleviate quite a bit of that danger. Inside of a brothel, surrounded by many other prostitutes, a manager, security and bouncers, most people would probably think twice about hurting one of the workers.

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