Archive for the ‘Sexuality’ Category

Pink Viagra

Tuesday, February 8th, 2011

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With the astounding popularity behind Viagra, it is no surprise that the drug industry would soon look for ways to provide women with the same type of ‘benefits’. And it is exactly that quest that motivated film maker Liz Canner to come up with Orgasm, Inc. The much buzzed about documentary that touches upon the pharmaceutical rat race to receive FDA approval on the so-called “pink Viagra”. It seems as though women will finally get the chance to deal with female sexual dysfunction (FSD), something that is seldomly brought to light but very much real.

However, too many people are still uncertain as to what that entails. After all, male sexual dysfunction is very easily targeted, while FDS can be a lot harder to pinpoint. For example, identifying sex related problems such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation is quite common – all it takes is some objective observation. On the other hand, identifying sexual dysfunction in women is entirely different. Let’s just say that not having a dick makes things that much harder.

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When trying to diagnose a man with sexual dysfunction, there is one simple question to be asked. If he is capable of reaching an orgasm, he is most likely healthy. If he can’t, he is probably dealing with some sort of sexual dysfunction. It’s pretty much black and white. Given the known rate that about 75% of women are not capable of climaxing through intercourse alone, diagnosing any sort of FSD becomes that much harder. A report from the Journal of Urology gave away a few common signs of FSD that will be sure to help those who are still uncertain. Some of them include: no interest in sex, phobic avoidance of anything sexual (including things like free porn), lack of libido, extreme difficulty in reaching an orgasm and/or any sort of genital pain.

If you ask me, the majority of these “symptoms” could be easily solved through proper communication, a change of partner, some lube and a sex toy or two. As the documentary shows, the main drive behind pharmaceutical companies who are trying to push this “pink Viagra” to go onto the market are mainly interested in money. Now if only more people were smarter to realize that.

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Bad Sex Moves

Monday, February 7th, 2011

It’s tough to tell a man how to do something right, especially because the guys think they’re getting the chicks off when they actually aren’t! In a recent survey, females were sakes what separates “normal/good” sex from “mooned blowing” sex. Here’s what over 50 chicks said were the most common mistakes men make between the sheets:

Asking to have sex: asking a girl to have sex is like asking your mother if you can have a girl over at your own apartment. When you ask, you immediately show a lack of confidence and control. Instead, work her up with basic touching and kissing. She will stop you if she doesn’t want sex.

Giving her a hickey: She’s guaranteed to feel like a cheap hooker sporting her new temporary sex tattoo the next day at the office. Only the inexperienced leave hickeys. Avoid this by going mouth wide around her neck and working in your tongue. Slowly close your lips until your kissing it.

Not going down on her: You simply aren’t a man if you don’t go down on your lady. The majority of female orgasms are orally induced and for chicks, unforgettable sex includes great oral sex.

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Rushing through foreplay: Sex is like an epic movie, it’s best when you have the proper build up of tension leading to a climactic explosion. By skipping foreplay, you limit your chance of creating an Oscar worthy performance. You need to slow the fuck down, she isn’t going anywhere. You should spend at least 10 minutes teasing her and building her up.

Not having a condom in arms reach: You’ve done it right with the foreplay and now she is begging for it, but instead, you’re scuffling around on the floor like a dog looking for a condom. Every second that passes is another second her excitement fizzles out. If you’re at your place, have condoms stashed between your mattress. If you’re at her place, have one in your back pocket.

Fucking like a rabbit: Maybe once or twice it’s natural to get carried away after a night of one too many tequila shots and you need to jack hammer to finish, but, other than that, it’s a rookie move. Start slow and actually allow her to feel what’s going on. Increase speed intervals every 20 seconds or so.

Not switching positions: By moving in and out of positions, she will remember your sex as action packed and wild. After a minute or so in any position, gauge how she is reacting. If she’s into it, continue, if she’s not, move on.

Being too quiet: Silence is a sure sign well, sex is boring. Although she doesn’t want you shouting like a German porn star, she wants validation through your vocal involvement. Mix in some moans, groans, and deep breathing. Whisper in her ear and let her know that you’ve been thinking about fucking her since she arrived.

Asking where to cum: She’s no idiot. If you ask her where you should finish, it is a sure indication you are hoping she’s beg for a cum facial. However, the majority of women don’t find your semen as delightful as you think. Finish in your condom or on her stomach.

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Slutty Cheerleaders

Monday, February 7th, 2011

courtney_simpsonWhile the subject of choice for much of the free porn we’re into still revolves around cheerleaders, many still falsely believe that in real life, they are nothing but prude spoilt brats. Turns out the porn industry didn’t get it all wrong. From orgies to pom pom orgasm scenes, many of our favorite adult films are nothing but recreations of real life events. Below, we’ll highlight some of the most shocking sex scandals involving the quintessential American sex symbol – cheerleaders. You can thank me later.

1. The Arizona State Cheerleader That Decided To Go Nude – Arizona State University girls already have a bit of a – ahem – “reputation” of doing porn, posing naked and getting into other shenanigans such as drugs, alcohol binges and general slutty behavior. With that said, it was no surprise to discover that a Mormon Courtney Wilson decided to give up on her scholarship and move to California in order to persue a career as a porn star. After proudly showcasing her cheerleading outfit in one of her films, ASU administration was absolutely mortified. We were proud.

2. Orange Coast Orgy - After attending one of those cheesy cheerleading competitions somewhere in the United States (a la Bring It On), the Orange Coast College girls decided to go a little crazy and brought some lucky guy back to their hotel for a night of drinking, drugs, half naked pictures and an orgy or two. After the pictures went viral, the schools reputation went down the drain, bringing the girls along for the ride.

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3. Bothell High School Cheerleaders Get Naked – In yet another bad case of “sexting”, a couple of Bothell High School cheerleaders decided to get a little crazy and took a couple of naked pictures of themselves in a bubbly bathtub. After sending it to their boyfriends, the pictures quickly spread out to the rest of the school and the girls were suspended. Maybe next time they’ll think twice before being that stupid. Though we’re certainly not complaining.

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Good Relationships Important For Satisfying Sex

Sunday, February 6th, 2011

Feb 3 orgasm.com1The relationships of New Zealander’s are thriving, and according to a survey, it is because they have satisfying sex lives.

67% of people said they were satisfied with the sexual aspects of their relationship, while 83% said they were satisfied with their relationship overall.

The survey was conducted by Relationship Services which is the largest counseling and relationship education agency in the country. Its looks at the way couples in long term relationships talk about and deal with issues relating to sex and intimacy.

“We found it really interesting that we asked people about sex, and they told us about relationships,” said the Chief Executive.

“When the sexual aspect of a relationship is going well, it can help build intimacy and satisfaction in a relationship. When it’s not going well it can be a difficult issue to broach. Either way, it can be a major contributor to the level of satisfaction people feel,” he said.

One clear message from the survey is that talking and listening to your partner are two of the best sex aids available; not resorting to free porn to get your jollies guys! People satisfied with their sexual relationship talk ad listen to their partner, they discuss sexual problems, and they focus more on understanding than blame.

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When it comes to the most common issues found between couples, these included one partner wanting to fuck more than the other, and then life problems like work, family, stress. Sex outside the relationship was reported by only 19% of people. “People often think affairs are much more common because they get so much attention in the media,”

The survey also asked where people turn for information and help about sexual problems and most looked to books and website. But, for help with sexual problems, they turned to people who they knew and trusted.

So, what can we learn from this? Sex is more important in creating a strong relationship than anything else. And, if your girlfriends don’t believe you, have them read this.

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Corset Training

Saturday, February 5th, 2011

Corsets are very beautiful and scream porn, but they can also be very functional and serious garments that are capable of modifying a person’s body, and have become a popular fetish. It is appropriate to say “a person’s body”, because body modification by corset training works on both men and women, and men are starting to enjoy the sleek silhouette that a corset can provide.

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If a person is considering corset training, the first thing to know is that the lingerie corsets found in most stores are not the appropriate corsets for corset training. They are usually made of a flimsy fabric and contain plastic boning, which will bend as the person moves and will probably break pretty quickly. The correct corset for corset training will have a metal busk, metal boning and will be lined with a material called coutil, which is an extremely stiff cotton fabric. The combination of the metal busk, the metal boning and the coutil provide the rigidity the corset needs to provide figure control to the wearer. Good quality corsets will include a combination of rigid steel boning and spiral boning that is flexible which is necessary as the corset gets tightened over time. The outside material of the corset can be nearly anything, but in custom made corsets they tend to be a heavy satin or brocade material that looks and feels very luxurious.

To do corset training, a corset should be approximately four to six inches smaller than the person’s waist. Tight lacing should not be attempted right away, as it will be extremely uncomfortable. Tightening is a gradual process that requires patience. The wearer needs to get used to wearing a corset. Corset training requires that the person wear the corset 23 hours a day every day. When first starting, the corset should be pulled so that it takes no more than two inches off the wearer’s waist. This is comfortable and will allow the wearer to grow accustomed to the restrictive nature of the corset. Each week, the corset can get pulled a little tighter to reduce the waist even more. The wearer of the corset will find that their posture is greatly improved and that their waist begins to retain its smaller size, even when the corset is removed.

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Sex in the Gaming World

Friday, February 4th, 2011

Microsoft has just introduced their Kinect game for people who don’t get enough pleasure from just downloading porn like everyday common folk! Now the user is able to manipulate a disembodied digital reproduction of a hand and run it over digital representations of various buxom woman, in affect feeling-up the avatar as she rolls her hips on a what is really simply a cartoon couch in her cartoon world moaning in a her cartoon voice.

This is the next step in sex gaming according to the computer software giant.

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Though hand amputee fetishists might find masturbatory pleasure with the Kinect, seeing as how a multimillion dollar porn industry is now a major presence on the web and men are locked in little cubicles all day working on the greatest and latest ways to get off with technology, it’s disappointing to say the least how unsexy the Kinect is. Certainly concessions must be made for this fledgling beta release and indeed full body interaction is promised in the future but even with what programmers call teledildonics, how real can this digital fucking ever get?

It might just be that we need to separate the gaming world, digital reproductions and even possible real time interfacing from our sex lives once and for all. When it comes to cock meeting pussy, mouth meeting tits or an old-fashioned gang-bang programmers and laymen alike might be chasing a dream that is impossible; to recreate all the wonderful varieties of sex in the digital realm. It might be foolhardy to try and make our games and digital life real and it might be dangerous to do so, even if the effort fails.

What is already happening is that men and women are substituting real life interactions, social outings, dating and certainly a sex life for what they find on-line. It is certainly easier to deal with people across a chat room, interact with a large group and even keep one’s identity anonymous, but is it better for us in the long run? Do we limit that our human-ness by only presenting a digital representation of ourselves, even when we’re only sexting? As we adapt our surroundings to meet our needs might we surround ourselves so expertly we stifle ourselves? Will we over time come to think that watching cam girls on line, chatting and masturbating, hooking up our private parts to some sort of device that will represent those parts in digital space is real or better sex then tickling someone’s skin, sipping coffee across from a date or feeling what a honest-to-goodness real blow-job is like?

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Stadium Sex At Its Best

Friday, February 4th, 2011

Stadium sex.You’ve seen it in porn time and time again but the odds of putting it into practice are often easier said than done. Not only is it risky, but getting caught would involve public humiliation and a night in prison. However, I’d still encourage you to try it. If you look at it from the bright side, getting caught could result in massive displays of encouragement, and spending the night in a cell for having sex in public would make for a funny story in the future. Here, I’ll highlight some of the wildest cases of stadium sex. Perhaps they will inspire you to go out there and try it out for yourself.

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1. Upper Section Sex – This particular instance has been making the internet rounds for quite awhile. Somewhere in the good ol’ US of A, a couple decided it would be a good idea to get it on in the upper-section bleachers of a baseball game. By “discretely” sitting on her partners lap, the couple would take occasional pauses from all the bouncing to check for spectators. Little did they know they were being filmed all along. Probably one of the best instances of free porn I have ever seen.

2. Bathroom Stall Sex – A couple of Dallas Cowboys fans decided to bone in the stadium’s Hall of Fame section – in the bathroom stalls. After getting a little too carried away in the moment, little did they know that they were being filmed by dozens of fellow sports enthusiasts who were snickering outside of their bathroom stall. Upon leaving the bathroom, they were warmly greeted by hundreds of cheers from the crowd and cries such as “see you on YouTube!”.

3. Grand Stand Sex – Similar to the Upper Section sex story, a couple was caught engaging in a little foul play when a voyeur took a shot of a woman masturbating with her panties down to about mid-thigh – all while making out with her boyfriend. Seriously, do these people really think they’re not going to get caught? Everyone has a camera phone people!

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Get Her To Have Dirty Sex

Thursday, February 3rd, 2011

We all know that guys have dirty minds that are frequently occupied with sexual ideas that would freak out the average woman. Of course we all want our women to be on the same wave length, but that is not always the case. In order to determine if the girl you’re with is open to experimenting with dirty sex, start off by testing the waters with a few questions on the more innocent side of the spectrum. These questions will get her to open up and start sharing some intimate details of her sexual personality with you (anal anyone?). Here are some suggestions to help you get her to have dirty sex:

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Tell her about your fantasies: If you get the feeling that she’ll be receptive about making it dirtier by revealing some of your secret fantasies, then reveal away. Hopefully she will share some inner thoughts in return, and when she does, make sure you show plenty enthusiasm for her ideas if you want to get her to have dirty sex. It is important to keep it in the realm of fantasy, so don’t start telling her about dirty sex you’ve had in the past.

Make it new for both of you: Approach the dirty experiment like it’s new for the both of you. Think of something you’ve never tried before and suggest that you try it together. If she knows you’re starting out on a level playing field, she’ll be more likely to let her inhibitions go and get wild.

Play a sex game: Talking about it is a lot easier than actually introducing the nastiness into your sex life. A sex game might be just the right thing to get you started. You could either check out a sex shop or you could use your imagination and make up your own game together at home. If all else fails, you can always flu back on the old standard of Truth or Dare.

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Watch porn: Get each other in the mood by watching porn. Even if she is not normally into it, she may be open to incorporating a video or two.

Initiate: You are probably going to have to be the one to make the first move. It’s not likely she will start things off herself, s start talking dirty, set the mood, and hopefully she will follow your lead.

She may surprise: For most women, revealing their private thoughts may be difficult. Once you get her comfortable talking about it, disclose some of your own secrets, gather some inspiriting and try new things. You may be surprised to find out that your girl is more of a freak then you would have guessed!

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The Top 5 Best Lesbian Sex Scenes In Film

Thursday, February 3rd, 2011

Some Hollywood films have such racy sex scenes that it makes me wonder why I resort to free porn to get my fix. After all, the differences between multi-million productions and the average seedy joint porno are too drastic to even discuss. And while I’m on the subject of sex scenes, nothing beats some girl-on-girl action. Yes, lesbians never fail to make my heart beat a little faster and make the tent in pants go up that much quicker. Below, I’ll list a few of my all-time favorite lesbian sex scenes in film. That way, instead of opting for ‘Lez Cuties III’, you’ll be able to get off on something slightly more intelligent.

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1. Natalie Portman & Mila Junis in Black Swan – Yes, I know this one has been discussed on pretty much every news outlet out there but it’s too good to by unmentioned. For starters, both actresses are smoking hot and the oral sex scene practically made me bounce off the walls. Kudos to Darren Aronofsky for creating such a masterpiece.

2. Elizabeth Mitchell & Angelina Jolie in Gia – I don’t think there’s a lot I can say about seeing Angelina Jolie play a wild and insanely horny lesbian. With plenty of bare tits sprinkled throughout, you’ll find yourself pressing the rewind buttons every five minutes.

3. Denise Richards & Neve Campbell in Wild Things – If you were a kid in 90′s you probably had a VHS copy of Wild Things stashed somewhere in your closet – and not because of the intricate storyline. Watching a still-sane (and hot) Denise Richards make out with Neve Campbell in a – wait for it – swimming pool was too much to handle.

4. Rebecca Romijn Stamos & Rie Rasmussen in Femme Fatale – Do I really need to say anything more than ‘Rebecca Romijn’? Despite it involving a ridiculous plot – space travelling Egyptian prostitute et all – watching Romijn make out with a girl was all I needed to see to give this flick two thumbs up.

5. Riley Steele & Kelly Brook in Piranha 3D – Even though this was one of the most ridiculous ideas for a movie EVER, they make up for it by having two girls kiss underwater – naked. Now hand me those embarrassing 3D glasses.

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Stupid Myths About Bi-Sexuals

Wednesday, February 2nd, 2011

Feb 1 orgasm.com2We’ve all heard a lot of stupid jokes and stereotypes about bisexuality. Most people can’t even agree on a legitimate definition of bisexuality, which has ultimately led to a lot of confusion, angst, reality shows starring Tila Tequila, and some really hot free porn scattered all over the internet.

Part of the reason why bisexuality gets a bad rap is because it is associated with so many negative cultural connotation, Here is a look at some of the biggest bisexual misconceptions and stereotypes:

Bisexuals are sluts: Just because bisexuals have more options for sexual partners it doesn’t mean that they are more promiscuous. Naturally, there are bisexuals who are non monogamous, just like there are straight people who swing the same way. The truer statement is we all have the potential to be slutty, regardless of which way we swing.

Bisexual women only do it to turn straight guys on: I like to call these ladies beersexual and they do exist, but not usually outside of college campuses. There are also the Madonna/Britney Spears make outs, which is more of a straight up gay for pay stint. No matter how much these beersexuals turn us on, I can assure you that most bisexual chicks are highly annoyed by dudes like most of us who catcall and whistle when they are trying to court another lady.

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Bisexuals are indecisive or confused: Both gay and straight communities sometimes think that bisexuals are either cowardly or taking advantage of straight privilege. However, being attracted to more than one gender is about as likely to make you indecisive as watching a lot of musical theatre is likely to turn you gay. Also, isn’t it odd that it’s usually the gays and straights who are confused about bisexuality, and not the bisexuals themselves?

Feb 1 orgasm.com1Bisexuality is a cop out or a phase: I’ve heard that is really scary when you’re coming out of the closet for the first time, but coming out as bisexual is essentially declaring that you don’t have a preference. A lot of thought and struggle goes into the decision to come out, and to dismiss this to bisexuals is deliberately insulting.

Everybody is bisexual: This is not even close. I am FAR from being bisexual. I like the ladies, only. However there are a lot more people acting on bisexual desires than there are who identify as such.

Nobody is bisexual: There was once a study done which supposedly proved that bisexual men were liars and that you either have to be “gay or straight or lying”. The study based its conclusions on whether bisexual men repsonsed physically to porn, and all types of porn that is.