Archive for the ‘Sexuality’ Category

Why It Matters If The Porn Star Is Happy

Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

When it comes to watching free porn, everyone has their preference. Some like girl on girl, others like a good threesome and there’s always the old S&M stuff. Whatever your choice in movies, one thing that is always desirable is the girl looking like she’s having a good time.

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XXX Water Sports

Friday, September 30th, 2011

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Watersports is not sex in the shower or the pool, but the erotic and xxx activity of adding urine to one’s sex play. Why would someone want to do this? Well first it should be noted that urine is largely sterile as it leaves the body, though it does pick up some germs from the skin of genitals as it passes out of the body. Especially if the person doing the peeing is very well hydrated, the liquid will be almost entirely clear and very little odor compared to how it might otherwise be.

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Why Women Orgasm

Friday, September 23rd, 2011

So, the recent article from Popsci enttiled “What Is the Point of the Female Orgasm?”  is trying to suggest that there may be no rhyme or reason to the female orgasm.  They give an overly lengthy debate on whether a woman cumming is the by product of a male orgasm or if it functions as a adaptive evolutionary one.

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This new study is trying to convince the world of the first argument – that there is no evolutionary evidence to explain a female orgasm.  To them I say, suck a cock.  As a women I cannot believe that we only orgasm because a man does.  Women are just as much of a sexual being as a man, if not more so by our ability to give life.

What about the scientific evidence to that shows how the cervix sucks up the sperm when a woman is cumming, therefore, increasing her fertility chances.  This is the basis for Karma Sutra in India.  They want to make sex as pleasurable for the woman as it is for the man to ensure orgasm and increase fertility.

Also, at least in my reasoning, the more chance for orgasm, the more reason to even have sex.  I know that the more I cum, the more I want to have sex.  This is the same theory for a man.  Why else would a guy want to fuck?  Our bodies give us the physical payoff to ensure that we continue having sex and there continues the whole goddamn human race.

Why do you think ladies choose not to continually fuck somebody who’s bad in bed?  They want a partner that will satisfy them, which will in turn spread his seed over the guy who sucks in the sack.  It’s all about survival of the fittest and the female orgasm gets to be the judge and jury.

originalIt seems to me this is a debate full of why why why.  When really we should be focusing on how how how.  Why do they care why we orgasm?  They should be focusing on how to make us orgasm because I know a lot of guys that could use a brush up lesson or two.

Sex And The 20s

Friday, September 23rd, 2011

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One of the interesting things to note about the gangsters of the twenties was not only their own peculiar code of conduct and sense of class, but also their training. Many of these were world war one veterans who had returned from the battlefields with extensive knowledge in firearms. These veterans returned to a country falling into economic depression and for these men seeking their fortune could easily find it working for the various organized crime factions. Working for the mob could easily be more than a match for their financial needs as they were frequently very handsomely payed for their services. Despite all the stories of gunfights all the time and action going on there were actually few when seen in the long scope of time. Much of the time was simply spent guarding booze shipments and other simpler and more mundane jobs. The vast majority of the time was spent just doing normal and uneventful things.

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The actual moments of panic and excitement and danger were fewer and farther in between. This was just the sort of job these men were trained to do. In certain ways it was much like the military. They experienced long periods of quiet and punctuated with shorter periods of action. This suited many of them well as they were more interested in getting paid and spending it on Sex and parties than on fighting. The sex with beautiful girls was also likely a big lure for many of them, along with the nice clothes and money to burn. Taken all together it was obviously considered a very bright and lucrative alternative than working an honest job that probably paid ten times as less with ten times as much actual work. And it didn’t offer the perks that came with the job either. Considering all things it’s really no wonder recruiting was so easy at the time.

Pornucopia

Thursday, September 15th, 2011

Sex and dating seem to be the specific prevue of the net. God knows we are on all the time either looking for a date, checking someone’s status on Facebook, or managing some one-hand chatting. All this action and interest occurs on the web or on our portal devices that we are hooking-up when we are out.

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And so too do we seek porn across the Internet.

But somewhere along the way we connected porn with sex and dating, while we damn well know none of our sex lives are anywhere near what we see in a porn movie. Having access to sex in the same medium we do porn we can so quickly link the two together, when in reality they are pretty much far apart. We amp-up for one in very much the same way we do another-certainly in the anonymous environs of our homes-and inextricably take one for the other.

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Modern day dating might be pretty far removed to how we used to find someone we were interested in, get their number-call them on a landline for Christ’s sake-make dates, go to movies, maybe a few dinners, court them or be courted. The net has truncated our actions, our style even our civility so now we do things so much quicker, with often more direct intent-there are specific fetish websites kinky people hook-up on, for instance-so why wouldn’t we simply regard sex and dating with porn, with the images we see right alongside the chats, with how we download so fast, masturbate then move on to the next activity. We come to gloss over what used to be the seduction, interplay and slow build of sexual interest in the light of how we see sex portrayed around us all the time.

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But we are not porn stars. We still react to sex better when we can temper or dates, build anticipation, but as long as we continue to mostly have our intimate experiences online, or at least start them there, sex dating and porn will stay united in a new trilogy.

Porn and Amateurs

Thursday, September 15th, 2011

There are an increasing number of people going into the Porn business for themselves. This has been made possible with not only the advent of the internet but the ability to make in quality and transmit videos of people. This cottage industry of Porn is largely the bailiwick of couples, as married couples doing it but some singles are involved too. Most of these people if not all are getting a lot of enjoyment and thrills out of the idea that millions of people are watching them do it. They like the idea of sucking their husbands cocks with untold numbers of people watching.

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This combination of celebrity, and power, combined with a natural extroversion make it an easy thing to do. Then the idea that they can easily make six figures a year doing it seals the deal. Any potential resistance they might have had left is totally and completely gone. The lure of easy money is far too much for most to take and especially under the trying times of a tough economy. Some of these couples are even giving more professional producers a run for their money in terms of viewership. It’s a wonder they aren’t actually picked up by some adult production company. Ironically enough, they don’t have to because they would actually stand to lose money doing it that way. This way, the homegrown and homespun fucking and sucking all by themselves does it all.

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They are in a class all their own and don’t have the competition of really anyone. For the consumer, the idea of watching a private amateur couple go to work has more appeal than watching picture perfect professionals do the same thing. It’s because it’s real, and those people doing it, are actually enjoying it, unlike some barbie doll wondering what she wants from subway and just waiting for some hunk to stop banging her so she can eat.

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Sex and The Allies

Tuesday, August 30th, 2011

When the allies landed in France and worked their way through the countryside the defending Germans abandoned and fled many towns and cities they had once occupied. Soon allied troops would come in and would be deluged with the sights and sounds of celebrating locals happy to be free. It was perfectly natural for many of the local ladies to see these liberators as possessing a lot of Sex appeal. It is no wonder then that under the circumstances they would often literally throw themselves at allied soldiers like they were the biggest sluts on the block.

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There were so many cases of local girls practically throwing their pussy at these handsome soldiers that the command could simply do nothing more than let it happen for a time and then try to just keep a lid on it. They knew that allowing their soldiers to get a little singles action was great for the morale and it was good for them to see the happiness restored to people and to know that what they were doing was the right thing. With that in mind they kept discipline as well as they could but also sort of allowed a little looseness to it to some degree. It was a sort of extra bonus they were allowing for. It was basically a way to pretend they had some control over a very uncontrollable celebration, and few would begrudge it anyway.

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A little adult action here and there never hurt anyone. Of course many months later there were a lot of children born from these unions and many of them raised these children as their own knowing that their fathers were allied heroes who had come to free them. The sort of Sex in the air after allied soldiers chased the Germans out who had dominated the area for years would have been unstoppable to a greater degree anyway. In the end it was simply natures way of getting things back to normal and restoring peace and prosperity, and a little population boom for good measure.

Surviving the Dry Spell

Sunday, August 14th, 2011

Life is long and has many phases. Some of them are full of love and sex and good things with other people in them. During others it becomes harder — life can seem far more barren, with no one around for dating and the attempts to find them on personals sites coming up empty. At other times we realize that we just aren’t capable of connecting with other people healthfully, because of a recent break up or other painful periods of personal growth. Whatever the case, dry spells happen and need to be weathered. How does one do this and maintain sanity until the next good thing comes along?

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First off, avoid stagnant living. It can be easy to let ourselves go, gaining lots of weight, letting hygiene worsen, or one’s house becoming unbearably messy. After all we are just waiting for the right person to come along, right? Until then it doesn’t matter what we do.

Unfortunately, this kind of attitude has the effect of driving people off, both friends and potential lovers alike. One may even find one’s self turning down offers from hot people on their favorite dating site simply because it seems like so much trouble to shave, clean up, and throw out the trash in the bedroom or do all those dishes piling up. Make it worth while to do these things for you and in the end you will be far more attractive to the people you are looking for when they finally come back into one’s life after so long. Focus instead on becoming an even better person in the interim. Take classes or learn new skills; not only will this make one a better candidate for a relationship later but it is a great opportunity to meet people with similar interests as well.

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Find ways to pamper yourself and avoid negative self talk. Avoid the people that drag one down and avoid fuck buddy relationships with exes whenever possible.

The All Too Common Marital Dilemma And What To Do About It

Tuesday, August 9th, 2011

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Married couples might indeed have less sex, but it isn’t from lack of desire; simply put, other shit takes priority. Sex is still important but raising kids, dealing with the laundry, in-laws, any number of factors keeping a household together makes the cold hard facts of reality seep into a couple’s life and sometimes throws up a barrier for sex. Exhaustion reigns most of the time, or bad timing when one partner is ready and the other is not, or just the our just the rigors of the day can leave people, people who love one another and are attracted to one another still, simply not up for fucking.

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In these instances, which can be many, it sometimes does a couple good to introduce some sex videos. Not so much to ignite some desire between the two partners-though sex videos are certainly good for that-but maybe to simply help each person get the job done for themselves, masturbate and move on, or help them sleep. If two people can acknowledge that life is keeping them apart and not a lack of desire, then masturbating to sex videos is a great way to release some sexual tension and get back on track of getting on track.

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What a married couple or any long–term affair runs the risk over though is letting sex videos replace intimacy. It is all well and good to have a dirty movie be the safe harbor you run to on occasion or even in place of regular bed time with your significant other, but to have it replace your time with your wife our hubby, to make sex videos the only way you ever want to be sexual, that’s when they run the risk of becoming too important in our lives. That’s when we need to temper how often we rely on sex videos to get aroused and that’s when we might indeed have to reexamine why we are not having sex with our partner.

Enjoyment For Women

Saturday, July 2nd, 2011

The history of the porn industry has been a long and storied one which most tend to think revolves around the pleasure of men. To some extent this is true but more often adult video makers are focusing on a different demographic, which is that of women. The purchasing power of horny women looking to jump start their mood with some hot heavy fuck fests are driving the porn industry right along side the men these days. Recent studies have shown some new and changing trends. A good portion of Sex videos now cater to woman’s tastes as much as they do men. It isn’t like they just have their own little niche like some would think.

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It’s now an almost even split. The Rand and Mather Research group showed that between 1995 and 2005 the number of porn videos featuring the pleasure of women center stage versus that of men nearly doubled and is still climbing. The study also showed that more and more men are actually preferring the purchase of these types of porn videos over those that were made for them. Researchers suggest that this is probably because those single men are plumbing a new well of information on how better to boost their own performances by watching woman’s porn. It doesn’t exactly take a genius to figure this out but whatever the reasons it’s certainly good news for all the ladies out there looking for a hard cock to please them. Now while this might be a new and exciting trend it hasn’t exactly been undiscovered. There was the 1984 release of the Sylvia Bernard production entitled Thelma’s Pleasure and while it remained relatively unnoticed during its time it still made its mark as one more pioneering feat for woman’s equality.

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Most people even in the porn industry don’t remember the film but it did influence the possibilities in it’s own way and showed that no matter what the industry was women could and would make their mark and do just as well as men.

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