Archive for the ‘Sex’ Category
Friday, March 4th, 2011
Latex rubber is used most often in the fetish world as a form of clothing. It binds tightly to the body, hides very little and looks sleek enough to remain pleasing to the eye. Often seen in fetish clubs, latex appears so sleek that it looks like a second skin on many people. It has its own dedicated magazines and group following. It’s actually a subculture of rubber fetishism.
Latex picks up body oils and retains warmth quite well so it should be noted that a dressing aid may be useful in helping the wearer put on the clothing. Talcum powder or some lubricant such as petroleum jelly will help guard against potential allergic reactions all while making it easier to put on the clothing.Latex clothing comes in a variety of fashions, sizes, shapes and colors. Everything from thongs, latex lingerie and bras have been made from latex all the way to the full body suit. Boots, gloves, masks and body suits found their way into the Fetish scene, giving the wearer a different look than the usual matte leather.
Most common articles of clothing include bondage mittens, hoods, goggles, ball gags, garter belts, boots, and even the daunting body bag. Oils, metals, extreme sunlight, and sharp objects should be kept away from latex as it’s a fairly durable material. Proper storage of latex involves keeping your garments in black bags hunt in cool, dark places away from extreme temperatures. Latex should be cleaned shortly after wearing to remove any body oils that it has been exposed to. Rinse the garment well in warm water. Some manufacturers recommend using a mild soap, while others suggest only water. Hang on a plastic or wood hanger to dry, or lay flat to dry.
The garment can be wiped gently with a soft towel to decrease drying time if desired. When one side is dry, turn inside out and let the other side dry as well. When completely dry, separate any latex that has stuck together and lightly dust the garment with talc to prevent any further sticking. Some will use a small amount of silicone dressing aid instead. It is not recommended to store light and dark latex garments in direct contact as this can discolor the light latex.
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Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011
If a lesbian finds a woman attractive at a coffee shop or a bar, and thinks there is flirting happening, only to learn that the woman is straight, whats going on? If a woman who is interested in experimenting with other women lives in a smaller community, how does she find women who might be interested in dating her?
Thankfully, most women are not upset if another woman flirts with them. After all, women are used to be approached by men all the time, and are more comfortable with social contact. Most women are not threatened by lesbians, and, in fact, can be flattered by the approach. Female homophobia is pretty much uncommon, to the point that straight women are approached by gay and bisexual women all the time.
For a woman who is beginning to experiment with other women, flirting is a great way to start. Most women are comfortable with flirting from women as well as men. Women are often more subtle about their sexual interests, so flirting is an important first step to catch the attention of another bisexual woman or a lesbian who is looking.
Of course, there are far fewer lesbians than there are heterosexual women. That can make it challenging for a lesbian to find a potential date in smaller towns and communities that dont have gay bars. It can feel frustrating, both for the woman interested in expanding her sexual horizons, and for a lesbian living in that community.
A gay lady might get frustrated by she will do well to remember that straight guys often have the same difficulties. Many men ask several women out before one says yes. The level of confidence is key, an assumption of potential success that eventually someone will say yes will keep one in the game. It is a good lesson for lesbians looking for a date: if there a sense of confidence, that there is someone out there, that confidence will carry over in the way she presents herself.
Lucky for all of us, whatever our sexual proclivities, kinks and fetishes, even religious affiliations, what we are looking for we can find in the on-line dating world. Sites made just for gay men, lesbian ladies, or single people looking for spanking are all over the net so the flirting can happen in the safe confines on-line as much as the wacky unpredictable real world.
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Tuesday, March 1st, 2011
The art of corporal punishment more commonly known as spanking is one that many couples enjoy, to varying degree. For some theres nothing sexier than a red hot ass where the nerves have opened up and blood has rushed to the area, others like the idea, patter, clothes and cause-and-effect a good spanking gives.
The ass is mostly muscle, so it’s harder to hurt than other body parts. It’s also one of the strongest muscles in the human body. It’s also one of the most talked about features of the human body. No man or woman can resist a hot, well-muscled or tight ass on the partner of their choosing. With all the nerve endings in the ass and around the anus in particular, it’s no wonder spanking fetishes are popular in sexual culture.
The fetish itself is versatile. It can be involved in role play: The priest and naughty nun, the school marm and student, principal and teacher, even babysitter and her charge. What’s taboo to one person is often highly sexualized to another and there is no denying that a power exchange, even something as subtle as a man ordering his lovers meal on a date as his lover acquiesces to the this attention, is sexy.
Some psychiatrists suggest that love of spanking stems from childhood issues and for many that may be true. Others simply find the fetish to be an extreme turn-on. It’s gender neutral, which means both men and women can get something out of it. For women, the feeling of helplessness and submission makes her wet, because it stimulates those nerve endings. The anticipation of sexual intercourse from contact of one of her erogenous zones heightens the sensation for her. If a woman takes on the dom role, she might be playing in a way she usually doesnt in life, being aggressive or demanding in ways she would never dream of.
For men, turning a sweet, hot bottom pink is more about control and dominance in addition to maybe getting laid
if the guy plays dom. A man giving up control, allowing himself to be bare-bottomed and swatted is a good release to, as many men have to play a more dominate role in their everyday lives.
Overall, all this attention on the bottom truly uses this most erogenous zone to its fullest. Watch some spanking porn to get the idea of what sort of possibilities are out there. Unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation to trigger and this is why spanking is an obvious choice.
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Tuesday, March 1st, 2011
The creative application of sex toys into making love often has the effect of increasing of sexual pleasure, no matter what kind of a toy one is using. One of the ways to decide what kinds of sex toys to purchase is by figuring out what parts of the body are a turn to us individually. Nipples are a great place to begin, since both women and men have them! Also, they can be used alone while masturbating for added pleasure.
Some people will use common household objects, like clothespins or binder clips to stimulate their nipples, though they are not as sexy as store-purchased tit clamps or fully fledged nipple clamps. It’s also more difficult to regulate the pressure on the nipples with those household objects and since the nipple are a sensitive area-and usually on the smaller side-most people who play with nipple stimulation on a regular basis to recommend nipple clamps as the safest way to go.
Nipple clamps are a great toy for either men or women. Click here to see a Sexy brunette with big tits get pinched! There are several types nipple: some have sliding adjustable bands of steel, and others have a small screw-like contraption that are often found on heavier clamps. The tip of nipple-clamps are also good to check. There are smaller, tweezer-like nipple-clamps that are designed to pinch. Wider mouths on nipple-clamps give broader pressure that is felt all across the nipple. This variety in sensations is a good idea.
One of the ways to decide what are the best nipple-clamps for a person’s individual tastes is to look at the nipples that the clamps will be used on. Are the nipples small and pebble-like? Are they large and firm? Also, how have the nipples reacted with other kinds of foreplay? Do the nipples harden quickly with just a lick of a tongue, or are they slow to arouse over time with a concentrated attention?
Some nipple-clamps are attached by a chain. The chain provides a place to hang additional objects, which give more weight to the clamps, especially if the person wearing them is standing up – just the gentle sway of walking can add stimulation and additional delectable delights. The chain can also be placed in a mouth, and tugged like a leash during masturbation or sex.
Girls don’t often think of using nipple-clamps on their boyfriends, but just like women’s nipples, men’s nipples are sensitive. They can often take more pain or pressure than women’s nipples, which is important to think about when purchasing nipple-clamps. Heavier clamps that can be secured firmly are best.
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Monday, February 28th, 2011
For some straight men, there is a big stigma against having their ass played with in any way. Fingering, and certainly no sex toys are allowed in there! Too bad for them that they are missing out on a wonderful life pleasure. There is hope, however, for the hopelessly straight man who is at least willing to try to allow his girlfriend to explore beyond the penis. And if he thinks it is too weird, just boot up some porn that will show him how awesome it can be!
One of the best ways for a woman to first approach stimulating a guy’s asshole is to begin while there is other intense pleasure happening for him. She might take his succulent cock head into her mouth. While she is sucking him, she might take the personal lubricant from the nightstand and begin to rub some gently around the outside of his anus. Make sure he is still distracted by the free porn at this point.
She can keep sucking, and while he is in the throes of pleasure, insert one finger slowly. No need to pound hard or do too much at all. He might be taken aback at first, but he is also likely to flow with how good that finger feels inside him while he is getting a blow job. Once he gets acclimated, she can move her finger gently to discover the best subtle motions that will stimulate his prostate (P-spot).
If he has never had an anal experience, he might thank her later.
A not-too- big vibrator might be another way to begin for the more adventurous man. Quite a number of guys are curious about what it must feel like to get fucked with a vibrator because they see porno clips of women loving it, or their girlfriends hitting their orgasm with the sensation. Stroking his cock and balls while introducing the lubed-up vibrator to his ass would be a good way to go. It is generally fun to insert it while it is off then turn on the vibrations and watch him jump with startled ecstasy.
Butt plugs and anal beads: These might be best for once he is familiar with the backdoor route. Often, inserting the number of anal beads you like inside you by yourself is a good thing to do, followed by sexual activity with the partner. Once a guy discovers these pleasures, he may fuck himself silly with a butt plug while his cock is inside his favorite pussy.
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Monday, February 28th, 2011
One easy way for people to spice up their sex life is to try some new positions that they’ve never tried or haven’t done in a very long time. Different sexual positions offer different sensations and stimulation, and sometimes that’s especially true for women. For example, when a woman is on top she can control the speed and depth of penetration, and she can make sure she gets constant clit stimulation which will help most women achieve orgasm.
For men, sometimes it’s the depth that gives them the most added stimulation, so positions that will enable deeper penetration will be very pleasing. When in the missionary position, if the man raises the woman’s legs up towards her chest, it opens up and elongates her vaginal cavity, allowing the man the access to achieve much deeper penetration than standard missionary position where the woman has her feet on the bed and her legs spread. A minor adjustment like that one can transform a good position into a great position. Rear entry positions are also good for deeper penetration, especially if the lady is lying face down with her backside raised. Lying over a stack of pillows is great for this position. If the lady puts her arms back, the gentleman can spread her legs wide apart with his knees and hold onto her arms or wrists as he thrusts and he’ll get wonderfully deep penetration.
Side-by-side positions can be a lot of fun because they leave both people’s hands free, allowing them both to stimulate other parts of each other’s bodies. Certain positions will leave the lady’s hands free, allowing her to play with the man’s balls or insert a finger into his ass. A man with free hands can provide extra clit stimulation.
If you’re stuck for positions, an easy way to get ideas is from booting up some sweet ass porn. Incorporate what you see into your routine. But don’t try anything too outrageous off the bat – work up to the pile driver.
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Thursday, February 24th, 2011
Women’s panties remain a mystery to most men when it comes to undergarments. The variety and material used to make the clothing that covers a woman’s most intimate parts also reveals more about her than just her personal preferences (or porn preferences). Panties are categorized based on the amount of coverage. Sometimes the material made factors into the type and purpose for a particular underwear. Sometimes the design and cut are all they are about.
For example, conservative women tend to favor the brief panty. With the most coverage of a woman’s ass this style offers comfort. They usually extend below the hip. French cut panties usually have a thinner band between the front and back to offer a hint of skin and sex appeal. This is the classic style most often worn by women. Hipsters are similar to briefs but have a lower waist, exposing more navel flesh. They’re worn at hip level.
Bikini panties have an even more narrow strip of cloth and are worn over the hips. The string bikini enjoys popularity among the college crowd as many college students embrace their own sexuality during spring break. Tangas have a thin strip but reduced coverage of the rear. Thongs have waistbands similar to tangas but the strip of cloth covering the crotch extends to disappear between the ass cheeks. A g-string is a thinner version of a thong and allows for more flesh exposure.
Panties have been designed for comfort as well as shape control. A fully cover form fitting brief called a control brief has elastic to produce a slandering effect for those who need it.
Makers of women’s panties have used material such as silk as it feels comfortable against the skin, usually doesn’t irritate the wearer. Satin provides a similar level of comfort but offers a sheen that many find attractive. Construction consists of a front, back and the strip of fabric connecting the two.
Betty Paige made panties popular in the 1940′s as Western women embraced their sexuality. In the Seventies, stores such as Victoria’s Secret and Frederick’s of Hollywood opened up and began marketing lingerie, including a large selection of different styles and types of panties to the newly sexually free woman. Magazines such as FHM and Maxim often use panty-clad models for sex appeal.
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Wednesday, February 23rd, 2011
One of the more taboo aspects of sexual intercourse involves the art of analingus, commonly seen in free porn. It’s become less taboo over the years as the sexual revolution from the 60′s moves well into the new millennium. Hetero men even do not fear as splay as they once did.
The anal cavity is a myriad of thousands of nerve endings all primed for pleasure from some sort of stimulus. The tongue is one of the most sensual organs human beings have. In a study done by UCSF’s HIV InSITE, more and more Americans are experimenting with anal sex. Out of 3,432 adults, at least 10% have tried anal sex once in the previous year. Of the 3,400 graduate students at the University of Maryland, 25% reported having practiced heterosexual anal intercourse. So ass play is a widely popular activity.
Analingus is often a precursor to the fun of anal sex. To start with, make sure the ass is clean. A high quality enema found at most sex toy shops. Used properly, an enema in combination with a shower will provide the area with enough cleanliness to avoid unpleasantness, including smells.
Once both partners are satisfied that cleanliness isn’t an issue, analingus begins like any other anal related activity. Gentle massaging of the ass cheeks, pressing lightly around the anal ring will help loosen up the interested party. Licking, sucking on flesh will produce stimulating sensations and enhance arousal. When it’s time, using your tongue will involve more than just a press of the mouth against a nice fresh asshole. Your hands may be required in some positions to help keep the ass cheeks spread apart. Nobody will be able to caress a man’s prostate with their tongue as the organ is located farther in the canal than the tongue is long, but an added finger will help a woman give her man an explosive orgasm that will make him beg.
Once the tongue is inserted, you can swirl it around the inside of the anus, touching all of those sensitive nerve endings or thrust it like a penis. The rapid penetration simulating anal sex causes noticeable heated excitement in both genders.
Many gay men and straight or bisexual women know the pleasures of ass eating well.
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Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011
I have really been suffering from the Winter Blues, much like most of you. The winter has been so cold this year it’s hard to get the motivation to get out of my Homer Simpson pajamas and into a mood to get out of the house.
This got me thinking, there must be a better way to stay warm in this frigid winter besides cranking up the furnace and plugging in an electric blanket.
SEX! Sex always gets the heart pumping, the sweat dripping and the body hot, especially when you fuck like porn stars, so it’s the best remedy for the Winter blues in my opinion.
Sharing body heat is the best way to conserve energy, and you’ll even save some cash in the process. Nothing beats staying in and having hot sex on a cold night, all the while saving some money and getting your jollies off.
Here are a few tips to make your sex life hot, hot, hot:
• Go from water to land; take a scolding hot shower together to warm up. While you lather each other up and rinse each other off, you will do more than just steam up the bathroom mirrors. Then dry each other off and hit the sheets.
• When your in bed with your partner, get complete dressed. I know that it is the opposite of what people usually do, but shedding the layers as you guy will turn up the body heat and make you a lot more horny. Once your both naked, the skin on skin will feel so hot.
• Take advantage of those sex toys because adding that extra stimulation into the mix with really heat you up.
• If you have a fireplace, fuck her right in front of it. Pull a chair in front and have her straddle you while you feel the heat.
Even though Spring is on it’s way, take advantage of these last few days of cold to really heat things up at home.
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Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011
Anal play and anal sex can be very hot and sexy, and is in the realm of real lovers these days, not just porn stars. However, women sometimes find it difficult to relax and enjoy it because theyre concerned about any mess that could result. Feeling uptight and stressed when participating in any kind of anal play can make the experience difficult and uncomfortable for both parties.
A lot of women dont seem to be able to understand that people who are interested in anal play are fully aware of the fact that it is an activity fraught with the potential for a mess, and they are prepared to proceed in spite of that. It is a biological function experienced by all humans and not something to be ashamed of. While many people will advocate repeated enemas in order to assure cleanliness and a pristine environment, that actually may not be the healthiest choice. Enemas can often dry out the anal area, and having anal sex a short period of time later could result in minor tearing or discomfort due to dryness. Repeated enemas could throw a persons electrolytes off balance, and that can be very detrimental to a persons health. Unless ones partner is aware of how many enemas were done and how recently, they may not be able to provide necessary information in case of an emergency. It would be best to discuss this with a doctor or gynecologist, and find out how to safely use enemas or anal douches as a way to prepare the area without any health implications. Doctors have heard it all and theyre there to help, so people should not be embarrassed to discuss these things with them.
The easiest way to handle the situation is to eat a very healthy diet and get plenty of fiber. This will make most people pretty regular and, quite often, predictable which will make scheduling a sexual encounter involving anal play quite a bit easier. If a lady is concerned about any potential messy situations, she can put a large towel on the bed or leave a towel folded on the dresser to provide a place to put used sex toys. The last and most important thing is that people should talk to their partner. It may seem like an embarrassing conversation, but if a person is comfortable allowing someone else to insert things into their ass they should be comfortable enough with that person to talk to them.
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