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Shower Time

Monday, March 14th, 2011

Water, warmth, slippery soap, and naked bodies. Free porn? No! It’s shower sex. Aside from perhaps a condom, what else could you possibly need to have a good time? Taking a shower together is a simple thing, but it is one of those activities that a long-term couple may get so busy as to forget about over time. It is worth revisiting.

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In the morning, taking a shower together can be a really nice way to welcome the day. Waking up gently with the warm water running over your body is a good and healthful morning ritual. Consider allowing time for each partner to have a moment when it’s just one body, one shower stream. After the wake up moments, greeting each other more properly is in order. Hold each other gently, only for a moment, then move on to actual bathing. Take whatever you use to scrub, and take turns rubbing down each others’ bodies. Enjoy stroking each others’ back, arms, legs, tits, pussy or cock. Again, you may give a moment of alone time so that each partner can take care of parts that it isn’t easy for someone else to do. It’s hard to wash someone else’’s face for them, for example. In the morning, other than perhaps a very quick hand job, there is often not time for prolonged lovemaking in the shower. It’s off to work with you!

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An evening or weekend shower can be quite a different scene. After the initial getting used to the time is over, begin the caressing. This time, she can fondle him until he’ is hard, then drop to her knees and give him a hot blow job. To a lot of couples, there is nothing more wonderful than the feeling of giving and receiving oral while warm water embraces their glistening bodies. A hand-held shower massage can also be totally hot. If he would like, he could watch her hold the water jets up to her pussy until she comes with great intensity. They could also play with the water jets around his cock and balls to see where it feels best for him. Together, a man and a woman can develop a fun collection of shower games, preferences, and erotic memories.

Cleanliness if certainly next to God-li-ness.

Exploring

Thursday, March 10th, 2011

There are people who feel unsure as to how to act when going to sex clubs for the first time. There may feel as if there is a set of rules to follow, and not everyone understands them. Sometimes the rules of a sex club are posted, but there are also other unwritten rules that are hard to figure out.
In all cases, courtesy is always the way to go, followed by common sense. Look at the other people. If there are naked girls, then nudity is okay. If there are people watching a sex scene, then the club welcomes voyeurs. Watching is almost always permissible, whereas touching without permission is usually not. Asking someone else about the unwritten rules in the club will help smooth the way for proper behavior. It’s also a good idea to ask someone who is not having sex or engaging in other forms of kinky play. Interrupting a scene is considered bad behavior. Asking someone standing nearby who is watching the same scene will be far more comfortable for all concerned.

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For exhibitionists, finding an available corner or piece of sex equipment is all that is needed to start showing off. Strip off clothes, or wear something sexy to draw attention. Don’t be afraid of making noise, even laughing is okay. Public fucking can be fun and even funny. There’s no need to take it seriously, if the purpose is to have fun or entertain.

Drawing an audience for the kinky couple or single exhibitionist is not difficult. Just taking over a piece of equipment in a sex club may be enough to have people stop and watch. Fondling a breast or cock will draw an audience quickly.sex-club-girl-tattoosMoans and other porn noises always make people look around to see what is happening. Even a sharp clap or spank will be enough to build an interested crowd.
If going to a sex club sounds like fun, check out locations around the country. On-line lists of sex events exist, and the ongoing sex clubs in larger cities advertise regularly in alternative newspapers and on-line sex news. Swingers groups for married couples are prevalent in every suburb as well as all major cities. Couples and singles both will quickly build a network around themselves once they are out and about in whatever kinky scene they wish to be known in.

Sexual Fantasies Made Real

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

tumblr_leld1vHQ5e1qdgd5bo1_500There are some who do not realize that some fantasies are meant to be just that, fantasies. Not everything you see while watching free porn is something you are meant to do yourself.

Some of these sexual fantasies are not supposed to be fulfilled and when you figure that out you will live a much happier life.

For instance it may be one of your premier fantasies to fuck the bosses wife or daughter, but upon reflection one can clearly see where this might not be the best course of action even should said wife or daughter want it.

One has to think things through and figure that although the wife or daughter might want it, it is a situation that easily turn ugly and disastrous to say the least, very quickly.

What if the woman suddenly decides that you can do things for them, what if something goes bad and they become an enemy rather than a friend. These are all very realistic possibilities and you could coerced, or exploited, blackmailed or worse. These are all just as possible as your actually getting that piece of ass from them. There is no piece of ass regardless of how good it might be that is worth all the trouble and disaster that could ensue from such an encounter. There are many reasons why such a thing would be a bad idea. So when you simply realize and accept the truth of a thing you will be much better off.

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Besides, that leaves room for a great deal of other fantasies you can make happen. A threesome with the right partner is always a possibility as is perhaps making your own porn movie with your partner. There are a lot of things you can do to really spice things up without crossing a line you may well regret. Not all our thoughts will lead to good kink magic, or any magic at all! It is simply a good sound plan to always evaluate and consider things well before you dive in and try to make them happen.

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If you play smart, you will have a much greater reward than if you simply did things with little consideration beyond getting your rocks off and giving in to greed. Greed will be your undoing every single time.

The Disembodied Pussy

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

tumblr_lghjt4u9UX1qbzd9eo1_500Men only ever become pussy whipped because they want to.

Straight boys are fascinated in a woman’s vagina almost to the exclusion of all else-expect friction-and this chalice of womanhood has been celebrated in art, music, free porn, and literature as much as the phallus that fits inside it. Other female body parts may fascinate the straight guy, even gat man have been known to take notice of a firm high shelf of breasts or a nice swaying buttocks, still it is the vagina that ultimately has the most pull.

But over the time of a straight man’’s life the cunt, vaja-jay, hairpie-whatever it is to be called-becomes less of a fascination, less something women can hold out from their partners or wield with impunity.

Because over time, men realize there is a woman attached to that pussy.

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It takes a man a while but he does come around. First he has to get his mind off fucking. He has to realize that the fact that his dick is hard is truly only fascinating to him! Hopefully from this ephifany he learns to care about and subsequently please his bed partner, whomever he or she happens to be. Lastly, the man might grow to the point where he stops objectifying, or at least tempers his need to objectify, body parts to the exclusion of the person who sports a pair of breasts or a cute ass. And then, the very thing women wish men would do more often-notice them as a whole-renders a woman less powerful.

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If a man begins to notice the whole woman, not just her ass, tits and that deep well of her mystery her vagina, then the woman no longer has the mystery of her parts to hold over her man. Men who wish to be controlled by the cunt can still be, but that is a self-imposed slavery to a body part most adult men will not coddle. Seasoned guys will no longer worship a woman’s parts simply because they have grown to the point where they recognize a woman is a sum of her parts. Sure, guys are still set-up to see first and fit the piece into the whole later, but the pieces become less important as men grow older.

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Or if not, they stay ready and waiting to be pussy whipped …just like they want to be.

Wait To Bring Up Sex

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

tumblr_lgpdn93M6L1qzqbf4Most single people who have profiles on dating websites are looking for sex, at least eventually. It would be unusual to find someone that truly isn’t hoping to get into a relationship that eventually leads to sex.

The problem is that sometimes people want to put the cart before the horse and the subject of sex comes up far too early.

Men, when corresponding with a woman on a dating website, especially at the very beginning of the process, don’t ask her about sex or what she’s into sexually or how many times a day she likes to fuck or if she likes to give blow jobs. In most cases, the lady will find that to be an instant turn off.

Women want to know that guys are interested in them for more than just sexual interaction. Even on websites that are geared toward people who are into BDSM and fetish, the ladies still want to have some vanilla conversation before they are asked to spill their deepest, darkest fantasies.

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It comes across as though the man is only interested in sex, and that will turn a lot of ladies off even if they are only interested in sex. It seems disrespectful, and most women do want to be treated with respect and treated like a lady until the time becomes appropriate to treat her otherwise.

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Of course, internet dating can be complicated, and it can be rather confusing for the guys because some women respond really favorably to instant sex conversation. They expect to be asked questions right away, especially if they are on BDSM or fetish free porn sites. So how does a guy know what to do? Sometimes it’s possible to tell by reading the person’s profile carefully and really paying attention to what it says. That will often show quite clearly what type of woman she is and what her expectations are. A man can simply do whatever he wants, figuring that the right woman will understand him and it won’t matter. Another option is to wait – discuss vanilla topics and get to know her as a person, and let the lady introduce the subject of sex whenever she’s ready. That will make her feel respected and well-treated and most women will really appreciate that.

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The New Horizons

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_ler0yiCZ731qd7x8zo1_500Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.

Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant one’s fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.

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There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas.  You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.

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Masturbation Serenity

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_lf7ng676n21qzck00o1_500What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be —even more than they anticipated.

Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when you’re horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.

Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.

Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.

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Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.

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In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.

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This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.

To Sleep Perchance To…

Sunday, March 6th, 2011

Men and women really are at their warmest, most peaceful and possibly most alluring when they are sleeping. Lying down deep under our covers, breathing regular-even snoring- who could not be attracted to the quiet of our sleeping spouse or lover? All manner of worry and argument is quiet, all possible refusals muted, all manner of orifices open and warm.

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Many a hetero wife has reported waking to her man vigorously slipping his cock inside her or a guy has woken with a mouth locked around his slowly growing erection. The pure person is on display when we see, us in all our glory and without any true flash of our personalities good or bad.

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We can complain about bad morning breath all we want, the fact that we most probably need a pee when waking, even the funk and film eight hours leaves us with, but we are biologically predisposed to like all those funky warm smells. Akin to that musky warmth a wet pussy exudes when aroused, our deep scents of sleep are supposed to attract our lovers to us and us to them, we are supposed to wants to crawl beside them and spoon-at the very least-make love at the most, even when either of us might not be awake enough to respond. Many a lover who has snuck out of bed in the morning, brushed their teeth, splashed on some cologne or perfume to meet their lover lying still in bed all twisted under the covers in their morning film needn’t have bothered as sleep smells are really so alluring anyway.

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For most of us anyway our beds really are the temple of our sex lives and good feelings. Couple lay together many a nights to discuss their futures, hopes and dreams. Men and women can recall the moments of their wildest sexual escapades or their deepest clutching moments of love-making in this spot at the center of their intimate lives. We crawl into bed to be safe, to be closer, to sleep and to renew what our love and lust means to each other.

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Sleeping beauty’s little dwarfs had to have had many a nasty thought between them. The Internet might be a great place to meet people to masturbate over or maybe find a date from an on-line dating site, but nothing can replace the warmth of spooning lovers in bed rolling into one another in time to maybe catch an early morning quickie stolen before either partner has to get up for work!
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The Disembodied Cock

Saturday, March 5th, 2011

tumblr_lbjjauoMls1qeu5sfo1_500The older we get the more we notice …even if we don’t want to. Certainly our sexual vocabulary increases in what we want, how we want it, and what we know we must do to get it. We begin to notice the nuance of a touch, the sensuality of someone’s smile and how the way someone acts to and with us is the very best foreplay. We need the look and feel of body parts just as much as ever, but beyond the hubris of youth, a certain bloom is off the rose, not that we don’t still like looking at the rose, but the pedals and stem attract us just as much.

This is why the disembodied cock isn’t as attractive as it might have once been.

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Gay men and straight girls might be fascinated by the male member, but as they grow older, it depends more who the dick is attached to then it does the dick itself to inform the attractiveness of that dick. Used to be, one could marvel over a thick bulge and never raise one’s eyes to the face of the man who sported that heavy crotch; as one grows older, the crotch-no matter how attractive-does not exist independent from the man. Something shifts in our psyches as we feel a little seasoning and body parts, no matter how thick or long, are simply just body parts.

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In most cases, no matter their age, straight women never objectify male parts as much as straight men objectify a woman’s tits, ass …everything, part and parcel from the woman they are attracted to. Gay men to, because they have the same parts as their lover, do not have as much a fascination for objectification. It’s not to say any of us, whatever sex or sexual orientation, don’t enjoy looking at or touching the bounce, firmness, thickness, roundness or length of a specific naughty pink part from time to time, it’s just that as time wears on we are less apt to find only the part itself attractive separate from the person whose part it is, doubly so if one is a hetero or a gay man who didn’t really objectify all that much to begin with.

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Though certainly championed in advertising and in porn, regardless of size, the cock itself means very little to anyone truly unless attached to a man whom one wants to know.

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Sinking The Ship

Friday, March 4th, 2011

tumblr_lbssovRx681qz6f9yo1_500A leopard cannot change it spots – …neither can young adult males decrease their testosterone flow. Whether gay, bi or straight, guys are all over the net not only downloading porn but looking for someone to hook-up with. Whether joining on-line dating sites, social networking hubs or simply trolling the groups section of Myspace guys are just as horny as ever, but now have the net to temper their pursuits in what seems a socially acceptable and respectable approach.

The net is as much a portal for sex these days as it is for anything else… in fact the Internet is the perfect place to exercise our dirtier interests.  One undeniable fact is true, adults want to be fucking, rubbing and sucking as much as they can or are comfortable with a partner they find to fuck, rub and suck with.

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Male humans, especially young guys, are ruled by their nescient libido more then they are often their good commons sense and finding another avenue in which to pursue conquests, namely, on-line, they have made the net their personal procurement playground.

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How men go about attempting to find a date, than seduce that date doesn’t matter. Terms used for sex, on the net or off, change with ridiculous regularity, but it comes down to the same specifics of seduction it always has: men using their wit and wiles to secure a date. Whether they are emailing, posting a profile picture, chatting in a local chatroom or even joining a fetish site, these ways of strutting on-line are no different then being available every Tuesday night for a bookstore run with a buddy or scoping out the local supermarket for the weeknight that attracts the most single shoppers.

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It might seem that the game of sex, flirting, seduction, even hooking-up and the tales told afterward are more private, or at least more likely to be anonymous these days, but methodology is the only thing that may have changed. Euphemisms morph generation to generation but the game is still played and the game is sex for the red-blooded male. Shy or a playboy, teen or middle age, single and even married, men are still out there on the prowl and are using the Internet in ways that even the most adept hacker would be proud of.

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