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Stocking Fetish

Friday, March 25th, 2011

A secret sexual ache for a thong, a corset, panties and all manner of whatever can show off and cover a woman’’s legs leads many fetishists to develop a stocking fetish.

Nothing says classy like a pair of thigh high stockings on a pair of legs that seem to go on forever. Paired with a thong and matching corset and a woman is sure to feel sexy and give off an amazing amount of sex appeal.

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Stockings come in all different types and flavors. They vary in color, coverage and design. Before the 1590s, stockings were made of woven cloth. The first knitting machines were for making stockings and the stockings themselves were made of cotton, linen wool or silk. In the 1920s, legs covered by stockings were revealed as the dress hemlines rose. These stockings were sheer, first made of silk or rayon (called artificial silk), and after 1940, with nylon. The first pantyhose made an appearance in the 1940s and 1950s, when film and theater productions had stockings sewn to the briefs of actresses and dancers.

Today stockings are commonly made using knitted wool, silk, cotton or nylon. The introduction of pantyhose in 1959 provided a convenient alternative to stockings, and the use of stockings declined dramatically. In 1970, U.S. sales of pantyhose exceeded stockings for the first time, and have remained this way ever since.

But among fetishists, stockings remain popular. The sheer look with leather and lace give an aesthetic many find desirable. This is why there is still so much stocking porn.

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Stockings are held up in one of three ways. With garter belts worn underneath panties (for easier removal of panties), or with stay-up technology, where  silicone bands around the tops are slip resistant. Lastly, plain garters such as the ones seen typically at weddings are used to hold up a woman’s hose. The drawbacks are evident but worth it for many. The first obvious drawback is the need to continue readjusting the belt.

Depending on the tone of a woman’s skin, she may choose to wear fishnet hose, the wider fencenet style or all opaque to give the illusion of mystery. Many prefer thigh highs to full blown pantyhose, though pantyhose offer a better solution during winter weather.

Care of stockings varies as well but most quality pairs are best hand washed in warm water and hang flat to let dry.

Great Sex

Thursday, March 24th, 2011

tumblr_lgubd8upeQ1qb4reeo1_500The moments after sex can be a really great time to set yoruself up for an even better time later. If couples take the time to really get close and talk to one another about their sexual fantasies , before, during, but mostly after, sex and pay attention, they might just have the best sexual opportunity they have ever had. Why wait and let the moment go to waste when lovers can put in the effort now for a greater time later?
Couples can really get into a great discussion about what one liked and didn’t like so much about the encounter, go back over points, even share a giggle or two over missed opportunities and foreplay that fell short. When partners talk about how a cock was sucked or how a pussy was licked, they might discover what they can do better the next time. Considering everything a learning experience and a chance to improve your game only makes you better at the game. Not only will the couple be investing in a good opportunity for sex, they will also send a clear message to one another that they truly care about their intimacy and the sex life they are building.
If two people truly listen, allow a give and take,  and establish great communication, nothing can go wrong. Any doubts or even slight problems are easily overcome as any recriminations, suspicions and assumptions are discussed in the full light of confession. The lovers will definitely put themselves ahead of the game and assure an even better orgasm the next time they make love. It is a perfect time to really get those good questions out there that might not have been asked or touched upon before.

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We all want to please a partner and be pleased back; in the end, we’’d all like even better sex than we are already having, even if the sex we are already having is wonderful. There are always more things to know about a lover, more avenues to explore, even kinks to talk over and try. What better time to even consider your next time in bed then when your are still in bed? The warmth of a good orgasm, the calm that descends on both parties, and the openness we feel sharing our sexuality with another human being, can only lead to an honest exploration of the future.

Exploring Kinky Threesomes

Thursday, March 24th, 2011

Exploring kinky sex usually starts at home. Sharing a fantasy or trying role play or doing something they saw in a porn with a lover can begin a new level of sexual adventure. Common practices may include light bondage or spanking. Many couples experiment with many types of BDSM scenes, ideas, props and clothes, and it adds excitement to lovemaking.

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Loving couples practice many types of kinky sex together. While exploring new fantasies and desires, many lovers will keep their kinky desires in the bedroom. Sometimes the fantasies may expand. Light role play, the acting out of sexual fantasies, might include the use of props. The privacy of fantasies and the intimate nature of kinky sextumblr_l92g66RlmP1qzkcgao1_500may be enough for lovers. A boyfriend might visit a sex shop for a dildo or a sex toy for nipple play, and bring them home as a special surprise. A girlfriend might buy a new piece of silky lingerie to entice her lover or excite herself. More elaborate costumes, such as a French maid outfits or a pair of leather boots might add spice in the bedroom.
Over time, the couple may express an interest in adding a third person. Fantasizing about a threesome is considered kinky, whether or not bondage or spanking is part of the fantasy. A common threesome fantasy is two women and one man. The man can either be dominant or submissive. If a dominant man, ordering the two women to pleasure each other as a private sex show is fantastic. Especially if, after the women perform for him, they will then take turns sucking him off. If the man is submissive, the two women may tie him to the bed, and take turns sitting on his face or fucking. Being forced to please two women, licking pussy while kneeling and crawling back and forth between two dominant women is another way for a threesome to happen.
A threesome with two men and one woman is a very common fantasy. Cocksucking while having a man fuck her cunt, to feel filled from both ends is exciting. The woman can be dominant or submissive. As a slavegirl she might be tied down and blindfolded, her legs spread. The kinky fantasy of being forced to sexually please multiple men is exciting for many a submissive woman.

It’s Almost Too Quiet

Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011

We tend to take to a facility as mercury does to a vessel. Men and women, no matter their age, will grow with and to something, use it to their fullest until it is no longer useful, filling, in effect, the vessel to its utmost limit. This is true of the Internet and all it provides. Speed, world-wide communication, free porn, anonymity, the culling of potential products, service and even people one wishes to date; we use the net as much as we can because it simply exists for our use. And while it makes our movements ‘quiet,’ in a sense, this doesn’t mean guys and girls are not moving across the web landscape any less. In fact, the actual reverse is true; because the net provides a virtually silent landscape and the ability to move freely about to any place and contact a wide group of people, men and women are using the net more.

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And they are using the net mostly to find one another. In feverish activity unmatched in our modern times, singles-as well as married people-are looking for and finding one another faster then ever before. On-line dating sites provide the facility for countless singles to find one another, leading to many more dates, hook-ups and new couples that want to indulge in their sexual festishes. Just because people are meeting less and less at the old church mixer doesn’t mean they are not meeting. Just because there are less love letters being sent doesn’t mean the texts couples send to one another aren’t hot.
And just because people are spending less time to get to know one another in person and spending more time on line to feel each other out, doesn’t mean that those same people are taking their time when they do meet to get into bed!
The art of seduction has become insidious because of on-line interactions, but it’s no less effective. These days a couple learns the rules well before even meeting, they can view a person’s pictures and interests, and they have a clear idea what they might or might not do even before they meet a potential date to see if chemistry exists between them.
It’s for this reason that sex, in all its form and permutations, can happen very quick for the on-line hook-up, and sexual sins are still being committed, in fact with more frequency and almost always between completely consenting adults.

The world is just as wild, but now begins on line.

Moving in Together

Monday, March 21st, 2011

So the work has been done: – online dating websites were joined and a million e-mails were sent.  Now, hundreds of false starts and bad dates later, two people have finally clicked and found each other and have forged a very successful romantic relationship. The next obvious step is moving in together, and both are ready to take the plunge.

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Moving in together can sometimes be a challenge for heterosexual couples because men and women really are from different planets. There are a lot of things that men and women don’t see eye –to-eye on, and often it’’s difficult to explain things to each other because the opposite gender always seems to not really get the explanation. For instance, men don’t really understand the whole concept of decorative towels that cannot be used. Towels are towels and they’re meant to dry off after washing. It seems silly to hang up towels that cannot be used, especially when they’’re hung on the most convenient rack in the entire bathroom. To men, this makes no sense. On the other hand, women do not usually understand exactly how a collection of baseball caps or Budweiser decorative beer steins could constitute appropriate decoration for the living room. To women, these are casual items and not the appropriate knick-knacks and decorative items for a living room. The family room or bar area, maybe, but the living room tends to be kind of sacred to most women. She might have said they were cute when she visited your place, guys, but either she didn’t mean it or the thinly veiled sarcasm was not noticed due to your extreme desire to make porn with her. Bottom line is, she’s not going to want them in the new, shared living room.

It’’s really not worth it to fight over silly things like this. Find a happy compromise and don’t ruin the excitement of moving in together and starting a new chapter in this relationship. Focus on having romance and awesome sex and building a life together. Make love, not war! There will be plenty of other growing pains as two people begin to blend their lives, and some much more important than silly decorating disputes. The important thing to do is to remember that falling in love brought things to this point, and it should be a happy time to be celebrated.

Safer Sex

Friday, March 18th, 2011

There’s no denying it — everybody who’s tried it enjoys the feel of unprotected fucking — of nothing between one and the body of their lover but their wetness or favorite sex lube. A naked cock and a naked cunt or, perhaps, a naked ass-fucking. One loves to share this kind of intimacy with the right lover, one with whom one is committed and knows to be safe, and one loves to see it in porn.

And yet how often is one in this situation? There are many times — indeed most times — when the best kind of sex is safe sex. Perhaps one picked up that smoking hottie at the local gay bar or the singles meat market. Maybe one has tried to put up a profile on an online adult dating site. One has met that sexy online date and is ready to take it back to the bedroom. Whether you’re gay or straight, a lesbian, a queer. If one is into bondage and domination or a swinger, one can learn to enjoy safer sex. Of course if one already has a latex fetish, lucky you!

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Of course condoms are the safer sex suppliers one encounters most often. One can find all kinds of condoms nowadays. One can find huge condoms for huge dicks and smaller ones for smaller cocks. One can use a condom on one’s favorite dildo or sex toy for sharing it with others. One can find flavored cocks for a tasty sweet blowjob. There are even condoms made from polyisoprene now, which are just as tight as latex condom but safe for those with allergies. They also smell better and don’t leave that condom taste on your cock or cunt — a big help for cunnilingus and fellatio during a long fuck time.

Of course safe sex doesn’t stop there. One can use gloves to protect hands during sexy play. This is great for anal fingering when it keeps things clean and makes one’s fingers extra smooth and slippery when one adds lubricant. There are dental dams for oral sex — great with a little flavored lube and hear her moan.

Don’t let the need for hygiene and protected sex turn one off. Instead look at it as a way to enjoy new kinds of fun with more new people.

Getting Started in Online Chat Rooms

Friday, March 18th, 2011

Practicing our conversation skill in an on-line chat room makes not only for good practice for a date conversation, but a better time in chatrooms as we go about meeting and flirting with singles just like us.
Making up an online name can be as simple as choosing a variation on a real name. But a great way to start flirting is to choose a name that reflects an action or porn desire. It helps set the right mood for the conversation.sex-vs-computer-games01
A way to be noticed in on line chat rooms is to speak up. Even a simple hello can work. But getting the conversation going needs more than a hello, and asking people how everyone is doing. One of the reasons to be in a chat room is to get away from mundane conversations. Before logging in, think of something sexy to say. Open ended conversations or questions are good. Sharing an image of lying in bed and then asking people what might happen next is an invitation to flirt and share some on line sex. Talking about wanting to try something new and then asking for feedback can spark a conversation as well.
There can be a lot of action in on-line chat rooms. Sometimes it can feel overwhelming, especially if the text is moving across the screen very quickly. Other times, it seems like no one is saying anything. This is common in the land of on-line communication. Just like how there are people who dominate conversations in person, there are people who can do that on-line as well. A way to keep that from happening is to keep on-line comments to only one or two sentences at a time. And the reader can just skip over and look for familiar on-line names to chat with, which is like ignoring the loud guy at the party.
Most on-line chat rooms offer a chance to whisper to someone else in the room, allowing for a private conversation to take place. This is a great way to flirt one-on-one, and can lead to a potential online fuck. And the privacy a chat allows is unparrelled. If something happens on-line that is embarrassing, it’s easy to stop. Log off. Change the on-line name and start over, or go to another on-line chat site. The advantage of on-line chatting is that it is anonymous.

Take The Long Way

Thursday, March 17th, 2011

Sex on the run can have a lot of entertainment value, and can bring people closer by virtue of experiencing something fun and possibly extra naughty and risky together. Sometimes just the opposite experience is in order, however. Protracted, slow-moving lovemaking that takes all day can be a beautiful thing.tantric-sex-2
It is hard for some to imagine sex without a goal in mind. According to the way many or even most Westerners have learned to have sex, the idea is to get to orgasm as fast as possible. For others, it is to cum as much as possible, or even to conceive a child. Those interested in Tantric sex aim to unite the Divine Masculine with the Divine Feminine to deepen spiritual consciousness and connection. It is a different experience entirely to approach the sexual experience without expectation.
To experience sex in this way, try it on an evening where your schedule is entirely clear. If there is to be no agenda for the sex, there also shouldn’’t be an impending deadline or activity needed in another arena of life. Try drawing a hot bath and relaxing. This could be done with your lover or each separately, meeting each other after both have relaxed well and released all outside worries. Once together, choose a fragrant oil and massage each other deeply. Pay close attention to all parts of the body: —feet, hands, shoulders, back, belly, and the rest. Too often, erotic touch focuses only on the tits, ass, and genitals. Touch those places as you may, but in conjunction with the rest of the body.
Then, simply allow the massage to merge into more. A gentle touch on the lower back becomes an embrace around the belly, becomes hands moving slowly down to the penis. As he becomes fully erect and she gets more excited, allow kisses to progress to kissing and sucking on those special places. More massage will be sexier, as slow-burning love intensifies. When it is time for entry, both will know and the orgasm that follows is sure to be amazing.

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Fucking in any position is fine, but the first sex position should allow for full eye contact. Look into each other’s’ eyes, come together only when that energy arises all on its own after long, slow motions.

Strobe Light

Wednesday, March 16th, 2011

Maybe it comes from the disco era Studio 54 cache. It was a time and place of glamour, dancing, coke, booze, and lots and lots of sex. People talked about sex happening in many clubs in New York City and major cities around the world, and there were classic (and sometimes classy) places dedicated to exactly that, like Plato’s Retreat. Maybe it was the gay boys, dancing with abandon, shirtless, bronzed and beautiful for all the world to see, countered with the steamy tight places where rock bands worked their sweat, muscle and brawn into every searing note they played.
Whatever began way back in the day, mixing sex and a club, the idea of couples getting it on in a dance or rock club has never left our culture.

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The first answer may be the most in keeping with the alternative culture of club life: Because people are not supposed to. The rebellious nature of rockers and the party crowd makes fucking in public something that seems exciting and, in a word, badass. In a way, it could still be a way of fulfilling some 1950’s-style conservatives’’ worst fears —that rock and pop music leads to raunchy dancing, which leads to sex… and maybe right there on the dance floor for all to see!

Rock and pop music is so much about passion. In the sound and lyrics, one can get caught up in the beat, the pumping bass, sometimes crying guitars and a singer’s wail. Returned or unrequited, crimes of passion, and sometimes passionate political stances; all matters of deep commitment, passion true and real, exist in the sound and words the music expresses.
Your basic exhibitionism could be an obvious draw to a public display of affection in a club. Lucky enough for every 2329524213_ed2daf7c0fexhibitionist, there is usually a voyeur not too far away to match up with the action. In certain clubs, a horny couple might even get cheered on by an enthusiastic clientele.

Dirty dancing and club sex is hot for its reminders of the golden era of disco, the feeling of passion, defiant or appreciated exhibitionism, and general rebellion. The pretty lights and throbbing rhythms could really just be the icing on the proverbial cake of the sex that drips for the walls of a club.

Words that Turn On/Words that Turn Off

Monday, March 14th, 2011

talking-dirty-phrasesThe problem with trying to analyze sexual language and people’’s reactions to it is that it varies so much across regions, cultures, and subcultures. What sounds erotic to one person may sound perfectly vulgar to another. To an absolute prude, none of the naughtier words will ever sound nice, but especially for those who have a little tension between what they think they are supposed to be like and what they really desire, taking the chance and using some porn-ified language can be a major turn-on.
There are a couple of general precepts for sexy singles to remember when attempting to get vocal. It is a good idea to ease into sexy language. If you’’re on a first date and things start to get a little racy, you might want to use a general, suggestive sentence as innocuous as telling someone you want to touch them. Then, as you kiss, you might move your hand a little closer to a breast or inner thigh and sense the reaction. What you don’t want to do is to be totally crass with suggestion of what you might like to stick where and when!
Once one is fully engaged in embraces, feeling up and down, maybe even finally fucking, using sexy words to describe what’’s happening, or commenting on how good it all feels certainly can make the scene hotter. But again, not everyone likes the same words used, or even all that much talk when they are concentrating on moving around to get the best position to engage their pussy or cock with another person! If one is ready to talk dirty for a bit, one should gauge accordingly, how much dirty talk and how dirty it should get. Slow and steady wins the race here. Words that might skirt the boundaries of good taste, certain slang for certain body parts, might not just fly with every person, so one needs to tread carefully. Unless a couple has an explicit understanding that the very filthy words are ok, or even if one person likes humiliation or nasty insults, it’s best to avoid really hardcore slang.

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Language is a powerful thing. The right word at the right time can send someone over the edge to phenomenal orgasmic bliss. The wrong word could send a person right back down to zero. Forgetting someone’’s name and calling them the wrong one is not a good idea either!