Archive for the ‘Sex’ Category

Why We Love Smut

Friday, May 13th, 2011

Since the dawn of time, mankind has been obsessed with sex, real and depicted. Culture and society have been sexually active since Biblical times when Adam and Eve discovered the joys of lovemaking until they were cursed with birthing the human race.

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With the early Indian cultures we were given the Kama Sutra or series of scripts on the entire ordeal behind courtship, relationships and sex, complete with an entire ten sections dedicated to the 64 different sexual acts used to entice, seduce and persuade a woman to a man’s bed and heart. The Kama Sutra governs practices of sexual ritual all the way from courting and making advances to dealing with the duties of the wife once marriage is established. The book’s thirty-six chapters also delve into sexual practices governing coitus, oral sex, biting, scratching and moaning by the woman in order to be mated to the male.

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Sexuality permeates society in all that we have done. Not just the written word, but storytelling of bawdy limericks and tales not fit for proper society’s ears came from man’s exploits. Sculptures of the various positions and combinations have been found in ancient ruins ranging from India to the Greek and Italian islands in the Mediterranean. African cultures sculpted phallic objects as symbols of potency. The ruins of Pompeii were painted with erotic artwork giving humankind some of the earliest images of gay behavior often associated with the Greek and Roman cultures. As society grew, others painted, sculpted or wrote erotic artwork, much of which is famous today and on display in many prominent museums. Erotica was produced during the Renaissance period for the amusement of the aristocracy. By the twentieth century, erotic photography became the main and most interesting media for erotic art.

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The large debate has rolled on as to whether the works of art are erotic or pornographic such to the point that the Supreme Court became involved in an attempt to explain the difference, but even that venerable institution couldn’t define it properly/ Justice Potter Stewart wrote one of the most famous lines in history concerning the great debate over obscenity; I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced; but I know it when I see it.

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Worshipping the Goddess

Thursday, May 12th, 2011

Worshipping the divine in the form of the Goddess can be done in a temple with golden statues and all kinds of universal images. It can also be done in your own home, and in the bedroom to be exact. The goddess doesn’t have to be sought after any farther than in the eyes ‘ and more ‘ of a female love.

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In order to touch the goddess, it is important to be in a positive, totally loving state of mind. Each partner bathing before coming together in a tub where the intention is made to wash away all negativity and worries aside from the manner at hand is a good way to begin. When worshipping the Goddess in a formal sexual way, the woman to receive the adoration is seen and experienced as the Goddess Herself as much as possible. She can simply lie back and enjoy whatever her partner wishes to do. Hopefully he or she will have a good deal of previous experience as to how to please a woman.

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A little massage that turns erotic is a good choice of a way to begin turning on a goddess. An all over body massage can easily lead to a good working over of the breasts. A light massage is apropos unless the Goddess requests a heavy touch. From the massage, suckling is a powerful, simple ritual. As The Goddess lies back, the partner can lie adjacent to her and begin suckling. Sucking tits can be a fun, yet mundane sexual act. In this context, the partner should imagine him or herself suckling from Mother Earth herself, and should remember this most sacred source and sustainer of life.

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The Goddess’ body is an amazing playground in both the macrocosm and the microcosm. On the microcosm that is a particular woman’s body who is channeling the Goddess, the worshipper’s hands may roam freely, giving her pleasure. After the suckling and more general rubbing, it is time to move to the chalice or cauldron of the body, the pussy.

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Licking pussy for the Goddess is a treat that cannot be equaled. The taste and smell of her generates feelings of love and reverence. She may imagine herself being the giver of life through her sweet pussy juices.

Finding Kinky Friends

Thursday, May 12th, 2011

BDSM parties are a great way to meet other kinky people who are looking for fun. People can search adult personals, but it’s not always easy to find other kinky people to play with because a lot of people don’t advertise that they’re into BDSM even on . Some people get worried that someone they know may see them, and they worry that it could hurt their job or cause problems in their personal life in some way. It is a valid concern, because a lot of mainstream people tend to judge others negatively for the private things that go on in their bedrooms. It doesn’t make any sense because having an enjoyable sex life doesn’t mean that a person has no morals, and it doesn’t mean that they’re a bad person. Liking something different doesn’t make them bad people, it only makes them different. Unfortunately some people don’t see it that way.

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Looking for other adults on kinky dating sites or through kinky personals at least ensures that most people on the site are actually kinky. It doesn’t necessarily guarantee how kinky or if they’re really into BDSM, but it’s a start. Of course there are some curious vanilla people that stumble across these types of sites and put up ads and profiles, but they are in the minority, and they either develop a true interest in being kinky or they get freaked out and take their ad down. Either way, they usually don’t really cause any trouble. They want information and possibly to seriously consider whether their deepest darkest fantasies are actually something that they want to try in real life.

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Parties and get-togethers are great ways to meet people because the majority of the time the people that are there already are aware of the fact that they’re kinky and they’re okay with it. They’re pretty clear about what they like and they’re comfortable with themselves. It can save a lot of aggravation to meet people that way and not have to take the chance of bringing up BDSM to someone that might not be entirely comfortable talking about it. Even when vanilla people seem open minded they can sometimes see kink as deviant sexual behavior, and it can freak them out.

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Stuff that Makes You Wanna Do It

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

Do you know the stuff that makes you wanna do it? Most people know some things like the fact that they have a penchant for blonde hair, dark skin, or big tits. There are other kinds of factors besides obvious body types and styles that can be a real turn-on. It could be as simple as a fragrance or as strange a fetish trigger as anyone could imagine.

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Many people realize that a certain scent can remind them of being home for the holidays or their grandmother’s attic. Just as often, a scent can make a person want to fuck like crazy. It could be the smell of funnel cake, that a guy happened to smell the first time he felt up a girl at a state fair or amusement park. It could be the scent of the ocean that makes a woman want to spread her legs because somewhere in her subconscious she still remembers feeling insanely horny the summer she stayed on the shore and was going through puberty.

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For others, a certain sound could have imprinted and stayed relevant to the sexual response. The wild web of associations in the human brain are so complex that it could be the sound of spanking, a hair clipper, a matronly woman’s voice, or Steely Dan. There is really no telling what may trip the trigger. Interestingly enough, it may not only be the basic desire to screw that is awakened. For some, a fetish behavior could be triggered and the individual may feel an overwhelming desire to be an exhibitionist and get naked in public, for example, or to cum on the next door neighbor’s high-heeled shoes.

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We are fortunate that at least most of us have some control over our sexual impulses. These behavioral triggers are so strong that they do compel us to act, but if suddenly confronted with the triggering sound, sight, scent, or what have you in an inappropriate moment, we can choose to wait until a more appropriate moment to display the behavior. Those who do feel that they can’t help themselves but to expose themselves, jerk off in public, or perform other public sex acts do take their chances. Whatever our choices, we are deeply influenced by such triggers.

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Group Sex Beltane

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

Beltane, which happened on May 1st, is a major fertility festival that celebrates the greening of the land, the coming of summer weather, and the metaphysical union of the Goddess and the God. It is a holiday that is both deeply spiritually resonant and wonderfully festive. In sacred circle, people often wear flowers and crowns of green branches and leaves to celebrate the potentiality of all that grows. It is a time to continue to nurture the growth of creative projects. If a couple is seeking to get pregnant, Beltane is traditionally a very good time to start trying.

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The imagery of the abundant earth and of fertility in all its senses leads handily to the tradition of couples going off and making love in the fields. Outdoor sex was said to help the growth of the crops. Who’s to say that a little extra positive energy swirling out there isn’t a good thing? Energetically speaking, sex outdoors in nature combined with intentions set can indeed help build momentum toward the conception or growth of an endeavor for the season.

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Two people running off to fuck in the meadow or sneaking off from the balefire to do it are common Beltane images. Group sex can also be a part of the picture. Pagan traditions vary, and very traditional groups that focus on male-female relationships and pairings may not take part. However, people celebrate sexuality in various ways, and on a whole, Pagans are among religious groups who are most welcoming to differences. As long as the energies remain spiritually connected, many Pagans would feel perfectly fine about people celebrating Beltane in whatever way feels organic and best.

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Beltane rituals tend to consider the union of the masculine and feminine energies, or more broadly, the bringing together of those seeming opposites; such as earth and sky or immanent and transcendent; to make a complete whole. If a group were to get together for Beltane, each person may want to consider which energy, such as receptive v. active, they will most likely channel. So as the traditional symbolic blade is to the chalice, the ready cocks, hands, or dildos will be to the receptive pussies or other orifices in the group. Beltane sex is as earthy as it is holy.

All Creatures Great and Horny

Monday, May 9th, 2011

There have been often told tales of lovers who go off into the woods to supposedly watch certain animals in their natural habitat and wind-up fucking themselves. More than one marshal art is based on the movements of animals and when we are horny more often the not we regard our baser, animalistic passions coming to the fore.

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In the U.K. recently horny birdwatchers were caught by park rangers using secluded bird watching huts for their late night love-making. The hunt and chase of the supposed civilized fix hunt brings men’s cocks round to erection as they ride their horses, and many a woman is both repelled by animal blood on her man’s hunting jacket as grows aroused when she prepares the meat of animal he has killed.

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Ironically almost all bird species are monogamous, in fact many animals exhibit mating behavior that would do well on a dating site but we, as the most intelligent animal-arguably-retain the right to root and scurry in our basest basements for debasement of our lovers.

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We might not be following our feathered friends or scurry brothers, we might indeed by leading the charge in our animalist sense when it comes to sex.

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Then there are the aberrations to heterosexual sex we indulge in that seem to be seen in other mammal’s behaviors to; black swans have been known for some homosexual pairings and almost all species have been seen masturbating. We do though seem to have kinks and fetishes pretty much sown up as far as truly non vanilla sexual practices are concerned!

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The truth is that no animal is above the other in how refined their sexual practices might be. When it comes to these incredibly complicated yet base urges we all pretty much are taken over by a blood fever, want to get off, with our without a partner.

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It a thing lives it pretty much poops and eats and if that thing wants to continue to propagate its own species it pretty much, for the most part, most procreate with another of its species to do so. The urge to spawn, to rub up against, to feel pleasure is as strong for the salmon as it is for a homosexual teenager looking for his first blowjob.

Sex in the Outdoors

Sunday, May 8th, 2011

Sex outside, in the open air, under a big sky, is a potent turn on for many people. Outdoor sex even features in a lot of pornography, where the hot model or fucking couple are taken to a park, a beautiful forest or flower-filled field or just a pretty pool side patio for the act of coitus and fucking and foreplay or just showing off those sexy curves and tight muscular asses.

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What is it about outdoor sex? There is something natural and primal which is naturally attractive to everyone involved. It is the way our ancestors probably fucked of course, but more than that we love the idea of being just like animals in heat, having rough, unrestrained passion without 4 walls around us. Of course, outdoor sex is especially appealing to the voyeurs or the exhibitionist who hopes to catch a glimpse of others making the beast with two backs or perhaps be seen themselves giving oral sex — performing fellatio outside while a crowd watches as their head bobs on their lover’s hard cock in that abandoned phone booth is the kind of fantasy that would fill one’s inbox on almost any adult dating website.

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Before having sex outside one should make some plans and take some precautions. This kind of behavior might be illegal where you live so we encourage one to research this first before one takes any steps that might put one at risk; although the risk of getting caught is indeed some of the thrill. One of the simplest and safest forms of outdoor sex is sex inside tents. One can pitch one’s tent (so to speak!) at a campground, or a camping festival or other public outdoor tent gathering. Think about it — a tent provides a little illusion of privacy while also revealing every sound from moans to rustling sheets to wet sounds of cock in cunt, or fingers in a slick lubed asshole, or wet slurping mouths performing cunnilingus. Much is also visible to those who would watch, especially if the tent is backlit by a camping lantern creating sexy shapes on the walls for all to see and enjoy. Sex in tents can actually be more feasible than other scenarios, with less bugs and sun exposure than sex on the beach or in the open air.

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The Vibrator Store

Saturday, May 7th, 2011

Sex toys come in so many incredible shapes and sizes, and women are fortunate today that there are so many choices. Also just as wonderful is the fact that there is so much less stigma around buying toys for the pussy that some stores have opened up that are very consciously un-sleazy and women-friendly. Often woman-owned and managed, this new attitude makes matter-of-fact conversation about masturbation, partner sex, and what the best toys for the job may be.

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Most stores have plenty of examples of the basic dong. That is a false dick make of rubber, silicone, or another material good for sticking it inside where it counts. The cleaning instructions are a little different for each kind of material, and any better toy store will have personnel who can instruct on the use of their products. Basic dongs vary by size, color, and theme. Some women prefer dolphins or other shapes rather than have it look too much like the male appendage. For the women who would like to work together at orgasmic bliss, the double dong allows for fucking action while both women get to take an end of the dildo inside.

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Add a shake and a shimmy apparatus to the basic dong, and you have a vibrator- often the favorite toy in any arsenal of fun. Vibrators may be made of hard or softer materials, and again, they vary in size so that a whether a woman prefers huge or tiny, she can find what turns her on

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Vibrators can get extra interesting, as most stores carry many other styles besides those that look as though they are meant for penetration. Some are small and cupped to fit perfectly over a horny clit, others are tiny yet pack a wallop of vibration action.

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Some vibrators in the past have been considered rather exotic but lucky for today’s women, they are becoming more and more talked about. The toys in question are the vibrating butt plug and the G-spot vibe. The extent to which some women enjoy anal penetration is part of fairly regular sexual conversation. And the more people discuss it, the less elusive the G-spot and the curved toys made specifically to reach it. A good vibe store attendant can help find the perfect toy.

A Taste For Southern Climes

Friday, May 6th, 2011

Cunnilingus is the art of giving oral sex to a woman, fellatio is when a man’s partner puts his cock in their mouth, sucks, licks and generally attends to him with lips, tongue and teeth. For first timers, oral sex can be the most taboo kind of sex to engage in, as it has connotations to intimacies as well as lust that no other acts truly carry. For still other people the true expression of their love is how close they can get to their lover and oral sex gets them very close indeed.

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For the most part there are indeed smells and tastes associated with going down on our lovers. Depending on a man or woman’s diet, their specific body chemistry, even if they are carrying some sort of yeast-like infection they might not be aware of, the climate of a woman’s vagina or the area around a man’s cock could exude a cornucopia of scents. True also, when either a man or woman grows aroused or ejaculates there could be certain specific tastes associated with the fluids they produce. For the most part though, if we are attracted to a certain sex we are also aroused by the scent and taste of the musk their genitals produce, so allowing for some sort of untoward and unusual pungency due to medicines or food they ingest, for the most part what we encounter down there will pretty much arouse us when we’re down there.

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Oral sex is usually quite pleasurable for both a man and woman to receive simply because, in most cases, we cannot place our mouth anywhere near our own genitals, especially women. We all pretty much masturbate with our hands, and our lover’s fingers tickling, teasing and touching us for the most part is arousing, but feeling their mouth on us is extremely exciting. The wetness of someone’s mouth covering our cock or pussy, the flicking strength of the of the tongue, the puckering of lips, all the actions the mouth and even teeth can facilitate does make oral attention quite unique.

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Then to there is the question of intimacy of oral sex, what indeed makes it both so intense and at the same time so off-putting to couples. Once someone literally has their face in our crotch, in affect seeing us from the most vulnerable angle, many men and women do not like being examined this way. Many a partner will keep their lover from going down on them, while others, fully ensconced in their lover and ready for any and all romantic experiences, welcome oral sex, giving or receiving.

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The Art of Seduction

Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

There are very few things that are certain in life. Death, taxes and free porn are among the few things. People will die, people will be taxed and many people will try to get their hands on as much pornography as they can, even better if it’s free. In the relationship aspect, it’s even better if it helps her achieve orgasm. Fantasy is the key here.

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The reasons vary but ultimately man has an obsession with nudity, sex and acts that combine the two. The internet makes it easier to view pornography for free especially when sites like you porn exist and generate a lot of traffic.

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With high visibility and great search engine optimization, sites like this have the ability to be found very quickly by any user looking for cheap or free content. Sustained by affiliate programs, these sites capitalize on the sheer number of hits a day in hopes that many users will eventually convert, or buy a membership on the affiliate, thus generating revenue for the host site.

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So while people are making a living off free porn, there are a lot of young men and women who still seek guidance but are afraid to ask their friends for fear of embarrassment. So free sex guides.

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The art of free porn also helps fantasies. Women by nature are more than just visual creatures. They seek an overall aural and visual experience in the bedroom that starts with plenty of foreplay Start off with some basic videos viewable at one of the larger tube sites and then move your way into the heavier stuff involving more than one willing participant and both parties are in for a good time.