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Honesty Equals Orgasm

Sunday, May 29th, 2011

If you really want to enjoy sex with your partner or even yourself you have to be completely honest about what gets you off. You will only be cruising through the encounter without really getting into the heart of what you like if you aren’t honest about it. It could be that you think you should acting according to your partners wishes at the expense of your own. While that is perfectly natural and even admirable that you want to please your partner it is probably true that your partner wants to please you as well.

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Having a great fuck means that the two of you are completely letting go of all your inhibitions and hang ups and are doing what makes you both happy. There in lies the key is the doing of what makes you both happy together. If you are giving everything to your partner but taking none for yourself you and your partner are both going to be getting only half the enjoyment out of things. The only way you can really get to enjoy the best orgasm is to be honest with your partner. If you like to be spanked on your bare ass and that does it for you then tell your partner. You should be assured that your partner won’t think less of you or think it silly but will be glad you told them and will do it to please you.

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Do your best to really establish good communication skills and encourage each other to be completely open and honest about what does it for you and with just a few adjustments from time to time you will be having the greatest and most enjoyable encounters you could imagine for yourselves. This then is where the real action is at. When you both just let go and without any worries at all completely enjoy being with each other.

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New Fantasies, kinks and Your Orgasm

Saturday, May 28th, 2011

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If you are in a relationship and you really want to try spicing up your sex there are many ways you can do it. You have some avenues you can explore if you have established good communication skills with your partner. The first thing you want to do is talk to them about their fantasies and the things that really bring them to an Orgasm and then tell them yours.

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If you are honest and open about this stuff then you can begin to make progress. It is all about balancing the fantasy with reality and coming as close to combing them both as you can. You might try role playing for instance and pretending that you are picking each other up for Free sex as if you didn’t know each other. This could be fun and might even open up a new way to enjoy what you have had in the past. You might decide to try acting out the first time you met. This could really be a way to have a blast. You could decide you’ll start your relationship all over again and forget about all the bad stuff that has happened. It is all up to you and your partner how you play things out.

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You each bear personal responsibility in equal measure to the happiness and health of the relationship and when you put your heads together you can really come up with some creative ways to share the burdens you face. Then you can change things around and find that living a brand new life with each other is absolutely possible if you decide it will be. It will naturally take some effort like anything else worth pursuing does but you will get there and even have fun doing it. Don’t settle for less than the best sex you can have and don’t sell yourselves short. Get out there and start living today. You’ll definitely be glad that you did.

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The Spice Of Life

Thursday, May 26th, 2011

Centuries ago people realized that adding spices to their foods could enhance flavor, add zest and create interest in otherwise largely bland everyday dishes. It is much the same way with our sex lives and searching for Porn on the Internet.

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Hundreds of years ago, spices were extremely rare, difficult to find and highly sought after and prized. Merchants who were able to bring exotic spices home from far away places would become very wealthy by selling and trading the spices to other merchants and customers who desperately wanted them. Food without any spice to it at all is very bland and tasteless in any day and age and any unfortunatel ulcer or diabetic patient who has been denied salt and sugar will attest to how much these tasty ingredients are missed when they are suddenly removed from ones cuisine. Not all of course, but some of our sex lives can sometimes be similar to this bland food. Often times people who are married for a long period of time can find themselves in a sexual rut or routine. While they may still love each other very much, often the sex becomes dull, mechanical and routine after spending so many years together.

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Adding a little sexual spice to a loving and devoted but stagnant relationship can be easily accomplished with the advent and the aid of the world wide web. It can become a valued tool to be used to enhance sexual arousal and satisfaction if both parties are agreeable, open minded and cooperative about embarking on this new and exotic adventure together. There is something on the Internet to be found for every couple no matter what their preferences may be. From the softest erotica to the hardest porn every couple can find material that will give their sexual relationship a little bit of always welcome spice and flavor.

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Let’s all grab our salt shakers and go for it.

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Do We Really Need All of Them

Wednesday, May 25th, 2011

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There is a moment when one looks in the closet and realizes that things like cloths and shoes as well things that belong in a closet is being taken by a collection of gay adult sex video’s that was started on twenty years earlier. Why keep it, the VCR is not even in the house anymore. Memories and the first expression of sexual freedom. Time to go through it all and toss the ones that are the least liked. Put the films aside that really matter aside and write down the titles.

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Chances are that most or all of them can be found on line and streamed right to your computer. For the rare one or two that just can not be found there is digital transfer it is not as cheap as getting them on -line,mail them in and have them put on a DVD or into a video file and sent back. If having all those sexy flicks on your hard drive seems to risky. Transfer them all to an external drive and clean them off of the heard drive when done. Now the pile of tapes that spanned the years of your sexual evolution and took all the floor space in the closet can fit in the palm of you hand and be tucked out site in your desk.

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You and your partner will have more space and no one had to throw any thing worth keeping away. In fact this is the best option if you live with kids. Children never stay out of the parents bed room and rummage as they go. This totally prevents them from getting a hold of something they are much to young to see. Also it is easily portable bring it with on long trips away from you honey and it is small enough to fit in a pant pocket. It is wise to mark it with a symbol that you know though and keep track.

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The Good Male O

Wednesday, May 25th, 2011

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Bringing a man to full orgasm is often talked about as if it was a simple as pull-tab-to-open.

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Very untrue men have areas that are often so sensitive that they are not pleasurable to the touch. While many more can only reach praxis through intense stimulation even in some cases squeezing and pulling. Guys I know that you want to be sweet and not offend your bedmate. There are ways beyond telling your lover that they are missing the mark, to help your lover get you there with out self-injuring. Keep playfulness in the proceedings. Try to keep the admonishment tone out of your voice. Very soon you will have the feeling of connected touch that you desire. Most caring men just decide to soon that there date or partner just is not good at some thing or other. They never say a thing and go with the flow. What an odd logic we strive to find out what our sexual partners really want while at the same time never really telling them what works for us. Sharing is caring, we are told that from grade school on.

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Giving your sex partner a road map to your pleasure in a clear and playful manner that lacks any tone of criticism can only give them a feeling of success. A fringe benefit is, your partner will start to talk to you in the same manner about what works for them. This gives a man better more fulfilling sex weather or not their sex partner of choice is for the evening or a lifetime.

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Weight

Tuesday, May 24th, 2011

Most women fret over their weight. Fashion magazine make us wish that we were model thin. Most women don’t remember that 20 years ago in a effort to combat the dieting craze the fashion industry made changes to dress sizes assize 2 was now labeled a 0. And a size 12 was now a 10. Everything shifted in order to make women feel better about themselves.

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But it didn’t help very many women for too long. Women still yo-yo dieted and worried about their weight and their dress size. And fast food, sedentary lifestyles made many women heavier than before. A condition usually associated with very wealthy lazy individuals was now epidemic. Women associate how they look with sex appeal. A poor self image base do being overweight or obese for a woman equates to no sex appeal. This imagine makes it hard for a woman to have an Orgasm. This is true even if she is masturbating. But if she is in bed with a man it is so difficult to find that level of feel good that these women become their own self fulfilling prophecy of used. Men and fashion are not to blame here.

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Women have bought into the two media driven ideals convenience of processed fast foods and having to be super women and do more, better than any generation before them. But they haven’t done more or better. They work more but they are still paid less. They have less conveniences than middle class women had before them. Their children see less of them. They may have birth control but they have less time to distress and enjoy sex, They are on a path of heart attacks and stress related cancers. Learning to say NO is a big part of bringing on change. Saying no to processed fast foods and indulging in the sexy appeal of preparing meals. Saying no to late nights of extra work and multi-tasking and saying no to just sitting in one place until their backs hurt and their asses spread wide over the chair.

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Bed and Breakfast

Tuesday, May 24th, 2011

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One of the benefits of dating a MILF is that she always has time and money to run away for a romantic fuck fest. Older women are a hot commodity right now. Younger men are looking for women with confidence, that don’t play games, that really enjoy sex and know how to get themselves and their guy off. They like girls that talk dirty but can also do more than talk the talk. Cougars know what they like they don’t have time to grow a man and even if they did they wont make time.

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They have paid their dues and are ready to enjoy the best things in life. That includes but is not limited to the best sex too. So if a younger man wants to make an older women his woman he has to step up his game. She isn’t going to want to make love in the back seat of his car or in a cheap motel. She isn’t going to go slumming just because he doesn’t have two cents to rub together. She wants romance and over the top orgasmic pleasure with a real man in nice place. For guys looking for something that meets those requirements they should check out local bed and breakfast establishments.

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They are usually no more expensive than a motel and have tons more atmosphere. Big beautifully appointed rooms, fire places, ball and claw tubs and balconies can all be had. By selecting a remote place nestled along a stream or lake a guy can make a huge impression on his lady. Just remember that B&Bs are not sound proof. If the lady is a screamer it might be a good idea to bring a ball gag and some ties to restrain and gag her. This might also add to the excitement of being away in such a lovely place. The money and the time to find the perfect place will be worth it since the sex had will be better than anything found when a guy surfs for Free sex videos and as an added bonus it also includes a lovely breakfast.

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O yes

Wednesday, May 18th, 2011

What makes a person want to cum is as individual as the foods they like and don’t like. What about power? Power is sexy in many ways. The tamest lover can feel a rush of triumph when their partner explodes in to Orgasm. Power mixed with tenderness others take it a little further.

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Using rope to restrain the hands and so that self pleasuring is not and option. simulating and teasing to make sure that when the tied partner had a release there is no doubt who gave it. That is the power in giving pleasure and for many it is way better the receiving. This is a more common form of sex play then is widely thought. Step beyond this into orgasm torture and there is no avoiding that power is the turn on for both people involved. The pure cross over into bondage and dominance has arrived.

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Orgasm torture is the act of over loading or denying orgasmic pleasure until the recipient is moved to tears and evasion tactics that are thwarted. The top puts themselves in the control position and gets joy from keeping them wanting. The bottom gets the gift of being able to let go and have no choice but to take it. The high is the same for both. Power both the having of it and the surrendering of it. Not all people take love play to such extremes but it is true that on some level all people play with power during sex.

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Some partners get off on having there yes won in bed. If they say not until I tell you yes and then hang on to that yes until you are about to explode that’s a very common form of play. In a milder form then even that is when your partner asks you to tell them that you want them. Power again. Why not the power in your partner is what makes the sparks fly.

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Optimum Positioning

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

If it is true that at the most only ten percent of women reach orgasm through intercourse, then how are the rest getting-off;and are they even? In most cases women need clitoral stimulation as much as or more so then vaginal and if their lover doesn’t know this, the woman continues on here merry sexual way unsatisfied; as a lot of women are.
Straight fucking is just not going to cut it for most ladies.

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Some sexual positions, if done with enough clitoral stimulation in mind, will make it easier for a lady to get off;for various reasons.
The classic missionary position allows the woman to use a man’s weight atop her to good advantage. Her pressed breasts between a man’s chest-for the most part-pinned down receiving a good hip thurst-ing, many women as much grow aroused from the physical sensation of this position as much as the idea of being overcome by the man. Intimacy is also high in this position as both partners face one another and if the man is positioned correctly he can rub his public bone atop his lady’s clitoral mound while inside her.
Many women report that running the fuck, generally being on top sitting on their man’s cock, arouses them to an extreme degree. In this position, whether a woman is sitting facing her man, or with her back to him-the classic reverse cowgirl she can play with her breasts with no hindrance of the man pressing down on her and grind her pelvis in the exact way she needs to connect her vagina and her clit to the man spearing her.

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Lastly, in the three basic positions of love-making, the man can take the woman from behind. Bending her or positioning his lady on all fours, the man enters the woman’s vagina standing or kneeling behind her spread hind quarters, in effect pushing up under and into her. This position allows for deeper penetration for most couples, and both the man and woman can alter the rhythm by how much the man moves forward and the woman back. A woman or man can also reach under and stimulate the clitoris and though the less intimate of the basic positions sometimes men and women take advantage of a more animalistic routing as fucking from behind certain has some deep attachments to our more prehistoric ancestry.

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The Power is in Your Hands

Saturday, May 14th, 2011

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There was a time when incredible numbers of women didn’t even know how to make themselves come. Today, lots of women buy sex toys and masturbate in any way they’d like when they are alone, but the minute they get in bed with someone else, it is as if they are at that partner’s mercy. Men and women alike should learn to be more vocal about their orgasm during partner sex.

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Some myth busting is always in good order when talking about masturbation and communication during sex. Some people seem to feel that telling a lover what makes them feel good in bed is like saying that they don’t know what they’re doing. In truth, most lovers want to know, and some are even especially turned on to hear their partner tell them. You can try it in a matter-of-fact way, or by talking dirty, which could be where extra excitement lies. However you try it, the communication and honesty that it takes to talk about what hurts or makes you uncomfortable, what gets you almost there, and what sends you cascading over the edge into pure pleasure can help make good relationships better and great relationships awesome.

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There also ought to be no shame in showing a partner exactly how you like it. It could be done in a way that explicitly asks them to touch you in a certain way, or it could be by the act of masturbation during the sexual encounter of its own accord. Again, grasping and stroking your cock or diddling your clit in the middle of having sex with another person is no insult to their prowess. It is simply acknowledging that stimulation in that certain spot would be perfect at that moment. A lover can learn from what you do. He or she could take over the action, or be fabulously excited watching their hot sex partner jack off to wild oblivion.

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At the end of the day, what you want to have are satisfied bodies and a healthy relationship based on trust and positive intention. Holding back and not cumming because you are trying to be polite does not move toward those goals. Partners should take the power into their own hands for extra joy.

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