Archive for the ‘Sex’ Category

Dress-Up for Masturbation

Sunday, June 12th, 2011

Does the idea of sensual dress arouse you? Does it excite you to put on your loveliest, sexiest pair of panties, wear a garter, stockings and cute bra in anticipation of sex? How about when you’re alone? Does it feel erotic to wear lingerie when engaging in masturbation?

The mental connection between dressing sexy and feeling sexy has been established by psychologists and doctors in the study of human sexuality.

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Many a cross-dresser will spend the time to throw on thigh highs, favorite g-string or boyshort panties and a cute top all just for the sake of fantasy and pleasing myself. Sure it takes a few more moments to get ready for something that normally happens in the nude.

From a mental perspective, the feel of those clothes serves as a reminder that we’re doing something special, often for someone else. But why not do something special for ourselves? Why not take the time to treat our bodies as the loving temples of sex we are?

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For many, normal masturbation can quickly grow into a routine. This is why erotic fantasies phone sex and other trends in sexual entertainment are so popular. Yet they tend to be expensive and near addiction status for many which can be a danger. Instead of starting immediately with the mundane and routine, we can now engage in our secret, sacred sexuality without fear of being caught. If a partner is inclined to join in the fun, all the better. The various types of clothing worn for lingerie serve a purpose and that sole purpose is to remind humanity of its sexuality.

Masturbation is healthy for us and if we’ve dedicated the entire month of May to it, why not spice things up by putting on our sexy lingerie that we spent good money on while we play just for ourselves? There is even an entire month dedicated to Masturbation! Why not spice it up with lingerie?

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The clothes are great inspiration for writing too! And as an erotic romance author they’re a tax write off for research purposes.

If clothes make the man, then lingerie can be the icing on the cake of a great sexual experience starting from the inside out; even if that experience only involves the solo explorations of those insides and outs.

Does Size Matter Anymore?

Friday, June 10th, 2011

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There seems to be a shift happening with attraction to BBWs and large men. It may be simply that people are getting bigger and heavier, and the percentages of the population that is overweight or obese in nearly every country is increasing every year so everyone is getting more accepting of a variety of sizes because it’s is rapidly becoming the norm in our society and people are getting adjusted to it. In the past, men would hesitate to openly date larger women, no matter how attracted they might have been to them. It was silly for a guy to deny his true desires and interests because of societal pressures to like something different, but that seems to be what was happening. Many larger women will tell stories of men who wanted to sleep with them on the down low but wouldn’t openly date them. A lot of bigger ladies have crazy stories about married men that practically stalked them and begged them for sex, complaining that their wives were skinny little things and that’s never what they were really attracted to. These days there are all kinds of online personals specifically for BBWs and the people that love them. There are BBW sex hookup sites and BBW sex parties. The voluptuous ladies are being recognized as the sex goddesses that they are, and men are no longer hiding their interest and attraction.

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It’s sad that people have to hide their true desires, but it’s even sadder that our society makes it necessary to put down one body type in order to uplift another. The joke used to be about the fat chicks but now all the jokes seem to be switching to the skinny chicks. None of it should be acceptable. Yes, there are health issues with both over and underweight people, and that should be a concern of each individual and their loved ones. Other than that, why can’t we all just live and let live? Let people be who they want to be and who they were born to be. No one size is perfectly right all the time, and most people, regardless of their body size are not entirely happy with themselves. We all need to learn to love ourselves and work on being the best healthiest people we can be without being judged.

Boys Bottoms Up

Thursday, June 9th, 2011

A nice ass is a good attribute to have. A lot of men seem to think that working out and acquiring huge forearms is the secret. Others think it is all about giving her that first ride on a huge schlong. The washboard abs may not be at all unwelcome, but staying fit enough to have a firm pair of cheeks may really be the secret.

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Guys, naturally, want to figure out what hot chicks want. Sometimes the best thing to do in that case is to ask them. Formal and informal surveys have indicated that men often have a different idea about what is sexy about them than the women they are after do. It isn’t all about the Benjamins. It isn’t all about the size of the package. Nor is it the size of the muscles. Being muscle-bound to an extreme, it turns out, can actually be a big turn-off. Women will site feeling grossed out by guys with big veins popping out from their overblown arms.

To the contrary, keeping to a nice average size, in most ways, is seen as a positive. A big dick might look nice, but when most women really want wild sex, they want to get it on with a tool that is comfortable to handle. When it comes to the boy booty, nice buns, firm and average in size is what is preferred. It is also what women tend to notice, along with nice eyes, that keeps their heads turning.

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Once the deal is done and people get into bed, the ass if of course appreciated all the more. Many women find the crack of a guy’s ass particularly appealing, and they of course like to hold on tight to both ass cheeks while he is pumping inside them. Not everyone goes to that next level, but ass play where the man is penetrated can be great fun, and especially enjoyable for women who worship the male derriere.

Ass play can consist of the woman inserting her fingers into the man’s butthole. She might use a butt plug, or if they are very into role reversal, a strap-on. The pleasure that he feels from stimulation of the prostate can outweigh any inhibitions he has about being penetrated.

Awakenings

Wednesday, June 8th, 2011

A lot of men talk jokingly about having ‘morning wood.’ It is a real phenomenon- lots of people, male and female wake up horny. When alone, it is a perfect time to rub one out and get the morning started right. When waking up with a partner, the fun morning sex possibilities are duly multiplied.

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It is always good to check with a new lover to see if he or she likes being awakened with sex. For some, it is the best thing in the world. For others, not so much. Sleep in and of itself is a valuable commodity. Guys who do like a sexual sensation first thing in the morning almost always will appreciate the feeling of a nice pair of lips and a warm, wet mouth wrapping around their nice, stiffening dick. A guy may enjoy lying back and enjoying a soft, slow blowjob, or he may start to get into it and want to blow a load fast. Hey may buck his hips for a good mouth-fucking or want to enter for a good morning fuck.

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Women certainly appreciate talented lips and tongues as well, and would often be just as happy to be awakened by some fine cunnilingus in progress. Some women may want to warm up to that point a bit by having the partner start off slowly with some sweet caresses and kisses until she is more roused, and aroused. This is not the case with all women. Some are just as ready to have someone dive right in.

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Use of a vibrator is a great way to wake up a sleepy, likely ready-to-go partner. When being awakened, many people aren’t ready to take a super active role in sex, so a sex toy is the perfect solution. A regular cylinder shaped vibe or a specifically designed clit vibe can be great for a sleepy woman. Her partner need only spread her legs a little bit, apply to her clit, and let her writhe in pleasure. For the guys, having a Fleshlight or similar toy pussy style vibe is just the thing to make him happy. Just lube it up, get his dick nice and hard, slip it on and vibrate him until he shoots his morning load.

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Male Chastity Play

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

Male chastity devices are very popular among people in the BDSM scene, especially female dominants who enjoy humiliation play and cock and ball torture (or CBT). While the chastity devices don’t really provide a lot of immediate pain under normal circumstances the way CBT does, they can provide plenty of discomfort over time as men experience partial erections and sexual arousal while wearing them. They also are great for humiliation play and providing a submissive male with a really good mind fuck as they devices are usually designed for longer term wear, usually several weeks at a time.

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They are designed to allow men to urinate and wash without removing them. Most often they are locked and the dominant has control of the key. While a male chastity device is effective in preventing men from masturbating and having sex, most dominant females would agree that a good submissive shouldn’t require such measures and should willingly abide by the orders of his Domme when it comes to masturbation, sex and orgasms. They can be very useful items for training purposes with an inexperienced submissive though, and they are wonderful for use as a means of prolonged play because they will constantly remind the submissive that he is owned and that even his most natural and uncontrollable urges can be controlled by the woman who owns him.

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Some male submissives enjoy being denied the ability and opportunity to orgasm, and they really enjoy the idea that their orgasms are a gift from their Domme and given only when she sees fit. They crave the denial and the discomfort that the chastity device provides. They enjoy being made to beg for release. The Dommes usually enjoy being able to tease the submissive by getting them aroused and they enjoy the discomfort that their sub experiences when his cock begins to get hard inside the device. Even when the sub isn’t in their physical presence, the Domme can tease from afar with a phone call, e-mail or text message. It’s a great way to remind the sub of their role in the relationship. For men who enjoy this type of play, being able to experience this for days, or even weeks, is very enjoyable to them even when it is extremely uncomfortable.

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The Pussy Hunt

Monday, June 6th, 2011

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What could a heterosexual man love more than pussy? The soft fur, those cute whiskers, that wagging tail! Oh wait we’re kidding, we mean the other kind of pussy — cunts slick and ready, labia swollen and red, clits hard and begging to be stroked or licked. Deep wet holes begging for sex and eager to be filled. Pussy makes the world go around at least for many men.

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So how is a man to find more pussy? We all want free sex but how to get it? There are many adult dating sites which cater very well to the man on the pussy hunt. This is because they specialize in casual sex dating, or even cheating and discreet sexual encounters. Many people use these sites to find fuck buddies, people for booty calls and online hookups. Some of these sites even have explicit photo galleries where one can see absolutely everything a potential match has to offer before the clothes ever begin to come off in person. Looking for a certain size breasts or a bubble ass? Dating sites can help you find the perfect object of one’s lust with a quick search.

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That brings us on to free porn, which the Internet is absolutely full of. One does not even have to look on a porn site, the adult dating site can be exactly enough, with hot pictures of any part of the anatomy and even shots of fucking in action. Amateur porn is one of the most popular kinds of sex video today because men want real pussies not plastic surgery victims or fake porn stars who fake their orgasms.

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It’s not wonder with men loving pussy so much that they love to put almost anything in it, fucking it with dildos, their hard throbbing cocks and even their faces. The taste of cunt is one of the most appealing things to a lot of men, and the smell is enough to get them erections.

Health and Sexual Activity

Monday, June 6th, 2011

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It is important to look your best for a perspective partner and we all do try. It is equally important to feel your best. It is not necessary to run right out and join a gym to get fit for sex. Just take a walk every day and change small habits. Avoid elevators if you can. Walk to local shopping. Breath and circulation are the kings of sex fallowed by flexibility. You don’t have to go whole hog and in a yoga class. Just stretch in the morning for twenty minutes before you get in the shower. If you have a little extra weight and you don’t feel sexy that way cut back on sugar and bread. That is all it really takes, most times we do not even notice how much we take in. Stretch with your lover before sex.

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However you want to weather you do athletic partner stretching or you go whole hog and dig the twister game out of the closet. In old black and white movies the only way you could tell a couple had even had sex was the fact that they where smoking a cigarette together with a breathless look. Breathless is right, even if you do smoke hold off. It looks totally sexy in black and white but in reality it smells and taste bad and starves you of the air you need to get going in bed. All of these simple practices will keep you cramp free and full of energy. The best practice is practice masturbate for health it brings your heart rate up and helps your circulation. The fact that it floods you with feel-good hormones and helps you sleep better is a bonus. Also you make all of the muscles that are involved with orgasm stronger weather you are male or female.

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Not Like Sex Ed Class

Saturday, June 4th, 2011

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The classes that would be the most helpful to people were never available in the past, but these days it seems like more and more there are classes available that teach people how to be better lovers. In most larger metropolitan areas at least, people can find blow job classes for women that teach them how to provide their man with the most pleasure possible while also teaching them how to really appreciate and adore their man’s cock. There are usually classes for men about cunnilingus and how to bring their lady to mind-blowing orgasms with oral and manual stimulation. For both genders there are various classes that help them to improve their skills, safe sex and how to provide the most pleasure to a partner during sex. Sometimes there are even classes that teach about kinky activities including BDSM and fetish activities and relationships. There are sometimes weekend getaways for couples that focus on improving sexuality and pleasure, tantric sex and creating deeper intimacy. It seems that people will spend an awful lot of money on things that will increase their pleasure and improve their sex life. Who can blame them?

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A great benefit of classes and weekends like these is that they often help people to develop a better body image and increase their confidence as lovers, which is great for people’s self esteem. Building confidence, whether sexual or just personal confidence, will help people feel more confident and secure in other aspects of their lives, which is never a bad thing. Most people will start doing better at work or begin to have happier home lives when they feel more confident and secure. It’s been scientifically proven that when people improve their sex life, they also improve their health, their mood and their mental health, because sex helps to elevate people’s moods and reduce symptoms of depression. Most people probably realize that there are a lot of health benefits to having a healthy sex life, like healthier immune systems, better circulation, better bladder control, less depression, more mental clarity, better sleep and a more positive and upbeat attitude. Those benefits will definitely become apparent in other aspects of our lives, and as our confidence grows we’ll see our self esteem improve and we’ll become healthier emotionally as well.

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Yes, I Will Have Another

Thursday, June 2nd, 2011

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We all walk around with our personal little miracle of joy. Orgasms are good for your heart, they are the natural enemies of depression and fill you with contentment instantly. It is a joy that can even be shared between friends. Best of all the coming, heart rate amping-up, shaking and sweating have no ill side effects at all. There has been allotting of pressure in the past to prove that there is. Happy to say it is all bunk. As late the nineteen fifties where we were being fed the foolishness that if a man spent too much quality alone time his life was getting shorter by years each time he indulged. And women were told that petting the precious pearl of pleasure at all would make them hysterical and eventually lead to madness. The last medically preformed removal in the United Stated was performed on a woman in the late 1940’s. In the not so distant past people where told pleasuring themselves could lead to physical and emotional ruin by doctors not just family members or church leaders.

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Well the good news is that it is just not true. The facts show just the opposite in fact so feel free. Reduce stress; get a little cardio, and just plain feel good. Try making a date with yourself some time. Slip into a hot bath full of silky bubbles or stretched out in bed with your favorite sex video. If you are with your lover and just to whipped to have sex you can always offer to hold them and say sweet, hot things to them while they pleasure themselves. Here is a hint, pay close attention to how they touch themselves. You will learn allot I promise. Listen to your body give it what it asks for. If you care enough for yourself to cut back on red meat and go for more walks take the time in the evening to give yourself pleasure just the way you like it. You will cut back on the sleeping pills and wake up with a smile.

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Movies and Photos

Tuesday, May 31st, 2011

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Men and women get their rocks off by looking at erotic and sexual images. A lot of photos and sex videos can be found on the internet. Now that dot xxx exists it is easier to find porn sites. Many porn sites have free tours. These tours may have fetish sex videos and galleries of hot naked women. Sometimes just visiting these free tours is enough to cause someone to have an Orgasm.

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Visiting a site that caters to a persons personal kinks is essential to getting off. If a person is into spanking then visiting an interracial site or sissy boy site probably wont be the ticket to making a cock hard or a pussy wet. People have specific triggers that get their libidos juiced up. Although many women surfing for erotic porn will go to gay sites to see naked good looking men, not all gay sites will do the trick. For example some women are all about big thick cocks and hairy chests so a twink site with hairless boys isn’t going to get her panties in a bunch. Pay per view movie sites are a great way to try out a new fantasy or to get off watching an old favorite. These adult sex video sites don’t usually show the whole movie. They normally have clips for view. These short clips are all about a certain type of scene to get the viewer off quickly.

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Asian girls licking pussy might be a description that would get a person that likes lesbian sex intrigued. But if the Asian aspect doesn’t do it then they might try blondes with big tits and a double dildo getting it on. The choices are almost as endless as a there are kinks in the world. Although the number of photo galleries and sex movies for red headed midgets on roller skates fucking a BBW probably might be limited there is sure to be something for almost everyone out there looking.

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