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Spice

Thursday, June 30th, 2011

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Sometimes being in a relationship can pose certain problems like too much routine. Having a routine is pretty much a standard of things in a relationship and it provides a lot of good however sometimes that can also grate on the nerves. Sometimes the same old same old situation can get to you. What you need to do is keep things fresh and shake them up now and again just for a change of pace. This can help refresh you and get out that nervous angst and energy that can pile up and turn into tension. That tension needs to be dealt with because if it isn’t it can bring a lot of negativity and other bad things into the relationship. One of the ways this happens is when one or both partners are very hard working and wrapped up with a lot of things going on they can begin to take each other for granted. They can forget that sex is very important and not only as a means of pressure release and tension release but intimacy as well. When that begins to happen one or the other can begin to feel some resentment at being unsatisfied.

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In the best case scenario it leads to unhappiness and a sense of bitterness while in the worst case it can send a weaker less responsible person over the edge and want to get laid with some other fuck buddy besides their partner. When you are in a relationship you can use Porn to help spice things between you and your partner. With that you can easily head off any routine and any neglect and unsatisfactory results. You can keep each other lean and satisfied and very happy. Then you can continue working and positively moving things forward. You don’t have to look back and worry about your partner being unsatisfied and developing any resentment. You can continue to give one hundred percent all across the board.

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Looking For Sex

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

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There are a lot of sites offering free sex personals and the ability to do a free dating search to find local hot women. Using these sites is a great way to start meeting women who are looking for single men to date and have sex with. There are a lot of single, straight women out there who are looking for nice, fun guys to go out with on the weekends. Some of them are waiting for the men to contact them because even though they’re open-minded and looking for fucking partners,  they often have a little bit of an old-fashioned streak and prefer that the guys contact them first. It may seem kind of weird in this day and age that any women would still have that expectation, but it’s often true.

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Men usually don’t realize it though, so they wait for the women to contact them and the women wait for the guys to contact them, and the end result is a whole bunch of people sitting around waiting to find someone and wondering why nobody is contacting them. It’s counterproductive and both genders may need to be a little more proactive if they want to meet someone and start having a more interesting sex life. Instead of following antiquated traditions and trying to conform to male and female roles that are no longer important, they should get out there and contact the people that they like and try to meet as many people as possible so that they can date and have sex and enjoy their lives.

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Especially these days when the economy is so bad and people seem so down and everybody needs some cheering up. The best way to start feeling more positive is to find some friends to have sex with and start having some enjoyment and laughs. Laughter is a great way to keep a person’s mood elevated, and sex also releases hormones that promote better moods and elevate people’s spirit, which is really important right now in this economy and with all the things going on in the world. The best thing people can do for themselves right now is to get out there and have some fun. Once people meet and start having sex, they don’t have to spend a lot of money on dates, but they still get to keep having fun.

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Goin’ Out Packin’

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

Butch and gender fluid women, as well as any woman who just wants to have some good queer fun might decide to experiment with cross dressing. When they do, they might choose to see what it’s like to put on the clothes of a suit & tie man, a hot guy from the hood, or a rock star. The real adventurous ones might take it to another level and decide to go out packin’.

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Packing in this context, is a slang term for wearing a strap on dildo. To go out while wearing one can give a woman an intense window into what it might feel like to walk the streets, check out chicks or dudes, while managing a raging hard-on. It can be an incredible turn-on.
Some women might really like this because it is an added challenge to trying to pass. If this is something they’re interested in, women have to pay a great deal of attention to manner of walking, sitting, and standing. Not everyone fits a stereotype, but certain sitting positions and ways of holding the body in space tend to belong to either the male or the female realms. A woman can study videos of men she admires or even take some cross-dressing instruction to get good at it.

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Mannerisms are important, but so are the clothes. A large-breasted woman will need to take some time figuring out how best to mask the boobs. Taping works for most, and can best be learned from another drag king if possible. Then, there’s the cock. Adding that to the mix may change the choice of clothing. It may be nice to have a little bulge. Unless the exercise is purely for exhibitionist purposes. She may want to find a way to make it a little more subtle than looking like a pitched tent.

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A few crossdressing women, especially if they like to do it for the stage, would like everyone to see that big bulge. For most, just the feeling of knowing that she has something a little extra between her legs is what the excitement is all about. Bonus fun: Out at the bar, she might brush against her lover, who will suddenly know what’s in store for playtime that night.

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Old People Have Sex Too

Tuesday, June 28th, 2011

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People go through a lot of changes as they get older, and a lot of people don’t deal well with aging. It isn’t easy for a lot of people to feel like their youth and vitality are slipping away from them. It’s hard to admit that our sex drive is changing, that our stamina isn’t the same and that our bodies are losing their youthful energy. Women usually hate seeing their breasts beginning to sag, and most men hate it when their balls start to swing a little lower with each passing year. Nearly everyone hates it when they suddenly notice that they have old man or old woman ass. It’s really easy to feel like our bodies are betraying us.

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One thing that a lot of people find really disturbing is when their pubic hair starts to turn gray. A lot of people don’t even realize that it’s possible until they’ve already noticed that it’s happening to them. Guys typically have more body hair and many don’t remove it, so they watch the gray hairs infiltrate their chest and facial hair in addition to their head and their genital area. Quite a few men have an easier time dealing with their head hair turning gray than they o when their body hair turns gray. On top of gray hairs, we all have to deal with wrinkles and skin that starts to sag and lose its youthful glow and plumpness. A lot of people would do nearly anything to keep their skin radiant, soft and younger.

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They will do even more to keep from getting wrinkles, because that’s a development that most people really don’t handle very well. Nobody wants to feel or look old. With advances in skin care and plastic surgery, people can keep themselves looking younger much longer these days, and that’s usually a very welcome thing for most people. In addition, pharmaceutical drugs, medical procedures and healthy living can help people have a really active sex life far past what previous generations expected or even hoped for. Having great sex actually helps us feel younger, so having more sex will make most people feel even better. People shouldn’t ever have to give up sex just because they’re getting older. Sometimes sex gets even better as we age.

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The Allure and Repulsion Of The Little Girl Woman

Monday, June 27th, 2011

In many a kink scenario sub women play the sassy little girl. Dressing-up in frilly panty and petticoat, sporting pig-tails, lapping at lollipops, acting every bit the errant brat to their dom, these grown women aren’t as much into age-play as they are simply adopting the most natural mode of behavior to hopefully bring about a good ass-swatting comeuppance. Most of the time endearing, sometimes the role play supersedes the action, but for the most part doms and subs alike know what they are getting into with this scenario.

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The problem with any playacting is that it can traipse the bounds of good taste or even simply exhaust the players. Living in the heightened sense of sexual lust kinksters do when playing, sometimes one can work themselves into quite the lather with what they are doing but spin themselves down a rabbit hole of possibilities that restricts more than widens one’s world view. The longer one adopts a character, dresses a part and acts that part, the less possibility for variety there is and the quicker the entire scene can get stale.

Plus, after a while, a grown woman acting like a little girl is simply embarrassing for all involved.

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The very thing that fuels a dom over his sub acting like a little girl, and in fact arouses the woman most times to, is that all parties realize that this is a grown woman reduced to or willingly entering the scene acting much younger than her years. This is what role-play is based on after all, us acting different then how we usually act. The differences are certainly arousing watching people morph into a part so completely that they lose themselves, but without realizing who we usually are, without a clear knowledge that everyone in the room realizes is is all playacting, role-play will not work.

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After a time we all want the grown woman to stand-up and let her real presence be known. The role-play of the bad little school girl is fine for a finite amount of time, but adult women cooing, flashing their panties and acting naughty to get attention outside of kink play run the risk of being an embarrassment to themselves.
It’s a fine line to skirt when one wears a short school skirt.

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What Sex Should Be And What It Shouldn’t

Friday, June 24th, 2011

While this is a world where almost every book, every TV show, every movie is available for people to enjoy and through various sites almost everything anyone needs to know about anything is as close as a few clicks of a mouse away, a lot of men and women have what are basically immature and even emotionally damaging views about sex and sexuality. Many sex researchers and therapists have proven time and time again that by looking at sex as a product or as something only to be bragged out, or as a status symbol, the people with these viewpoints must have less satisfying sex lives. Like the typical giggling school girl or the testosterone-addled teenage boy, sometimes we see sex as merely titillating and not the life force it really is.

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It’s not that hard to figure out: by looking at sex as anything but having fun with another person, or even just with themselves, they take control of how they feel out of their own hands and put it into the hands of other people: simply put, they live to impress people they don’t even know and because of that they will never have a comfortable or accepting sexual relationship. We need to live for ourselves and the good feelings we can give to our partner, not anyone’s idea of when, how or who we should be fucking.

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By looking at people as someone fun to have sexual enjoyment with the pressure then becomes simply pleasure and not status or bragging rights or such; which means, because they are relaxed, these people will have a much more enjoyable time. They will also not have unrealistic expectations and instead of looking at sex and their sexual partners as tokens they will see them as what they are, and what everyone is: a human being.

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So while it can be difficult to change the way you feel about sex and eroticism give it a try as thinking of it as anything but pleasure, shared or not, can only result in being unhappy in all kinds of ways; including sexually. We need to try and be open to all the ways sex enters our life so we can enjoy it to its utmost and grow with its use.

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The Finite Allure of Role-Play

Friday, June 24th, 2011

Most of the time sexy, sometimes endearing, always interesting, role-play is the stuff of many a long-term couple’s sex play as well as a new date’s way to seduction. We are all actors inside, the entire world is indeed a stage, and we do adopt roles even when we aren’t aware of it. Doing so specifically to turn-on a partner or to turn-on ourselves, many men and women adopt personas, dress-up and literally attempt to become other people to facilitate a bigger, better and sometimes kinkier sex life.

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It’s sometimes a very tenuous difference between how we act in real life and how we playact, but the difference is important to recognize. The problem with any playing as an adult is that it can hurtle good taste, common sense and propriety. As we do not want to adopt our weekend-warrior touch-football mentality into our 9-5 corporate existence, we don’t want to grovel like the little doggie we pretend we are for our master or mistress on a Saturday night; there literally is a time and place for everything. Heightened senses of sexual need does not the best judgment make, so erring on the side of a specific time and place for our role-playing as well as the time and place it ends, is prudent to keeping the role-play fresh and exciting and our dignity intact.

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Simply put, the longer we stay in character, dress in the specific clothes, speak in the patter and do all that the role-play allows and demands the more time is on our back, the less possibility for variety there is and the deeper the risk we run of one partner slipping out of the play or the need for it before the other. The very aspect of what fuels the fun or reacting to our lover in this way is that we know this is play, maybe answering a fetish, routing round a kink we do not indulge normally.

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A vacation is only a vacation because we come back from the beach and get on with the drudgery of our real life after a prescribed amount of time. Our brains do not work well pretending all the time, we grow stale, bored and will light out for ever more diversions if we are not brought back to the mundane realities of our lives and face the real people we are in a relationship with after a time.

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The Boner Shrinker

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

For both men and women there is a person, an action or ever words said that can be the proverbial end to arousal. Men find their cocks going flaccid, women their pussies drying up, by something said or done by their partner. Seconds before we couldn’t have even articulated what might have caused such a reaction but like the classic petard of not being able to un-ring a bell, once something is said, done or tried and it turns us off, turned-off we are, maybe permanently.

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The boner-shrinker moments can be reasoned through even if not predicted or prevented. We know full well why certain things arouse us while others repel. When both feelings can come from the same person, a date we are seducing or even a long-term lover we thought, up to that moment, we knew everything about, it is startling to say the least but no less powerful. Just because we spend a good amount of time with someone and put a lot of attention into building an intimacy doesn’t mean they can’t literally be the buzz-kill in our life.

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Some actions, speech or attitudes that turn us off are fleeting; they only surface when our partner is challenged or not feeling their best or simply feels passionate about something. Those passing seconds might chill us to the bone, see us retreat up off a pussy, pop a cock from our mouth or roll over in frustration, but we can weather the storm of those rough seas and get back to loving our partner once again by simply swallowing what they said, ignoring-as best we could-some silly momentary action on their part. It’s the prolonged true differences, the real meat and potatoes of what people are made of, the contrary natures we all have that surface time and again that cause us to flee or rethink or love-affairs. A stop in the action over some quick hurtle can be hopped, skipped and jumped if it doesn’t speak to the very nature of who a person is.

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For the most part we are prepared to be confronted by the things we like and do not like about someone we are in a romance with. For those times we hope the caring we have built and the love we feel we see us through a few boner-shrinking seconds and get us back on the straight and narrow with our partner.

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Spanking Sounds

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

People who enjoy spanking usually have very specific things that they like about it, and those reasons can vary wildly depending on the role the person takes in the spanking scene and it can sometimes even vary wildly depending on the style of the scene or even the spanking implement that is being used.

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Most people who bottom for spanking scenes have a definite preference for either smacks that feel either stingy or thuddy, although some people do like both for different reasons and at different times. Maybe they like stingy at the beginning of the spanking to get their skin warmed up a bit and then prefer more thuddy for the second half of the spanking or more toward the end when they’re skin starts getting really sore. The thuddy sensation gives the smack a deeper feeling that resonates deeper in the muscle while the stingy sensation gives more of a surface sensation right on the skin.

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Many people who top during the spanking have a long list of things that they enjoy. Some love the feeling of having that much power over another person and love having them over-the-knee or having the opportunity to hold them down as they bend over something. Some love the sounds that their willing victims make as they receive each smack, sounds that get more primal as the heat and soreness begins to grow and take hold. Some love the sound of the implement or hand hitting the skin of the other person. The sounds can differ quite a bit depending on the implement used and the type of material the implement is made out of. Leather and wood make distinctively different sounds as the strike the skin, and even that sound can vary depending on the style of the implement. A leather belt can sound almost like a gunshot in a quiet room, but a paddle will sound very different to an experienced ear. A top that enjoys the sounds that the implements make can often tell just by the sound what the material is and sometimes even what type of implement it is. Someone who can do that is a true connoisseur of spanking sounds – they know and understand exactly what they’re doing and why, and they’re enjoying every minute detail of the spanking.

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Simple Sex Toys

Tuesday, June 21st, 2011

It is absolutely true that a lot of naughty toys and erotic playthings that men and women can get, either in stores or by ordering on the internet, can be a bit expensive there are all kinds of sex toys that can be bought or made for very little more. While some of these ideas are good ones it is also very, very important to pay attention to safety rather than savings: for many uses the wrong kind of sex toy can be very risky and can lead to serious injury.

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An example of this is anything that is used for anal play. A toy made for anal play must be made out of a very smooth material and have a flange or such around the base as the anus of both men or women have a tendency to pull the toy inwards and without a flange or such the toy can get caught for a bit of time. One must be careful with anything they insert but more so when things going up your ass.

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But one of the simplest sex toys out there, for both men and women, are vibrators that are not designed to be inserted into the anus or the vagina. They can be had for little money and as long as they are not so poorly made so as to be dangerous they can be purchased for very little money. Some sex toys, too, can be had for very little because they are designed for men and women to try them out and then, if they like them, move up to a better quality and more expensive toy’ which is always good advice as no one wants to spend a lot of money on something they may only use once.

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So do some research and, best of all, have some fun experimenting and seeing what toys you can find out there’ but always play safely. Grabbing plenty of lube for play, discussing well what you and your partner want, making sure your adult playthings are charged-up, clean and ready to go makes the sex play with them all the better. These days one needn’t worry so much about materials as most toys are made safely due to laws making them be so, so all we have to worry about is why we are using the toys; and where we are going to put them.

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