Archive for the ‘Sex’ Category
Monday, August 22nd, 2011
It’s simply a fact that men have more of a need for the visual with their sexual stimulus then women. It is another fact that dirty movies are made more often than not for a male hetero audience in mind. And it is also true that a good percentage of those male hetero guys find the collecting and amassing of porn to be a worthwhile endeavor, in some cases it becomes a man’s life’s work.
These days collecting porn is almost too easy. With all the pirated material available for download online, a guy can just about have all the titles he wants and store them on his zip drive! Access has given men even more of a reason to watch, collect and obsess about their porn collections and if critics need wonder why men seem unusually addicted to porn these days, or women are bemoaning the fact that their man touches himself more than he ever does them, the reason for all this attention to porn is obvious….men take to porn as mercury filling a vessel, basically men do so because they can.
What critics and unsatisfied housewives do not understand is that they cannot fight a man’s compunction for porn or his love of collecting it. Like old lovers a man can go back to again and again for support, understanding and arousal, the porn in a man’s collection will never nag him, never not understand his needs and will always be there when he simply wants to get-off then roll over and go to sleep. It is a simple biological directive a man follows when he wants sex and if he has a Bat Cave full of a secret porn stash that can answer that directive simply, fast and to that man’s desire at that specific time, he won’t soon go anywhere else, or that anywhere else has got to offer something truly special…and not just supposed feelings of love and companionship.
The Bat Cave awaits.
Tags: Porn, Sex
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Sunday, August 21st, 2011
Dildos have been around as long as humanity could carve something into the shape of a cock and shove it up inside a hungry orifice. People are eager to fill their empty holes and so they create something to do the job when biology is not available to fill the need. There’s nothing like a real flesh and blood cock, but sometimes we have to enjoy a substitute for whatever reasons, and held in the hands of a loving sex partner or being thrust on by the strap on dildo worn by a fuck buddy can make one imagine it is damn close to real. Passion and intimacy after all are what create so much of our pleasure. And by ourselves we can let our minds wander and imagine anything happening while we play with our toys.
Modern dildos are available in a variety of materials but for the most easy and free sex pleasure with a minimum of hassle we recommend the use of non-porous materials on sex toys. This ensures that no germs can linger inside the material and keep us from having a good time. On toys made from jelly rubber or other porous materials it is important to not share the toys or at least wear a condom on them to keep them from collecting unpleasant yeasts, germs or even sexually transmitted diseases just like a human genital organ. Non-porous materials available include silicone, steel, thick Pyrex glass, and even ceramics. Toys are available in a wide array of shapes and sizes. Some will look more like a realistic penis while others are more impressionistic shapes or could even be modeled after the genitals of fantasy creatures — tentacle porn afficianados will not be disappointed when they see the tentacle dildos that some clever toy makers have begun to create.
Be careful not to insert toys into the ass which do not have a flared base, as this could cause embarrassing emergency room visits.
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Saturday, August 20th, 2011
Many people today are interested in sharing spanking as a kind of fun erotic play on its own or as a spicy addition to sex with their lovers. The ass has many nerves and is very sensitive to touch or to slapping with bare hands or deliciously painful paddles. In addition to the pleasure pain connection found in other parts of the body, which can release powerful endorphins in the brain, the proximity to the genitals of both men and women is not to be ignored. When someone is spanked, blood naturally flows to the point of impact, but blood flowing to the area is also a major factor in sexual arousal, leading to a woman’s flush and lubrication and a man’s throbbing erections. It is natural perhaps that the nerves cross over when we play.
Of course many people have experimented with adding spanking to their more fun and free sex encounters, but many people enjoy it as a foreplay to the main fucking as well. For many people, over the knee spankings, also known as OTK spanking, are an extremely popular position because of the vulnerability they lend people like in this video where a 19 year old gets spanked with a spatula and wooden spoon. They are also enjoyable for the spanker, because their consensual victim is laid across their lap, squirming and moving in a most pleasurable way with each impact.
Many spankees will enjoy positions for spanking similar to doggy style sex, on all fours on the bed or with head down and their ass up in the air while one works their posterior over with hands or toys. Another position is simply to bend the one getting spanked over the edge of a bed or mattress. Other people greatly enjoy doing this anywhere one is, for example bending the sub over the couch, making them lean over with their arms on a chair, or even over the hood of a car for adding an exciting public element to the game.
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Friday, August 19th, 2011
Not many people know that there were in fact female pirates. Two of the more famous were Mary Reade and Ann Bonny who sailed with captain Jack Rackham, otherwise known as calico jack because of his penchant for being a dandy and wearing the rare and expensive calico clothing. Calico was imported from India and so a very expensive thing to get a hold of in the far west.
By all accounts it seems that the three pirates had something of a Sex and business partnership going between them. Apparently neither girl minded sharing captain jacks cock nor their pussy with each other. For several years they were among the most affluent and successful pirates in the Caribbean until they came to grief amid much scandal as well as confusion. The official story is that captain Jack and his male crew were all sleeping off the drink down below when the Royal Navy came calling and only the brave and erstwhile women were left to defend the ship, calling the men cowards even as they were surrounded and captured by the British authorities. They were sentenced to hang but both pleaded they were with child, both pregnant with Captain Jacks baby, and thus their sentences were commuted to short terms in prison before they were released to the custody of family.
While the history books do not report it there were probably quite a few women involved with piracy that didn’t get much press. This could be for a number of reasons such as those books that they were reported in never got press or never made it this far down the time line and were thus lost to history. It could be that there were enough women involved that it simply didn’t rate as news and Captain Jacks story is only known because of the unusual love triangle. Whatever the reason it’s as certain now as it was then that Sex appeal definitely followed those women who plied their pirates trade.
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Friday, August 19th, 2011
Bisexuals often have trouble being accepted. It wasn’t so long ago that any sexuality about from heterosexual missionary position sex designed to procreate was considered an aberration. Though put against the whole of human history, it is obvious that open sexual behaviors were common before modern repressive civilizations, we still think of the modern marriage as the normal way of relating. Is this really the most normal and natural human arrangement?
Bisexuality has been popular at various times in the past. In some societies with less rigid definitions and therefore more free sex behaviors, bisexuality was the norm, or sex roles were defined in completely other ways such as the Native American two spirit or the Romans who defined it based on who received penetration and who gave it, regardless of the gender of the people practicing the actions — though a woman in a strap on would certainly have raised some eyebrows. In modern times it saw a brief popularity among the glam rock world, infamous for mythic liaisons between the likes of David Bowie and Iggy Pop. Perhaps human sexuality is more fluid than we thought.
In modern times the confusing behavior of celebrities like Tila Tequila could be argued to back this up. She became infamous for having a reality television relationship show except that she was having both men and women compete for her affections. This went for two seasons of this behavior before she declared in 2009 that she was completely lesbian. Does this mean that she was lying all along? Instead it may suggest that human sexuality is fluid and may change over a person’s life, though the degree to which gender affects the expression of these kinds of queerness is still open for debate in some circles.
Whatever the case it is clear we cannot simply define sexual behavior as a binary either or, with people clearly being straight or completely gay and remaining so all their lives. For many the truth is somewhere in between.
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Thursday, August 18th, 2011
Many couples today are interested in making porn together. There is the thrill of exhibitionism, because we can look at ourselves at a time when normally our attentions are drawn inwards to sensations. When we are fucking, we imagine we might see our true, uninhibited selves that we never get to see except peeking out in the mirror. With the Internet, there is also the added thrill of potentially sharing what we create on a free porn site where we can imagine others getting off to what we’ve shared.
However, if we have decided to create adult videos with a lover, there need to be ground rules set about the disposition of anything we make. For example, what happens if the relationship breaks up — who gets to keep the sex tape and should it be destroyed? Even in happier times, what rules does one set with one’s lover for how the video gets shared? Can it be sent to friends or to strangers? The answers might be different and surprising, after all a friend knows one and can spread rumors in one’s social circles. On the other hand, a stranger is just a person who is beating off to one’s photos!
Identity is also an important issue. When taking photos consider whether to include one’s faces. on the one hand, this is more erotic as facial expressions are pleasing, but they also run the risk of creating an identity issue where others can tell who is fucking. This is especially important if one works in a line of work where it could jeopardize one’s well being. Some people compromise by taking full photos and then editing the face in some way using a program like Photoshop. Another option for photos or movies is to wear a mask, which both obscures and creates a sexy air of mystery which might not be present otherwise.
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Tuesday, August 16th, 2011
It is a fact of life that many people have taboo fantasies. There are countless women out there with a craving for extreme rough sex, just as men out there want to give it to them. The porn industry is booming all over, but nowhere so much as where it deals with darker and taboo fantasies. Kinky sex videos are everywhere, letting us watch men and women beaten, bound, and brutally fucked. There are even instructional films coming out now to show one how to have better rough sex, and how it win the hearts of kinky lovers everywhere by doing it.
Why would we want to watch porn stars forcing themselves on someone else? Why would a woman have a fantasy of being raped? These things may seem perplexing until we realize that much of sexual arousal is based on symbolism. While a real brutal assault might leave someone scarred for life from the trauma it causes, the roleplay or fantasy is another thing entirely. When someone fantasized about being raped, what they are really imagining is that someone wants them so terribly much that they will stop at nothing to have their way. It isn’t really about violence — we’re not watching a real assault in any adult video after all — but about desire so strong it will overcome anything. In a society where women are taught that their desires are shameful, having what they secretly want forced on them seems like a natural outcome.
Taking it a step further we find those who fantasize about being abducted and turned into sex slaves. This forces the fantasy woman into a lifestyle of liscentious ease, where they need only lay back and be pleasured by the universe and have it come to them. THis fantasy has been around as long as humans have been fantasizing, it seems, and it is no wonder it has made its way into free porn as well.
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Tuesday, August 16th, 2011
Today the human cultural ideal seems well known — on fashion runways and on the covers of magazines and in Hollywood movies, we see almost nothing but skinny women. Some of them are so thin they practically looking like starving children from an African charity commercial. And while humans naturally come in all shapes and sizes, the proportion of them which look like that is vanishingly small. There are not many who look this way in any part of the world, yet they are all over our media. It can feel like this is the only kind of desirable person everywhere. How is a BBW to find relationships and free sex?
One merely has to take a look at a porn site to realize that the human sexual interest is a lot more varied. There one will find plenty of sex videos the usual super skinny girls there will also be lots of adult videos with bigger girls. Many of these even make a fetish of the woman’s larger size, unless she is performing for other reasons. For example, one of the most well known female ejaculation porn stars is a big beautiful woman, prized for her special squirty talent as well as her curvy beautiful looks.
One of the nice things about online dating sites is that one can put it all on the line. Photos will make it clear what one looks like. If people want you then they want you, and there are many men out there who have a desire for bigger girls. They love grabbing hold of their ample asses or feeling them pillowing beneath them while fucking, and lover their huge chests and yes, even their soft plump stomachs. And sexual chemistry has no idea what size a person is, reacting to them regardless. Embrace the size one is and those who will love one for it! Happiness awaits.
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Monday, August 15th, 2011
The media is full of stories decrying the new habit of teenagers to send dirty phone text messages to each other, often referred to as sexting. But this behavior is not just for the altogether too young. Gay men who are of age can also use their phones to snare the hearts and other body parts of the ones they lust after too. It may seem like a crazy way to communciate, and and in truth one should avoid using it for anything serious. Never break up with a person by text message or try to discuss important relationship topics over SMS, as the medium is just too primitive to allow for a fair conversation.
But when it comes to men seeing action? Bring it on! Of course you’ll have to start with a phone number, something we will mostly have to leave up to you. One can try meeting a guy in a bar or even better, use a personals site catering to gays. Once you have the number and have figured out that their phone does accept text messages its time to let the flirting start.
Start with an opener which guarantees a subsequent interaction. Just saying hello or what’s up? are not the real ways to connect with anyone. That’s why we suggest that instead one should try something witty or interesting. Ask a question or relate a thought about them or suggest something fun you could be doing together. While it’s fun to make them think of the hot orgasm you could give them, it’s important not to be crude or inelegant. Use proper grammar and avoid annoying abbreviations for the most part, as this will make one seem more intelligent than most.
Let things escalate naturally. One should not go straight to sending cock pictures, although sometimes this will be appropriate later on. And then when possible seal the deal –ask him to come over!
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Sunday, August 14th, 2011
Life is long and has many phases. Some of them are full of love and sex and good things with other people in them. During others it becomes harder — life can seem far more barren, with no one around for dating and the attempts to find them on personals sites coming up empty. At other times we realize that we just aren’t capable of connecting with other people healthfully, because of a recent break up or other painful periods of personal growth. Whatever the case, dry spells happen and need to be weathered. How does one do this and maintain sanity until the next good thing comes along?
First off, avoid stagnant living. It can be easy to let ourselves go, gaining lots of weight, letting hygiene worsen, or one’s house becoming unbearably messy. After all we are just waiting for the right person to come along, right? Until then it doesn’t matter what we do.
Unfortunately, this kind of attitude has the effect of driving people off, both friends and potential lovers alike. One may even find one’s self turning down offers from hot people on their favorite dating site simply because it seems like so much trouble to shave, clean up, and throw out the trash in the bedroom or do all those dishes piling up. Make it worth while to do these things for you and in the end you will be far more attractive to the people you are looking for when they finally come back into one’s life after so long. Focus instead on becoming an even better person in the interim. Take classes or learn new skills; not only will this make one a better candidate for a relationship later but it is a great opportunity to meet people with similar interests as well.
Find ways to pamper yourself and avoid negative self talk. Avoid the people that drag one down and avoid fuck buddy relationships with exes whenever possible.
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